SeaGtGruff wrote: »But there is a difference between being intentionally insulted by someone and just having your feelings hurt because someone happens to disagree with you.
Except that if the person who happens to disagree with you gets their friends to forward insults to you because you have the person blocked, that's more than just disagreeing with you, it's gone to the level of harassment.
mustangmorgan31 wrote: »
Who cares what anyone says in a forum post? So yeah ignore it. Are they going to climb into their computer and portal to yours and climb out and punch you? Most of these people are just keyboard warriors.
I’m 40 years old and have been online since there has been an online to be on.
Never once have I ever seen a system where once you blocked someone they couldn’t see what you wrote/posted in any game or forum.
Now, I grew up old school and have never had the need or want to block anyone, because imo lol.
But I’ve never seen this to be the case. I’ve seen people who blocked people still be able to read that persons posts if they are quoted by another though.
I agree with most op, if you genuinely feel you are being harassed then report the person.
In this day and age Zos will HAVE TO do something because it’s the age of snowflakes and god forbid one melts.
While there are times when one can ignore someone physically and not let it bother you, the system at it's core isn't the most efficient. When I found out that I could STILL BE GROUPED with someone I've ignored (back with Morrowind's release), I stopped doing a lot of group finder content because of it. I'm not sure if this is still the case and I really hope that this isn't still the case.
HalvarIronfist wrote: »This is probably the only game I have ever seen that when you block someone, even on the forums too, they still see what you write, and so they can just have their friends copy and paste insults and send them to you, and then when your block list is full you are SoL, why can it not be like every other game where if you block someone they cant see what you say, and vice versa?
I'm not sure if this is an applicable concept; but sometimes the answer to these sort of problems is just:
Seems to work for me, have never blocked a soul in ESO or the forums.
Unfortunately, you'll NEVER stop people from being rude, trolls, or so forth; it's just a part of life we all have to deal with. That isn't condoning the behavior, but it's merely the reality of the situation.
Spaceroamer wrote: »SeaGtGruff wrote: »But there is a difference between being intentionally insulted by someone and just having your feelings hurt because someone happens to disagree with you.
Except that if the person who happens to disagree with you gets their friends to forward insults to you because you have the person blocked, that's more than just disagreeing with you, it's gone to the level of harassment.
Then /ignore their friends? It’s not hard. There’s not 50+ people messaging you.
Just continue talking in chat (without insulting or baiting them). They’ll keep trying to message you, and then just keep ignoring them. Maybe even turn of whispers for awhile.
I 98% guarantee you that they’ll stop. If they start again tomorrow and the day after that, report them.
Eventually, they’ll calm down or move on to whatever they were doing before.
HalvarIronfist wrote: »This is probably the only game I have ever seen that when you block someone, even on the forums too, they still see what you write, and so they can just have their friends copy and paste insults and send them to you, and then when your block list is full you are SoL, why can it not be like every other game where if you block someone they cant see what you say, and vice versa?
I'm not sure if this is an applicable concept; but sometimes the answer to these sort of problems is just:
Seems to work for me, have never blocked a soul in ESO or the forums.
Unfortunately, you'll NEVER stop people from being rude, trolls, or so forth; it's just a part of life we all have to deal with. That isn't condoning the behavior, but it's merely the reality of the situation.
There is a difference between being rude and harassment.
HalvarIronfist wrote: »This is probably the only game I have ever seen that when you block someone, even on the forums too, they still see what you write, and so they can just have their friends copy and paste insults and send them to you, and then when your block list is full you are SoL, why can it not be like every other game where if you block someone they cant see what you say, and vice versa?
I'm not sure if this is an applicable concept; but sometimes the answer to these sort of problems is just:
Seems to work for me, have never blocked a soul in ESO or the forums.
Unfortunately, you'll NEVER stop people from being rude, trolls, or so forth; it's just a part of life we all have to deal with. That isn't condoning the behavior, but it's merely the reality of the situation.
It's actually the best solution. It works 100% of the time. Unless that person escalates the harassment to your real life.But just for the internet, as soon as I stop taking any notice of them and not caring about them one way or another, the problem is gone.
Getting angry and making threads like this probably just make your tormentor happy.
Bringing attention to harassment is what needs to be done, ignoring it and saying whatever is not because it will effect someone else eventually or often.
