I'm too afraid to do dungeons

VoiDGhOs7

Its definetely a L2P issue!!!
Go in and JUST DO IT!!!
[SNIP]

Keep_Door

Cazzy wrote: »

Keep_Door wrote: »

You should just do it. Toxic players are few and far between most of my experinces have been good. The worst that will hapeen is you get kicked.

Can you get kicked once you're far in? I don't want to fight my way through to be kicked at the final boss

Lol idk ive never been kicked im just to good. Im joking i mainly pvp so im not sure

Abeille

Try looking for a guild that will do "training runs" with people that have no experience. Many guilds do that even if they are not focused on endgame PvE, even some trading guilds do that.

FortheloveofKrist

@Cazzy If you are on PS4 NA, add me PSN: ForKristSake

I never do dungeons either, so maybe we can put together a group of newbs: The Undungeonables.

Panth141

To add to the other voices, if anyone is feeling nervous about doing dungeons on PS4 EU then a couple of my guildies and I will always be more than happy to have the company.

Don't ever worry about 'not being good enough', an enjoyable dungeon is always the priority over any kind of 'speed run', so hit us up. We'll

Bobby_V_Rockit

I wouldn't stress too hard on it. I have always used group finder and have finished every dungeon (except vWGT and vICP due to my low champ points). I've only encountered a few grumpy players a few times that have disbanded the groups, usually though they are the ones that die over and over and don't have great skills.

My only advice would be, check the level recommendation of each dungeon online before trying to group. If you try to do a v16 dungeon at v1, you're probably going to get kicked as soon as the leader notices your level.

Tylersoh

Cazzy wrote: »

Keep_Door wrote: »

You should just do it. Toxic players are few and far between most of my experinces have been good. The worst that will hapeen is you get kicked.

Can you get kicked once you're far in? I don't want to fight my way through to be kicked at the final boss

Yes that has happened to me on DarkShade Vet

tinythinker

This might help, @Cazzy.

AtmaDarkwolf

came in here thinking it was a story about someone not being taught how to run, impaitence, etc results in them being booted.

But after reading, and seeing the replies, its more than that I think. Its that you 'REFUSE' to learn (ASK FFS, JUST ASK if you do not know something) and are 'that guy' whos 'DPS' but only does light arrow attacks (And don't move, resulting in death, and ignores res's and waits for boss to die) or that tank who has 12k hp and thinks that because hes holding a shield mobs should just attack him without him doing a thing, or the healer that believes spamming sap essence is 'healing' (Yet hes off behind the boss)

Truth is, of the others I've read here, i would be utterly shocked to really see you get 'booted' or refused a run (In all but the WGT/ICP dungeons, MAYBE COA vet)because ANY of them can be carried by ONE DECENT guy(Of any of the 3 roles) with 3 'noobs'

so, sorry, your 'fears' are utterly unwarranted. U want to run a dungeon, and want to learn it, say so. At least then you can find a group BEFORE you get into a dungeon. LEarn about common sense things like food, potions, what 'mechanics' to watch for, etc.

Its been proven many times already, that most ANY of the 'old' vet dungeons can be done with NOTHING ELSE than light attacks from the dps, and 1 button each for healers and tanks(the tank uses his taunt only, healer uses 1 heal only)

So if 'that' can be done, I'm SURE your fine.

(Again we are talking 'getting the job done, and learning it' not running it in world record breaking speed with no flaws)

josefcifkaeb17_ESO

Yea, I avoid instances too. I play for fun with my own builds which are not always top DPS, but I always try to squeeze as much DPS of them as possible, so they are often similar to the one's one can find in guides.
All my guilds are your standard guilds filled with egomaniacs etc. so doing anything with them is out of question and I was unable to find a fun, friendly, laid back guild that doesn't care about your champion level more than about who you are.

TrueGreenSmoker

Cazzy wrote: »

I hear so many "horror stories" about people being kicked, nasty players etc. Plus I don't know how well I'd do in any dungeon. I think I'm probably comparatively bad. But I'm missing out

Dont be afraid just try group finder or look for people at the undaunted. I never really had a problem few days ago was like the first time I was healing in Vet Wayrest and they told me to DPS so I did DPS/Healing but when Im DPS/Heal my magicka runs out so quick also they didnt do that much damage... at the boss nobody was going for the zombies while fighting the boss so I was like TF... so I went to kill the zomies while I was doing that 2 people died they got mad and said I wasnt doing my job I got on the mic and told them nobody was killing the zombies and that I want the golden key not the silver they said I need to stop btching I told them to *** off and left their group so I used group finder again and 20 seconds later I got a group we beat wayrest within 15mins waaay faster and waay more damage from the other guys in the group then the other group I was in before. But some people always have a reason to btch about stuff etc

Cazzy

AtmaDarkwolf wrote: »

came in here thinking it was a story about someone not being taught how to run, impaitence, etc results in them being booted.

