Yolokin_Swagonborn wrote: »Yolokin_Swagonborn wrote: »FTFYDisabling this addon will make it easier anti-social players to avoid interacting with other humans while playing a highly social MMO.
Nothing wrong with being anti-social in an MMO. Just turn off /tell while doing dungeons and only talk in group. There are plenty of things you can do to your OWN game to accommodate your odd playstyle. The problem occurs when you cry to ZOS to change EVERYONE's gaming experience to accommodate your odd playstyle.
The anti-social player is the one who is harassing the other player because they are not interested in trading.
Fixed that for you.
Try looking up the definition of words before you use them. Words are like builds in ESO. Some combinations just don't work.
If only we had an addon to figure out which builds those were...
Blackbird71 wrote: »vyndral13preub18_ESO wrote: »
You can still talk to group members or ask them if they got a certain piece of loot you are after without this addon.
I thought we were eliminating ways hostile people might try to be hostile. That means chat channels go bye bye. I mean obviously i could just ignore. Just like i could ignore these people. But the problem never would have come up if there were no chat channels.
The game actually gives us the option to disable any and all chat channels. The problem here is that we have no way of disabling someone else's addon that they use to interfere with our gameplay.
And by "interfere," I'm not talking about the people who may politely ask once about a particular item you picked up that keeps being used as an example in this thread of why there is nothing wrong with the addon. I'm talking about the jerks who constantly pester you about it with multiple messages, threats, etc., who may follow you around, and if you ignore them, may hit you up with alts or get their friends/guildies to start messaging you until you give in or log off. We all know that they exist; don't pretend that they don't.
Yolokin_Swagonborn wrote: »Yolokin_Swagonborn wrote: »FTFYDisabling this addon will make it easier anti-social players to avoid interacting with other humans while playing a highly social MMO.
Nothing wrong with being anti-social in an MMO. Just turn off /tell while doing dungeons and only talk in group. There are plenty of things you can do to your OWN game to accommodate your odd playstyle. The problem occurs when you cry to ZOS to change EVERYONE's gaming experience to accommodate your odd playstyle.
The anti-social player is the one who is harassing the other player because they are not interested in trading.
Fixed that for you.
Try looking up the definition of words before you use them. Words are like builds in ESO. Some combinations just don't work.
If only we had an addon to figure out which builds those were...
You should follow your own advice.
Being anti-social basically means beings unfriendly - which harassing other players because they don't want to trade certainly is.
Believing that certain addons should be disabled because they contribute to conflict - well, that has nothing to do with being anti-social actually. So it is you who definitely needs to go look up words before you use them.
Yolokin_Swagonborn wrote: »Yolokin_Swagonborn wrote: »FTFYDisabling this addon will make it easier anti-social players to avoid interacting with other humans while playing a highly social MMO.
Nothing wrong with being anti-social in an MMO. Just turn off /tell while doing dungeons and only talk in group. There are plenty of things you can do to your OWN game to accommodate your odd playstyle. The problem occurs when you cry to ZOS to change EVERYONE's gaming experience to accommodate your odd playstyle.
The anti-social player is the one who is harassing the other player because they are not interested in trading.
Fixed that for you.
Try looking up the definition of words before you use them. Words are like builds in ESO. Some combinations just don't work.
If only we had an addon to figure out which builds those were...
You should follow your own advice.
Being anti-social basically means beings unfriendly - which harassing other players because they don't want to trade certainly is.
Believing that certain addons should be disabled because they contribute to conflict - well, that has nothing to do with being anti-social actually. So it is you who definitely needs to go look up words before you use them.
KoshkaMurka wrote: »
In any case - It's not totally worth it. Just because some players don't want to have to actually ask other players if they got the loot they want - that does not justify putting so many other players into annoying situations like these.
Imaginary situations.
Any knife can be used to kill people. Any car can technically cause a deadly accident. This is not the reason to ban cars and knives, right?
KoshkaMurka wrote: »
In any case - It's not totally worth it. Just because some players don't want to have to actually ask other players if they got the loot they want - that does not justify putting so many other players into annoying situations like these.
Imaginary situations.
Any knife can be used to kill people. Any car can technically cause a deadly accident. This is not the reason to ban cars and knives, right?
They aren't imaginary situations. Any gun can be used to kill people. But most bars I know ban guns. There is a reason for that - because you don't want a lot of drunken guys with guns. The same could be said of knives.