Rave the Histborn wrote: »
It's actually the best solution. It works 100% of the time. Unless that person escalates the harassment to your real life.But just for the internet, as soon as I stop taking any notice of them and not caring about them one way or another, the problem is gone.
Getting angry and making threads like this probably just make your tormentor happy.
Bringing attention to harassment is what needs to be done, ignoring it and saying whatever is not because it will effect someone else eventually or often.
Why? It seems more like bringing attention to harassment instead just brings more harrassment
While there are times when one can ignore someone physically and not let it bother you, the system at it's core isn't the most efficient. When I found out that I could STILL BE GROUPED with someone I've ignored (back with Morrowind's release), I stopped doing a lot of group finder content because of it. I'm not sure if this is still the case and I really hope that this isn't still the case.
This is exactly the case still. Ive gotten in groups with them , been stuck in bgs with them over and over, etc.
While there are times when one can ignore someone physically and not let it bother you, the system at it's core isn't the most efficient. When I found out that I could STILL BE GROUPED with someone I've ignored (back with Morrowind's release), I stopped doing a lot of group finder content because of it. I'm not sure if this is still the case and I really hope that this isn't still the case.
This is exactly the case still. Ive gotten in groups with them , been stuck in bgs with them over and over, etc.
You can be grouped with people on your Ignore list, but as of 5.2.5 (Dragonhold), you should not see what they are saying in group chat. If you can, please report it as a bug. You ignored them for a reason; group chat should not be an exception, according to ZOS.
KillsAllElves wrote: »SeaGtGruff wrote: »But there is a difference between being intentionally insulted by someone and just having your feelings hurt because someone happens to disagree with you.
Except that if the person who happens to disagree with you gets their friends to forward insults to you because you have the person blocked, that's more than just disagreeing with you, it's gone to the level of harassment.
thats actually exactly what im talking about.KillsAllElves wrote: »xenowarrior92eb17_ESO wrote: »no offense OP but you coming on forums and make a fuss about it...well u just put a red target on u for the forum trolls and harassers...sooo yeah at this point u just need to learn to let it go...Remember what Olms always said: There is no Justice here.
The OPr has been on here since dec 2019 and less than 2 months he managed to make almost 1K comments by december 2020 he will have 10k comments.
All he does is complain about sorcerer and thinks every comment he reads are insults. No wonder why so many forum users have him blocked.
First off its she,seriously just digging the hole deeper and deeper.
Every time i see you on the forum youre complaining, and or youre looking to feel offended. You made one thousand comments in less than 8 weeks! Get off the forum and play your video games.
Delparis is that you?
There tends to be lots of loading screens in cyro. Lets also do some math here.
Beginning december I joined, I post about, 15 posts a day, now what is 15x70 days. Ill wait.
And I thought you had me blocked? =D. And yeah, more victim blaming. Classy. You also seem to have a strange obsession with me hounding -every- post I make, and passive aggressively attacking me, which also is harassment.
Rave the Histborn wrote: »KillsAllElves wrote: »SeaGtGruff wrote: »But there is a difference between being intentionally insulted by someone and just having your feelings hurt because someone happens to disagree with you.
Except that if the person who happens to disagree with you gets their friends to forward insults to you because you have the person blocked, that's more than just disagreeing with you, it's gone to the level of harassment.
thats actually exactly what im talking about.KillsAllElves wrote: »xenowarrior92eb17_ESO wrote: »no offense OP but you coming on forums and make a fuss about it...well u just put a red target on u for the forum trolls and harassers...sooo yeah at this point u just need to learn to let it go...Remember what Olms always said: There is no Justice here.
The OPr has been on here since dec 2019 and less than 2 months he managed to make almost 1K comments by december 2020 he will have 10k comments.
All he does is complain about sorcerer and thinks every comment he reads are insults. No wonder why so many forum users have him blocked.
First off its she,seriously just digging the hole deeper and deeper.
Every time i see you on the forum youre complaining, and or youre looking to feel offended. You made one thousand comments in less than 8 weeks! Get off the forum and play your video games.
Delparis is that you?
There tends to be lots of loading screens in cyro. Lets also do some math here.
Beginning december I joined, I post about, 15 posts a day, now what is 15x70 days. Ill wait.
And I thought you had me blocked? =D. And yeah, more victim blaming. Classy. You also seem to have a strange obsession with me hounding -every- post I make, and passive aggressively attacking me, which also is harassment.
