GreenhaloX wrote: »
ESO, on zone chats, at times, seems to be an opposing views episode on CNN, versus being a video game where you come to escape those crap news of everyday turmoil. Yes, you can turn off zone chat (I do and often times change locale) and can even use profanity filter, but, that is not the point. It is the principles.
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AcadianPaladin wrote: »I agree with OP. I don't expect there is much anyone can really do since human nature + online anonymity = often disappointing results. I keep my chat gracious and exclusively focused on the game so I would welcome a more active role by the game's 'modertors'. . . despite the whining that would surely result. Yes, I know how to filter out chat but the reason I generally like to have it on is to offer help when legit general questions come up or if someone needs help - game stuff.
I expect that there are lots of players who simply wish others would leave the religion, politics, snarkiness and excess vulgarity at home.
titan_cleaver wrote: »GreenhaloX wrote: »Ha ha.. you can always count on trollers or unconstructive comments/replies on any post within this forum.
It's not trolling to tell you to act like an adult. The burden for you to not be offended is on you, not other people. Again, if you don't like what's being said, don't read it. Nobody is forcing you, and the fact that you can't see the difference is really an infantile way of thinking.
Our society has now reached a point where it is a greater crime to be bothered by people treating others like garbage than it is to treat others like garbage. That's what's killing my faith in humanity.
AcadianPaladin wrote: »I agree with OP. I don't expect there is much anyone can really do since human nature + online anonymity = often disappointing results. I keep my chat gracious and exclusively focused on the game so I would welcome a more active role by the game's 'modertors'. . . despite the whining that would surely result. Yes, I know how to filter out chat but the reason I generally like to have it on is to offer help when legit general questions come up or if someone needs help - game stuff.
I expect that there are lots of players who simply wish others would leave the religion, politics, snarkiness and excess vulgarity at home.
It's a bad stance to defend negative behaviour and cultivate that it's fine, yes where you're coming from is partially true, if I say a minor swear and offend someone it's on them not be overly dramatic, however the "you need to HTFU" stance only goes so far and often trolls well surpass that line to get their kicks.
titan_cleaver wrote: »It's a bad stance to defend negative behaviour and cultivate that it's fine, yes where you're coming from is partially true, if I say a minor swear and offend someone it's on them not be overly dramatic, however the "you need to HTFU" stance only goes so far and often trolls well surpass that line to get their kicks.
Either it's all OK or none of it's OK. Welcome to life, you must be new here. Is it unpleasant to deal with jerks? Yes. Should you be allowed to censor them? No. The reason we got to where we are today is that entire generations of people have now been raised to expect that they'll be coddled for their entire lives to the point where people whining have now outnumbered the number of offensive people. That's how we got here.
Stopnaggin wrote: »Me personally I don't get offended, but there is a line when things cease to be amusing. Fact is its a weak minded individual that doesn't have the enough self control to not make comments. Then we have the trolls that just love to start an argument because they can hide behind a screen without fear of reprisal. Funny thing is every little jab in your above post, weak minded, coddled, infantile are perfect to describe your behavior in the posts you have here.
To the rest of the posters:
This is what a troll looks like in their natural environment. Remeber please don't feed the trolls.
titan_cleaver wrote: »GreenhaloX wrote: »Ha ha.. you can always count on trollers or unconstructive comments/replies on any post within this forum.
It's not trolling to tell you to act like an adult. The burden for you to not be offended is on you, not other people. Again, if you don't like what's being said, don't read it. Nobody is forcing you, and the fact that you can't see the difference is really an infantile way of thinking.
To quote @MasterSpatula from a thread last night.Our society has now reached a point where it is a greater crime to be bothered by people treating others like garbage than it is to treat others like garbage. That's what's killing my faith in humanity.
I remember days when if someone acted like a jerk they were the one in the wrong, not this trending time where if someone uses racial slurs, homophobic language or makes sexual assault jokes then the people they're upsetting are in the wrong.
It's a bad stance to defend negative behaviour and cultivate that it's fine, yes where you're coming from is partially true, if I say a minor swear and offend someone it's on them not be overly dramatic, however the "you need to HTFU" stance only goes so far and often trolls well surpass that line to get their kicks.
LadyLavina wrote: »AcadianPaladin wrote: »I agree with OP. I don't expect there is much anyone can really do since human nature + online anonymity = often disappointing results. I keep my chat gracious and exclusively focused on the game so I would welcome a more active role by the game's 'modertors'. . . despite the whining that would surely result. Yes, I know how to filter out chat but the reason I generally like to have it on is to offer help when legit general questions come up or if someone needs help - game stuff.
I expect that there are lots of players who simply wish others would leave the religion, politics, snarkiness and excess vulgarity at home.
Obviously there are times when it goes way over the top, but OP comes across as some kind of child that needs to be sheltered from adult language and real-world discussions. It's an M rated game. There are going to be adults playing it. Sometimes those adults are going to talk about whats in the news. Sometimes those adults will go a little too far and get graphic. For situations like that, there's a report function. OP needs to shut up and use it. If it's actually inappropriate, ZOS will do something.
It's probably refugees from SWTOR bringing their filth over here.
