Thanks for sharing. You and I are probably thinking of very different time frames. Public attitudes have definitely changed over the past decades, going from institutionalizing children and stigmatizing their parents to the more tolerant and aware situation you're describing. I should have clarified this better.
There are many cases where the problem hasn't suddenly popped up. It's always been there and now we are simply more aware of it
JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »I have arachnophobia myself. When I started with WOW, I first thought, oh my God, so many spiders... but it never triggered my phobia. I thought the WOW spiders were cute and hunters with spider pets were cool. Even the biggest and nastiest ones didn't scare me. Here in ESO, the spiders are a bit more realistic. Nevertheless, none of them trigger my phobia, no matter how disgusting. And Velidreth is really disgusting. But also funny. She says funny things. When I do the dungeon, I just pay attention to the mechanics and all that’s scary is when people have no idea about these. Not the spider boss.
No offence but I can't understand this discussion. It's completely exaggerated. The spiders are absolutely part of the ESO world. Tamriel wouldn't be the same without them. I hope the developers have enough sense and ignore this concern. Bugs and server performance should be the focus, not silly little things like this.
Please realize that this is just a game. The spiders are not real. Perhaps it will help you to get used to them a little. I mean, my own arachnophobia actually got better after all these virtual battles... Now I let smaller specimens (up to 2 cm in diameter) crawl over my hand... um .. ok well, 1.5 cm...
It is great that your arachnophobia isn't triggered by the spiders, but that doesn't mean your experience is universal, nor does it mean everyone is able to get over their phobia by being constantly triggered. It also isnt' a 'silly little thing' when someone has a genuine phobia of the spiders and are triggered by them (and in that case, they probably *don't* play a lot of these games, which could mean that if more games started implementing phobia modes like WoW, it would bring in those players because now they can feel comfortable playing)
JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »I have arachnophobia myself. When I started with WOW, I first thought, oh my God, so many spiders... but it never triggered my phobia. I thought the WOW spiders were cute and hunters with spider pets were cool. Even the biggest and nastiest ones didn't scare me. Here in ESO, the spiders are a bit more realistic. Nevertheless, none of them trigger my phobia, no matter how disgusting. And Velidreth is really disgusting. But also funny. She says funny things. When I do the dungeon, I just pay attention to the mechanics and all that’s scary is when people have no idea about these. Not the spider boss.
No offence but I can't understand this discussion. It's completely exaggerated. The spiders are absolutely part of the ESO world. Tamriel wouldn't be the same without them. I hope the developers have enough sense and ignore this concern. Bugs and server performance should be the focus, not silly little things like this.
Please realize that this is just a game. The spiders are not real. Perhaps it will help you to get used to them a little. I mean, my own arachnophobia actually got better after all these virtual battles... Now I let smaller specimens (up to 2 cm in diameter) crawl over my hand... um .. ok well, 1.5 cm...
It is great that your arachnophobia isn't triggered by the spiders, but that doesn't mean your experience is universal, nor does it mean everyone is able to get over their phobia by being constantly triggered. It also isnt' a 'silly little thing' when someone has a genuine phobia of the spiders and are triggered by them (and in that case, they probably *don't* play a lot of these games, which could mean that if more games started implementing phobia modes like WoW, it would bring in those players because now they can feel comfortable playing)
Of course, my experience istn't universal and I don't assume that. But you don't overcome a phobia by avoiding any situation that could trigger it. This has already been written before. An arachnophobia mode wouldn't really help these people. If a person can't distinguish between reality and the virtual world, they have a far worse problem than arachnophobia. An arachnophobia mode would only support this inability to distinguish reality from virtuality. By suggesting that pixel spiders are actually real, scary creatures that should be switched off.
Apart from that, there are lots of other phobias, against animals, fear of heights, underwater, all sorts of things. Should there also be a special mode for these? Why are arachnophobics favored and people who are afraid of cats, dogs, insects, heights, skeletons, sweetrolls, cheese, etc. ignored? Then there must be a special mode for all phobias?
I do indeed think that these are minor issues. There are far more serious things (performance, bugs) that make ESO partially unplayable for many people, which is why they have given up on the game.
belial5221_ESO wrote: »Phobias are mostly from traumatic events,like a dog attacks child that gets hurt bad and now they think all will do it,cause they were too young to understand.