You're not the victim if you're antagonizing people
Rave the Histborn wrote: »
It's actually the best solution. It works 100% of the time. Unless that person escalates the harassment to your real life.But just for the internet, as soon as I stop taking any notice of them and not caring about them one way or another, the problem is gone.
Getting angry and making threads like this probably just make your tormentor happy.
Bringing attention to harassment is what needs to be done, ignoring it and saying whatever is not because it will effect someone else eventually or often.
Why? It seems more like bringing attention to harassment instead just brings more harrassment
So dont do anything because the harassers do more harassing? O.o
Rave the Histborn wrote: »Rave the Histborn wrote: »
It's actually the best solution. It works 100% of the time. Unless that person escalates the harassment to your real life.But just for the internet, as soon as I stop taking any notice of them and not caring about them one way or another, the problem is gone.
Getting angry and making threads like this probably just make your tormentor happy.
Bringing attention to harassment is what needs to be done, ignoring it and saying whatever is not because it will effect someone else eventually or often.
Why? It seems more like bringing attention to harassment instead just brings more harrassment
So dont do anything because the harassers do more harassing? O.o
It's called the Streisand effect and yes basically, you ignore them.
You dont ask bullies to stop bullying you because if they know it gets to you they're going to do it more. The same logic applies to this
HalvarIronfist wrote: »This is probably the only game I have ever seen that when you block someone, even on the forums too, they still see what you write, and so they can just have their friends copy and paste insults and send them to you, and then when your block list is full you are SoL, why can it not be like every other game where if you block someone they cant see what you say, and vice versa?
I'm not sure if this is an applicable concept; but sometimes the answer to these sort of problems is just:
Seems to work for me, have never blocked a soul in ESO or the forums.
Unfortunately, you'll NEVER stop people from being rude, trolls, or so forth; it's just a part of life we all have to deal with. That isn't condoning the behavior, but it's merely the reality of the situation.
There is a difference between being rude and harassment.
HalvarIronfist wrote: »This is probably the only game I have ever seen that when you block someone, even on the forums too, they still see what you write, and so they can just have their friends copy and paste insults and send them to you, and then when your block list is full you are SoL, why can it not be like every other game where if you block someone they cant see what you say, and vice versa?
I'm not sure if this is an applicable concept; but sometimes the answer to these sort of problems is just:
Seems to work for me, have never blocked a soul in ESO or the forums.
Unfortunately, you'll NEVER stop people from being rude, trolls, or so forth; it's just a part of life we all have to deal with. That isn't condoning the behavior, but it's merely the reality of the situation.
There is a difference between being rude and harassment.
If they are truly harassing you then report them to Zos. Provide SS and whatever else you have to support the claim. Zos is going to kick them where it hurts.
If it was two people who kept on replying to each other with rhetoric and ratcheting up the heat to the point one could not longer handle it then Zos will probably let them duke it out. I doubt Zos will make it so when we put someone on ignore they will never see what we type as that is pretty much not common in MMORPGs that I have seen, though I will admit I rarely have needed to use the ignore feature in an MMORPG.
KillsAllElves wrote: »KillsAllElves wrote: »SeaGtGruff wrote: »But there is a difference between being intentionally insulted by someone and just having your feelings hurt because someone happens to disagree with you.
Except that if the person who happens to disagree with you gets their friends to forward insults to you because you have the person blocked, that's more than just disagreeing with you, it's gone to the level of harassment.
thats actually exactly what im talking about.KillsAllElves wrote: »xenowarrior92eb17_ESO wrote: »no offense OP but you coming on forums and make a fuss about it...well u just put a red target on u for the forum trolls and harassers...sooo yeah at this point u just need to learn to let it go...Remember what Olms always said: There is no Justice here.
The OPr has been on here since dec 2019 and less than 2 months he managed to make almost 1K comments by december 2020 he will have 10k comments.
All he does is complain about sorcerer and thinks every comment he reads are insults. No wonder why so many forum users have him blocked.
First off its she,seriously just digging the hole deeper and deeper.
Every time i see you on the forum youre complaining, and or youre looking to feel offended. You made one thousand comments in less than 8 weeks! Get off the forum and play your video games.
Delparis is that you?
There tends to be lots of loading screens in cyro. Lets also do some math here.