It's the same concept here. You do not want to needlessly create a situation that is ripe for conflict. There are guild stores and traders to exchange loot. It shouldn't be done at the end of a dungeon when one person knows you have something they want and they believe you are being greedy for not giving it to them. That is just asking for bad things to happen.
KoshkaMurka wrote: »Yolokin_Swagonborn wrote: »Yolokin_Swagonborn wrote: »FTFYDisabling this addon will make it easier anti-social players to avoid interacting with other humans while playing a highly social MMO.
Nothing wrong with being anti-social in an MMO. Just turn off /tell while doing dungeons and only talk in group. There are plenty of things you can do to your OWN game to accommodate your odd playstyle. The problem occurs when you cry to ZOS to change EVERYONE's gaming experience to accommodate your odd playstyle.
The anti-social player is the one who is harassing the other player because they are not interested in trading.
Fixed that for you.
Try looking up the definition of words before you use them. Words are like builds in ESO. Some combinations just don't work.
If only we had an addon to figure out which builds those were...
You should follow your own advice.
Being anti-social basically means beings unfriendly - which harassing other players because they don't want to trade certainly is.
Believing that certain addons should be disabled because they contribute to conflict - well, that has nothing to do with being anti-social actually. So it is you who definitely needs to go look up words before you use them.
Having knives, tape, and many other items in supermarkets contributes to murders and kidnapping, you know.
Just because something migh tbe used in a bad way, doesnt mean that it shouldnt exist.
KoshkaMurka wrote: »
In any case - It's not totally worth it. Just because some players don't want to have to actually ask other players if they got the loot they want - that does not justify putting so many other players into annoying situations like these.
Imaginary situations.
Any knife can be used to kill people. Any car can technically cause a deadly accident. This is not the reason to ban cars and knives, right?
They aren't imaginary situations. Any gun can be used to kill people. But most bars I know ban guns. There is a reason for that - because you don't want a lot of drunken guys with guns. The same could be said of knives.
It's the same concept here. You do not want to needlessly create a situation that is ripe for conflict. There are guild stores and traders to exchange loot. It shouldn't be done at the end of a dungeon when one person knows you have something they want and they believe you are being greedy for not giving it to them. That is just asking for a fight to break out.
I really don't get why people are so adamantly against the removal of this feature, given the abusive problems that it will now create.
If you really want to share your loot with your group without having to manually link everything in chat, couldn't the reverse of the addon be created? An addon that automatically sends your loot to group chat? Then players could choose whether to share their loot automatically or not. Problem solved.
KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »
You are mischaracterizing my post. I never said I wanted to avoid people. That is a ridiculous interpretation of what I said.
Just because I recognize that this addon makes it more likely that others will have to interact with annoying people who want something they have and expect that they give it to them - that does not follow that I want to generally just avoid people. And if you can't understand that difference, then I don't know what to tell you.
How does it make it more likely?
It makes it more likely because without this add one they would not know that I have the loot they want - so how then could they harass me for it?
They might think that since youre not posting loot in chat, you're probably hiding something from them and harass you because of that.
But they would know for sure that I have the piece of equipment they want. So it would make it a lot less likely.
No. It makes everything open to assumptions. And believe me or not, assumptions can make many ingame (and even rl) situations very tricky. You admitted you might start doing something that can make you banned during such arguments, so it wont make any difference for you.
Actually there is an easy solution - just make things clear before the run. Like, "I still need spell power cure gloves for my alt, but can trade/sell/give away all other parts".
Frankly, addons like this enhance the social interactions of group PvE. Stop imagining worst-case nightmare scenarios. I'm not saying that people won't run into jerks, but if you do, it's not something that will happen every single day, and it's utterly asinine to suggest throwing out 99% of the good to avoid the 1% chance of a potential bad.
KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »
You are mischaracterizing my post. I never said I wanted to avoid people. That is a ridiculous interpretation of what I said.
Just because I recognize that this addon makes it more likely that others will have to interact with annoying people who want something they have and expect that they give it to them - that does not follow that I want to generally just avoid people. And if you can't understand that difference, then I don't know what to tell you.
How does it make it more likely?
It makes it more likely because without this add one they would not know that I have the loot they want - so how then could they harass me for it?
They might think that since youre not posting loot in chat, you're probably hiding something from them and harass you because of that.
But they would know for sure that I have the piece of equipment they want. So it would make it a lot less likely.
