... and that's why I keep bringing up the relevance of the dark triad
There's an undercurrent here that's actually disturbing. I don't like it. Has anyone else spotted it?
It goes beyond an entitlement to treat anyone who isn't of the perceived "hardcore," or "meta," or what have you. It's so much more insidious than that, and that's why I keep bringing up the relevance of the dark triad to conversations like these. It's in how there's pride in mistreating people. It started off as just being unnerving but like a creeping vine it's grown into a dark cloud of fridge horror. Not a fan.
"I'm proud I'm badarse!", "I'm also proud I'm badarse!", "Let's be proud together, brother, and lord it over these plebs!"
There's just something truly problematic about it that reminds me of the attitudes of ableist and/or rich people. As though the other players were lesser human beings for not being able to pull enough DPS. And therefore they should be excluded. The thing is, though, is that if the more sociopathic quotient continues to exclude them, then they'd never have the chance to learn. I'm beginning to wonder if that's the point.
"Our content! Ours! OURS! No casualses! Precioussss~!"
Sigh.
This is a truly disturbing thread to read.
AbysmalGhul wrote: »Personally I'm good, I didn't need a lesson. I'm just saying most people still can't do 30k
Posts like OP. its what made me don't what to play anymore, and only look back in from time to time.
Its people like that ruin the game for a lot.
Blackleopardex wrote: »IF you are gonna use the dungeon finder and have issues with low dps; go DD if you're alone or make sure to just take 1 DD you know with you... Problem solved.
On a side-note tho; It's not required to be a elitist to make sure you can actually do your part in a dungeon run, neither does it require a spreadsheet, calculations or 8000 play hours. I mean come on people, you don't join a game of football without knowing how to kick the ball... It takes 5 min to check and slot the decent skills to do your role... If everyone gave a *** nobody would have had fungal grotto completed. Don't expect to get carried... It's rude and disrespectful to the rest of the group.
Blackleopardex wrote: »IF you are gonna use the dungeon finder and have issues with low dps; go DD if you're alone or make sure to just take 1 DD you know with you... Problem solved.
I was very good in football but not so much in this game. It’s not as intuitive as some of you think. We are really trying even if we’re not as good as you. In football, I still would’ve let you play.
Smasherx74 wrote: »So past few days I decided to start going on my healer toon, trying to get as many crystals as I possibly can to finish my PVE DPS build. I've came to the realization that most peoples DPS is damn near non-existent. As a DPS even a low cp20 dps without any AOE can manage to be pulled through on my back, I mean it's not like every dungeon requires 4 people to complete on vet, at least not the vanilla ones. So I never had an issue with people, I would never vote kick people out unless they were intentionally stupid. However now my minds changed, I'm absolutely fed up with it.
For the third day in a row on my healer, I get put into a veteran group with terrible DPS. One day despite maintaining minor berserk, minor and major resolve/ward, and keeping major breach applied all damn near 24/7, I was told I'm useless. The DPS was absolutely terrible despite me doing my best to keep their resources up, and keep the buffs/debuffs up, all while healing these people. The tank is doing absolutely nothing but standing there occasionally applying taunt, the DPS is spamming light attacks, and I'm told I'm useless. I don't have to say, I left that group I wasn't going to be criticized by a bunch of casuals who have little to no understanding of how the game work, I even went out of my way to explain to the DPS they needed an AOE ability, tried to explain to the Tank he had to aggro ads, did my absolute best to keep group alive yet I'm useless because "they didn't need heals".
Now today, another terrible group. DPS does literally no AOE, most likely pulling under 10k single target, they appear to have no rotation, they're not maintaining DoTs or buffs/debuffs. I'm sitting here watching these people play and just hoping to god they'll figure it out and pull in more DPS. They were both above cp160 this time, in fact one was near max level. Yet the DPS was still terrible, even if one DPS was somewhat competent at their role it would have been much faster, yet it wasn't. It was like the DPS were two brand new players with no idea what they're doing, they're struggling to cut down trash mobs, and on the final boss of banished cells they aren't listening to me about the bubbles, they keep killing the ads and when they dont kill the ads they let too many pile up, the tank is bringing the ads near the boss and letting a few run off. The DPS is so minuscule I as a WARDEN HEALER am the one having to destroy the orbs because their DPS is so *** low they couldn't even prevent the boss from healing.
