eventide03b14a_ESO wrote: »There was nothing wrong with this addon, it was a help tool nothing more nothing less.
It works the same as master merchant does, in fact master merchant is even more invasive with personal data than group damage was....but you don't see crying about that do you?
The problem comes with the PLAYERS who MISS USE IT for ELITISM.
Do you ban something for everyone because a few silly people who miss use it? No you shouldn't...if you did that all the time no one would get anything at all....you might as well ban everything...
It's a tool to help people, use it or don't, if anything it helps you see who the real *** bags are who miss treat others and who the sensible players are who help others improve their builds without forcing opinions on others...
You can't police who will use it or misuse it. If you guys really want a DPS meter then have people willingly download an addon that does it and then have them post their numbers. It's not like you can't get the information it just means you need consent to get it. That's the way it should be.
@eventide03b14a_ESO
Then ban the spyaddon master merchant too then?
so silly...
Innocent until proven guilty.
I (As in, myself) do not want to have a low DPS in my team, as this way he will surely drag the team down.
"Flaming" and "Harrasment" can happen without group DPS addons- let's say YOU do 8k dps on first boss in vWGT (example). That would mean that WE (as in, the rest of the group) would ask you to post your DPS stats (This is because low DPS takes more time for the boss ^_^). And then YOU (as in, you) will be kicked and a viable substitute will be found.
Therefore, such addons just save time and nerves for everone, doubt that you think that without this addon people would begin try and educate low dps players and "carry" them through the dungeon.
A vote like that needs a "yes, but only opt-in" and "idc" option too.
A lot of people seem to be against it as it was with GroupDamage (for mostly stupid reasons and unfounded fear, but whatever), so it would be interesting to know how many would object it as opt-in, basically as a SO VERY MUCH better solution to FTC sharing which is just a very dirty makeshift solution that also requires everybody to have the addon for it to work.
See this is where I have a rift against @ZOS's disagreeing with an evaluation without explanation.If someone [snip] kicks me from a group due to this add-on (and if I actually know that somehow) I will promptly have some VERY snippy words for them, and set them on ignore.
If a player wants to kick you, for whatever reason, they have a right to do so.../...ultimately nobody is forced to play with anyone here.
Don't put words in my mouth Anita. I'm looking at this from a neutral perspective. Don't mix up that which is empathetic and that which is a player's common right.anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »If a player wants to kick you, for whatever reason, they have a right to do so.../...ultimately nobody is forced to play with anyone here.
THIS is where we disagree completely.
You can choose your guilds, you can choose your friends.
But when you choose to PUG, you basically choose to accept to play WITH ANYONE.
And if you don't like the people that the tool grouped you with for whatever reason, you should still try and finish the run, because that's what you signed up for when using the tool. And if you really don't want to, then your option is to leave, not to kick.
See this is where I have a rift against @ZOS's disagreeing with an evaluation without explanation.If someone [snip] kicks me from a group due to this add-on (and if I actually know that somehow) I will promptly have some VERY snippy words for them, and set them on ignore.
Responding with a confrontation to a kick because of low performance is not the appropriate response. Simply ignore them. If a player wants to kick you, for whatever reason, they have a right to do so. Some reasons may seem more arrogant than others but, ultimately nobody is forced to play with anyone they don't want to here.
This is an important point I'd like to make and why I disagree with ZOS labeling this as "spying" which infers a negative connotation. The fact that this addon allowed for an evaluation of performance without confrontation is it's benefit. THAT was its genius.
It provided an opportunity to not call ppl out, not ask to post dps, a chance to not confront insecure people who are quick to snap back with harassing comments of their own while at the same time refining the network of like-minded players through silent evaluation.
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »If a player wants to kick you, for whatever reason, they have a right to do so.../...ultimately nobody is forced to play with anyone here.
THIS is where we disagree completely.
You can choose your guilds, you can choose your friends.
But when you choose to PUG, you basically choose to accept to play WITH ANYONE.
And if you don't like the people that the tool grouped you with for whatever reason, you should still try and finish the run, because that's what you signed up for when using the tool. And if you really don't want to, then your option is to leave, not to kick.
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Don't put words in my mouth Anita. I'm looking at this from a neutral perspective. Don't mix up that which is empathetic and that which is a player's common right.
