I pvp'd extensively in WoW (in a friend's guild on a pvp server). I actually hated every minute of it. I have ZERO interest in any sort of competition. In Rift, I pvp'd as little as possible, eventually (after about a year) not bothering with it at all.
I refused to play ESO UNTIL I made sure there was no possible way I would have to mess with pvp in this game.
It's not fun; it's not interesting; I'm still not competitive by nature, and I never will be.