There was a quest (main?) in vivec city that had you helping a woman find and save her wife, while the city was getting tore to shreds.

That's the only one I can think of so far this early in the morning. Es tut Mir leid.

There's actually an abundance of quests where NPCs have you find/try to find their beloved or otherwise help them and the beloved is of the same gender.
I almost feel there're more homosexual couples than heterosexual ones in Tamriel tbh xD There's like dozens of them.
I've done most quests years ago, of latest ones that I remember - there's a quest in Summerset concerning a Breton mage being accused of killing an Altmer Sapiarch, but his friends claim he can't be guilty of that because they loved each other deeply. Quest is apparently called Murder In Lillandril.

Don't remember names but there was a quest where gay bosmer had you help collect flowers for his dying male lover, a quest about a gay couple accidentally ending up in werewolf settlement (did not end well), uh...there were more but they didn't stand out enough to remember I guess. I also remember multiple vendors/traders mentioning their lover of the same gender that they are. Tbh if you just go questing through Tamriel you'll run into plenty yourself soon enough, most of them are generic "go find X/kill Y/pick Z" quests so don't really stand out enough to remember.

there is a pirate female captain, I think it is in Grahtwood, slightly west of the occupied city very south.
She has a quest to free her wife.
The quest ends in a large beautiful cave with a huge shipwreck.

Quest in Grahtwood, where female pirate crew captain asks to save her wife, who is first mate. Quest in Bangkorai, about werewolves. Quest in Reapers March in Hadran's caravan. Quest in Greenshade, about two old lovers and beautiful flowers near Wilderking shrine. In main quest in Vivec, there is female builder, and her lover, who then can be met in Murkmire, and their quest. Also, in Murkmire, there are notes about argonians changing sex with Hist's help, interesting possible reference to transgenders.

The main questline in Vvardenfel also involve a lesbian dunmer couple.
One Nord merchant in Belkarth, Craglorn also speaks of her wife.

Most of the ones I remember have already been mentioned.

Also, if you are doing the Lightbringer achievement (lightring fires for travelers along the road), the couples alternate between opposite sex and same sex.

I'll add (cause I didn't see them in here):

1. Argonian and Dunmer ladies in Bal Foyen; the former needs you to help the latter, and I think they're a couple.
2. Nord guys somewhere in W. Skyrim, I think it's a WB; you can find them camping with their mother/mother-in-law (respectively).
3. Edit: Also, I believe there's a character in Rellenthil that's transgender! not gay, but still LGBT. And Argonians can change sexes to match their love interests, to be able to mate with them.

Such an adorable thread! props to the one who started it and everyone who contributes. ^-^

You could look into the lore behind how ViVec obtained that famous spear of his...

Oh sorry you guys are right there (haven't quoted so I don't ruin it).

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Into the Vice Den and Hadran's Fall in Reaper's March, where you help Sind rescue his boyfriend Tand. Also there's a quest in Bangkorai (I don't remember the name) where you help a guy who dates a dude with lycanthropy problems, and a quest in Summerset related to a woman and her transgender sister.

I should say I love how Zenimax/Bethesda brought LGBT into ES world. Good work, ZOS! 🏳️‍🌈❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤

I also love how it feels very natural, instead of some other companies that force it into the context making it look superficial.

Main story in Craglorn involves an lesbian couple:

What about the quest in Rivenspire with the noble's daughter in the love triangle with a nobleman and a servant girl? The player chooses who she picks.

The quest called "The Flower of Youth" involves a gay Bosmer couple in Greenshade.

In that quest, Hartmin says he brought his dying husband to see his favorite flowers Nereid's Smile for the last time, but can't find any of them nearby. You go and collect those flowers for them. It's a neat quest and a bit sad.