No. It makes everything open to assumptions. And believe me or not, assumptions can make many ingame (and even rl) situations very tricky. You admitted you might start doing something that can make you banned during such arguments, so it wont make any difference for you.
Actually there is an easy solution - just make things clear before the run. Like, "I still need spell power cure gloves for my alt, but can trade/sell/give away all other parts".
You say that as if this has some unique bearing on me.
If someone insults you and you insult them back - yes - you can technically be banned for that. So this goes for anyone - not just me. It is a natural human impulse to react negatively when someone acts negatively toward you. We all have it - even you. That's what I was referring to in my post.
The easy solution here is just to get rid of the addon - which needlessly contributes to situations like these arising.
KoshkaMurka wrote: »Frankly, addons like this enhance the social interactions of group PvE. Stop imagining worst-case nightmare scenarios. I'm not saying that people won't run into jerks, but if you do, it's not something that will happen every single day, and it's utterly asinine to suggest throwing out 99% of the good to avoid the 1% chance of a potential bad.
Well said!
KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »
You are mischaracterizing my post. I never said I wanted to avoid people. That is a ridiculous interpretation of what I said.
Just because I recognize that this addon makes it more likely that others will have to interact with annoying people who want something they have and expect that they give it to them - that does not follow that I want to generally just avoid people. And if you can't understand that difference, then I don't know what to tell you.
How does it make it more likely?
It makes it more likely because without this add one they would not know that I have the loot they want - so how then could they harass me for it?
They might think that since youre not posting loot in chat, you're probably hiding something from them and harass you because of that.
But they would know for sure that I have the piece of equipment they want. So it would make it a lot less likely.
No. It makes everything open to assumptions. And believe me or not, assumptions can make many ingame (and even rl) situations very tricky. You admitted you might start doing something that can make you banned during such arguments, so it wont make any difference for you.
Actually there is an easy solution - just make things clear before the run. Like, "I still need spell power cure gloves for my alt, but can trade/sell/give away all other parts".
You say that as if this has some unique bearing on me.
If someone insults you and you insult them back - yes - you can technically be banned for that. So this goes for anyone - not just me. It is a natural human impulse to react negatively when someone acts negatively toward you. We all have it - even you. That's what I was referring to in my post.
The easy solution here is just to get rid of the addon - which needlessly contributes to situations like these arising.
KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »
You are mischaracterizing my post. I never said I wanted to avoid people. That is a ridiculous interpretation of what I said.
Just because I recognize that this addon makes it more likely that others will have to interact with annoying people who want something they have and expect that they give it to them - that does not follow that I want to generally just avoid people. And if you can't understand that difference, then I don't know what to tell you.
How does it make it more likely?
It makes it more likely because without this add one they would not know that I have the loot they want - so how then could they harass me for it?
They might think that since youre not posting loot in chat, you're probably hiding something from them and harass you because of that.
But they would know for sure that I have the piece of equipment they want. So it would make it a lot less likely.
No. It makes everything open to assumptions. And believe me or not, assumptions can make many ingame (and even rl) situations very tricky. You admitted you might start doing something that can make you banned during such arguments, so it wont make any difference for you.
Actually there is an easy solution - just make things clear before the run. Like, "I still need spell power cure gloves for my alt, but can trade/sell/give away all other parts".
You say that as if this has some unique bearing on me.
If someone insults you and you insult them back - yes - you can technically be banned for that. So this goes for anyone - not just me. It is a natural human impulse to react negatively when someone acts negatively toward you. We all have it - even you. That's what I was referring to in my post.
The easy solution here is just to get rid of the addon - which needlessly contributes to situations like these arising.
Yes it is quite negative. We, human beings, (supposedly) can control our impulses.
KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »
You are mischaracterizing my post. I never said I wanted to avoid people. That is a ridiculous interpretation of what I said.
Just because I recognize that this addon makes it more likely that others will have to interact with annoying people who want something they have and expect that they give it to them - that does not follow that I want to generally just avoid people. And if you can't understand that difference, then I don't know what to tell you.
How does it make it more likely?
It makes it more likely because without this add one they would not know that I have the loot they want - so how then could they harass me for it?
They might think that since youre not posting loot in chat, you're probably hiding something from them and harass you because of that.
But they would know for sure that I have the piece of equipment they want. So it would make it a lot less likely.