It's a right to kick a player based on performance. Is it empathetic? No. The point I'm trying to make is don't stoop to that level with harassing return comments, simply ignore. The idea is to get to a point where no confrontation occurs between the person wanting better performance and the person who they believe should improve.
The fact is, a player does not assume responsibility of any players performance when joining a group even if it's a pug. It's simply empathetic to do so. And if it's only one player in the group with low performance, it makes sense to kick that player, rather than leave to find three more.
You are wrong. What the player actually signs up for by using the group finder is being placed in a random group with a random leader that can kick them for any reason. People that don't want to be kicked from groups for any reason should not be using group finder.anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »If a player wants to kick you, for whatever reason, they have a right to do so.../...ultimately nobody is forced to play with anyone here.
THIS is where we disagree completely.
You can choose your guilds, you can choose your friends.
But when you choose to PUG, you basically choose to accept to play WITH ANYONE.
And if you don't like the people that the tool grouped you with for whatever reason, you should still try and finish the run, because that's what you signed up for when using the tool. And if you really don't want to, then your option is to leave, not to kick.
timidobserver wrote: »You are wrong. What the player actually signs up for by using the group finder is being placed in a random group with a random leader that can kick them for any reason. People that don't want to be kicked from groups for any reason should not be using group finder.
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »If a player wants to kick you, for whatever reason, they have a right to do so.../...ultimately nobody is forced to play with anyone here.
THIS is where we disagree completely.
You can choose your guilds, you can choose your friends.
But when you choose to PUG, you basically choose to accept to play WITH ANYONE.
And if you don't like the people that the tool grouped you with for whatever reason, you should still try and finish the run, because that's what you signed up for when using the tool. And if you really don't want to, then your option is to leave, not to kick.
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anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »You are wrong. What the player actually signs up for by using the group finder is being placed in a random group with a random leader that can kick them for any reason. People that don't want to be kicked from groups for any reason should not be using group finder.
Luckily, ZOS agrees with me, and that's why GroupDamage is gone.
timidobserver wrote: »Your version of what people are signing up for is still incorrect with or without group damage. It is a random group with a random leader that can kick people because he doesn't like their hair color.
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »Your version of what people are signing up for is still incorrect with or without group damage. It is a random group with a random leader that can kick people because he doesn't like their hair color.
The fact that you can kill someone with a car every minute does not mean that a car is meant for killing people, let alone that people who don't want to be killed should not walk in the streets.
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Let me explain:anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »Don't put words in my mouth Anita. I'm looking at this from a neutral perspective. Don't mix up that which is empathetic and that which is a player's common right.
It's a right to kick a player based on performance. Is it empathetic? No. The point I'm trying to make is don't stoop to that level with harassing return comments, simply ignore. The idea is to get to a point where no confrontation occurs between the person wanting better performance and the person who they believe should improve.
The fact is, a player does not assume responsibility of any players performance when joining a group even if it's a pug. It's simply empathetic to do so. And if it's only one player in the group with low performance, it makes sense to kick that player, rather than leave to find three more.
I don't put any words in your mouth : you're even repeating the same words.
Your point of view ISN'T neutral, it's yours.
It's NOT a right to kick a player based on anything. It's merely a technical possibility given to the player who has the crown. There is not "right" in ESO since there is no "law".
What remains is something like "ethics" and "common sense".
Kicking is not nice, not empathetic, therefore it should not be done, therefore people with expectations should not PUG, in order to avoid having to kick.
As simple as that.
We actually agree on ^this. Personally I feel the same. When pugging, I accept anyone I am grouped with. I stick around, finish the run or leave when it's absolutely clear that we can't finish. Saying we disagree on this point you've assumed my judgment and "put words in my mouth".anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »THIS is where we disagree completely.If a player wants to kick you, for whatever reason, they have a right to do so.../...ultimately nobody is forced to play with anyone here.
You can choose your guilds, you can choose your friends.
But when you choose to PUG, you basically choose to accept to play WITH ANYONE.
And if you don't like the people that the tool grouped you with for whatever reason, you should still try and finish the run, because that's what you signed up for when using the tool. And if you really don't want to, then your option is to leave, not to kick.
timidobserver wrote: »anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »Your version of what people are signing up for is still incorrect with or without group damage. It is a random group with a random leader that can kick people because he doesn't like their hair color.