It's an ABSOLUTE NIGHTMARE to roll as anything BUT a DPS now in days. Now I've always been the guy to go after whoever was slandering the baggage in the group. In fact as my main DPS the other day I had a cp20 dps with me who was doing no DPS at all, and he ended up getting locked out the final boss so I completed it myself with the tank and healer. They wanted to kick the guy for not knowing what hes doing and having low dps, but I defended him and gave him a basic rundown. But now, I'm tired of it. No more Mr. NicePUG. The past three days I've been put into a group with a bad DPS on my healer. And I'm not having it anymore, I understand 100% why people vote low levels and low DPS bad roles. It's because of the people I've been having to deal with these past few days. I'm aware there are low CP DPS that are actually competent and can pull out as much DPS as their gear will allow them to. But guess what? I'm not risking ti anymore, I'm not going to waste 30mins to an hour on a group that struggled to cut down trash mobs or follow basic mechanics.
So now, if you're a low CP, or just bad at the game in general and we're que'd together, I'm kicking you. If the group doesn't want to kick you then I'm finding a new one. If the entire group is bad/low CP, then I'm finding a new one. I'll wait my 15 minutes for a reque because YOU'LL still be on the first trash mob within that time frame. If people want to come onto the forums and *** and complain about being kicked from a group because they're a khajiit mage, low CP. or bad at the game then how about getting good, leveling up, and not using a *** build? It's really not hard, you can pull a bare minimum of 20k DPS with any class at any level. The only excuse is incompetence, there are plenty of public builds to base on one. There is plenty of information on how to pull more DPS. A tank or healer, they don't even have to help the group to finish a dungeon, sure it's extremely helpful to contribute resources and keep buffs/debuffs, but is it really needed? No. A DPS however, guess what if you can't do AOE damage it's not going to work. If you can pull a minuscule 20k single target dps, it's not going to work. Go role as a Healer or a Tank and get good at that, you'll get a group faster and you'll save people like me from having our time wasted on you not knowing how to play your role properly. The DPS in this game is the hardest role, a healer/tank can run through a dungeon just as quickly as a really good healer/tank, but a bad DPS cannot even compete with a good DPS. So please, if you're one of these people and reading this, LEARN TO DPS, get a build that you can at least pull 20k. You can even go around grabbing random sets and you'll manage to be a tolerable DPS. Just for the love of god stop this low DPS arguably FAKE DPS *** in ques.
When I'm the person of all people saying this, you know there's a problem.
central_scrutinizer wrote: »Luckily I always roll with a buddy, and we usually kick anybody who is so gimped that they try to kick people who don't deserve it.
I don't care about your backstory for why you're a primadonna. If you can't handle pugs, you should form your own group, period.
JasmineMcCoy wrote: »As somebody who struggles to even get above 10k in the field, it's truly disheartening to read that, apparently, now a everybody and their dog can easily do 30k+ dps.
I'd say the majority of people can't do 30k dps. The majority of people also don't step into content that needs that.
As far as yours specifically. Why don't you break down what you're wearing, what you're using.... class, race, skills, CP number and allocation, and what you think you're struggling with and I'm sure we can help you as with others in this thread who have brought up their specifics.
Posts like OP. its what made me don't what to play anymore, and only look back in from time to time.
Its people like that ruin the game for a lot.
I know right? How dare the OP complain about people not pulling their own weight, he should just shut up and carry you like a good little pack mule.
Smasherx74 wrote: »Lots of words
PelinalWhitestrake wrote: »The elitist echo chamber thread still going strong, huh?
PelinalWhitestrake wrote: »The elitist echo chamber thread still going strong, huh?
Gold armor is pretty negligible but weapons is generally a good idea to gold out.JasmineMcCoy wrote: »I know it's far from min-maxed, but I don't need more than 20k dps just yet on this char (I plan to change the de to magdk and pass all the gear to the redguard stablade I'm levelling). It seems like golding my weapons will help (I was told the difference was negligible, so never did).
Plenty of people here have agreed that forcing certain what might be called a 'meta' build is excessive, and people kicking 'just because', without seeing what early pulls, etc, are like are being rude. You don't need meta at all to complete all the vanilla dungeons (unless you call mag DD wearing light armor and stam DD wearing medium the meta).Posts like OP. its what made me don't what to play anymore, and only look back in from time to time.
Its people like that ruin the game for a lot.
I know right? How dare the OP complain about people not pulling their own weight, he should just shut up and carry you like a good little pack mule.
Maybe the elite should try not being A-holes to people trying to learn it and not force people to use builds they like and call meta.
