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Which gender do you choose to play in-game and why?

  • Anhedonie
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    Dude because reasons. I mean every little girl wants to be a huge dude with a beard.
    Or was it the other way around? Well, you got the gist of it.
    Profanity filter is a crime against the freedom of speech. Also gags.
  • Puupi
    Puupi
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    Female
    I always play female characters in all games. :hushed: I'm a heterosexual male.
  • Sunver
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    I play both. The reason: RNG tends to pick genders 50/50.
    When I consider thy heavens, the work of thy fingers, the moon and the stars, which thou hast ordained;
    What is man, that thou art mindful of him? and the son of man, that thou visitest him?
    For thou hast made him a little lower than the angels, and hast crowned him with glory and honour.
    O LORD our Lord, how excellent is thy name in all the earth!
  • LuminaLilly
    LuminaLilly
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    Female
    Outside pvping, i enjoy solo role playing as an innocent breton female enjoying the scenery.
  • Iselin
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    My characters are an extended family of adopted brothers and sisters who share the wealth, weapons and jewelry. The armor is enchanted to fit everyone regardless of sex, height or body type. The cooking is all done by a male Altmer 'cause men are the best cooks (ducks.) All the armor and weapon smithing is done by my rather muscular and fierce female orc.

    It's a family of Altmers and Bosmers, Bretons and Redguards, Orcs, Imperials and Dunmer. We were reluctant to let a Khajiit into the family but he was a cute kitten and rather easy to house train.

    Just no Nords because, you know, the drinking. No Argonians yet either but that doesn't mean we don't like them... some of my best friends are Argonian.
  • snakester320
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    It's a simple poll does there really need to be a argument over which gender you choose to play in a damn game..
  • Rosveen
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    Both
    I play a murderous androgynous lizard, what kind of a personality disorder is that?
  • pirate3
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    Both
    Both genders. All classes. All races bar Altmer and Orcs. I don't role-play. I'm not my characters in the same way that I'm not a boot or a racing car when I play Monopoly.
  • Jimbullbee85
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    Made my first female character yesterday. Got 6 men. Going for an imperial baspler. I think she's gonna be my favourite one :) she's old, grey, battle scarred and hard as nails!
    Jimbullbee, Templar healer battlemage
  • Elara_Northwind
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    Female
    I actually dislike to play games where I am forced into playing a male main character the entire way through it, because I feel that as a female, I can relate far better to female characters :blush: I do, however, have a male khajiit, but he is my cute little tom cat, not a man :lol:
    Edited by Elara_Northwind on December 28, 2016 1:18AM
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  • phermitgb
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    Both
    Like many people, I play both, for a variety of reasons. Most of my characters are built with quasi-RP "roles" in mind. I usually build at least one analog of myself, sometimes 2 (part of me is very rogue-ish, and sometimes I'm very paladin-like, so I often build 1 of each to express my 2 most prominent personalities).

    Then, I almost always build a female mage - it's complicated as to the why, but female sorcerers/wizards/spellcasters have become a staple in my head of the fantasy genre. and I always want at least 1 female because having a stag party of fantasy adventurers seems both unrealistic and a little boring.

    afterwards, I build characters mostly based on what I feel is appropriate to the world, which storytelling "roles" seem to be missing and need to be filled and/or would be fun to experiment with, and some personal preferences. Currently, out of 8 characters I have 6 men and 2 women, 1 female breton sorceress, and 1 female altmer dragonknight, because I found it interesting to try and build a dramatically non-traditional character archtype, and that was about as far in the direction of different I could think of...all of my men are mildly interesting experiments (khajit chef nightblade, argonian dragonknight ...because dragon...dunmer jackass surly sorcerer, and imp pact templar because 1 templar wasn't enough)

    anyway, feel free to wildly speculate on the psychology behind my choices - however, be warned, if your conclusions are anything beyond the reasons I've mentioned above, then you're wrong - I'm the best authority on my own motivations, and anyone claiming to know why I do something better than I know why is severely overestimating their mastery of my personal psychology
    "There is no correct resolution; It's a test of character."
    James T. Kirk
  • newtinmpls
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    Both
    lagrue wrote: »
    No matter how much of a nut for immersion you are, you will never be that person in the game and they will never be you

    Sure they are me. Who else would they be?