That's not how it works. It's not limited to children and it's not about "not understanding". It's an involuntary brain reaction. After a trauma, even completely harmless things can cause panic when they remind of the situation when something horrible happened. As an example, some people who lived in a war zone panic when they hear fireworks. It doesn't matter if they're adults, and it doesn't matter either that they know it's not shots or bombs but just fireworks and harmless, the sound of it alone will make them extremely nervous and uncomfortable.
Not all phobias are necessarily traumagenic either.
I actually hate Clannfear more, just because of the 'assault' that they do when they jump. I never even noticed it until someone mentioned what that looks like in the forum, and now I can't unsee it.
Yes, I did.SilverBride wrote: »Has anyone with true arachnophobia even replied to this thread? Not just players with a fear of spiders, which is pretty common, but rather actual panic attacks at the mere sight of a spider, real or pixilated?
SilverBride wrote: »Has anyone with true arachnophobia even replied to this thread? Not just players with a fear of spiders, which is pretty common, but rather actual panic attacks at the mere sight of a spider, real or pixilated?
Spiders (except for the really small ones) give me the screaming heebie jeebies, but the Elder Scrolls (offline or online) ones don't, because my brain is smart enough to realise they're fake.
JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »I mean, my fear is no longer at the 'panic attack' stage, but yes, I used to have panic attacks at the sight of a spider, even if it were just an image.
SilverBride wrote: »Spiders (except for the really small ones) give me the screaming heebie jeebies, but the Elder Scrolls (offline or online) ones don't, because my brain is smart enough to realise they're fake.JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »I mean, my fear is no longer at the 'panic attack' stage, but yes, I used to have panic attacks at the sight of a spider, even if it were just an image.
But has anyone that is currently having symptoms of arachnophobia with spiders in game replied to this thread?
JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »SilverBride wrote: »Spiders (except for the really small ones) give me the screaming heebie jeebies, but the Elder Scrolls (offline or online) ones don't, because my brain is smart enough to realise they're fake.JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »I mean, my fear is no longer at the 'panic attack' stage, but yes, I used to have panic attacks at the sight of a spider, even if it were just an image.
But has anyone that is currently having symptoms of arachnophobia with spiders in game replied to this thread?
Genuine question. Why does the fear have to be at 'panic attack' level?
SilverBride wrote: »JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »SilverBride wrote: »Spiders (except for the really small ones) give me the screaming heebie jeebies, but the Elder Scrolls (offline or online) ones don't, because my brain is smart enough to realise they're fake.JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »I mean, my fear is no longer at the 'panic attack' stage, but yes, I used to have panic attacks at the sight of a spider, even if it were just an image.
But has anyone that is currently having symptoms of arachnophobia with spiders in game replied to this thread?
Genuine question. Why does the fear have to be at 'panic attack' level?
It doesn't have to be but often is. That is one of the signs of a phobia versus just a fear.
JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »But a phobia doesn't have to raise to the level of panic attacks. Yes, they *can* lead to panic attacks, but they don't *have* in order to be considered a phobia.
SilverBride wrote: »JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »But a phobia doesn't have to raise to the level of panic attacks. Yes, they *can* lead to panic attacks, but they don't *have* in order to be considered a phobia.
What I'm trying to determine is if there are any players that are so negatively affected by spiders in game that it is causing them acute distress when playing, or even preventing them from playing at all. But in the 6 pages of this thread so far I have yet to see anyone relate any negative experience related to spiders in game.
SilverBride wrote: »What I'm trying to determine is if there are any players that are so negatively affected by spiders in game that it is causing them acute distress when playing, or even preventing them from playing at all. But in the 6 pages of this thread so far I have yet to see anyone relate any negative experience related to spiders in game.
sleepy_worm wrote: »SilverBride wrote: »What I'm trying to determine is if there are any players that are so negatively affected by spiders in game that it is causing them acute distress when playing, or even preventing them from playing at all. But in the 6 pages of this thread so far I have yet to see anyone relate any negative experience related to spiders in game.
I have had at least three people in my guild who are negatively affected by in-game visuals of spiders and have feelings of panic or anxiety when encountering them. I run events for my guild and try to let everyone know ahead of time which parts have spiders.
Rest assured, these people exist.