No. It makes everything open to assumptions. And believe me or not, assumptions can make many ingame (and even rl) situations very tricky. You admitted you might start doing something that can make you banned during such arguments, so it wont make any difference for you.
Actually there is an easy solution - just make things clear before the run. Like, "I still need spell power cure gloves for my alt, but can trade/sell/give away all other parts".
You say that as if this has some unique bearing on me.
If someone insults you and you insult them back - yes - you can technically be banned for that. So this goes for anyone - not just me. It is a natural human impulse to react negatively when someone acts negatively toward you. We all have it - even you. That's what I was referring to in my post.
The easy solution here is just to get rid of the addon - which needlessly contributes to situations like these arising.
Yes it is quite negative. We, human beings, (supposedly) can control our impulses.
To a degree. But if it happens frequently people are bound to lose their patience. Now maybe you are the exception - and are capable of controlling your impulses perfect no matter how often a situation is repeated. Now if that is the case - you think really think of yourself as lucky.
KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »
You are mischaracterizing my post. I never said I wanted to avoid people. That is a ridiculous interpretation of what I said.
Just because I recognize that this addon makes it more likely that others will have to interact with annoying people who want something they have and expect that they give it to them - that does not follow that I want to generally just avoid people. And if you can't understand that difference, then I don't know what to tell you.
How does it make it more likely?
It makes it more likely because without this add one they would not know that I have the loot they want - so how then could they harass me for it?
They might think that since youre not posting loot in chat, you're probably hiding something from them and harass you because of that.
But they would know for sure that I have the piece of equipment they want. So it would make it a lot less likely.
No. It makes everything open to assumptions. And believe me or not, assumptions can make many ingame (and even rl) situations very tricky. You admitted you might start doing something that can make you banned during such arguments, so it wont make any difference for you.
Actually there is an easy solution - just make things clear before the run. Like, "I still need spell power cure gloves for my alt, but can trade/sell/give away all other parts".
You say that as if this has some unique bearing on me.
If someone insults you and you insult them back - yes - you can technically be banned for that. So this goes for anyone - not just me. It is a natural human impulse to react negatively when someone acts negatively toward you. We all have it - even you. That's what I was referring to in my post.
The easy solution here is just to get rid of the addon - which needlessly contributes to situations like these arising.
If you're worried about being banned, the easy solution is to not insult people.
.
KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »
You are mischaracterizing my post. I never said I wanted to avoid people. That is a ridiculous interpretation of what I said.
Just because I recognize that this addon makes it more likely that others will have to interact with annoying people who want something they have and expect that they give it to them - that does not follow that I want to generally just avoid people. And if you can't understand that difference, then I don't know what to tell you.
How does it make it more likely?
It makes it more likely because without this add one they would not know that I have the loot they want - so how then could they harass me for it?
They might think that since youre not posting loot in chat, you're probably hiding something from them and harass you because of that.
But they would know for sure that I have the piece of equipment they want. So it would make it a lot less likely.
No. It makes everything open to assumptions. And believe me or not, assumptions can make many ingame (and even rl) situations very tricky. You admitted you might start doing something that can make you banned during such arguments, so it wont make any difference for you.
Actually there is an easy solution - just make things clear before the run. Like, "I still need spell power cure gloves for my alt, but can trade/sell/give away all other parts".
You say that as if this has some unique bearing on me.
If someone insults you and you insult them back - yes - you can technically be banned for that. So this goes for anyone - not just me. It is a natural human impulse to react negatively when someone acts negatively toward you. We all have it - even you. That's what I was referring to in my post.
The easy solution here is just to get rid of the addon - which needlessly contributes to situations like these arising.
Yes it is quite negative. We, human beings, (supposedly) can control our impulses.
To a degree. But if it happens frequently people are bound to lose their patience. Now maybe you are the exception - and are capable of controlling your impulses perfect no matter how often a situation is repeated. Now if that is the case - you think really think of yourself as lucky.
Ahh...now we see the truth. You have rage issues, and you want ZoS to rescue you from them.
Try a therapist, it's infinitely more effective.
KoshkaMurka wrote: »Frankly, addons like this enhance the social interactions of group PvE. Stop imagining worst-case nightmare scenarios. I'm not saying that people won't run into jerks, but if you do, it's not something that will happen every single day, and it's utterly asinine to suggest throwing out 99% of the good to avoid the 1% chance of a potential bad.
Well said!
