When I sit down at the end of a long hard workday, the last thing I want to do is get all riled up with adrenaline pumping and being anxious about someone coming out of nowhere while I'm trying to just relax and de-stress from my day. The older I get, the more I feel that way. I also have no urge to learn all the skills of every other class (that I don't play) just to know what they can do so I can counteract it.
These days, games for me are just for relaxation and story. I don't need to prove anything (already did that all day at work, and I get paid for that). It's a bit of time to immerse myself into a different life for a bit to escape the real world stress for an hour or so each night. A character that feels comfortable, good enough gear to get by but nothing "specialized," a nice outfit or two so I look good (to me), and the ability to just wander around and look at the sights and help a few NPCs out with their problems. I don't research games to find out how to be the best, I don't use training dummies or keep spreadsheets, and I pay no attention to meta builds, meta gear, meta stats, rotations, grinding, CP points, etc.
Ahhh...relaxation.
With all that said, you can see why I don't care for PVP. To be fair, I feel the same way about group dungeons/trials/etc. My hour or so each night for gaming is precious time for me, as I have little free time, and I prefer mellow activities during that time.
Doctordarkspawn wrote: »...
People who play PVE play to relax. Having some guy screaming at us isn't a relaxing environment.
KiraTsukasa wrote: »
Really?
Now, I'm talking magic based, ice staff, light armor, ignoring the animal and plant skills warden. Still feel the same way?
Kiralyn2000 wrote: »Not in MMOs, not in MOBAs, not in FPS's.
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There is nothing to be gained fighting another human opponent in eso. Nothing. Bragging rights? ...
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I think most folks who only enjoy pve content in eso have better things to do with their time than take eso's PvP seriously because they don't see the point of it, and if they're not going to take it seriously, why bother?
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Lastly, how hard is it to understand that there are some gamers who just don't get any enjoyment out of being superior to their fellow gamer, they'd rather work with another human instead of against them, not that hard to understand.
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There is nothing to be gained fighting another human opponent in eso. Nothing. Bragging rights? ......
I think most folks who only enjoy pve content in eso have better things to do with their time than take eso's PvP seriously because they don't see the point of it, and if they're not going to take it seriously, why bother?
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The fun is engaging with fellow Elder Scrolls fans in the type of interactions we discussed back when we were each the Nerevarine
or the Champion of Cyrodiil
KiraTsukasa wrote: »Kiralyn2000 wrote: »Not in MMOs, not in MOBAs, not in FPS's.
And MOBAs are the WORST. I play Smite from time to time, which I enjoy as a concept, but I can only tolerate playing for a week or two before I leave the game for months at a time. The players get so toxic that if you die even ONCE, WW2 was a tea party in comparison.
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There is nothing to be gained fighting another human opponent in eso. Nothing. Bragging rights? ......
I think most folks who only enjoy pve content in eso have better things to do with their time than take eso's PvP seriously because they don't see the point of it, and if they're not going to take it seriously, why bother?
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The fun is engaging with fellow Elder Scrolls fans in the type of interactions we discussed back when we were each the Nerevarine
or the Champion of Cyrodiil
Taking games seriously tends to kill their fun tho
so can see why people who take PvE seriously and want to treat PvP the same would miss the simple enjoyment and comedy of interaction with other players...
Lastly, how hard is it to understand that there are some gamers who just don't get any enjoyment out of being superior to their fellow gamer, they'd rather work with another human instead of against them, not that hard to understand.
Not hard to understand at all,
this gives rise to my preference to having fun running solo in Cyrodiil
as opposed to joining an end-game Trials guild and striving to be 'the best'
or trying to top Leaderboards for VMA or otherwise outperforming the majority of players by taking special challenge runs
or seeking to dominate the market as leader of a trade guild
The Killer archetype of deriving enjoyment from outperforming others is not limited to PvP
just game makers tend to put the most mechanics and systems to appeal to their archetype into PvP
Kiralyn2000 wrote: »...
There is nothing to be gained fighting another human opponent in eso. Nothing. Bragging rights? ......
