WhereArtThouVampires wrote: ».WhereArtThouVampires wrote: »WhereArtThouVampires wrote: »WhereArtThouVampires wrote: »I suppose that's my final stance on it. Legit just make it to where if you ignore a player then all their emotes are disabled on your screen.
So five pages in your final position is that you agree with the OP who suggested:IntenseRenegader wrote: »Please allow us to disable the visual effect of mudballs (in settings) so it can ruin this type of behaviour.
that's cool; just recognizing that the OP was absolutely ridiculed for taking the position you are now trying to gracefully bow out with
Nope, I don't agree with adding a settings option for it.
I agree with making it to where if you ignore a player then you can't see their emotes. Too very different things.
If you're going to call me out as im gracefully trying to leave like a swan into the sunset, at least do it right, my man.
am not a man, and will ask politely that you never misgender me on the forums again
you responded directly to a post from the OP stating:IntenseRenegader wrote: »its not really important what you do, but please change it. Its not fun getting harrassed by mudballs, knowing you cant do anything to stop it.
but instead of agreeing with this point that you apparently now whole-heartedly support, you replied to the OP's message saying that it was their own fault for being harassed
fully recognize that you are desperate on your way out to look like you proved a point in this thread tho, so you will likely have some other excuse about how what you are asking for is different from what OP asked for and how OP is thin skinned and your are noble and helpful
Ah, I see we've hit the territory where I'm supposed to be able to tell your gender through a name and a random profile pic.
Incorrect, we have hit the territory where you have now been politely informed of my gender and future efforts to misgender me are a form of harassmentWhereArtThouVampires wrote: »That's a big yikes from me, man.
Like this one
note that you have made this statement not based on my name and random profile pic, but instead in response to being directly told that I am not a manWhereArtThouVampires wrote: »Unfortunately for you, I call everyone man when I say "my man" or "what's up man." Saying "my woman" doesn't have a nice ring to it. So, you'll have to bear with me on that part. I also hate to inform you that "man" is a part of "woman." Thus why I also use it in a gender neutral context online like that.
That is not unfortunate for me -- you use gendered speech and after being politely asked not to do so you instead made the decision to try and justify intentionally harassing me with gendered speech
it may have been gender neutral context the first time, but the second time it was a decision on your part to engage in hurtful behaviour that you were asked not toWhereArtThouVampires wrote: »I will instead fully recognize that we were never going to be getting anywhere in this conversation if these are your expectations from picture-less fictional name forum interactions.
Now, I shall politely scoot on off.
And again you try to strawman a position to scoot off to -- my expectations are not somehow for you to go back and fix your error in your speech, my expectations were that you would do the bare minimum and respect my wishes when directly asked
instead you made a point of trying to use it as a tool against me in a thread where you have been getting upset that people may be punished for that exact sort of behaviour
personally realized this about you from the start, but it is nice to bring it out for people to read
I am very happy we were able to learn so much about each other during this thread.
We should absolutely do it again sometime.
WhereArtThouVampires wrote: ».WhereArtThouVampires wrote: »WhereArtThouVampires wrote: »WhereArtThouVampires wrote: »I suppose that's my final stance on it. Legit just make it to where if you ignore a player then all their emotes are disabled on your screen.
So five pages in your final position is that you agree with the OP who suggested:IntenseRenegader wrote: »Please allow us to disable the visual effect of mudballs (in settings) so it can ruin this type of behaviour.
that's cool; just recognizing that the OP was absolutely ridiculed for taking the position you are now trying to gracefully bow out with
Nope, I don't agree with adding a settings option for it.
I agree with making it to where if you ignore a player then you can't see their emotes. Too very different things.
If you're going to call me out as im gracefully trying to leave like a swan into the sunset, at least do it right, my man.
am not a man, and will ask politely that you never misgender me on the forums again
you responded directly to a post from the OP stating:IntenseRenegader wrote: »its not really important what you do, but please change it. Its not fun getting harrassed by mudballs, knowing you cant do anything to stop it.
but instead of agreeing with this point that you apparently now whole-heartedly support, you replied to the OP's message saying that it was their own fault for being harassed
fully recognize that you are desperate on your way out to look like you proved a point in this thread tho, so you will likely have some other excuse about how what you are asking for is different from what OP asked for and how OP is thin skinned and your are noble and helpful
Ah, I see we've hit the territory where I'm supposed to be able to tell your gender through a name and a random profile pic.
Incorrect, we have hit the territory where you have now been politely informed of my gender and future efforts to misgender me are a form of harassmentWhereArtThouVampires wrote: »That's a big yikes from me, man.
Like this one
note that you have made this statement not based on my name and random profile pic, but instead in response to being directly told that I am not a manWhereArtThouVampires wrote: »Unfortunately for you, I call everyone man when I say "my man" or "what's up man." Saying "my woman" doesn't have a nice ring to it. So, you'll have to bear with me on that part. I also hate to inform you that "man" is a part of "woman." Thus why I also use it in a gender neutral context online like that.
