OK. Full story. My wife got into housing so she is decorating all the houses I've collected, she's not super interested in playing the game. Fair enough. (Her issue is you can't walk 50 feet without having to fight an apex predator for some reason... do you need to fight a bear every 50 feet? Is spending time killing skeevers to collect a root really worthwhile?). That's a whole other issue.
I just spent the better part of an hour farming Rimmen Necropolis to get gear that I can deconstruct for Shimmering Sand to so she can build things she wants for housing. Fair enough. I killed numerous bosses, went through it twice. Over and over again bosses would drop nothing but gold or useless items, no zone set to deconstruct. In all I got TWO items I could deconstruct. Deconstructed them and got nothing. 0 Shimmering sand. I wasted an hour for nothing.
Why are bosses not dropping items? Why is this game so tight sometimes? I don't get it.
It's not just that, it's other parts as well. Resource maps you get with your writs... why does wood farming not give you heartwood? Just... why? Is it going to break the game if I can make another table?
RNG. Just why? If you can't get a lead for 2 months (I actually emailed to ask as I thought it was broken I had run it so many times) you are told it's just "RNG". When you get a motif or plan there is a "cooldown" because RNG can't work in your favour... just why?
Make it make sense please. Really angry right now. What a waste of an evening.