I think most folks who only enjoy pve content in eso have better things to do with their time than take eso's PvP seriously because they don't see the point of it, and if they're not going to take it seriously, why bother?
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The fun is engaging with fellow Elder Scrolls fans in the type of interactions we discussed back when we were each the Nerevarine
or the Champion of Cyrodiil
Not sure what you're trying to say here. I don't recall finishing Morrowind or Oblivion and wanting to fight other players.
I love both. Battlegrounds have been extremely fun and rewarding. Not just in crystals, but stuffing my guild bank full of gear for others to use.
Why do predominantly PvE players hate PvP?
As someone who comes from WoW, it's basically the same reason there, and pretty much in any MMO.
Even if you're one of the best at PvP, you die...alot.
PvE players don't like that...don't know how to deal with it. They are used to hard mode no death speed runs. It's a hard concept to deal with doing all the right things and still maybe getting caught out.
And I think some of it comes from gear. You slay trials in your op, bis gear and think that will cut it against other players. Surely having all my gold divines gear will destroy the other faction/team! When it doesn't work out, they get salty.
But most players in my guild admit it's the dying constantly that puts them off PvP. Can't come to terms with it. In thier mind, it's the worst possible thing. It still sucks in PvP, but it comes for everyone. But once you understand death and PvP goes hand in hand, a world of fun opens up, and drives you to get better at it.
I do both, but I'd like to address a few misconceptions. Pver's are afraid to die? Maybe for a few, but most die all the time to npc's, you all are really feeling yourselves if you think they're afraid to die to some random nobodies.
This games PvP sucks. Why play an rpg for its pvp? Can't pick your preferred game mode in BG's, IC has no point which makes it suck and cyro is a lagfest whenever a large scale battle takes place, the very thing cyro was built for.
There are much better PvP oriented games out there, maybe you all should try some real PvP games instead of hiding in eso's version of it. Or are you playing eso's version because it's easier to win against potatoes than playing PvP oriented games?
You all speak of challenge yet never fight anyone good. Most good players completely ignore other good players to fight people they know they can beat, and you have the nerve to belittle pver's for fighting scripted npc's?
There is nothing to be gained fighting another human opponent in eso. Nothing. Bragging rights? About beating some random person? How did you win? Was it your gear? Was it their gear? You have no idea, but you'll pretend it was all skill so you can pat yourself on the back thinking, "I'm so awesome!".
I think most folks who only enjoy pve content in eso have better things to do with their time than take eso's PvP seriously because they don't see the point of it, and if they're not going to take it seriously, why bother?
Lastly, how hard is it to understand that there are some gamers who just don't get any enjoyment out of being superior to their fellow gamer, they'd rather work with another human instead of against them, not that hard to understand.
Anotherone773 wrote: »I love both. Battlegrounds have been extremely fun and rewarding. Not just in crystals, but stuffing my guild bank full of gear for others to use.
Why do predominantly PvE players hate PvP?
As someone who comes from WoW, it's basically the same reason there, and pretty much in any MMO.
Even if you're one of the best at PvP, you die...alot.
PvE players don't like that...don't know how to deal with it. They are used to hard mode no death speed runs. It's a hard concept to deal with doing all the right things and still maybe getting caught out.
And I think some of it comes from gear. You slay trials in your op, bis gear and think that will cut it against other players. Surely having all my gold divines gear will destroy the other faction/team! When it doesn't work out, they get salty.
But most players in my guild admit it's the dying constantly that puts them off PvP. Can't come to terms with it. In thier mind, it's the worst possible thing. It still sucks in PvP, but it comes for everyone. But once you understand death and PvP goes hand in hand, a world of fun opens up, and drives you to get better at it.
I find that really weird. Ive always pvped in hardcore pvp games where dying actually means something. So you learn to "git gud", how to avoid pvp, or how to become a very efficient farmer to replace all your stuff you lose when you die. I find dying in a game like this to be very trivial. In fact ive suicided in cyro because i didnt want to run back to catch a port.