Any way this is going to get pretty political soon (and most likely locked) but you are correct that things which breach the CoC should just be reported and have ZOS punish those who lack the understanding of social etiquette.
https://account.elderscrollsonline.com/code-of-conduct
LadyLavina wrote: »but yeah this thread is going to go downhill rather quick and infuriate all those involved., perhaps @ZOS_JohanaB @ZOS_DaryaK should consider a lock lol
titan_cleaver wrote: »LadyLavina wrote: »but yeah this thread is going to go downhill rather quick and infuriate all those involved., perhaps @ZOS_JohanaB @ZOS_DaryaK should consider a lock lol
Not yet! I'm not done winning with logic! I'm trying to open some minds here that have been locked away behind a layer of babying for far too long.
titan_cleaver wrote: »It's a bad stance to defend negative behaviour and cultivate that it's fine, yes where you're coming from is partially true, if I say a minor swear and offend someone it's on them not be overly dramatic, however the "you need to HTFU" stance only goes so far and often trolls well surpass that line to get their kicks.
Either it's all OK or none of it's OK. Welcome to life, you must be new here. Is it unpleasant to deal with jerks? Yes. Should you be allowed to censor them? No. The reason we got to where we are today is that entire generations of people have now been raised to expect that they'll be coddled for their entire lives to the point where people whining have now outnumbered the number of offensive people. That's how we got here.
titan_cleaver wrote: »GreenhaloX wrote: »Ha ha.. you can always count on trollers or unconstructive comments/replies on any post within this forum.
It's not trolling to tell you to act like an adult. The burden for you to not be offended is on you, not other people. Again, if you don't like what's being said, don't read it. Nobody is forcing you, and the fact that you can't see the difference is really an infantile way of thinking.
To quote @MasterSpatula from a thread last night.Our society has now reached a point where it is a greater crime to be bothered by people treating others like garbage than it is to treat others like garbage. That's what's killing my faith in humanity.
I remember days when if someone acted like a jerk they were the one in the wrong, not this trending time where if someone uses racial slurs, homophobic language or makes sexual assault jokes then the people they're upsetting are in the wrong.
It's a bad stance to defend negative behaviour and cultivate that it's fine, yes where you're coming from is partially true, if I say a minor swear and offend someone it's on them not be overly dramatic, however the "you need to HTFU" stance only goes so far and often trolls well surpass that line to get their kicks.
The way I think of it is how is someone that you don't know going to affect you much with just words. I don't think the OP is in the wrong, just that he should have thicker skin. We live in a world where people say things they normally wouldn't because they feel safe to without having to visually see those they are offending. You think having running into these situations as all of us have would teach you to have thick skin.
The people the OP is talking about are mostly just cowards and shouldn't be taken seriously, and certainly should be allowed to impact your mood in a negative way. So don't let them.
andreasranasen wrote: »OP, you got my support with this thread. We have a lot of people not knowing how to respect one another which can clearly be seen in this thread as well. It's unfortunate. Not sure if you're on console or PC. But I do know that Sony takes matters like these very serious
LadyLavina wrote: »Major prude detected.
Grow up, put the people bothering you on ignore, and move on with your life. Jesus.GreenhaloX wrote: »
ESO, on zone chats, at times, seems to be an opposing views episode on CNN, versus being a video game where you come to escape those crap news of everyday turmoil. Yes, you can turn off zone chat (I do and often times change locale) and can even use profanity filter, but, that is not the point. It is the principles.
God forbid people discuss non-game related things where such an act is 100% allowed.
Are you one of those safe-space people?
In some countries you can be. There are also strong laws against hate speech so not everything is welcome under free speech.titan_cleaver wrote: »andreasranasen wrote: »OP, you got my support with this thread. We have a lot of people not knowing how to respect one another which can clearly be seen in this thread as well. It's unfortunate. Not sure if you're on console or PC. But I do know that Sony takes matters like these very serious
What you're saying is somebody should be censored for speech you don't agree with? Would it be OK to arrest a person that says something offensive?
Now start queuing for random dungeons to grow thicker skin, it even help on your armor ratingtitan_cleaver wrote: »andreasranasen wrote: »OP, you got my support with this thread. We have a lot of people not knowing how to respect one another which can clearly be seen in this thread as well. It's unfortunate. Not sure if you're on console or PC. But I do know that Sony takes matters like these very serious
What you're saying is somebody should be censored for speech you don't agree with? Would it be OK to arrest a person that says something offensive?
Stopnaggin wrote: »LadyLavina wrote: »Major prude detected.
Grow up, put the people bothering you on ignore, and move on with your life. Jesus.GreenhaloX wrote: »
ESO, on zone chats, at times, seems to be an opposing views episode on CNN, versus being a video game where you come to escape those crap news of everyday turmoil. Yes, you can turn off zone chat (I do and often times change locale) and can even use profanity filter, but, that is not the point. It is the principles.
God forbid people discuss non-game related things where such an act is 100% allowed.
Are you one of those safe-space people?
Sorry but I don't come to the game to listen to pre-pubescent kids trying to act like they are some tough guy. I don't get offended by any of it, on the contrary I actually enjoy making them look silly. There is a place for political discussion, eso isn't it. The only reason for it is the attention. Adults, or so called adults, should have the common sense to know the difference between friendly banter and being flat out insulting. Racial slurs and the other nonsense that gets town into zone chat is unacceptable, and if you don't know the difference, well sorry cant help you.
I still believe that those same people who like to pull those stunts would not have the courage to do so in someone's presence. It's a lot different when you can hide and make comments with fear of reprocussions.