kringled_1 wrote: »
Huh? Those two comments obviously have sarcasm just rolling off them. I don't think you can particularly jump to that conclusion about those players. I mean, they are clearly from the get go mocking the OP for bringing a build not well suited for harder PVE content as a healer.
marshill88 wrote: »
I must be playing a different game. These vet dungeons are a piece of cake. Ive done maybe 20 of them, all but one was challenging. Usually I run as DPS with mothers-sorrow+medusa. But being that I'm a magcro, I also have very good healing skills, and have my entire restoration staff line, so its nice to run as a healer too.
I'm a little thrown back at how judgmental so many of you are, and how quick you rush to judgment, and even worse, how fast you would just boot someone from a group because you don't like what you see. it is just pathetic to me. Maybe I haven't played enough ESO (4 months now), but I hope I don't get to the point where I'm doing that to other people.
The Vet Dungeons are so simple, (most of them so far) the teams I am on literally power rush through them. Seriously, they aren't even a challenge.
listing to you guys talk about how all the gear and skills must be absolutely perfect or you will BOOT someone out of a group is disgusting to me, it really is. I"m sorry if I'm sounding rude to you, but it is just sad behavior, like judging someone who walks into a room just based on how they look without even letting them try.
But you guys do what you do....just boot people based on your view of them...it is what it is. Fortunately, I haven't grouped with you because the behavior I screenshotted is just lame, and luckily, it is also rare.
You may have more of a point in a very hard dungeon, but this stuff in the vet dungeons is a cakewalk. Maybe I'm just so hyper-used to PVP now. 75% of my play is PVP.
If it was a veteran dungeon (especially a DLC) the group was right to kick you, it's not just a problem of being free to do what you want (as many think) but to "respect others"; when going to veteran dungeons, the pve role must be respected.
If the dungeon was normal, it makes no sense to kick you, in normal dungeons you can also go naked and you need minimal care in the party.
Moral of the story: pvp players do you want to play pve, do you want that particular monster set? There are 2 solutions:
1) go dungeons with your pvp friends;
2) you adapt to the pve game and respect the roles.
P.S. - In pvp you are immortal, in pve you die in the aoe of Kra'gh The Dreugh King!
OP, I have read the original chat and trying very hard to see any evidence of bullying. You were asked legitimate questions and gave perfunctory answers, hence the kick. The group did not want to waste their time.
spartaxoxo wrote: »
You think "Is that the new meta?" And "queue for us a new dps lmao" are legitimate questions?
Amazing the number of people trying to gaslight the OP about the mockery just because they would have voted to kick too. This player was obviously aware that build was not optimal and not the meta. And they were openly mocking him before the kick. It's blatant.
rollingphoneseb17_ESO wrote: »
I am also obviously aware that ur trolink.
spartaxoxo wrote: »
You think "Is that the new meta?" And "queue for us a new dps lmao" are legitimate questions?
spartaxoxo wrote: »
You genuinely believe the person that asked that legitimately thought it was the new meta? What? They kicked him because they were just so impressed by his build they couldn't handle how amazing it was and felt intimidated to run with someone in that setup?
There appears to be no bullying involved, they took one look at the build and realised that it was pvp.
rollingphoneseb17_ESO wrote: »
You keep trolink :D:D:D
rollingphoneseb17_ESO wrote: »OP was blatantly mocking the whole group with his build.
bring build like this into group dungeon is disrespectful to your group members, stop playing the victim
spartaxoxo wrote: »
The OP was a new player who had successfully completed vet content on his healer build before. In what way is a new player, with a build they do not know is bad, mocking a group by existing?
spartaxoxo wrote: »
You don't think a group of players openly ridiculing someone before kicking them is bullying?
I very much disagree. You can both agree with their decision to kick him, and acknowledge that the way they handled the kicking was blatant open mockery, you know. There were not legitimate questions. They did not think it was the meta. They did not think his build was perfect. They were asking him loaded questions to mock him. It's blatant and obvious.
It is not an and/or thing. Just because they were "right" to kick him does NOT make the blatant open mockery okay.
No I don’t, I think they took one look at his build and said “no thx.
Maybe OP will take some feedback on board. If you think the mockery is bad, maybe they felt the OP was mocking by turning up to a vet dungeon as healer with 40k hp and snb.
spartaxoxo wrote: »
They didn't say "no thx" though, did they? What they actually, literally did was mock him. Why do you think it's acceptable to mock new players for not knowing the game before you kick them? Why not just kick him without all that? Or just say "sorry need pve healer" before the kick? Why do you find mockery, specifically, to be so legitimate?
No, be clear, I said I didn’t think it came across as bullying.
spartaxoxo wrote: »
Yes. You said it you don't consider it to be bullying. So I am asking why you think it's legitimate to mock a new player for not knowing the game before you kick them.