Veterans are not THAT hard, and most of the time it's just the elite whining about using 5min more of their time.
I'm hard-pressed to believe that considering the majority of posts of elitist ilk in this thread is just of the typical "you're wrong, I'm right" mentality that doesn't help anyone. The only thing I (partially) agree with is that a DPS should be able to hold his own and contribute to the group, but not that they need to use a specific set or need to pull the laughably stupid 50k minimum DPS that's being passed around in this thread.rfennell_ESO wrote: »PelinalWhitestrake wrote: »The elitist echo chamber thread still going strong, huh?
Eh, you can't say there isn't *some* merit in what he said.
If you have ever used the matchmaking system and been the only solid player and experience the sheer pain of it, well then you know.
Or queued as a dps and watched the other dps using snipe and no aoe and running around with 11k health.
PelinalWhitestrake wrote: »I'm hard-pressed to believe that considering the majority of posts of elitist ilk in this thread is just of the typical "you're wrong, I'm right" mentality that doesn't help anyone. The only thing I (partially) agree with is that a DPS should be able to hold his own and contribute to the group, but not that they need to use a specific set or need to pull the laughably stupid 50k minimum DPS that's being passed around in this thread.rfennell_ESO wrote: »PelinalWhitestrake wrote: »The elitist echo chamber thread still going strong, huh?
Eh, you can't say there isn't *some* merit in what he said.
If you have ever used the matchmaking system and been the only solid player and experience the sheer pain of it, well then you know.
Or queued as a dps and watched the other dps using snipe and no aoe and running around with 11k health.
Gold armor is pretty negligible but weapons is generally a good idea to gold out.JasmineMcCoy wrote: »I know it's far from min-maxed, but I don't need more than 20k dps just yet on this char (I plan to change the de to magdk and pass all the gear to the redguard stablade I'm levelling). It seems like golding my weapons will help (I was told the difference was negligible, so never did).Plenty of people here have agreed that forcing certain what might be called a 'meta' build is excessive, and people kicking 'just because', without seeing what early pulls, etc, are like are being rude. You don't need meta at all to complete all the vanilla dungeons (unless you call mag DD wearing light armor and stam DD wearing medium the meta).Posts like OP. its what made me don't what to play anymore, and only look back in from time to time.
Its people like that ruin the game for a lot.
I know right? How dare the OP complain about people not pulling their own weight, he should just shut up and carry you like a good little pack mule.
Maybe the elite should try not being A-holes to people trying to learn it and not force people to use builds they like and call meta.
Veterans are not THAT hard, and most of the time it's just the elite whining about using 5min more of their time.
The main issues in this thread (and the OP to a degree) are about when CP500+ DPS queue in and then the group dps total might be 20k single target - ie, less than 10k per person.
I don’t think anyone here is asking for 50k DPS minimum... I’ve tanked vet dungeons where I’ve done more DPS than any individual damage dealer. My tank does 10k DPS on the Precursor. You can’t complete dungeons like vet CoA II when the tank who does 10k DPS is dealing the most damage in the group...
20-25k DPS is an achievable goal for ANYONE who is committed to improving their DPS.
PelinalWhitestrake wrote: »I'm hard-pressed to believe that considering the majority of posts of elitist ilk in this thread is just of the typical "you're wrong, I'm right" mentality that doesn't help anyone. The only thing I (partially) agree with is that a DPS should be able to hold his own and contribute to the group, but not that they need to use a specific set or need to pull the laughably stupid 50k minimum DPS that's being passed around in this thread.rfennell_ESO wrote: »PelinalWhitestrake wrote: »The elitist echo chamber thread still going strong, huh?
Eh, you can't say there isn't *some* merit in what he said.
If you have ever used the matchmaking system and been the only solid player and experience the sheer pain of it, well then you know.
Or queued as a dps and watched the other dps using snipe and no aoe and running around with 11k health.
kringled_1 wrote: »
I don’t think anyone here is asking for 50k DPS minimum... I’ve tanked vet dungeons where I’ve done more DPS than any individual damage dealer. My tank does 10k DPS on the Precursor. You can’t complete dungeons like vet CoA II when the tank who does 10k DPS is dealing the most damage in the group...
20-25k DPS is an achievable goal for ANYONE who is committed to improving their DPS.
I would agree that 20-25K dps is very achievable, and I find it's sufficient for just about every base-game vet dungeon, and almost every normal trial. I can't currently do higher; I think odds are near certain that my rotation is messy and weaving is imperfect and could use practice. I don't currently try to do vet DLC dungeons or vet trials.
