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Girls and boys in the game

  • newtinmpls
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    I'm female, mostly play female characters ... kinda depends on the backstory/inspiration.

    As for a tiny magic-weilder, I rolled up a goblin (used the most ugly tiny version of a bosmer I could make) and her backstory is she's from Toothmaul Gully. Saw a pair of altmer sisters (templer and sorc) and decided she wanted to be like that (powerful and magical) too.

    She's a templar who uses bow (the best weapon is one they don't see till too late - and turn around or look up and get an arrow in the eye) and I have her crouching most of the time because... goblin!

    Quite a few of the characters (not just the players) I game with are fond of her.
    Tenesi Faryon of Telvanni - Dunmer Sorceress who deliberately sought sacrifice into Cold Harbor to rescue her beloved.
    Hisa Ni Caemaire - Altmer Sorceress, member of the Order Draconis and Adept of the House of Dibella.
    Broken Branch Toothmaul - goblin (for my goblin characters, I use either orsimer or bosmer templates) Templar, member of the Order Draconis and persistently unskilled pickpocket
    Mol gro Durga - Orsimer Socerer/Battlemage who died the first time when the Nibenay Valley chapterhouse of the Order Draconis was destroyed, then went back to Cold Harbor to rescue his second/partner who was still captive. He overestimated his resistance to the hopelessness of Oblivion, about to give up, and looked up to see the golden glow of atherius surrounding a beautiful young woman who extended her hand to him and said "I can help you". He carried Fianna Kingsley out of Cold Harbor on his shoulder. He carried Alvard Stower under one arm. He also irritated the Prophet who had intended the portal for only Mol and Lyris.
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    Order Draconis - well c'mon there has to be some explanation for all those dragon tattoos.
    House of Dibella - If you have ever seen or read "Memoirs of a Geisha" that's just the beginning...
    Nibenay Valley Chapterhouse - Where now stands only desolate ground and a dolmen there once was a thriving community supporting one of the major chapterhouses of the Order Draconis
  • IrishGirlGamer
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    UrQuan wrote: »
    UrQuan wrote: »
    Vigarr wrote: »
    Egonieser wrote: »

    Hehe, I've heard a lot of couples meet that way lately. World is too small in this digital age. :)
    That sounds so strange to me, how does it even happen in an online game? "Hey I like the look of your character...wanna go out for a quest and digital dinner?" :p
    [snip]

    Nice.

    Am I dating myself if I say I remember when that was the number 1 video on Amazon?

    Well, it will always be the number 1 video in my heart :p

    That's cute. Really.

    I remember laughing so hard I almost peed myself the first time I saw that video. Ironically, it was on the Bethesda forum before Skyrim was released and there was this HUGE debate over - guess what? Yeah, you got it! How female characters would look in the game.

    I'd completely forgotten it even existed. Thanks for sharing it.

    [Of course, that chorus will be joining me for the train ride home from work ... "Do you wanna date my avatar? ... She's a star ..." ]

    [edited to remove quote]
    Edited by ZOS_Icy on October 13, 2024 6:09PM
    Valar Morghulis.

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    You're going to die tomorrow, Lord Bolton. Sleep well. Sansa Stark

    If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. Desmond Tutu
  • SlayerSyrena
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    I'm a female gamer who plays mostly male characters.

    Nothing more ridiculous then chatting with my fellow guildies in Teamspeak (half of them being female) and watching Stonefalls zone chat declare that there are no girls on the internet.

    If you really think there are no female gamers in ESO, join a guild that requires Teamspeak (as that generally clears up all confusion as to who's who.) :wink:
    Edited by SlayerSyrena on June 18, 2015 9:57PM
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  • waterfairy
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    rb2001 wrote: »
    It can happen if you put more into than that. It's probably hard to explain unless you.. get it.
    Clearly I don't get it. It would be cool to meet someone with similar interests (especially in TES/ESO games) but I just don't see myself finding and connecting with the right lady in an mmo game. I'm a decent looking guy but my voice is pretty deep (more so over phones/mics) so I would probably intimidate strangers if I tried talking to them. 'wait don't fast travel away...I'm really a nice guy in real life' :p
    UrQuan wrote: »
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    ha very educational. I'm tempted to play that through the mic while my character dances in the middle of the city square B)

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    Edited by ZOS_Icy on October 13, 2024 6:11PM
  • global_gbb16_ESO
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    pablinski wrote: »
    Hi, I´m curious to know how many women are actually playing the game, and for that I´d like to survey:
    How many men have actually girl characters in game?

    For what purpose?
  • septvestige
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    Your gender doesn't matter unless you want to use it.

    Girls in game gets more treat from fellow guildies, more popular and advance in guild hierarchy faster. A lot of guild die because they choose officers by popularity and not by suitabilty. Girls are popular from day 1. A guy have to proove he is useful.
    Theres a stereotype that girls in gaming are nicer but that's not true. They are the same race: human and there are just as many not nice girl as guy.

    Want to be an officer or just extremely popular in a guild?

