should put daily quests on a different counter than 'normal' quests. That would fix a lot of the issue where you have to drop a quest you're planning or halfway into to get for example your writ lol..

So what I am hearing is "it"s not sexual, the name is a historic artifact, it's just taunting the person who lost to you."

So, while that is better, it still sounds immature and toxic to me.

Toxic? No.
Harassment? No.
Aggravating? Maybe.

The fact it is an "offense" that can you banned is a joke.

Desiato wrote: »

Out of curiosity, what about two players crouching and uncrouching repeatedly bothered you, exactly?

I know what the act is intended to represent, yet the way I described it is what they were actually doing. How did this affect you?

I know people who don't want to PvP because of teabagging. Teabaggers know what it's intended to represent, and that's how people experience it. Separate from feeling very violative, it's also bullying type of behavior.

And don't get me wrong--I know friends who like to teabag each other as a joke. I totally get that. With strangers, it's really rude and superioristic and toxic. It's like having someone try and flame you over chat, except you can't put them on ignore.

Technically, you do have to ask someone to stop before reporting them. Which has led to some really surreal conversations between me and the people I ask to stop lol. It's sort of funny.

Personally, I wish they would just make the crouch animation slower (just visually, not the time to actually enter sneak) so that it's less rewarding to teabag. Currently it's very responsive and fast, which encourages people.

The visual is literally why I don’t use this skill. I want to really bad and I don’t mind the aura on the ground. But man that flag is absolutely horrendous to have to look at.

Makes it really hard to concentrate on fighting with the banner skill visuals in my face all the time.

The law does not prevent us from identifying your ESO account when you have caused harm.

The law does not prevent us from sharing the information about the harm you have caused with other guild leaders.

The law does not prevent us from protecting our members from you when you have caused harm.

So far as "how to deal with people": I would suggest enrolling yourself in courses both in the law and in ethics. As guild officers, we have an ethical obligation to protect others from the harm you cause. You can whine about how you've "realised you've messed up" and how much you "want a second chance" all you like. You can claim that you have the right to "start over with better circumstances" as you put it. You don't. Yes, when you abuse our members, steal from our bank, make use of derogatory language, make inappropriate sexual advances to other players, or a host of other poor behaviours, we have the right to ensure that you are not allowed to do that to our members again, even when you decide that you're a far better person now and are entitled to a clean slate when you change your account name. You don't have that right. You don't get a free pass just because you've decided you're a nicer person than you were before or because you've decided to change your account name. Yes, we will judge you for those behaviours. It is entirely appropriate to do so.

SilverBride wrote: »

Something needs to be done because this issue isn't going to just go away.

Not everything some people don't like needs to go away. Pretty much everything is disliked by someone. It is literally impossible for society to adapt to the sensitivities of every individual. So we need to put things into perspective and learn to deal with the things we don't like to the greatest degree possible.

This is especially important when living in a free society. Something too many people have forgotten.