But after reading, and seeing the replies, its more than that I think. Its that you 'REFUSE' to learn (ASK FFS, JUST ASK if you do not know something) and are 'that guy' whos 'DPS' but only does light arrow attacks (And don't move, resulting in death, and ignores res's and waits for boss to die) or that tank who has 12k hp and thinks that because hes holding a shield mobs should just attack him without him doing a thing, or the healer that believes spamming sap essence is 'healing' (Yet hes off behind the boss)

Truth is, of the others I've read here, i would be utterly shocked to really see you get 'booted' or refused a run (In all but the WGT/ICP dungeons, MAYBE COA vet)because ANY of them can be carried by ONE DECENT guy(Of any of the 3 roles) with 3 'noobs'

so, sorry, your 'fears' are utterly unwarranted. U want to run a dungeon, and want to learn it, say so. At least then you can find a group BEFORE you get into a dungeon. LEarn about common sense things like food, potions, what 'mechanics' to watch for, etc.

Its been proven many times already, that most ANY of the 'old' vet dungeons can be done with NOTHING ELSE than light attacks from the dps, and 1 button each for healers and tanks(the tank uses his taunt only, healer uses 1 heal only)

So if 'that' can be done, I'm SURE your fine.

(Again we are talking 'getting the job done, and learning it' not running it in world record breaking speed with no flaws)

...I'm a female, not a "guy"...and please don't patronise me.

For everyone else, thanks for being encouraging

lokesgard

Cazzy wrote: »

AtmaDarkwolf wrote: »

came in here thinking it was a story about someone not being taught how to run, impaitence, etc results in them being booted.

But after reading, and seeing the replies, its more than that I think. Its that you 'REFUSE' to learn (ASK FFS, JUST ASK if you do not know something) and are 'that guy' whos 'DPS' but only does light arrow attacks (And don't move, resulting in death, and ignores res's and waits for boss to die) or that tank who has 12k hp and thinks that because hes holding a shield mobs should just attack him without him doing a thing, or the healer that believes spamming sap essence is 'healing' (Yet hes off behind the boss)

Truth is, of the others I've read here, i would be utterly shocked to really see you get 'booted' or refused a run (In all but the WGT/ICP dungeons, MAYBE COA vet)because ANY of them can be carried by ONE DECENT guy(Of any of the 3 roles) with 3 'noobs'

so, sorry, your 'fears' are utterly unwarranted. U want to run a dungeon, and want to learn it, say so. At least then you can find a group BEFORE you get into a dungeon. LEarn about common sense things like food, potions, what 'mechanics' to watch for, etc.

Its been proven many times already, that most ANY of the 'old' vet dungeons can be done with NOTHING ELSE than light attacks from the dps, and 1 button each for healers and tanks(the tank uses his taunt only, healer uses 1 heal only)

So if 'that' can be done, I'm SURE your fine.

(Again we are talking 'getting the job done, and learning it' not running it in world record breaking speed with no flaws)

...I'm a female, not a "guy"...and please don't patronise me.

For everyone else, thanks for being encouraging

Yea some people don't get the fears about not being good enough and stuff like that, I totally get it I didn't even talk in guild chat when I first joined one few weeks ago lol. I've found my confidence bit by bit, with some guild runs once I started talking and pugging more and more normal dungeons. I feel tentatively ready for vets now! Still got performance anxiety though. What platform/server are you on Cazzy?

Cazzy

lokesgard wrote: »

Cazzy wrote: »

AtmaDarkwolf wrote: »

came in here thinking it was a story about someone not being taught how to run, impaitence, etc results in them being booted.

But after reading, and seeing the replies, its more than that I think. Its that you 'REFUSE' to learn (ASK FFS, JUST ASK if you do not know something) and are 'that guy' whos 'DPS' but only does light arrow attacks (And don't move, resulting in death, and ignores res's and waits for boss to die) or that tank who has 12k hp and thinks that because hes holding a shield mobs should just attack him without him doing a thing, or the healer that believes spamming sap essence is 'healing' (Yet hes off behind the boss)

Truth is, of the others I've read here, i would be utterly shocked to really see you get 'booted' or refused a run (In all but the WGT/ICP dungeons, MAYBE COA vet)because ANY of them can be carried by ONE DECENT guy(Of any of the 3 roles) with 3 'noobs'

so, sorry, your 'fears' are utterly unwarranted. U want to run a dungeon, and want to learn it, say so. At least then you can find a group BEFORE you get into a dungeon. LEarn about common sense things like food, potions, what 'mechanics' to watch for, etc.