    - Post an unknown teen modells picture on the guild forum.
    - Mention in guild chat that you not used to these games cos u r a girl


    You will get more advice, people will be more patient with you with your mistakes, they will not try to lecture you how to play your game. You will get more bargains, free stuff, presents, you may win the guild lottery more etc.

    You think this is miserable? I think it is but I know many player doing this. Even real girls doing this by not realizing they really using their gender to gain popularity.

    Playing the other gender in a role playing game has never been my cup of tea. I know all the excuses. I heard it all. Boys don't play with dolls period. (No! Not that kind of period.) But that's just my conservative nature. I can take it that other people think else.


    In MMO's I don't care what gender is the player I met. Onyl thing I usually ask is nationallity (for language barriers). And threads like looking for girl guild and how many girl gamer...
    Come on!
    You miss the lol button? It has been taken away for a reason. And the reason is how people used it for bash others who didn't share their opinion.
  • stefan.gustavsonb16_ESO
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    Imhotep71 wrote: »
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    A lot of male gamers are 12 year old boys. Not quite as many as it would appear, but still.

    [edited to remove quote]
    Edited by ZOS_Icy on October 13, 2024 6:06PM
  • Ulaidian
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    My character is an awful flirt.. perhaps more of me in him that I realised :wink:

    That said, the number one rule was mentioned above - everyone online is a guy until you know different.
  • Shunravi
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    newtinmpls wrote: »
    I'm female, mostly play female characters ... kinda depends on the backstory/inspiration.

    As for a tiny magic-weilder, I rolled up a goblin (used the most ugly tiny version of a bosmer I could make) and her backstory is she's from Toothmaul Gully. Saw a pair of altmer sisters (templer and sorc) and decided she wanted to be like that (powerful and magical) too.

    She's a templar who uses bow (the best weapon is one they don't see till too late - and turn around or look up and get an arrow in the eye) and I have her crouching most of the time because... goblin!

    Quite a few of the characters (not just the players) I game with are fond of her.

    you ever find the goblin costume?
    This one has an eloquent and well thought out response to tha... Ooh sweetroll!
  • Imhotep71
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    Imhotep71 wrote: »
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    A lot of male gamers are 12 year old boys. Not quite as many as it would appear, but still.

    Well yeah, especially on the consoles

    [edited to remove quote]
    Edited by ZOS_Icy on October 13, 2024 6:06PM
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  • UrQuan
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    [Of course, that chorus will be joining me for the train ride home from work ... "Do you wanna date my avatar? ... She's a star ..." ]
    If it makes you feel any better, it's totally stuck in my head now too. At least you have someone else to blame for that. For me it's my own fault.
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  • Stephanie_ABT
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    For the sake of statistics I'm a female. Been playing the Elder Scrolls since Arena.
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  • IrishGirlGamer
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    Your gender doesn't matter unless you want to use it.

    Girls in game gets more treat from fellow guildies, more popular and advance in guild hierarchy faster. A lot of guild die because they choose officers by popularity and not by suitabilty. Girls are popular from day 1. A guy have to proove he is useful.
    Theres a stereotype that girls in gaming are nicer but that's not true. They are the same race: human and there are just as many not nice girl as guy.

    Want to be an officer or just extremely popular in a guild?

    - Post an unknown teen modells picture on the guild forum.
    - Mention in guild chat that you not used to these games cos u r a girl

    ...

    Come on!

    [*** Wishes desperately that Zenimax had NOT taken away the LOL button. ***]

    Valar Morghulis.

    Someday I'm going to put a sword through your eye and out the back of your skull. Arya Stark

    You're going to die tomorrow, Lord Bolton. Sleep well. Sansa Stark

    If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. Desmond Tutu
  • Taleof2Cities
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    Just for the record and for statistics purposes, I'm a guy who plays female characters.

    Two mains are both Altmer ... and two alts (one Altmer NB, one Bosmer DK). Two mules.

    Will be starting a Redguard pretty soon.

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  • IrishGirlGamer
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    Just for the record and for statistics purposes, I'm a guy who plays female characters.

    Two mains are both Altmer ... and two alts (one Altmer NB, one Bosmer DK). Two mules.

    Will be starting a Redguard pretty soon.

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    Nice.

    But more importantly, is that glass armor? It looks amazing!
    Valar Morghulis.

    Someday I'm going to put a sword through your eye and out the back of your skull. Arya Stark

    You're going to die tomorrow, Lord Bolton. Sleep well. Sansa Stark

    If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. Desmond Tutu
  • Kaynlor
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    Sex: Female
    Age: 47
    Status: Gay-Married (Happily, believe it or not!)
    Profession: Disabled Ex-Army/Ex-Cop
    I pretty much only play female characters.
    I generally play alone, so I don't get hit on. When I played MUDs, I was always a guy to avoid getting hit on.
  • Moonscythe
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    I'm a female teetering on the very edge of being older than dirt. I always play a girl much younger than me because I can, that's why. I play in first person almost always but if I do go into third I watch myself run and think I used to be that cute. ;)

    Hey, Ace-2112, do you know where the reference to something smelling purple comes from? I do. :)
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  • Elara_Northwind
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    I'm a girl and play all female characters (apart from my khajiit, but he is a cat :smile: ) and I know many females who play the game and none of them (apart from me and my cat) have any male characters, but many of the boys I know also have female characters. My boyfriend will only play as a female because he says he doesn't like the way that the male characters look in the game...
    Edited by Elara_Northwind on June 18, 2015 11:09PM
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  • Psychobunni
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    Your gender doesn't matter unless you want to use it.