I can't believe that you and others would actually believe this is only going to happen 1% of the time....
I admire your faith in humanity. Though as someone who has dealt with this humanity on a consistent basis (especially in an anonymous online setting) I can confidently tell you that you are dreaming.
KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »
You are mischaracterizing my post. I never said I wanted to avoid people. That is a ridiculous interpretation of what I said.
Just because I recognize that this addon makes it more likely that others will have to interact with annoying people who want something they have and expect that they give it to them - that does not follow that I want to generally just avoid people. And if you can't understand that difference, then I don't know what to tell you.
How does it make it more likely?
It makes it more likely because without this add one they would not know that I have the loot they want - so how then could they harass me for it?
They might think that since youre not posting loot in chat, you're probably hiding something from them and harass you because of that.
But they would know for sure that I have the piece of equipment they want. So it would make it a lot less likely.
No. It makes everything open to assumptions. And believe me or not, assumptions can make many ingame (and even rl) situations very tricky. You admitted you might start doing something that can make you banned during such arguments, so it wont make any difference for you.
Actually there is an easy solution - just make things clear before the run. Like, "I still need spell power cure gloves for my alt, but can trade/sell/give away all other parts".
You say that as if this has some unique bearing on me.
If someone insults you and you insult them back - yes - you can technically be banned for that. So this goes for anyone - not just me. It is a natural human impulse to react negatively when someone acts negatively toward you. We all have it - even you. That's what I was referring to in my post.
The easy solution here is just to get rid of the addon - which needlessly contributes to situations like these arising.
Yes it is quite negative. We, human beings, (supposedly) can control our impulses.
To a degree. But if it happens frequently people are bound to lose their patience. Now maybe you are the exception - and are capable of controlling your impulses perfect no matter how often a situation is repeated. Now if that is the case - you think really think of yourself as lucky.
Ahh...now we see the truth. You have rage issues, and you want ZoS to rescue you from them.
Try a therapist, it's infinitely more effective.
lol, says the person who is trying to get personal on the internet.
I'm not going to engage in trading insults with you. I am just stating the obvious, that if someone is repeatedly bothered by people pestering them for loot at the end of a dungeon it's only a matter of time before they become fed up and respond in kind. And I wouldn't blame them for doing so one bit.
That's called normal behavior. No therapy is needed.
KoshkaMurka wrote: »Frankly, addons like this enhance the social interactions of group PvE. Stop imagining worst-case nightmare scenarios. I'm not saying that people won't run into jerks, but if you do, it's not something that will happen every single day, and it's utterly asinine to suggest throwing out 99% of the good to avoid the 1% chance of a potential bad.
Well said!
I can't believe that you and others would actually believe this is only going to happen 1% of the time....
I admire your faith in humanity. Though as someone who has dealt with this humanity on a consistent basis (especially in an anonymous online setting) I can confidently tell you that you are dreaming.
Blackbird71 wrote: »vyndral13preub18_ESO wrote: »
You can still talk to group members or ask them if they got a certain piece of loot you are after without this addon.
I thought we were eliminating ways hostile people might try to be hostile. That means chat channels go bye bye. I mean obviously i could just ignore. Just like i could ignore these people. But the problem never would have come up if there were no chat channels.
The game actually gives us the option to disable any and all chat channels. The problem here is that we have no way of disabling someone else's addon that they use to interfere with our gameplay.
And by "interfere," I'm not talking about the people who may politely ask once about a particular item you picked up that keeps being used as an example in this thread of why there is nothing wrong with the addon. I'm talking about the jerks who constantly pester you about it with multiple messages, threats, etc., who may follow you around, and if you ignore them, may hit you up with alts or get their friends/guildies to start messaging you until you give in or log off. We all know that they exist; don't pretend that they don't.
KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »
You are mischaracterizing my post. I never said I wanted to avoid people. That is a ridiculous interpretation of what I said.
Just because I recognize that this addon makes it more likely that others will have to interact with annoying people who want something they have and expect that they give it to them - that does not follow that I want to generally just avoid people. And if you can't understand that difference, then I don't know what to tell you.
How does it make it more likely?
It makes it more likely because without this add one they would not know that I have the loot they want - so how then could they harass me for it?
They might think that since youre not posting loot in chat, you're probably hiding something from them and harass you because of that.
But they would know for sure that I have the piece of equipment they want. So it would make it a lot less likely.