There's definitely a few posts in this thread though, that are along the lines of 'if you don't pull 30k you don't belong in vet content' which I think is overkill, and the 'I can do 30k with blockade and spamming light attacks' which if it's not BS implies vMA destro and probably Siroria, which is not exactly a beginner's setup.
I do think it would be useful to give people some official guidance on where they should be to do particular kinds of content and easier access to a dummy for beginners; it would at least keep people who want to pull their own weight in the range of content they're ready for.
PelinalWhitestrake wrote: »I'm hard-pressed to believe that considering the majority of posts of elitist ilk in this thread is just of the typical "you're wrong, I'm right" mentality that doesn't help anyone. The only thing I (partially) agree with is that a DPS should be able to hold his own and contribute to the group, but not that they need to use a specific set or need to pull the laughably stupid 50k minimum DPS that's being passed around in this thread.rfennell_ESO wrote: »PelinalWhitestrake wrote: »The elitist echo chamber thread still going strong, huh?
Eh, you can't say there isn't *some* merit in what he said.
If you have ever used the matchmaking system and been the only solid player and experience the sheer pain of it, well then you know.
Or queued as a dps and watched the other dps using snipe and no aoe and running around with 11k health.
kringled_1 wrote: »
I don’t think anyone here is asking for 50k DPS minimum... I’ve tanked vet dungeons where I’ve done more DPS than any individual damage dealer. My tank does 10k DPS on the Precursor. You can’t complete dungeons like vet CoA II when the tank who does 10k DPS is dealing the most damage in the group...
20-25k DPS is an achievable goal for ANYONE who is committed to improving their DPS.
I would agree that 20-25K dps is very achievable, and I find it's sufficient for just about every base-game vet dungeon, and almost every normal trial. I can't currently do higher; I think odds are near certain that my rotation is messy and weaving is imperfect and could use practice. I don't currently try to do vet DLC dungeons or vet trials.
There's definitely a few posts in this thread though, that are along the lines of 'if you don't pull 30k you don't belong in vet content' which I think is overkill, and the 'I can do 30k with blockade and spamming light attacks' which if it's not BS implies vMA destro and probably Siroria, which is not exactly a beginner's setup.
I do think it would be useful to give people some official guidance on where they should be to do particular kinds of content and easier access to a dummy for beginners; it would at least keep people who want to pull their own weight in the range of content they're ready for.
rfennell_ESO wrote: »Point being, what's the criteria for someone just hobbling you because they want to be carried?
JasmineMcCoy wrote: »JasmineMcCoy wrote: »As somebody who struggles to even get above 10k in the field, it's truly disheartening to read that, apparently, now a everybody and their dog can easily do 30k+ dps.
I'd say the majority of people can't do 30k dps. The majority of people also don't step into content that needs that.
As far as yours specifically. Why don't you break down what you're wearing, what you're using.... class, race, skills, CP number and allocation, and what you think you're struggling with and I'm sure we can help you as with others in this thread who have brought up their specifics.
DK, DE, alcast dual wield + bow sta build excluding caltrops (don't have the skill yet), 380 CP, 5x hunding rage, 4x night mother (purple, divines, nirn+precise/nirn), vampire for improved mag/sta regen, dubious camoran and weapon power buffs.
I know it's far from min-maxed, but I don't need more than 20k dps just yet on this char (I plan to change the de to magdk and pass all the gear to the redguard stablade I'm levelling). It seems like golding my weapons will help (I was told the difference was negligible, so never did).
One of the issues is sustain. Once I run out of stamina, my rotation goes out of the window. I also have issues with animation cancelling, I'm praticing but I don't want to spend all my gaming time in front of the dummy, so it's a slow progress. The third problem is that while I'm able to keep the rotation with a dummy, I have trouble to do it in a dungeon or trial, where I have to worry about boss moving, boss aoe, positioning, etc. My dps on a dummy is 15-17k, inside a trial it sometimes goes even below 10.
Ghanima_Atreides wrote: »I know this is a bit off topic, but as someone who has only PUG'd twice in her life, I wondered:
On NORMAL difficulty:
If you end up in a dungeon you haven't done before and don't know the mechanics, is it considered wise to say so and ask for explanations? Or, since it's normal mode, just wing it? Is the very admission that you don't know the mechanics grounds for being kicked? I'm thinking especially of later DLC dungeons with more complicated/difficult mechanics.