ChandraNalaar wrote: »Judas Helviaryn wrote: »@Nestor You should know better than that. =P
If the OP had been successful at talking to them, that would be one thing. But, based on the description of them being "Miles ahead" I doubt any discourse would have been well received.
I am glad your giving them the benefit of the doubt. I have come across this enough times with no response from the one running ahead to not even want to try. They have already shown their intentions by running ahead that they don't want to be part of the group. Now, I won't say that 1 out of 3 does this, but out of 10 to 20 pugs, I get this at least once. I send a "Hey do you want to wait?" message and get crickets back.
So, try to talk to them if you feel it's the right thing to do, and maybe they will listen. But, I bet your going to be kicking more of them than getting them to hang back.
Why kick someone who is doing the dungeon for you? If they can't do mechanics and are being a jerk then sure, but kicking everybody who runs ahead and clears mobs for you just seems like a silly thing to do. I think it's quite nice when somebody is successfully clearing mobs ahead of me if I'm in a loading screen or something; I only queue for random normals for the xp, so getting through it quickly is a bonus.
Some people don't appreciate the participation ribbon. They actually want to contribute. Not everybody queues for a quick bit of xp and it is rude to not let them enjoy the experience. If you want to do a quick run form your group in zone then queue for the random with everybody knowing it is a quick run. If you want someone to carry you ask in zone for a carry. don't join a random group and assume.
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »WhoSlappedThePie wrote: »To encourage people to "up their game"?
Do you really think that "normal" players look at the speedrunner ahead thinking "wow, I wanna be that guy" ? LoL.
LadyNalcarya wrote: »ChandraNalaar wrote: »Judas Helviaryn wrote: »@Nestor You should know better than that. =P
If the OP had been successful at talking to them, that would be one thing. But, based on the description of them being "Miles ahead" I doubt any discourse would have been well received.
I am glad your giving them the benefit of the doubt. I have come across this enough times with no response from the one running ahead to not even want to try. They have already shown their intentions by running ahead that they don't want to be part of the group. Now, I won't say that 1 out of 3 does this, but out of 10 to 20 pugs, I get this at least once. I send a "Hey do you want to wait?" message and get crickets back.
So, try to talk to them if you feel it's the right thing to do, and maybe they will listen. But, I bet your going to be kicking more of them than getting them to hang back.
Why kick someone who is doing the dungeon for you? If they can't do mechanics and are being a jerk then sure, but kicking everybody who runs ahead and clears mobs for you just seems like a silly thing to do. I think it's quite nice when somebody is successfully clearing mobs ahead of me if I'm in a loading screen or something; I only queue for random normals for the xp, so getting through it quickly is a bonus.
Some people don't appreciate the participation ribbon. They actually want to contribute. Not everybody queues for a quick bit of xp and it is rude to not let them enjoy the experience. If you want to do a quick run form your group in zone then queue for the random with everybody knowing it is a quick run. If you want someone to carry you ask in zone for a carry. don't join a random group and assume.
Well, you can contribute. Unless that speedrunner is using cheat engine and you're technically unable to catch up with him/her, nothing stops you from attacking the mobs. Everyone can sprint, after all. And technically 5-10% is still a contribution.
Also, the majority of nonvet pugs are below lvl 50 and dont have cps so you can get plenty of slow runs if thats what you want. I dont believe there's so many speedrunners and OP dds. Many dds can solo dungeons, but soloing it so quick that no one can even catch up and contribute even a little bit.. Well, maybe there's one or two of those guys for 9000+ light attack archers. Surely not enough to be an issue.
And lets not forget that not every dungeon is farmed for gear. You're very unlikely to see someone farming outside CoA, DC and some other places that drop popular gear sets.
LadyNalcarya wrote: »ChandraNalaar wrote: »Judas Helviaryn wrote: »@Nestor You should know better than that. =P
If the OP had been successful at talking to them, that would be one thing. But, based on the description of them being "Miles ahead" I doubt any discourse would have been well received.
I am glad your giving them the benefit of the doubt. I have come across this enough times with no response from the one running ahead to not even want to try. They have already shown their intentions by running ahead that they don't want to be part of the group. Now, I won't say that 1 out of 3 does this, but out of 10 to 20 pugs, I get this at least once. I send a "Hey do you want to wait?" message and get crickets back.
So, try to talk to them if you feel it's the right thing to do, and maybe they will listen. But, I bet your going to be kicking more of them than getting them to hang back.
Why kick someone who is doing the dungeon for you? If they can't do mechanics and are being a jerk then sure, but kicking everybody who runs ahead and clears mobs for you just seems like a silly thing to do. I think it's quite nice when somebody is successfully clearing mobs ahead of me if I'm in a loading screen or something; I only queue for random normals for the xp, so getting through it quickly is a bonus.