SilverBride wrote: »ESO has been around for 10 years now and had spiders the entire time. It seems to me that if this was really a major problem for a lot of players it would have come up way before now.
JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »It is only in the last few years that developers have started adding arachnophobia modes and people in general started taking them seriously, so maybe the reason we see this *now* is because people feel *comfortable* coming forward with the idea that 'hey, I would really love it if I could play the game without having spiders jump out at me!'
SilverBride wrote: »JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »It is only in the last few years that developers have started adding arachnophobia modes and people in general started taking them seriously, so maybe the reason we see this *now* is because people feel *comfortable* coming forward with the idea that 'hey, I would really love it if I could play the game without having spiders jump out at me!'
I've never once heard of this in any MMO in all the decades that I have been gaming. If players are now more comfortable coming forward with this idea then where are they? They certainly aren't making their needs known in this thread.
Hello, inhabitants of Tamriel!
The new.... Chapter. I know Spiders are a part of the lore and whatnot - which is fine, but for someone (me) that's pretty.. challenging. By now I haven't done any of the areas that contains spiders, I've always had a friend / guildie come and kill every spider for me. Hihihihih.
So, I was wondering, is there a chance someone can make an Add-On / Or Devs can make a toggle-filter, that spawns black squares(or whatever non-spider-thing) when there's a monster with the shape of a Spider, or with the "Spider" in it's name?
It would sure help me out a lot \o/
I honestly don't care if I end up with 50 black squares on my screen. I just can't stand watching spiders..
How can wasp NPC's force you to take a 2-year hiatus? I'll tell you.
Even though I'm legally an adult now (18 years of age), ever since I was young, I've been afraid of insects. I also had, until recently, a small bout of arachnophobia.
Over my teenage years, I've shaked off ladybugs, flies, and my arachnophobia. But I am still afraid of bees and wasps.
And unfortunately, every time I am forced to fight a wasp, the noises it makes sounds like a real wasp buzzing in my ear. This unfortunately triggers my phobia of stinging insects.
As a result, I have grown afraid of venturing into Betnikh, Deshaan, or other areas where wasp monsters are common, just because I fear of triggering my phobia.
And unfortunately, this is why I have never been able to get the Hero of the Covenant/Pact/Dominion achievements, and probably never will.
I'm not looking for any type of sympathy. I'm just posting this to try and get some weight off my back and hopefully go to college class today with a better attitude than I am currently.
Anyway, I'm off. See you all later.
It is possible to get the indrik deleted, if you actually mean that. A few years ago I got a spider pet from a free crown crate and as I'm arachnophobic I couldn't stand even having it unused in my collections menu so I contacted Support and they deleted it. I'm sure they could do the same for your indrik.
Although I'm not sure how it could have been forced on you. There's a multi-step process you have to go through to get one, including buying at least 4 seperate items from an NPC and then using them to create the mount. i can't imagine it's something anyone could do by accident, and if you didn't want it all you needed to do was...nothing. Skip any step in that process and you wouldn't be stuck with an indrik now.
But like I said if you don't want it support will delete it.
SilverBride wrote: »JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »But a phobia doesn't have to raise to the level of panic attacks. Yes, they *can* lead to panic attacks, but they don't *have* in order to be considered a phobia.
What I'm trying to determine is if there are any players that are so negatively affected by spiders in game that it is causing them acute distress when playing, or even preventing them from playing at all. But in the 6 pages of this thread so far I have yet to see anyone relate any negative experience related to spiders in game.
colossalvoids wrote: »As an arachnophobe I wonder if ESO's spiders actually ever triggered anyone's phobia for real or that's just a wish for some mythical "others who need it"? Same with WoW spiders, how on earth even. I mean causing issues with breathing, uncontrolled movement and not just "Ew, a thingy".
yes they have for me.
it's not a wish for hypothetical people.
the spiders in eso look realistic enough to me to be able to trigger anxiety.
The sounds and how some of the spiders like in Spindleclutch fall or drop down from the ceiling are especially bad for my brain.
Entila's Folly in Auridon is also a place i avoid because of the spiders.
though sadly i can't avoid Spindleclutch if i queue for random dungeons.
another problem with Spindle is that it has a lot of flashes for both of the Spider bosses so i can hardly participate in those fights.