The fact that you can kill someone with a car every minute does not mean that a car is meant for killing people, let alone that people who don't want to be killed should not walk in the streets.
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Doing this with a car it against a variety laws. Group kicking someone because their name has an "A" in it and you hate the letter "A" is not against any rule.
timidobserver wrote: »anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »Your version of what people are signing up for is still incorrect with or without group damage. It is a random group with a random leader that can kick people because he doesn't like their hair color.
The fact that you can kill someone with a car every minute does not mean that a car is meant for killing people, let alone that people who don't want to be killed should not walk in the streets.
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Doing this with a car it against a variety laws. Group kicking someone because their name has an "A" in it and you hate the letter "A" is not against any rule.
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »Your version of what people are signing up for is still incorrect with or without group damage. It is a random group with a random leader that can kick people because he doesn't like their hair color.
The fact that you can kill someone with a car every minute does not mean that a car is meant for killing people, let alone that people who don't want to be killed should not walk in the streets.
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Doing this with a car it against a variety laws. Group kicking someone because their name has an "A" in it and you hate the letter "A" is not against any rule.
But it's still bad.
If you think that everything that is not expressedly forbidden by law is okay and acceptable, and belongs to "individual freedom"...
then... we could have a very long discussion, but here's not the place.
But your point of view confirms that GroupDamage had to go.
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OK got your point - and sorry.Let me explain:We actually agree on ^this. Personally I feel the same. When pugging, I accept anyone I am grouped with. I stick around, finish the run or leave when it's absolutely clear that we can't finish. Saying we disagree on this point you've assumed my judgment and "put words in my mouth".anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »THIS is where we disagree completely.If a player wants to kick you, for whatever reason, they have a right to do so.../...ultimately nobody is forced to play with anyone here.
You can choose your guilds, you can choose your friends.
But when you choose to PUG, you basically choose to accept to play WITH ANYONE.
And if you don't like the people that the tool grouped you with for whatever reason, you should still try and finish the run, because that's what you signed up for when using the tool. And if you really don't want to, then your option is to leave, not to kick.
What we don't agree on is that besides our personal opinions on what is the ethical thing to do, that a player still has a common right to kick another player. And although I feel it doesn't require explanation, this is why I believe my opinion is neutral.
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »OK got your point - and sorry.Let me explain:We actually agree on ^this. Personally I feel the same. When pugging, I accept anyone I am grouped with. I stick around, finish the run or leave when it's absolutely clear that we can't finish. Saying we disagree on this point you've assumed my judgment and "put words in my mouth".anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »THIS is where we disagree completely.If a player wants to kick you, for whatever reason, they have a right to do so.../...ultimately nobody is forced to play with anyone here.
You can choose your guilds, you can choose your friends.
But when you choose to PUG, you basically choose to accept to play WITH ANYONE.
And if you don't like the people that the tool grouped you with for whatever reason, you should still try and finish the run, because that's what you signed up for when using the tool. And if you really don't want to, then your option is to leave, not to kick.
What we don't agree on is that besides our personal opinions on what is the ethical thing to do, that a player still has a common right to kick another player. And although I feel it doesn't require explanation, this is why I believe my opinion is neutral.
On the point where we "disagree" : having the crown gives a player the technical possibility to kick others. Technical possibility doesn't equal a "right", either in the legal nor in the moral sense of the term. It's a possibility that can be used or abused. What makes the difference between the two is ethics and common sense.
IMHO people kicking the 4th player in a LFG-PUG over and over until they're finally grouped with their friend from another faction is abuse. Kicking an apparently weaker player while the dungeon is doable with him is abuse. Kicking someone because of his hair color, or because it's a non-templar healer, is abuse.
ZOS cannot list everything, forbid everything, make a code of conduct about everything, and cannot control everything. We players must act responsibly if we want a welcoming, nice game with many players. Therefore IMHO we cannot say "it is the group's leader right to kick for any reason". It's not.
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timidobserver wrote: »anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »Your version of what people are signing up for is still incorrect with or without group damage. It is a random group with a random leader that can kick people because he doesn't like their hair color.
The fact that you can kill someone with a car every minute does not mean that a car is meant for killing people, let alone that people who don't want to be killed should not walk in the streets.