Beginning december I joined, I post about, 15 posts a day, now what is 15x70 days. Ill wait.
And I thought you had me blocked? =D. And yeah, more victim blaming. Classy. You also seem to have a strange obsession with me hounding -every- post I make, and passive aggressively attacking me, which also is harassment.
No one is a victim here SMH
no one is harassing you, youre just easily triggered because no one is giving you the sympathy youre craving.
Oh and nice try on the load screens comment nice try
You come into every thread I post in, attack me personally directly, or passive aggressively, that is harassment. Peace.
If that's harassment for you then it's no wonder you seem to think everyone is out to get you (hint: they're not).
HalvarIronfist wrote: »This is probably the only game I have ever seen that when you block someone, even on the forums too, they still see what you write, and so they can just have their friends copy and paste insults and send them to you, and then when your block list is full you are SoL, why can it not be like every other game where if you block someone they cant see what you say, and vice versa?
I'm not sure if this is an applicable concept; but sometimes the answer to these sort of problems is just:
Seems to work for me, have never blocked a soul in ESO or the forums.
Unfortunately, you'll NEVER stop people from being rude, trolls, or so forth; it's just a part of life we all have to deal with. That isn't condoning the behavior, but it's merely the reality of the situation.
There is a difference between being rude and harassment.
If they are truly harassing you then report them to Zos. Provide SS and whatever else you have to support the claim. Zos is going to kick them where it hurts.
If it was two people who kept on replying to each other with rhetoric and ratcheting up the heat to the point one could not longer handle it then Zos will probably let them duke it out. I doubt Zos will make it so when we put someone on ignore they will never see what we type as that is pretty much not common in MMORPGs that I have seen, though I will admit I rarely have needed to use the ignore feature in an MMORPG.
Only other mmo I played was swtor and in the you block someone, they can't see anything you say. Prevented a lot of trolling cuz eventually they could t talk or play with anyone
HalvarIronfist wrote: »This is probably the only game I have ever seen that when you block someone, even on the forums too, they still see what you write, and so they can just have their friends copy and paste insults and send them to you, and then when your block list is full you are SoL, why can it not be like every other game where if you block someone they cant see what you say, and vice versa?
I'm not sure if this is an applicable concept; but sometimes the answer to these sort of problems is just:
Seems to work for me, have never blocked a soul in ESO or the forums.
Unfortunately, you'll NEVER stop people from being rude, trolls, or so forth; it's just a part of life we all have to deal with. That isn't condoning the behavior, but it's merely the reality of the situation.
There is a difference between being rude and harassment.
If they are truly harassing you then report them to Zos. Provide SS and whatever else you have to support the claim. Zos is going to kick them where it hurts.
If it was two people who kept on replying to each other with rhetoric and ratcheting up the heat to the point one could not longer handle it then Zos will probably let them duke it out. I doubt Zos will make it so when we put someone on ignore they will never see what we type as that is pretty much not common in MMORPGs that I have seen, though I will admit I rarely have needed to use the ignore feature in an MMORPG.
Only other mmo I played was swtor and in the you block someone, they can't see anything you say. Prevented a lot of trolling cuz eventually they could t talk or play with anyone
No, that's not how the ignore function in Swtor (or any other game for that matter) works. If you block them they still can see everything you write.
Rave the Histborn wrote: »Rave the Histborn wrote: »
It's actually the best solution. It works 100% of the time. Unless that person escalates the harassment to your real life.But just for the internet, as soon as I stop taking any notice of them and not caring about them one way or another, the problem is gone.
Getting angry and making threads like this probably just make your tormentor happy.
Bringing attention to harassment is what needs to be done, ignoring it and saying whatever is not because it will effect someone else eventually or often.
Why? It seems more like bringing attention to harassment instead just brings more harrassment
So dont do anything because the harassers do more harassing? O.o
It's called the Streisand effect and yes basically, you ignore them.
You dont ask bullies to stop bullying you because if they know it gets to you they're going to do it more. The same logic applies to this
Clearly you were never bullied. Ignoring them usually doesn't work. However in this situation I am doing that now, the mods have enough work tomorrow.
Rave the Histborn wrote: »Rave the Histborn wrote: »Rave the Histborn wrote: »
It's actually the best solution. It works 100% of the time. Unless that person escalates the harassment to your real life.But just for the internet, as soon as I stop taking any notice of them and not caring about them one way or another, the problem is gone.
