Hello 😊
As the title says …Im seriously not very good at this social thing.
Help please.
Hello 😊
As the title says …Im seriously not very good at this social thing.
Help please.
Hi, are you on PC or PS4/Xbox? It’s ok to say hi when you see the dude online, perhaps chat on game stuff is ok. Don’t ask personal questions like hobbies or favourite food though, that raises my red flag…
Hello 😊
As the title says …Im seriously not very good at this social thing.
Help please.
Hi, are you on PC or PS4/Xbox? It’s ok to say hi when you see the dude online, perhaps chat on game stuff is ok. Don’t ask personal questions like hobbies or favourite food though, that raises my red flag…
Hello 😊
As the title says …Im seriously not very good at this social thing.
Help please.
Hi, are you on PC or PS4/Xbox? It’s ok to say hi when you see the dude online, perhaps chat on game stuff is ok. Don’t ask personal questions like hobbies or favourite food though, that raises my red flag…
Lady_Galadhiel wrote: »Hello 😊
As the title says …Im seriously not very good at this social thing.
Help please.
Hi, are you on PC or PS4/Xbox? It’s ok to say hi when you see the dude online, perhaps chat on game stuff is ok. Don’t ask personal questions like hobbies or favourite food though, that raises my red flag…
I don't mind when people ask me for my favourite food tho,more awkward I find when guys send me randomly gold or gifts when they found out I am a woman.
To OP's question: well most people keep each other in friendlist,and if you play sometimes together like doing wb's,dungeons or delves you will automatically talk more with the person and who knows you may instead of playing solo more likely play with your friend more often.
tsaescishoeshiner wrote: »It's so hard to try and analyze what makes that "spark" that ignites friendships. One thing that holds friendships together is doing an activity. Asking someone what they like to do in-game is a pretty solid start. If you're more of a quester, maybe that won't be a group activity. But doing world bosses and sharing daily quests is good.
Also, you can ask if they're in a guild and join it with them. Guilds are kinda great for social anxiety because they don't actually require you to be social lol. You can kinda lurk and watch other people interact, but decide when you wanna join in on activities and guild events. It also just gives you passive connection to a lot of people, and increases the chance of finding that "spark" with potential friends. Most of the people I play with regularly are guildmates of friends.
I also have social anxiety and can be very avoidant and feel awkward, but guilds helped me make connections. It also is a place where other people will ask if anyone wants to do a world boss or a dungeon or some housing, so it's like a place where OTHER people do all the initiating! And they initiate without focusing on YOU personally! So it's kind of anonymous that way lol. Easy to hide when you want, and pick when you're noticed.
That's been my experience, anyway, and that of some of my friends with social anxiety.
My concern now is how do I keep this friendship? Im sociably awkward and I struggle with over thinking. I have social anxiety and i'm not sure of the online friendship code or ettiquete.
Is it okay to say hello every day i see them online ? They enjoy doing group activities so is it okay for me to initiate an invite to group?
One thing I would recommend is not contacting them right after the daily reset, a lot of players like to get their daily writs out of the way usually takes around an hour at most assuming they have 18 characters.
I always end up switching to offline mode while I am doing them because people in my friends list kept asking me to help them out with stuff during that time of the day. Got no problem giving someone a hand but prefer to get what I feel I need to do everyday out of the way first.
Hello 😊
As the title says, I made a friend while playing solo. I was feeling lonely but busy so I had enough to do to not focus on my loneliness and surely enough i met a nice dude. We were killing overland bosses and we grouped up then we added each other.
My concern now is how do I keep this friendship? Im sociably awkward and I struggle with over thinking. I have social anxiety and i'm not sure of the online friendship code or ettiquete.
Is it okay to say hello every day i see them online ? They enjoy doing group activities so is it okay for me to initiate an invite to group? How do i know how much space to give them? Im seriously not very good at this social thing.
Help please.
Hello 😊
-SNIP- Im sociably awkward and I struggle with over thinking. I have social anxiety and i'm not sure of the online friendship code or ettiquete.
-SNIP- Im seriously not very good at this social thing.
Help please.