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Doing this with a car it against a variety laws. Group kicking someone because their name has an "A" in it and you hate the letter "A" is not against any rule.
But it's still bad.
If you think that everything that is not expressedly forbidden by law is okay and acceptable, and belongs to "individual freedom"...
then... we could have a very long discussion, but here's not the place.
But your point of view confirms that GroupDamage had to go.
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It's bad for sure, but it is still important to accurately understand what one is signing up. The only thing banning group damage did was substract one reason from an infinite number of reasons that players can get kicked from groups or kept in groups.
Actually addressing irrational group kicking could be done with group kick voting.
"Observing" is another word for it that doesn't invoke negative connotation. "private" is an opinion by ZOS to make it so, data is not inherently private. There are others game in which this data is not private. Anyways...See this is where I have a rift against @ZOS's disagreeing with an evaluation without explanation.If someone [snip] kicks me from a group due to this add-on (and if I actually know that somehow) I will promptly have some VERY snippy words for them, and set them on ignore.
Responding with a confrontation to a kick because of low performance is not the appropriate response. Simply ignore them. If a player wants to kick you, for whatever reason, they have a right to do so. Some reasons may seem more arrogant than others but, ultimately nobody is forced to play with anyone they don't want to here.
This is an important point I'd like to make and why I disagree with ZOS labeling this as "spying" which infers a negative connotation. The fact that this addon allowed for an evaluation of performance without confrontation is it's benefit. THAT was its genius.
It provided an opportunity to not call ppl out, not ask to post dps, a chance to not confront insecure people who are quick to snap back with harassing comments of their own while at the same time refining the network of like-minded players through silent evaluation.
See @Cuyler , I also mentioned, I would be very willing to take advice, and would use that advice. Getting half way through a dungeon with someone "spying" on my actions without being willing to help then proceeding to kick me? Yes, I think they deserve those snippy words. Would that be everyone? Absolutely not.
I have used "spying" in quotes as I'm not sure that it is exactly spying. Seeing raw numbers feels a bit like spying, but then again, when you're in a group - you can normally tell you is excelling and who is not. Although, in the same token, you mentioned it allows for a silent evaluation of performance, it is viewing something that is not given to you in the base game (in raw numbers) - therefore I can see how they see it as "private". It's something not normally available, which you do not need to opt-in, as well, people can do it without you ever knowing. I can see why ZOS has considered it "spying", but I can also see why it isn't.
To be honest, I almost never pug with groups, as least not in the way I generally see it. I may run with some friends of one of my friends who I don't know, but generally we are there with the same mindset. Personally I don't care if this add-on exists or not, but I can see the issue with pugs.
Don't want to run with people with "too low" DPS/HPS? Don't PUG, go find like-minded individuals to run with.
Don't want your DPS numbers to be view able by strangers and have the possiblity of getting kicked from groups? Don't PUG, go find like-minded individuals to run with.
I pug too, whether it's the LFG tool for pledges or spamming zone for trials. It's not above me. I just happen to be in some hardcore guilds too. I base my opinions around each of these scenarios[EDIT] Sorry Cuyler, I realise you see this from a "non-pug" view so it's not exactly what you were saying, although I was referring to pug/group finder group when I mentioned the possibility (of being kicked due to this add-on) - although I didn't explicitly state that. Sorry.
Rune_Relic wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »Your version of what people are signing up for is still incorrect with or without group damage. It is a random group with a random leader that can kick people because he doesn't like their hair color.
The fact that you can kill someone with a car every minute does not mean that a car is meant for killing people, let alone that people who don't want to be killed should not walk in the streets.
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Doing this with a car it against a variety laws. Group kicking someone because their name has an "A" in it and you hate the letter "A" is not against any rule.
But it's still bad.
If you think that everything that is not expressedly forbidden by law is okay and acceptable, and belongs to "individual freedom"...
then... we could have a very long discussion, but here's not the place.
But your point of view confirms that GroupDamage had to go.
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It's bad for sure, but it is still important to accurately understand what one is signing up. The only thing banning group damage did was substract one reason from an infinite number of reasons that players can get kicked from groups or kept in groups.
Actually addressing irrational group kicking could be done with group kick voting.
Fair point and suggestion.
The likelihood of being stuck with 3 arse hats should be pretty low.
But stil open to abuse.
