anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »
This addon was displaying the correct numbers, here is an SO hardmode parse with the total damage circled from both GroupDamage and FTC.. you can see they are the same (the DPS was different because GroupDamage had a longer end of combat stop).
OK thanks for that.
Then we'll have to find another explanation as to why @coolmodi (and he's not the only one) repeatedly says that he cannot do more than 8K DPS at Lvl40 scaled to VR16 and that most other DPS average 3K and not more. That's a mystery.
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Its not that unbelievable, the other day I helped a buddy of mine complete the vet pledge with two pug DPS which both were doing incredibly low DPS (cant say how much for sure since GroupDamage was disabled at this point). One of them was a sorcerer which spammed mages wrath (the execute ability) when the monster was full health and also using elemental ring (the AoE ability) on single targets. The other (I cannot recall the class) was spamming light attacks on each mob with the occasional cleave ability. It was a fairly rough experience, we managed to kill the engine guardian in a little over nine minutes.. which I believe was mostly only due to my buddy (the tank) switching to DPS for that fight.
KallistaBlackheart wrote: »but i wonder, why the desire not to share your performance with a group you have willingly joined, whether in the finder tool or in zone? surly the fear can not truly be about getting kicked for bad performance. i have been kicked for being a dragonknight tank. others i have heard of being kicked for the most ridiculous of reasons.
KallistaBlackheart wrote: »but i do wonder if there is anyway to prove either of our assertions regarding the points we hold? do these addons lead to more elitism, or is it just the nature of competition and rude people being rude? how would one measure or test this? it would be nice if ZOS gave the statistics behind their decision, if such information existed. i have seen papers in academia that talk about in game behavior, but the methods used to arrive at any conclusion are almost all based on brief observation and interview like questionnaires, not exceptionally reliable. as i recall there are such works for both good and bad tendencies being highlighted...
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »
What surprises me is that you don't seem to mind being kicked (beyond the annoyance of having to find another group).
You really don't mind having people tell you to GTFO for no reason, or for no valid reason, or even for a valid reason ? I think that is extremely rude, brutal even, and rudeness is not something I feel lighthearted about. The fact that we have no other choice but to suck it up doesn't make it acceptable.
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »
What surprises me is that you don't seem to mind being kicked (beyond the annoyance of having to find another group).
You really don't mind having people tell you to GTFO for no reason, or for no valid reason, or even for a valid reason ? I think that is extremely rude, brutal even, and rudeness is not something I feel lighthearted about. The fact that we have no other choice but to suck it up doesn't make it acceptable.
What supprises me is that that supprises you.
I know I have no issue with it. If people don't want me in their group that is their choice. Why should I feel offended about that?
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »
What surprises me is that you don't seem to mind being kicked (beyond the annoyance of having to find another group).
You really don't mind having people tell you to GTFO for no reason, or for no valid reason, or even for a valid reason ? I think that is extremely rude, brutal even, and rudeness is not something I feel lighthearted about. The fact that we have no other choice but to suck it up doesn't make it acceptable.
What supprises me is that that supprises you.
I know I have no issue with it. If people don't want me in their group that is their choice. Why should I feel offended about that?
Because it's rejection. You can twist it or ignore it or "thick-skin" it the way you want, it's still rejection, and certainly should not be accepted as "anyone's free choice". Unless of course you enjoy being treated like a dog.
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anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »
What surprises me is that you don't seem to mind being kicked (beyond the annoyance of having to find another group).
You really don't mind having people tell you to GTFO for no reason, or for no valid reason, or even for a valid reason ? I think that is extremely rude, brutal even, and rudeness is not something I feel lighthearted about. The fact that we have no other choice but to suck it up doesn't make it acceptable.
What supprises me is that that supprises you.
I know I have no issue with it. If people don't want me in their group that is their choice. Why should I feel offended about that?
Because it's rejection. You can twist it or ignore it or "thick-skin" it the way you want, it's still rejection, and certainly should not be accepted as "anyone's free choice". Unless of course you enjoy being treated like a dog.
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timidobserver wrote: »With this sort of thing there is two typically reactions.
1. The people that will take steps to try to force people into being around them.
2. The people that have no desire to be around people that don't want them around.
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »With this sort of thing there is two typically reactions.
1. The people that will take steps to try to force people into being around them.
2. The people that have no desire to be around people that don't want them around.
Lol !!! ;-)
Your "first situation" doesn't exist since the rejected person is thrown out by force. Your "second situation" is not relevant because noone cared about the rejected person's desire.
May I remind you that we are talking about a "Looking For Group Tool" in an MMO ?
People who are not ready to play happily with whoever comes up via the tool should not use the tool, end of story.
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Im going to argue semantics on your last bit, because i can see 'play happily' as also being playing along with the risks of the groupfinder, and you should be happy with possible rejection. If you cannot play happily with the rest of the population and accept getting kicked as part of that, then you should not use the groupfinder.
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »Im going to argue semantics on your last bit, because i can see 'play happily' as also being playing along with the risks of the groupfinder, and you should be happy with possible rejection. If you cannot play happily with the rest of the population and accept getting kicked as part of that, then you should not use the groupfinder.
Whatever semantics games you like to play, truth is, the group finder is a tool meant to put people together based on a common goal : run a dungeon. It's NOT meant to be a pre-selection room of teammates for the one who happens to have the crown.
Like it or not, that's how it is. And that's how ZOS sees it. Anything else is abuse.