Its been proven many times already, that most ANY of the 'old' vet dungeons can be done with NOTHING ELSE than light attacks from the dps, and 1 button each for healers and tanks(the tank uses his taunt only, healer uses 1 heal only)

So if 'that' can be done, I'm SURE your fine.

(Again we are talking 'getting the job done, and learning it' not running it in world record breaking speed with no flaws)

...I'm a female, not a "guy"...and please don't patronise me.

For everyone else, thanks for being encouraging

Yea some people don't get the fears about not being good enough and stuff like that, I totally get it I didn't even talk in guild chat when I first joined one couple weeks ago lol. I've found my confidence bit by bit, with some guild runs once I started talking and pugging more and more normal dungeons. I feel tentatively ready for vets now! Still got performance anxiety though. What platform/server are you on Cazzy?

PS4 EU (sometimes NA) I think text chat next month will help a lot, haha

lokesgard

Ah shame not Xbox eu, I'd happily do dungeons with you. Girls gotta stick together ey
And yea, text chat will hopefully be good! I'm just hoping people in pug groups will keep it on as they never use voice chat!

Animal_Mother

Van_0S wrote: »

You basically need good gear sets( crafted gear, all purple/gold) and you need to know your class.
Also, for veteran the minimum CP points you should have is 350.
Watch YouTube guide for veteran dungeons.

Van, I think this illustrates what Cazzy and others (including myself) are afraid of... at least in PVP no one cares about my gear or CP. I do understand the requirement for Vet dungeons, but you have to do normal first to gear up or get experience. Aside from the monster sets, isn't the best gear generally available through solo and pvp play?

Lieblingsjunge

Just let the group know that you haven't done it before - but that you want to learn and you will give it your best shot. And listen to'm and it should be fine. Ofc, you will have the "Elitists"(They're not even good PvE-players. The good pve players don't mind people with low cp..). But they're pretty damn rare.

I've done five PUG-runs of dungeons. And I kicked one person, once. Because the person did nothing but light attack and the occasional PI; and didn't take the Pinion on Planar inhib in vWGT. The guy didn't listen to us(we tried to explain itto him in french, english and german, still nothing..) So I ended up kicking him cus it wouldn't work. GOt a replacement that had around 350 CP. It was his first time in vWGT, but he listened! And he took the pinion too, so it was np finshing it

Just be honest with your group and you'll be fine!

Hallothiel

@Cazzy
Totally understand. Am nervous about this too. Have joined a couple of guilds recently but still kinda shy about voice chat so not said anything yet - and when have listened in they have been in the middle of something so don't want to interrupt. Will force myself to soon though!

The other issue I have is similar to others on here in that I play this for FUN & to escape so having to get stressed about my dps / cp / skills slotted /armour sets / watch youtube etc ruins it for me.

Play PSN EU too (name same as here) so if you ever want some one to attempt things with let me know. All I can promise is that I will my best, probably die a lot but have a laugh doing so...........

LadyNalcarya

Yes, people are more likely to tell about negative experiences here on forums. In reality, community in this game is pretty decent and there's many people who are willing to help.
Joining a guild can be beneficial, too.

P.S. Speaking of "they kicked me!" stories... Dont forget that we mostly hear these stories from the perspective of the person who has been kicked and is very angry about this. We dont know how much truth is in these stories. From my experience, very few people would kick someone just out of the blue, without any reasons.

RAGUNAnoOne

Well if you are still in TBP or MOM guilds just chime in guild chat when you are on NA the people there don't kick for inexperience only if you are being an ass which I doupt you will have to worry about. Ran vet daily yesterday with me being the only one that did the dungeon went pretty smooth.

MaddPowered

Don't be afraid. How else will you learn if you don't get your head in the game? We all had to start somewhere.

RAGUNAnoOne

Also if you are really shy about voice chat @Red_Psylocke is really good at getting groups together fast and is a very good and patient teacher perhaps you can send him a PSN message many first time dungeon runners in TBP often go to him.

Flak

Look for a nice guild and make some friends.

cyclonus11

ArchMikem

Cazzy wrote: »

I hear so many "horror stories" about people being kicked, nasty players etc. Plus I don't know how well I'd do in any dungeon. I think I'm probably comparatively bad. But I'm missing out

Depending on if you're a Magicka character or not, I'd recommend trying out a Normal Dungeon first as a makeshift Healer. My very first experience I was a Magicka Sorcerer with a Restoration Staff on my backbar. I knew I wouldn't be much use as a Damage Dealer so I queued as a Healer. Most people would probably have given me crap cause they expect a good Healer to be a Templar, but we just wen't right along into the Dungeon and I fared fairly well. Granted the others were Vet16 DPS characters and were pretty much carrying me from the start, but I wasn't a total loss to the group and we got through it in one go.