    That being said as Mol gro Durga I'm afraid of uncomfortable with heights and obsessed with my beloved Fianna

    As Hisa Ni Caemaire I'm determined to find my brother Kohei a suitable woman, and I despair of my (much) older brother Akira's attachment to that... bosmer.

    As Broken Branch Toothmaul I think that the no one was using that anyway, so now it's mine.
    Tenesi Faryon of Telvanni - Dunmer Sorceress who deliberately sought sacrifice into Cold Harbor to rescue her beloved.
    Hisa Ni Caemaire - Altmer Sorceress, member of the Order Draconis and Adept of the House of Dibella.
    Broken Branch Toothmaul - goblin (for my goblin characters, I use either orsimer or bosmer templates) Templar, member of the Order Draconis and persistently unskilled pickpocket
    Mol gro Durga - Orsimer Socerer/Battlemage who died the first time when the Nibenay Valley chapterhouse of the Order Draconis was destroyed, then went back to Cold Harbor to rescue his second/partner who was still captive. He overestimated his resistance to the hopelessness of Oblivion, about to give up, and looked up to see the golden glow of atherius surrounding a beautiful young woman who extended her hand to him and said "I can help you". He carried Fianna Kingsley out of Cold Harbor on his shoulder. He carried Alvard Stower under one arm. He also irritated the Prophet who had intended the portal for only Mol and Lyris.
    ***
    Order Draconis - well c'mon there has to be some explanation for all those dragon tattoos.
    House of Dibella - If you have ever seen or read "Memoirs of a Geisha" that's just the beginning...
    Nibenay Valley Chapterhouse - Where now stands only desolate ground and a dolmen there once was a thriving community supporting one of the major chapterhouses of the Order Draconis
  • Banana
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    Female
    Third person means I don't want to be looking at a man's ass all day
  • TheImperfect
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    Both
    I'm female and play both. I like to create a character and roleplay it and enjoy feeling both energy types. My male character felt a little emasculated the other day when a very large guy came in and dwarfed him.
  • Recremen
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    I always pick male for sex, but gender is a bit more complicated. I tend to vacillate somewhere between "male-identifying" and either "gender neutral" or "agender", depending on the character. I've considered making third-gender characters but honestly don't know enough about a culture in or out of game to emulate that properly.
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  • Glaiceana
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    Both
    This thread always comes up every now and then :)

    I guess I sort of play both, but I mostly play my main character, which is female, and I am female in reality. I guess because I model her to be a perfect fantasy version of me :D

    But I have a couple of male alts, just for fun :) Because why not?
    I don't know why these threads get so heated lol. How many guys have played Tomb Raider? I mean sure you didn't have a choice, but was it really the worst thing in the world to play a female character? :D
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  • Elvent
    Elvent
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    Both
    In most all games I play that has the option... My casters are usually always female, they usually always wear robes/dresses so they just look better in my opinion.

    My melee are usually always male.

    Even though we have costumes and appearance changes now, I still feel like my casters should stay female lol

    I don't know, I've always been like this and prefer it this way.
  • SnubbS
    SnubbS
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    Female
    In every MMO and/or RPG I choose to play as a female character. It's purely about Aesthetics for me. In ESO I do prefer the male Argonian/Orc/Khajit models though.
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  • ArchMikem
    ArchMikem
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    Female
    Banana wrote: »
    Third person means I don't want to be looking at a man's ass all day

    I looked at a man's ass through an entire trilogy as Commander Shepard.
    CP2,100 Master Explorer - AvA One Star General - Console Peasant - Khajiiti Aficionado - The Clan
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  • FortheloveofKrist
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    My characters are all gender fluid.