    Girls in game gets more treat from fellow guildies, more popular and advance in guild hierarchy faster. A lot of guild die because they choose officers by popularity and not by suitabilty. Girls are popular from day 1. A guy have to proove he is useful.
    Theres a stereotype that girls in gaming are nicer but that's not true. They are the same race: human and there are just as many not nice girl as guy.

    Want to be an officer or just extremely popular in a guild?

    - Post an unknown teen modells picture on the guild forum.
    - Mention in guild chat that you not used to these games cos u r a girl


    You will get more advice, people will be more patient with you with your mistakes, they will not try to lecture you how to play your game. You will get more bargains, free stuff, presents, you may win the guild lottery more etc.

    You think this is miserable? I think it is but I know many player doing this. Even real girls doing this by not realizing they really using their gender to gain popularity.

    Playing the other gender in a role playing game has never been my cup of tea. I know all the excuses. I heard it all. Boys don't play with dolls period. (No! Not that kind of period.) But that's just my conservative nature. I can take it that other people think else.


    In MMO's I don't care what gender is the player I met. Onyl thing I usually ask is nationallity (for language barriers). And threads like looking for girl guild and how many girl gamer...
    Come on!

    I would like to think that most "real girls" at least *women* (I'm 35) want nothing to do with any of that. Maybe a young teenage girl who hasn't quite found herself yet or needs attention, but most female gamers I've talked to just want to *game on*

    If a guild wants to be anything more serious than social and are giving out officer(s) based on popularity alone, they are doomed to fail anyway (imo)

    Edit:35 in Oct lol, getting old enough to forget my own darn age :p
    Edited by Psychobunni on June 18, 2015 11:11PM
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  • Pheefs
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    Females play female characters because they are pretty to look at...

    & Males play female characters because they are pretty to look at!
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  • Sunver
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    Male, playing female character, but not pretending to be one.

    Why I play female char? I think its about aesthetics. Females look nicer and have softy voices.
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    For thou hast made him a little lower than the angels, and hast crowned him with glory and honour.
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  • Watkins
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    I'm a female Otherkin IRL, but play a guy in-game.

    I'm a guy who plays a guy.
    Edited by Watkins on June 19, 2015 12:06AM
  • dafox187
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    date through gaming...

    disgusting

    don't get mad at my spelling, autocorrect doesn't cover fantasy.
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  • DisgracefulMind
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    No way girls play ESO. NO WAY!
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    Retired to baby bgs forever. Leave me alone.
  • trinta
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    I'm a female gamer who plays mostly male characters.

    Nothing more ridiculous then chatting with my fellow guildies in Teamspeak (half of them being female) and watching Stonefalls zone chat declare that there are no girls on the internet.

    If you really think there are no female gamers in ESO, join a guild that requires Teamspeak (as that generally clears up all confusion as to who's who.) :wink:

    [snip] I don't think there's anyone who actually believes that there's any game that isn't played by girls as well as guys.

    [edited for baitng]
    Edited by ZOS_Icy on October 13, 2024 6:12PM
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  • lathbury
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    I honestly have no idea what gender a lot of my guild mates are as a lot of our communication is in guild chat. most guild members only use ts if they do a trial and not everyone does trials. also some who do only listen in due to family or room mates etc.
    Not that it makes any difference but of our 15 most regular raiders 10 are men 5 are women dont know how representative that is as we are a relatively small guild of 90 members.
    For the record I'm a male player and I play male characters I don't RP but like my characters to look similar to myself as I feel it helps with my immersion and getting into their shoes.
    Edited by lathbury on June 19, 2015 12:26AM
  • Vulsahdaal
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    Female player here..
    6 out of my 8 characters are male. I do play them all, but this is my main-

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  • MissBizz
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    Vigarr wrote: »
    It's pretty easy to tell by the characters appearance and gamertag name (on console) if the girl character is played by a girl. If it's an overly gaudy girl with max boobs, min slim and not wearing pants then you know that's a boy playing her. If it's a respectable looking lady then there's a good chance that it's an actual woman playing.

    Hahahahahaha. Awesome. Awesome.

    Yup, I find lots of fellow females in game on PC, so far in my travels on PS4.. not so many.. but definitely have met a few,
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  • Nyghthowler
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    Only play male characters.

    I have nothing against women, nor do I look down on them. Some of my best friends and adventuring companions in game have been and are women. I just have no desire to play as a female.
    I'm not prejudiced; I hate everyone equally !
  • traigusb14_ESO2
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    Vulsahdaal wrote: »
    Female player here..
    6 out of my 8 characters are male. I do play them all, but this is my main-

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    That guy is waaaaay too pretty. I feel like he's going to ask me to buy shower gel or a hair product.
    Edited by traigusb14_ESO2 on June 19, 2015 12:52AM
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