That is not unfortunate for me -- you use gendered speech and after being politely asked not to do so you instead made the decision to try and justify intentionally harassing me with gendered speech
it may have been gender neutral context the first time, but the second time it was a decision on your part to engage in hurtful behaviour that you were asked not toWhereArtThouVampires wrote: »I will instead fully recognize that we were never going to be getting anywhere in this conversation if these are your expectations from picture-less fictional name forum interactions.
Now, I shall politely scoot on off.
And again you try to strawman a position to scoot off to -- my expectations are not somehow for you to go back and fix your error in your speech, my expectations were that you would do the bare minimum and respect my wishes when directly asked
instead you made a point of trying to use it as a tool against me in a thread where you have been getting upset that people may be punished for that exact sort of behaviour
personally realized this about you from the start, but it is nice to bring it out for people to read
I am very happy we were able to learn so much about each other during this thread.
We should absolutely do it again sometime.
Grandesdar wrote: »I was hoping for a troll post, but it's serious. I don't see how mudball can make someone feel harassed or how it is possible to stay side by side so long with a stranger in an area (doing crafts maybe?) And neither goes to another location. Most of the times I don't even notice the mud if I'm not up close and screenshoting my char. It just felt a bit exaggerated I don't know.
WhereArtThouVampires wrote: »WhereArtThouVampires wrote: ».WhereArtThouVampires wrote: »WhereArtThouVampires wrote: »WhereArtThouVampires wrote: »I suppose that's my final stance on it. Legit just make it to where if you ignore a player then all their emotes are disabled on your screen.
So five pages in your final position is that you agree with the OP who suggested:IntenseRenegader wrote: »Please allow us to disable the visual effect of mudballs (in settings) so it can ruin this type of behaviour.
that's cool; just recognizing that the OP was absolutely ridiculed for taking the position you are now trying to gracefully bow out with
Nope, I don't agree with adding a settings option for it.
I agree with making it to where if you ignore a player then you can't see their emotes. Too very different things.
If you're going to call me out as im gracefully trying to leave like a swan into the sunset, at least do it right, my man.
am not a man, and will ask politely that you never misgender me on the forums again
you responded directly to a post from the OP stating:IntenseRenegader wrote: »its not really important what you do, but please change it. Its not fun getting harrassed by mudballs, knowing you cant do anything to stop it.
but instead of agreeing with this point that you apparently now whole-heartedly support, you replied to the OP's message saying that it was their own fault for being harassed
fully recognize that you are desperate on your way out to look like you proved a point in this thread tho, so you will likely have some other excuse about how what you are asking for is different from what OP asked for and how OP is thin skinned and your are noble and helpful
Ah, I see we've hit the territory where I'm supposed to be able to tell your gender through a name and a random profile pic.
Incorrect, we have hit the territory where you have now been politely informed of my gender and future efforts to misgender me are a form of harassmentWhereArtThouVampires wrote: »That's a big yikes from me, man.
Like this one
note that you have made this statement not based on my name and random profile pic, but instead in response to being directly told that I am not a manWhereArtThouVampires wrote: »Unfortunately for you, I call everyone man when I say "my man" or "what's up man." Saying "my woman" doesn't have a nice ring to it. So, you'll have to bear with me on that part. I also hate to inform you that "man" is a part of "woman." Thus why I also use it in a gender neutral context online like that.
That is not unfortunate for me -- you use gendered speech and after being politely asked not to do so you instead made the decision to try and justify intentionally harassing me with gendered speech
it may have been gender neutral context the first time, but the second time it was a decision on your part to engage in hurtful behaviour that you were asked not toWhereArtThouVampires wrote: »I will instead fully recognize that we were never going to be getting anywhere in this conversation if these are your expectations from picture-less fictional name forum interactions.
Now, I shall politely scoot on off.
And again you try to strawman a position to scoot off to -- my expectations are not somehow for you to go back and fix your error in your speech, my expectations were that you would do the bare minimum and respect my wishes when directly asked
instead you made a point of trying to use it as a tool against me in a thread where you have been getting upset that people may be punished for that exact sort of behaviour
personally realized this about you from the start, but it is nice to bring it out for people to read
I am very happy we were able to learn so much about each other during this thread.
We should absolutely do it again sometime.
I hope you have a rad day, my w0m0n. Now for real, I gotta go pass out. Stay fresh and vibing out there
Can't believe a mod hasn't descended on this thread yet.
For me, the same rules apply IRL and IG, if someone is getting upset by what you're doing, then stop. Why would you want to continue if you're agitating someone? What's the gain? You're sat with your controller / keyboard in-hand and have somehow imposed your need to be miserable on someone else?
I find it really weird that people get their kicks out of this.
ZaroktheImmortal wrote: »SammyKhajit wrote: »You’d think the mods be here soon to stop the trolling against the OP....
Disagreeing with them is trolling? I'm not sure who is trolling I just noticed posts of people who didn't agree with the OP.
This is a huge issue not only in ESO forums but in zone chat as well. People are branded trolls because they don't agree or have a difference of opinion from someone else in game. Not saying there are not genuine trolls but the word gets thrown around so much it has lost it's meaning. Just like the words Nazis and Racist have lost theirs.