No. It makes everything open to assumptions. And believe me or not, assumptions can make many ingame (and even rl) situations very tricky. You admitted you might start doing something that can make you banned during such arguments, so it wont make any difference for you.
Actually there is an easy solution - just make things clear before the run. Like, "I still need spell power cure gloves for my alt, but can trade/sell/give away all other parts".
You say that as if this has some unique bearing on me.
If someone insults you and you insult them back - yes - you can technically be banned for that. So this goes for anyone - not just me. It is a natural human impulse to react negatively when someone acts negatively toward you. We all have it - even you. That's what I was referring to in my post.
The easy solution here is just to get rid of the addon - which needlessly contributes to situations like these arising.
Yes it is quite negative. We, human beings, (supposedly) can control our impulses.
To a degree. But if it happens frequently people are bound to lose their patience. Now maybe you are the exception - and are capable of controlling your impulses perfect no matter how often a situation is repeated. Now if that is the case - you think really think of yourself as lucky.
Ahh...now we see the truth. You have rage issues, and you want ZoS to rescue you from them.
Try a therapist, it's infinitely more effective.
lol, says the person who is trying to get personal on the internet.
I'm not going to engage in trading insults with you. I am just stating the obvious, that if someone is repeatedly bothered by people pestering them for loot at the end of a dungeon it's only a matter of time before they become fed up and respond in kind. And I wouldn't blame them for doing so one bit.
That's called normal behavior. No therapy is needed.
/ignore, bro.
There are already tools to prevent people with an inability to control their reactions from being banned.
Not an insult, trying to help you out man.
KoshkaMurka wrote: »Frankly, addons like this enhance the social interactions of group PvE. Stop imagining worst-case nightmare scenarios. I'm not saying that people won't run into jerks, but if you do, it's not something that will happen every single day, and it's utterly asinine to suggest throwing out 99% of the good to avoid the 1% chance of a potential bad.
Well said!
I can't believe that you and others would actually believe this is only going to happen 1% of the time....
I admire your faith in humanity. Though as someone who has dealt with this humanity on a consistent basis (especially in an anonymous online setting) I can confidently tell you that you are dreaming.
I can believe it. Why? Because addons like this have been around for years..
KoshkaMurka wrote: »Frankly, addons like this enhance the social interactions of group PvE. Stop imagining worst-case nightmare scenarios. I'm not saying that people won't run into jerks, but if you do, it's not something that will happen every single day, and it's utterly asinine to suggest throwing out 99% of the good to avoid the 1% chance of a potential bad.
Well said!
I can't believe that you and others would actually believe this is only going to happen 1% of the time....
I admire your faith in humanity. Though as someone who has dealt with this humanity on a consistent basis (especially in an anonymous online setting) I can confidently tell you that you are dreaming.
I can believe it. Why? Because addons like this have been around for years..
Yes, but that is irrelevant because the feature that allows you to trade personal loot at the end of a dungeon is new. It's the combination of the addon and this new feature that causes the issues.
KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »
You are mischaracterizing my post. I never said I wanted to avoid people. That is a ridiculous interpretation of what I said.
Just because I recognize that this addon makes it more likely that others will have to interact with annoying people who want something they have and expect that they give it to them - that does not follow that I want to generally just avoid people. And if you can't understand that difference, then I don't know what to tell you.
How does it make it more likely?
It makes it more likely because without this add one they would not know that I have the loot they want - so how then could they harass me for it?
They might think that since youre not posting loot in chat, you're probably hiding something from them and harass you because of that.
But they would know for sure that I have the piece of equipment they want. So it would make it a lot less likely.
No. It makes everything open to assumptions. And believe me or not, assumptions can make many ingame (and even rl) situations very tricky. You admitted you might start doing something that can make you banned during such arguments, so it wont make any difference for you.
Actually there is an easy solution - just make things clear before the run. Like, "I still need spell power cure gloves for my alt, but can trade/sell/give away all other parts".
You say that as if this has some unique bearing on me.
If someone insults you and you insult them back - yes - you can technically be banned for that. So this goes for anyone - not just me. It is a natural human impulse to react negatively when someone acts negatively toward you. We all have it - even you. That's what I was referring to in my post.
The easy solution here is just to get rid of the addon - which needlessly contributes to situations like these arising.
Yes it is quite negative. We, human beings, (supposedly) can control our impulses.