Just give it time, make a few leaps to test out what you feel you're best as in a Dungeon setting, be prepared for those frustrating Boss fights, make sure to have PLENTY of Soul Gems, and if you are in a Guild try to do Dungeons with them. They'll be more understanding than random players.

Elsonso

KenaPKK wrote: »

Know how to not get kicked? Say "hey guys I haven't done this before. Looks really fun though. Can you give me tips on how to do it better as we go along? Also I'm really nervous so please be nice. Thanks. "

And then do what they say.

This is actually an interesting point for me, and I forgot about it in my first comment.

One of the big problems that I see with ESO, and with a lot of MMO games, is that a lot depends on coordination and sharing information within the group, but the game is not really designed to do that well.

This is one place where consoles have it better, but on PC/Mac, it is text chat unless an agreed upon voice chat can be established. It is too much of a pain to have to type out instructions or questions, and in the heat of combat, the last place I am expecting to be spending my time is reading chat messages.

Do the ESO PUGs use voice chat or is it all just text chat or quiet fuming when someone isn't doing what they should be doing? If they use voice chat, how does that get established and usable with the group? Does everyone just assume that the mechanics are well understood by everyone (like WoW) such that the need to communicate is not that common?

Van_0S

lokesgard wrote: »

Cazzy wrote: »

AtmaDarkwolf wrote: »

came in here thinking it was a story about someone not being taught how to run, impaitence, etc results in them being booted.

But after reading, and seeing the replies, its more than that I think. Its that you 'REFUSE' to learn (ASK FFS, JUST ASK if you do not know something) and are 'that guy' whos 'DPS' but only does light arrow attacks (And don't move, resulting in death, and ignores res's and waits for boss to die) or that tank who has 12k hp and thinks that because hes holding a shield mobs should just attack him without him doing a thing, or the healer that believes spamming sap essence is 'healing' (Yet hes off behind the boss)

Truth is, of the others I've read here, i would be utterly shocked to really see you get 'booted' or refused a run (In all but the WGT/ICP dungeons, MAYBE COA vet)because ANY of them can be carried by ONE DECENT guy(Of any of the 3 roles) with 3 'noobs'

so, sorry, your 'fears' are utterly unwarranted. U want to run a dungeon, and want to learn it, say so. At least then you can find a group BEFORE you get into a dungeon. LEarn about common sense things like food, potions, what 'mechanics' to watch for, etc.

Its been proven many times already, that most ANY of the 'old' vet dungeons can be done with NOTHING ELSE than light attacks from the dps, and 1 button each for healers and tanks(the tank uses his taunt only, healer uses 1 heal only)

So if 'that' can be done, I'm SURE your fine.

(Again we are talking 'getting the job done, and learning it' not running it in world record breaking speed with no flaws)

...I'm a female, not a "guy"...and please don't patronise me.

For everyone else, thanks for being encouraging

Yea some people don't get the fears about not being good enough and stuff like that, I totally get it I didn't even talk in guild chat when I first joined one few weeks ago lol. I've found my confidence bit by bit, with some guild runs once I started talking and pugging more and more normal dungeons. I feel tentatively ready for vets now! Still got performance anxiety though. What platform/server are you on Cazzy?

Funny thing! For me I had no help from my guilds or friends at that time.
I used to make mistakes and get kicks/hate tells from my group members. So, what I do is take all my fusration out on PvP and show no mercy to my enemies.( Although, I have experienced more hate tells and kicks from cyrodiil than in dungeons)
Eventually, I started to understand the mechanics of this game and my class.

The trick is to know your class and the mechanics in this game, the rest is by watching YouTube guide.( the best YouTube PvE dungeon streamer is deltia's gaming, he also gives good tips about class, race and animation canceling but his PvP is average.).

starkerealm

Cazzy wrote: »

I hear so many "horror stories" about people being kicked, nasty players etc. Plus I don't know how well I'd do in any dungeon. I think I'm probably comparatively bad. But I'm missing out

Just remember, 90% of the horror stories come from PUGs. Play with your friends, if you don't have friends, make some, then play with them.

I've got thousands of dungeon runs under my belt across a half dozen or so MMOs. I have about 5 horror stories that don't involve PUGs.

MornaBaine

Join an active, laid back PvE guild. Most of them are happy to teach players the ropes and do dungeon runs with them.

Van_0S

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