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anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »Let's agree to disagree then ! But I'm happy that 99,9% of the people I group with via LFG don't share your views ;-)
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anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »Let's agree to disagree then ! But I'm happy that 99,9% of the people I group with via LFG don't share your views ;-)
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Who said anything about sharing my views? This is a discussion on the validity of the group kick. So 99.9% get pissed (to the point of leaving the game for a week as said in a previous thread?) interesting. I immagine they stay in the finder for the next group. But i havent polled them, and neither have you btw.
You actually dont know what their opinion is on the subject. For all you know 99.9% of them agree with my casual go with the flow take on the subject. As in, 'i dont care' rather than your 'everyone must group with me because i showed up'. But we dont know.
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »Let's agree to disagree then ! But I'm happy that 99,9% of the people I group with via LFG don't share your views ;-)
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Who said anything about sharing my views? This is a discussion on the validity of the group kick. So 99.9% get pissed (to the point of leaving the game for a week as said in a previous thread?) interesting. I immagine they stay in the finder for the next group. But i havent polled them, and neither have you btw.
You actually dont know what their opinion is on the subject. For all you know 99.9% of them agree with my casual go with the flow take on the subject. As in, 'i dont care' rather than your 'everyone must group with me because i showed up'. But we dont know.
Okay let me rephrase : "I'm happy that apparently 99.9% of the people I group with via LFG don't feel entitled to kick anyone, even weaker players, because it happens extremely rarely and people feel committed to complete the dungeon with the group they've started with via LFG, as it should be".
That's how I meant it.
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anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »With this sort of thing there is two typically reactions.
1. The people that will take steps to try to force people into being around them.
2. The people that have no desire to be around people that don't want them around.
Lol !!! ;-)
Your "first situation" doesn't exist since the rejected person is thrown out by force. Your "second situation" is not relevant because noone cared about the rejected person's desire.
May I remind you that we are talking about a "Looking For Group Tool" in an MMO ?
People who are not ready to play happily with whoever comes up via the tool should not use the tool, end of story.
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timidobserver wrote: »The people in group two, like myself, are more than happy to leave any group they are not wanted in. I would rather delete the game than force my presence on other players that don't want me in their group, regardless of the reason.
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »The people in group two, like myself, are more than happy to leave any group they are not wanted in. I would rather delete the game than force my presence on other players that don't want me in their group, regardless of the reason.
LOL. Just remember that next time you're abusively kicked for no reason.
If you think it is "normal" ... I'm sorry you have such a low self-esteem, but as long as you're happy with it...
(The rest of your text is pure bait so I'll not bite).
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timidobserver wrote: »
It is not bait it is an honest description of the whole reason this debate exists. People wanting to force their presence on others.
Who has lower self-esteem? The person comfortable with not being in groups they are not wanted in or the person taking steps to have addons banned because they are emotionally distraught enough to quit the game for a week over being kicked from group.
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »
What surprises me is that you don't seem to mind being kicked (beyond the annoyance of having to find another group).
You really don't mind having people tell you to GTFO for no reason, or for no valid reason, or even for a valid reason ? I think that is extremely rude, brutal even, and rudeness is not something I feel lighthearted about. The fact that we have no other choice but to suck it up doesn't make it acceptable.
What supprises me is that that supprises you.
I know I have no issue with it. If people don't want me in their group that is their choice. Why should I feel offended about that?
Because it's rejection. You can twist it or ignore it or "thick-skin" it the way you want, it's still rejection, and certainly should not be accepted as "anyone's free choice". Unless of course you enjoy being treated like a dog.
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KallistaBlackheart wrote: »but i wonder, why the desire not to share your performance with a group you have willingly joined, whether in the finder tool or in zone? surly the fear can not truly be about getting kicked for bad performance. i have been kicked for being a dragonknight tank. others i have heard of being kicked for the most ridiculous of reasons. i have kicked people for being exceptionally rude to others in group, although not a bad reason, the one being kicked probably did not appreciate my stance. i do see that some would use this information to taunt others, hence why i think it should be limited to only within a group so passers by could not see your info. but these same said would use anything to taunt you or be an a**. as far as the fears of elitism, i think you will find that type of attitude propagates, regardless of addons, in any game that has a way of recording your successes and how well said successes were achieved.
none of this i mind discussing with you, as to this point you have not misconstrued my words or inserted your own assertions to them unlike others in this disagreement. honest discussion is good. but i do wonder if there is anyway to prove either of our assertions regarding the points we hold? do these addons lead to more elitism, or is it just the nature of competition and rude people being rude? how would one measure or test this? it would be nice if ZOS gave the statistics behind their decision, if such information existed. i have seen papers in academia that talk about in game behavior, but the methods used to arrive at any conclusion are almost all based on brief observation and interview like questionnaires, not exceptionally reliable. as i recall there are such works for both good and bad tendencies being highlighted... i apologies but it has been a while since i have pursued this line of study so do not recall titles or authors off the top of my head.
the questions i advance are questions i would like your insight on. i would also like to thank you for this civil discourse.
You are case 1, I'm perfectly sure, you proved that more than once.anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »With this sort of thing there is two typically reactions.
1. The people that will take steps to try to force people into being around them.
2. The people that have no desire to be around people that don't want them around.
Lol !!! ;-)
Your "first situation" doesn't exist since the rejected person is thrown out by force. Your "second situation" is not relevant because noone cared about the rejected person's desire.
May I remind you that we are talking about a "Looking For Group Tool" in an MMO ?
People who are not ready to play happily with whoever comes up via the tool should not use the tool, end of story.
And this, just... wow. Do you not make sense on purpose?anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »After all, if you don't need explanations as to why you're kicked from a group, you don't need to understand either why an add-on needed to go. Get over it.