Some people don't appreciate the participation ribbon. They actually want to contribute. Not everybody queues for a quick bit of xp and it is rude to not let them enjoy the experience. If you want to do a quick run form your group in zone then queue for the random with everybody knowing it is a quick run. If you want someone to carry you ask in zone for a carry. don't join a random group and assume.
Well, you can contribute. Unless that speedrunner is using cheat engine and you're technically unable to catch up with him/her, nothing stops you from attacking the mobs. Everyone can sprint, after all. And technically 5-10% is still a contribution.
Also, the majority of nonvet pugs are below lvl 50 and dont have cps so you can get plenty of slow runs if thats what you want. I dont believe there's so many speedrunners and OP dds. Many dds can solo dungeons, but soloing it so quick that no one can even catch up and contribute even a little bit.. Well, maybe there's one or two of those guys for 9000+ light attack archers. Surely not enough to be an issue.
And lets not forget that not every dungeon is farmed for gear. You're very unlikely to see someone farming outside CoA, DC and some other places that drop popular gear sets.
The players I have run into know the path to take to skip the mobs and all bosses not required to get the accomplishment for finishing the activity. Some also have skills that allow them to get past mobs even when there isn't room to bypass them normally. Also doesn't take into account people doing the quest, looking for lore books or looting containers.
It's not that I want slow runs but pretty sure you are purposely missing the point of what I posted. I want people in the group to actually act like they are in the group. Running ahead is rude and saying things like well at least they get the dungeon finished or they can get a hit in if they can keep up doesn't justify the behavior.
cpuScientist wrote: »These are just some little counter arguments. But remember everyone thinks there way is right. So cut people slack, kick them if the majority is on your side leave if the majority is against you and if it's 50/50 try to keep up or leave.
cpuScientist wrote: »Or you guys are not being respectful of the speedrun guys wishes to finish the dungeon quickly. Maybe he sees a few players in the group that they think can't really do this. Maybe he feels that if you used dungeon finder and then get in the dungeon and say wait let me switch skills/gear that it was something you should've done beforehand. Maybe when you click that ready check in group finder he thought you were actually ready. Maybe he thinks he's doing people a favor. Maybe he thinks questing is for friends and he feels that having everyone wait for you to read and do all the little questing parts is equally rude.
These are just some little counter arguments. But remember everyone thinks there way is right. So cut people slack, kick them if the majority is on your side leave if the majority is against you and if it's 50/50 try to keep up or leave.
cpuScientist wrote: »Or you guys are not being respectful of the speedrun guys wishes to finish the dungeon quickly. Maybe he sees a few players in the group that they think can't really do this. Maybe he feels that if you used dungeon finder and then get in the dungeon and say wait let me switch skills/gear that it was something you should've done beforehand. Maybe when you click that ready check in group finder he thought you were actually ready. Maybe he thinks he's doing people a favor. Maybe he thinks questing is for friends and he feels that having everyone wait for you to read and do all the little questing parts is equally rude.
These are just some little counter arguments. But remember everyone thinks there way is right. So cut people slack, kick them if the majority is on your side leave if the majority is against you and if it's 50/50 try to keep up or leave.
You wanna do a speed run type in zone and you will get a group ready to do a speed run. Random normal is more for learning rotations, leveling skills and getting familiar with your character. No he doesn't see other player in the group, let alone if they can do it or not because he is around the corner skipping past mobs as soon as his feet hit the ground. I agree you should have skills ready before entering but that isn't relevant here because he isn't waiting anyway. No he isn't doing people any favors and no he probably doesn't really think he is doing others a favor especially when asked to please slow down. It is rude and none of your excuses justify it.
With random normal I go in with the attitude the the fleet is only as fast as their slowest ship, or the chain is only as strong as the weakest link. This means if someone needs to go slow you go slow. If someone has never done the dungeon before you stop to explain mechanics even if you can burn through so mechanics do not matter. Do what you can to make sure the entire group enjoys the run and has fun.
LadyNalcarya wrote: »cpuScientist wrote: »Or you guys are not being respectful of the speedrun guys wishes to finish the dungeon quickly. Maybe he sees a few players in the group that they think can't really do this. Maybe he feels that if you used dungeon finder and then get in the dungeon and say wait let me switch skills/gear that it was something you should've done beforehand. Maybe when you click that ready check in group finder he thought you were actually ready. Maybe he thinks he's doing people a favor. Maybe he thinks questing is for friends and he feels that having everyone wait for you to read and do all the little questing parts is equally rude.
These are just some little counter arguments. But remember everyone thinks there way is right. So cut people slack, kick them if the majority is on your side leave if the majority is against you and if it's 50/50 try to keep up or leave.