  • Solid_Metal
    Solid_Metal
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    Male
    male because i'm a male, thats it

    i love to play games with character customization is because i can create ME inside the game, i can pretend the character is me, and trying to be immerse into the game :smile:
    "i will walk through the fog, as i welcome death"
  • thawks
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    Both
    Until recently I mained an Argonian lady. I used to main Troll and Forsaken women back in my WoW days as well, I think I just happen to like 'grotesque' female figures who aren't simply generically ugly/fat. They allowed me to play a well-designed female character who nonetheless was considered very aesthetically unappealing by the majority of other players.

    Then I got tired of lady lizardbutt and her tail and swingy hips, so I had her transformed into a bearded Breton nobleman just because I needed wanted more manhunkiness in my game.
  • Jemcrystal
    Jemcrystal
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    Male
    I'm gay and I'm gonna look at the bootay I like to look at.
  • newtinmpls
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    Thinking about it more....

    What gender do I play?

    The gender that character is. ... 'cause that's their gender.
    Tenesi Faryon of Telvanni - Dunmer Sorceress who deliberately sought sacrifice into Cold Harbor to rescue her beloved.
    Hisa Ni Caemaire - Altmer Sorceress, member of the Order Draconis and Adept of the House of Dibella.
    Broken Branch Toothmaul - goblin (for my goblin characters, I use either orsimer or bosmer templates) Templar, member of the Order Draconis and persistently unskilled pickpocket
    Mol gro Durga - Orsimer Socerer/Battlemage who died the first time when the Nibenay Valley chapterhouse of the Order Draconis was destroyed, then went back to Cold Harbor to rescue his second/partner who was still captive. He overestimated his resistance to the hopelessness of Oblivion, about to give up, and looked up to see the golden glow of atherius surrounding a beautiful young woman who extended her hand to him and said "I can help you". He carried Fianna Kingsley out of Cold Harbor on his shoulder. He carried Alvard Stower under one arm. He also irritated the Prophet who had intended the portal for only Mol and Lyris.
    ***
    Order Draconis - well c'mon there has to be some explanation for all those dragon tattoos.
    House of Dibella - If you have ever seen or read "Memoirs of a Geisha" that's just the beginning...
    Nibenay Valley Chapterhouse - Where now stands only desolate ground and a dolmen there once was a thriving community supporting one of the major chapterhouses of the Order Draconis
  • TerraDewBerry
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    Female
    Because I am female, and my characters are an extension of me. :)

    The only way I would play a male would be if I were an RPer, and I had a male character as one of my RP characters.
  • Ravena
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    Whatever looks nicer. I play anything. I like messing around with the character creation.

    A female khajiit can be cute, a male argonian can look fierce, a female imperial can look beautiful, a male dark elf, handsome.
    Those are actually my characters, atm.

    I am of the feminine variety
    Edited by Ravena on December 28, 2016 8:18AM
  • dday3six
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    I'll play either depending on what "feels", right to me for the character. I tend to spend a lot of time in the customization for an game that lets me, looking for a set up that speaks to me and I'll choose a gender based on that.
  • Enslaved
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    Male
    AlMcFly wrote: »
    P.S. I play 100% in first-person view anyway unless I want to pose for a screenshot. Playing an Elder Scrolls game in third-person just cheapens the experience.

    Must be hard as hell to PvP from first person.
  • NovaMarx
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    Female
    I prefer to play my own gender for immersion purposes - and I feel this way with pretty much all games.
    I don't mind playing male characters, if it is a set part of the game. But when the choice is there I go female :tongue::wink:
    "Feet are for walking. Hands are for hitting. Or shaking. Or waving. Sometimes for clapping."
    - M'aiq the Liar
  • smacx250
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    Both
    My main is a female. When I first started up the game (at PC release) my son was watching and wanted me to "make a pretty girl", so I did. I figured I'd just get through the tutorial with her and then make my "real" character on my own (I am male). I quickly became too invested in her and it never happened. Now I like her too much to get rid of her with a gender/name change. The couple of alts I play are male. So yes, I play both.

    I've played females in single player games and didn't have any issue with it. However, this is an MMO and other players may take your character as the projection of yourself into the game, regardless of if you do or not. It can make me feel a little uncomfortable when people incorrectly make that assumption about my character and myself (particularly when correcting their assumption). In some cases it's nothing - but in others it can be downright awkward.
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