I personally dont have i fondness for the softcore pvp offered in games like this. No real losses when you die means you just try to bash everything to death and hope for the best. No strategy involved. Just CC and bash. Kind of takes the fun out of it when their is no real loss. Strategy is completely different when their is real loss. People learn to engage others strategically rather than dive in and hope for the best.
Kiralyn2000 wrote: »...
There is nothing to be gained fighting another human opponent in eso. Nothing. Bragging rights? ......
I think most folks who only enjoy pve content in eso have better things to do with their time than take eso's PvP seriously because they don't see the point of it, and if they're not going to take it seriously, why bother?
...
The fun is engaging with fellow Elder Scrolls fans in the type of interactions we discussed back when we were each the Nerevarine
or the Champion of Cyrodiil
Not sure what you're trying to say here. I don't recall finishing Morrowind or Oblivion and wanting to fight other players.
Not sure what you are trying to say here...
Does the fact that you did not somehow void the fact that there were those of us who did?
Or that there are those of us who simply find PvP in the Elder Scrolls universe to be fun as a result?
Even went so far as rolling up my Champion of Cyrodiil as a Pathfinder character for a friend's campaign
and have helped in running a post-Oblivion D&D campaign
Not trying to say my gaming experience is the best or should serve as a template for everyone else
simply pointed out to the person that thought something has to be 'gained' from the activity
or that PvP has to be taken seriously
that there are those of us who participate just for the fun of the interactions
but, personally, do not take PvE seriously either
and simply do not take part in serious end-game PvE as a result of it
but still respect that there are players who do enjoy it, even if it is not 'for me'
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There is nothing to be gained fighting another human opponent in eso. Nothing. Bragging rights? ......
I think most folks who only enjoy pve content in eso have better things to do with their time than take eso's PvP seriously because they don't see the point of it, and if they're not going to take it seriously, why bother?
...
The fun is engaging with fellow Elder Scrolls fans in the type of interactions we discussed back when we were each the Nerevarine
or the Champion of Cyrodiil
Taking games seriously tends to kill their fun tho
so can see why people who take PvE seriously and want to treat PvP the same would miss the simple enjoyment and comedy of interaction with other players...
Lastly, how hard is it to understand that there are some gamers who just don't get any enjoyment out of being superior to their fellow gamer, they'd rather work with another human instead of against them, not that hard to understand.
Not hard to understand at all,
this gives rise to my preference to having fun running solo in Cyrodiil
as opposed to joining an end-game Trials guild and striving to be 'the best'
or trying to top Leaderboards for VMA or otherwise outperforming the majority of players by taking special challenge runs
or seeking to dominate the market as leader of a trade guild
The Killer archetype of deriving enjoyment from outperforming others is not limited to PvP
just game makers tend to put the most mechanics and systems to appeal to their archetype into PvP
The competitive pve playerbase is just as small as the PvP competitive playerbase. Vma has less than 2% completion on ps4, I'm fairly certain Xbox is similar,maybe slightly more as I do believe the Xbox fans are more dudebroish, no offense intended, and most pver's don't have a clue about end-game trial leaderboards, I know I don't lol.
Most just want to open a glass of wine or crack open a beer and kick back living out their medieval dream that they've had since a kid. I know that's why I play videogames.
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You want to talk real world? I'm super competitive and always strive to be the best because that's where it matters, to me. My athletic trophy room is exceptional and my military career is beyond envious. There just isn't anything I can do in a virtual world that would give those same highs so why bother?
I do both, but I'd like to address a few misconceptions. Pver's are afraid to die? Maybe for a few, but most die all the time to npc's, you all are really feeling yourselves if you think they're afraid to die to some random nobodies.
This games PvP sucks. Why play an rpg for its pvp? Can't pick your preferred game mode in BG's, IC has no point which makes it suck and cyro is a lagfest whenever a large scale battle takes place, the very thing cyro was built for.
There are much better PvP oriented games out there, maybe you all should try some real PvP games instead of hiding in eso's version of it. Or are you playing eso's version because it's easier to win against potatoes than playing PvP oriented games?
You all speak of challenge yet never fight anyone good. Most good players completely ignore other good players to fight people they know they can beat, and you have the nerve to belittle pver's for fighting scripted npc's?