How about simply a hardcore and casual button on the LFG tool.
Those who choose hardcore will be grouped with people expected to be hardcore players and pretty competent.
Those who choose casual will be players learning the ropes, or simply struggling with content for some reason.
timidobserver wrote: »Rune_Relic wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »Your version of what people are signing up for is still incorrect with or without group damage. It is a random group with a random leader that can kick people because he doesn't like their hair color.
The fact that you can kill someone with a car every minute does not mean that a car is meant for killing people, let alone that people who don't want to be killed should not walk in the streets.
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Doing this with a car it against a variety laws. Group kicking someone because their name has an "A" in it and you hate the letter "A" is not against any rule.
But it's still bad.
If you think that everything that is not expressedly forbidden by law is okay and acceptable, and belongs to "individual freedom"...
then... we could have a very long discussion, but here's not the place.
But your point of view confirms that GroupDamage had to go.
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It's bad for sure, but it is still important to accurately understand what one is signing up. The only thing banning group damage did was substract one reason from an infinite number of reasons that players can get kicked from groups or kept in groups.
Actually addressing irrational group kicking could be done with group kick voting.
Fair point and suggestion.
The likelihood of being stuck with 3 arse hats should be pretty low.
But stil open to abuse.
How about simply a hardcore and casual button on the LFG tool.
Those who choose hardcore will be grouped with people expected to be hardcore players and pretty competent.
Those who choose casual will be players learning the ropes, or simply struggling with content for some reason.
I would be okay with this, but ZOS does not want to split the group finder pool. They are struggling enough with increasing it.
My solution that actually helps with all valid issues related to group damage and doesn't half the group finder pool.
1.Turn group damage back on.
2.Just remove the group leader from group finder groups entirely. In a 4 man group, 3 kick votes are required to kick someone.
3. Bonus xp, gold, gear, undaunted helm drop rate for finishing dungeon with original group finder group minus afk drops and dcs.
4. Prefer not given steps 2-3, but I would live with also disabling group damage in all group finder groups.
Rune_Relic wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »Rune_Relic wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »Your version of what people are signing up for is still incorrect with or without group damage. It is a random group with a random leader that can kick people because he doesn't like their hair color.
The fact that you can kill someone with a car every minute does not mean that a car is meant for killing people, let alone that people who don't want to be killed should not walk in the streets.
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Doing this with a car it against a variety laws. Group kicking someone because their name has an "A" in it and you hate the letter "A" is not against any rule.
But it's still bad.
If you think that everything that is not expressedly forbidden by law is okay and acceptable, and belongs to "individual freedom"...
then... we could have a very long discussion, but here's not the place.
But your point of view confirms that GroupDamage had to go.
.
It's bad for sure, but it is still important to accurately understand what one is signing up. The only thing banning group damage did was substract one reason from an infinite number of reasons that players can get kicked from groups or kept in groups.
Actually addressing irrational group kicking could be done with group kick voting.
Fair point and suggestion.
The likelihood of being stuck with 3 arse hats should be pretty low.
But stil open to abuse.
How about simply a hardcore and casual button on the LFG tool.
Those who choose hardcore will be grouped with people expected to be hardcore players and pretty competent.
Those who choose casual will be players learning the ropes, or simply struggling with content for some reason.
I would be okay with this, but ZOS does not want to split the group finder pool. They are struggling enough with increasing it.
My solution that actually helps with all valid issues related to group damage and doesn't half the group finder pool.
1.Turn group damage back on.
2.Just remove the group leader from group finder groups entirely. In a 4 man group, 3 kick votes are required to kick someone.
3. Bonus xp, gold, gear, undaunted helm drop rate for finishing dungeon with original group finder group minus afk drops and dcs.
4. Prefer not given steps 2-3, but I would live with also disabling group damage in all group finder groups.
So rewarding the group sticking together as a positive influence and reduce the likelihood of performance kicking.
Fair.
But it still doesn't stop 3 people on a speedrun looking for a 4th using lfg and kick, kick, kick, kick...
The best meeting ground there from my point of view would be....
group damage is optional using "invite to group" (this lets guildmates and consenting invited players use the tool, who should be upto performance requirements).
group damage is disabled using "LFG" (this means no one can use it as a performance kicking tool).
Conditional Programming that is another kettle of fish.