To a degree. But if it happens frequently people are bound to lose their patience. Now maybe you are the exception - and are capable of controlling your impulses perfect no matter how often a situation is repeated. Now if that is the case - you think really think of yourself as lucky.
Ahh...now we see the truth. You have rage issues, and you want ZoS to rescue you from them.
Try a therapist, it's infinitely more effective.
lol, says the person who is trying to get personal on the internet.
I'm not going to engage in trading insults with you. I am just stating the obvious, that if someone is repeatedly bothered by people pestering them for loot at the end of a dungeon it's only a matter of time before they become fed up and respond in kind. And I wouldn't blame them for doing so one bit.
That's called normal behavior. No therapy is needed.
/ignore, bro.
There are already tools to prevent people with an inability to control their reactions from being banned.
Not an insult, trying to help you out man.
I don't need to be helped out. But thank you none-the-less.
As I've stated numerous times - addons that contribute to players having to ignore each other should be scrapped unless there is a significant reason such an addon should be preserved. There is no such reason here.
And I would welcome it. But ZOS has priorities.If this is so important to the game they should make it a basic feature as I said.
KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »Frankly, addons like this enhance the social interactions of group PvE. Stop imagining worst-case nightmare scenarios. I'm not saying that people won't run into jerks, but if you do, it's not something that will happen every single day, and it's utterly asinine to suggest throwing out 99% of the good to avoid the 1% chance of a potential bad.
Well said!
I can't believe that you and others would actually believe this is only going to happen 1% of the time....
I admire your faith in humanity. Though as someone who has dealt with this humanity on a consistent basis (especially in an anonymous online setting) I can confidently tell you that you are dreaming.
I can believe it. Why? Because addons like this have been around for years..
Yes, but that is irrelevant because the feature that allows you to trade personal loot at the end of a dungeon is new. It's the combination of the addon and this new feature that causes the issues.
The issues that you have never encountered personally but you think are widespread. Hmm...
KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »KoshkaMurka wrote: »
You are mischaracterizing my post. I never said I wanted to avoid people. That is a ridiculous interpretation of what I said.
Just because I recognize that this addon makes it more likely that others will have to interact with annoying people who want something they have and expect that they give it to them - that does not follow that I want to generally just avoid people. And if you can't understand that difference, then I don't know what to tell you.
How does it make it more likely?
It makes it more likely because without this add one they would not know that I have the loot they want - so how then could they harass me for it?
They might think that since youre not posting loot in chat, you're probably hiding something from them and harass you because of that.
But they would know for sure that I have the piece of equipment they want. So it would make it a lot less likely.
No. It makes everything open to assumptions. And believe me or not, assumptions can make many ingame (and even rl) situations very tricky. You admitted you might start doing something that can make you banned during such arguments, so it wont make any difference for you.
Actually there is an easy solution - just make things clear before the run. Like, "I still need spell power cure gloves for my alt, but can trade/sell/give away all other parts".
You say that as if this has some unique bearing on me.
If someone insults you and you insult them back - yes - you can technically be banned for that. So this goes for anyone - not just me. It is a natural human impulse to react negatively when someone acts negatively toward you. We all have it - even you. That's what I was referring to in my post.
The easy solution here is just to get rid of the addon - which needlessly contributes to situations like these arising.
Yes it is quite negative. We, human beings, (supposedly) can control our impulses.
To a degree. But if it happens frequently people are bound to lose their patience. Now maybe you are the exception - and are capable of controlling your impulses perfect no matter how often a situation is repeated. Now if that is the case - you think really think of yourself as lucky.
Ahh...now we see the truth. You have rage issues, and you want ZoS to rescue you from them.
Try a therapist, it's infinitely more effective.
lol, says the person who is trying to get personal on the internet.
I'm not going to engage in trading insults with you. I am just stating the obvious, that if someone is repeatedly bothered by people pestering them for loot at the end of a dungeon it's only a matter of time before they become fed up and respond in kind. And I wouldn't blame them for doing so one bit.
That's called normal behavior. No therapy is needed.
/ignore, bro.
There are already tools to prevent people with an inability to control their reactions from being banned.
Not an insult, trying to help you out man.
I don't need to be helped out. But thank you none-the-less.
As I've stated numerous times - addons that contribute to players having to ignore each other should be scrapped unless there is a significant reason such an addon should be preserved. There is no such reason here.
Others in this thread have outlined the usefullness of these addons...