There is nothing to be gained fighting another human opponent in eso. Nothing. Bragging rights? About beating some random person? How did you win? Was it your gear? Was it their gear? You have no idea, but you'll pretend it was all skill so you can pat yourself on the back thinking, "I'm so awesome!".
I think most folks who only enjoy pve content in eso have better things to do with their time than take eso's PvP seriously because they don't see the point of it, and if they're not going to take it seriously, why bother?
Lastly, how hard is it to understand that there are some gamers who just don't get any enjoyment out of being superior to their fellow gamer, they'd rather work with another human instead of against them, not that hard to understand.
Cool...now do the misconceptions of the PvP side of things, since you do both.
Because it kinda sounds like you're only taking shots at one side...something your post is trying to denounce while doing the exact same thing.
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There is nothing to be gained fighting another human opponent in eso. Nothing. Bragging rights? ......
I think most folks who only enjoy pve content in eso have better things to do with their time than take eso's PvP seriously because they don't see the point of it, and if they're not going to take it seriously, why bother?
...
The fun is engaging with fellow Elder Scrolls fans in the type of interactions we discussed back when we were each the Nerevarine
or the Champion of Cyrodiil
Taking games seriously tends to kill their fun tho
so can see why people who take PvE seriously and want to treat PvP the same would miss the simple enjoyment and comedy of interaction with other players...
Lastly, how hard is it to understand that there are some gamers who just don't get any enjoyment out of being superior to their fellow gamer, they'd rather work with another human instead of against them, not that hard to understand.
Not hard to understand at all,
this gives rise to my preference to having fun running solo in Cyrodiil
as opposed to joining an end-game Trials guild and striving to be 'the best'
or trying to top Leaderboards for VMA or otherwise outperforming the majority of players by taking special challenge runs
or seeking to dominate the market as leader of a trade guild
The Killer archetype of deriving enjoyment from outperforming others is not limited to PvP
just game makers tend to put the most mechanics and systems to appeal to their archetype into PvP
The competitive pve playerbase is just as small as the PvP competitive playerbase. Vma has less than 2% completion on ps4, I'm fairly certain Xbox is similar,maybe slightly more as I do believe the Xbox fans are more dudebroish, no offense intended, and most pver's don't have a clue about end-game trial leaderboards, I know I don't lol.
Most just want to open a glass of wine or crack open a beer and kick back living out their medieval dream that they've had since a kid. I know that's why I play videogames.
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Agreed on all of this
with the addition that part of my 'medieval' dream includes zapping enemy soldiers with magic from a castle tower
Skyrim had a pretty mediocre representation of this in defending Whiterun from the Stormcloaks, but they tried
ESO lets me my laugh and throw lightning on a more regular basis
if the enemy zerg eventually swarms me, no big deal, res somewhere else, rinse and repeat...
You want to talk real world? I'm super competitive and always strive to be the best because that's where it matters, to me. My athletic trophy room is exceptional and my military career is beyond envious. There just isn't anything I can do in a virtual world that would give those same highs so why bother?
Sure, let us
Am not competitive in real life; like to think of the human endeavour as aspiring to make life better for all of us
My grandfather was an air force gunner in WW2, but was myself turned down from flight school due to my need for glasses
have a bit of envy for a friend of mine who was main-base cheerleader in high school -- she went on to join the Canadian Army
and works towards peace keeping and disaster response in her time
meanwhile, am on disability
so seek to engage my mind and spirit more frequently
unfortunately, had to do a medical withdraw in my last year of University
so my Religious Studies and East Asian Studies degrees never got printed to paper
photography is my 'high' in the real world
and find its best digital representation to be through screen archery in Skyrim and Fallout 4
where the TFC 1 command allows complete control over framing of all shots
ESO is more just dooting around in a social aspect with my TES story
also like to post in the Bethesda character threads on the Skyrim and Fallout 4 forums
but, again, am just in it for the fun, not to take the game seriously
gaming is an escape from a day-to-day hell of struggling with OCD, PTSD, and joint and muscle issues