VaranisArano wrote: »ZOS doesn't support harassment via mudballs. In response to someone threatening to mud ball others, ZOS said:ZOS_DaryaK wrote: »Ahnastashia wrote: »I've seen a few in game as well, but not as many as I had expected to see (prior to knowing the outrageous overprice of them). I recently got the mud ball memento... muahahhahah mud balls for every elk rider I can catch!!!! Mud balls of my discontent.. and ridicule..
While we assume you're kidding, we want to make it clear that though we understand your feelings regarding the cost of the elk mount, taking it out on other players is not acceptable. This can be considered griefing which can lead to disciplinary action against your game account.
This one is more anecdotal, but here's a reddit post where someone got a warning for repeated mudding: https://amp.reddit.com/r/elderscrollsonline/comments/5ix8f0/psa_mud_balls_can_be_considered_harassment/
In addition, this seems to meet Gina's criteria for harassment via teabagging:
And
"As with many things in-game, context is very important. The act of standing and squatting over another NPC or character to teabag them can be considered a form of harassment which can be a violation of the Terms of Service (ToS). As with all forms of harassment, if a player asks you to stop a behavior, you need to stop. If you continue to teabag someone that asks you to stop, that is a violation of the ToS and may lead to your account being suspended or even permanently banned. Hope this helps clear things up"
Source: https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/546727/was-it-ever-confirmed-if-tea-bagging-is-against-tos-now/p1
So all of you whining that the OP shouldn't have reported that mudballer ought to review the bit about "As with all forms of harassment, if a player asks you to stop a behavior, you need to stop."
Maybe you should quit defending a textbook example of harassment in violation of the TOS, and remind yourselves that if someone asks you to stop bothering them, you stop.
KalyanLazair wrote: »I'm pretty much middle ground in this issue, which I know will imply I'm going to get pelted from both sides.,
Rogue_Wolf wrote: »VaranisArano wrote: »ZOS doesn't support harassment via mudballs. In response to someone threatening to mud ball others, ZOS said:ZOS_DaryaK wrote: »Ahnastashia wrote: »I've seen a few in game as well, but not as many as I had expected to see (prior to knowing the outrageous overprice of them). I recently got the mud ball memento... muahahhahah mud balls for every elk rider I can catch!!!! Mud balls of my discontent.. and ridicule..
While we assume you're kidding, we want to make it clear that though we understand your feelings regarding the cost of the elk mount, taking it out on other players is not acceptable. This can be considered griefing which can lead to disciplinary action against your game account.
This one is more anecdotal, but here's a reddit post where someone got a warning for repeated mudding: https://amp.reddit.com/r/elderscrollsonline/comments/5ix8f0/psa_mud_balls_can_be_considered_harassment/
In addition, this seems to meet Gina's criteria for harassment via teabagging:
And
"As with many things in-game, context is very important. The act of standing and squatting over another NPC or character to teabag them can be considered a form of harassment which can be a violation of the Terms of Service (ToS). As with all forms of harassment, if a player asks you to stop a behavior, you need to stop. If you continue to teabag someone that asks you to stop, that is a violation of the ToS and may lead to your account being suspended or even permanently banned. Hope this helps clear things up"
Source: https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/546727/was-it-ever-confirmed-if-tea-bagging-is-against-tos-now/p1
So all of you whining that the OP shouldn't have reported that mudballer ought to review the bit about "As with all forms of harassment, if a player asks you to stop a behavior, you need to stop."
Maybe you should quit defending a textbook example of harassment in violation of the TOS, and remind yourselves that if someone asks you to stop bothering them, you stop.
Teabagging is not a crime. This is a fake digital world.
Are we not all supposed to be mature enough to handle this game? Perhaps if a player can't handle someone teabagging their dead body mmo or combat games in general isn't for them?
KalyanLazair wrote: »I'm pretty much middle ground in this issue, which I know will imply I'm going to get pelted from both sides.,
I am inclined to agree with much of your post, As far as people's motives I believe there are people who for whatever reason enjoy harassing others. Whatever motivated them it makes you wonder what caused the pleasure they get from making others feel distressed. I had a recent issue at a quest giver, I like to read the quest as it's being voice acted sometimes I stop for a short rest break while doing so. I come back and see myself being pelted by arrows the quest giver is no where near a monster. I look closely and someone is standing directly behind me. So I step out of the way the mob continues pelting arrows at the real target the person standing directly behind me. So they move back directly behind me I step away again and rinse and repeat. So now I'm not feeling very nice at all so I kill the mob and throw down an area effect spell because I realize this person was trying to get me killed not to mention cause my armor to degrade.
I kept throwing spells at this person and I don't duel but if they had challenged me I might have taken them up on it. I was minding my own business and that is what I usually do. But I thought how cheesy can someone be to pve harress someone. I didn't speak to the person at all.
starkerealm wrote: »People can receive warnings or temporary suspensions over it without resorting to full on banning.
Absolutely not. Do people even understand what they are asking for here?