Getting angry and making threads like this probably just make your tormentor happy.
Bringing attention to harassment is what needs to be done, ignoring it and saying whatever is not because it will effect someone else eventually or often.
Why? It seems more like bringing attention to harassment instead just brings more harrassment
So dont do anything because the harassers do more harassing? O.o
It's called the Streisand effect and yes basically, you ignore them.
You dont ask bullies to stop bullying you because if they know it gets to you they're going to do it more. The same logic applies to this
Clearly you were never bullied. Ignoring them usually doesn't work. However in this situation I am doing that now, the mods have enough work tomorrow.
Clearly I was, just not for long because I know how to deal with them.
HalvarIronfist wrote: »This is probably the only game I have ever seen that when you block someone, even on the forums too, they still see what you write, and so they can just have their friends copy and paste insults and send them to you, and then when your block list is full you are SoL, why can it not be like every other game where if you block someone they cant see what you say, and vice versa?
I'm not sure if this is an applicable concept; but sometimes the answer to these sort of problems is just:
Seems to work for me, have never blocked a soul in ESO or the forums.
Unfortunately, you'll NEVER stop people from being rude, trolls, or so forth; it's just a part of life we all have to deal with. That isn't condoning the behavior, but it's merely the reality of the situation.
There is a difference between being rude and harassment.
If they are truly harassing you then report them to Zos. Provide SS and whatever else you have to support the claim. Zos is going to kick them where it hurts.
If it was two people who kept on replying to each other with rhetoric and ratcheting up the heat to the point one could not longer handle it then Zos will probably let them duke it out. I doubt Zos will make it so when we put someone on ignore they will never see what we type as that is pretty much not common in MMORPGs that I have seen, though I will admit I rarely have needed to use the ignore feature in an MMORPG.
Only other mmo I played was swtor and in the you block someone, they can't see anything you say. Prevented a lot of trolling cuz eventually they could t talk or play with anyone
Rave the Histborn wrote: »Rave the Histborn wrote: »Rave the Histborn wrote: »
It's actually the best solution. It works 100% of the time. Unless that person escalates the harassment to your real life.But just for the internet, as soon as I stop taking any notice of them and not caring about them one way or another, the problem is gone.
Getting angry and making threads like this probably just make your tormentor happy.
Bringing attention to harassment is what needs to be done, ignoring it and saying whatever is not because it will effect someone else eventually or often.
Why? It seems more like bringing attention to harassment instead just brings more harrassment
So dont do anything because the harassers do more harassing? O.o
It's called the Streisand effect and yes basically, you ignore them.
You dont ask bullies to stop bullying you because if they know it gets to you they're going to do it more. The same logic applies to this
Clearly you were never bullied. Ignoring them usually doesn't work. However in this situation I am doing that now, the mods have enough work tomorrow.
Clearly I was, just not for long because I know how to deal with them.
Oh so do I, but it wasn't by ignoring them.
While there are times when one can ignore someone physically and not let it bother you, the system at it's core isn't the most efficient. When I found out that I could STILL BE GROUPED with someone I've ignored (back with Morrowind's release), I stopped doing a lot of group finder content because of it. I'm not sure if this is still the case and I really hope that this isn't still the case.
This is exactly the case still. Ive gotten in groups with them , been stuck in bgs with them over and over, etc.
You can be grouped with people on your Ignore list, but as of 5.2.5 (Dragonhold), you should not see what they are saying in group chat. If you can, please report it as a bug. You ignored them for a reason; group chat should not be an exception, according to ZOS.
Not only this, but you still get grouped with them in ques. My girlfriend and I blocked quite a number of really nasty folks when we ran veteran dlc dungeons some time ago. Some time later we saw them again and were really confused. We double checked our lists and found them in there. Not only were we grouped with them again, but they could see our group chat and we could see theirs. Not much of a block player list. We submitted tickets and we never really heard anything back from CS.
Rave the Histborn wrote: »Not only this, but you still get grouped with them in ques. My girlfriend and I blocked quite a number of really nasty folks when we ran veteran dlc dungeons some time ago. Some time later we saw them again and were really confused. We double checked our lists and found them in there. Not only were we grouped with them again, but they could see our group chat and we could see theirs. Not much of a block player list. We submitted tickets and we never really heard anything back from CS.
What platform do you play on?