You wanna do a speed run type in zone and you will get a group ready to do a speed run. Random normal is more for learning rotations, leveling skills and getting familiar with your character. No he doesn't see other player in the group, let alone if they can do it or not because he is around the corner skipping past mobs as soon as his feet hit the ground. I agree you should have skills ready before entering but that isn't relevant here because he isn't waiting anyway. No he isn't doing people any favors and no he probably doesn't really think he is doing others a favor especially when asked to please slow down. It is rude and none of your excuses justify it.
With random normal I go in with the attitude the the fleet is only as fast as their slowest ship, or the chain is only as strong as the weakest link. This means if someone needs to go slow you go slow. If someone has never done the dungeon before you stop to explain mechanics even if you can burn through so mechanics do not matter. Do what you can to make sure the entire group enjoys the run and has fun.
Are you talking about someone specific? Because otherwise its a very broad generalization.
Not being a team player isnt really related to soloing dungeons, its just a pug thing. There's many horribad dds who would still aggro all the mobs while tank and/or healer is still on loading screen. They cant solo anything, but they still run ahead (bonus cringe points if theyre FoTH stamina dds that run faster than the rest of the group and die from 1 hit ).
As for "Do what you can to make sure the entire group enjoys the run and has fun", it only works if EVERYONE in the group shares this mindset. There's so many entitled players and special snowflakes that you will never be good enough for them, even if you'll carry them through the whole game and give them all your gold and items.
Why is there always one person in a group who uses GF to do group content but the second they get into the dungeon, they blitz off miles ahead and just start soloing the dungeon?
I mean, do they actually want to do group content or is it just some ego thing? This happens in at least 1 out of 3 dungeons now.
Judas Helviaryn wrote: »If someone is rushing ahead, and obviously capable of soloing the dungeon, it's likely they're grinding it and giving the people they're paired up with an easy run, in their eyes. It doesn't necessarily mean they're malicious.
Communication is key in any issue, don't automatically write people off without trying to open a dialogue, and separately examining the pros and cons of letting them do what they do.
You might find yourself doing the same thing in the future, especially if you associate with people who can teach you a thing or two, like our subject.
@Nestor You should know better than that. =P
WhoSlappedThePie wrote: »So boring. Just get on with it. I can't believe this gets to you so much that you write huge paragraphs about whether there is etiquette in a pug random dungeon.
The clues in the name: random. That means there's a random chance you're paired with people who will or won't do it to your liking. A random chance if you're going to be with people who listen, type, wait, don't hit hard, hit too hard etc.
When I join anything I'm aiming to do it quickly and I don't care if you feel like I'm not waiting. How many of these are you going to get though really? And if anything I'm speeding up the process so at the very least you complete the dungeon in a very fast time and can get back to doing them how you like... I don't see the problem here. You're "wasting" like 10 minutes in most dungeons in a speedrun. Woop-dee-do.
Get on with your day man, sheeeesh.
Note it does not matter if the rest of group burns hard if you do quest.WhoSlappedThePie wrote: »So boring. Just get on with it. I can't believe this gets to you so much that you write huge paragraphs about whether there is etiquette in a pug random dungeon.
The clues in the name: random. That means there's a random chance you're paired with people who will or won't do it to your liking. A random chance if you're going to be with people who listen, type, wait, don't hit hard, hit too hard etc.
When I join anything I'm aiming to do it quickly and I don't care if you feel like I'm not waiting. How many of these are you going to get though really? And if anything I'm speeding up the process so at the very least you complete the dungeon in a very fast time and can get back to doing them how you like... I don't see the problem here. You're "wasting" like 10 minutes in most dungeons in a speedrun. Woop-dee-do.
Get on with your day man, sheeeesh.
I kind of agree with this. If you are doing to quest, at least say something and I will take my time as well. But if group members are bumbling around and not moving forward in a dungeon, I am.
I was in Volenfell the other day and the group was just doing nothing and not moving anywhere, so I moved on to the next trash mob. Killed them and started looting containers waiting for the group. 2 minutes later and they are still not to me yet, one room over. So I move on to the next trash mob and the group ends up kicking me without even saying one word to me.
Either do the dungeon, or get out of the dungeon.
^ Community ambassador? Embarrassing.Just kick them from the group, they get removed from the instance and have to start all over again in 15 minutes
^ Community ambassador? Embarrassing.
Just kick them from the group, they get removed from the instance and have to start all over again in 15 minutes
^ Community ambassador? Embarrassing.
Because I am supposed to be on the side of the tools who scam the group finder to get the 100k experience with no intention of actually working with the group they agreed to join? Seriously?
Community means more than one, so I am on the side of the group not the lone jerk who abuses the group for their own selfish reasons .