failkiwib16_ESO wrote: »@EdmundTowers well to be honest I've never met a girl who got a console handed to them, when they were kids - but their brothers did, so they started playing games when their brothers did. I think there will be more equality in the future, when people realize their children equally drawn to gaming, regardless of gender.
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There are also many strong female characters in the game. In fact, just thinking about it, there are too many to name imo.
Lyris was just the first one and I agree she is a very strong female character indeed.
Several of the ship captains in the game are female.
Several commanding officers are female characters
At least we dont have the screaming, mewling female sidekick we have seen so many times in other games.
Inb4Lock
Im also female and I think this fighting over gender equailty in this game in particular is a bit absurd.
Yeah there are more male rulers in this game than female....look at history and tell me that it was any different.
Of the big three in the game, one is female. Nothing wrong with that percentage.
Honestly I dont give a DMN. I love the game, it is well written and I feel as far as story is concerned, it is pretty inclusive.
Male, female, heterosexualism, homosexualism, cross species sexualism. Really what are we arguing about? lol
As far as the costumes are concerned, yea you have a point.
MornaBaine wrote: »Inb4Lock
Im also female and I think this fighting over gender equailty in this game in particular is a bit absurd.
Yeah there are more male rulers in this game than female....look at history and tell me that it was any different.
Of the big three in the game, one is female. Nothing wrong with that percentage.
Honestly I dont give a DMN. I love the game, it is well written and I feel as far as story is concerned, it is pretty inclusive.
Male, female, heterosexualism, homosexualism, cross species sexualism. Really what are we arguing about? lol
As far as the costumes are concerned, yea you have a point.
Oh ESO does a lot of things right. I love that they have put forth a world without homophobia or patriarchy. Every fantasy world in existence has at least had the latter, as if it is unthinkable that any existence could have gotten by without it. So that's super refreshing. Which is why when they do stuff like only have one of the Companions be female and put out skimpy female costumes but no corresponding ones for men it really annoys me. They've obviously tried really hard. But they still sometimes drop the ball.
MornaBaine wrote: »Inb4Lock
Im also female and I think this fighting over gender equailty in this game in particular is a bit absurd.
Yeah there are more male rulers in this game than female....look at history and tell me that it was any different.
Of the big three in the game, one is female. Nothing wrong with that percentage.
Honestly I dont give a DMN. I love the game, it is well written and I feel as far as story is concerned, it is pretty inclusive.
Male, female, heterosexualism, homosexualism, cross species sexualism. Really what are we arguing about? lol
As far as the costumes are concerned, yea you have a point.
Oh ESO does a lot of things right. I love that they have put forth a world without homophobia or patriarchy. Every fantasy world in existence has at least had the latter, as if it is unthinkable that any existence could have gotten by without it. So that's super refreshing. Which is why when they do stuff like only have one of the Companions be female and put out skimpy female costumes but no corresponding ones for men it really annoys me. They've obviously tried really hard. But they still sometimes drop the ball.
Orcs are traditionally patriarchal for the most part. Makes sense given that they're based on historical Mongol society.
Most Imperial citizens regard Orc society as rough and cruel, but there is much to admire in their fierce tribal loyalties and generous equality of rank and respect among the sexes.
tinythinker wrote: »Quoted content removed
Did you read what I wrote? The initial post and the follow-up comment? That answers your question. It does so very clearly, with examples.
If you did but don't get it, a long explanation about empathy, the nature of privilege, why perception matters, why proclaiming that we should ignore prejudice to make it go away doesn't work, etc, would be pointless. Because all of the academic jargon and thoroughness and detailed analysis can't replace a basic human to human understanding.
Here is the nutshell version: Things are not equal. People of color in many places still face discrimination. LGBT people do, too. And so do women. The list goes on. Sometimes it's small things, like how people are treated in video games. Sometimes it's big things, like not having the right to vote or being paid less for the same work. Because things are not equal and prejudice exists, some people cheer or smile when things move towards equality and fairness. Sometimes people are happy about the big things, sometimes they are happy about the really, really small things.
But saying that we shouldn't acknowledge when a group makes progress makes no sense. Sometimes people act as if doing so is putting one group over others, or making one group more important than another, or making a big deal about nothing. Men are not harmed if women feel more comfortable gaming, and being happy that more women are gaming isn't an act of prejudice or discrimination against men. Posting that you are happy to see progress doesn't pit men vs. women, nor does it lead to inequality. It is just acknowledging and being happy that something positive has happened, like someone who was unhappy having a good day, or someone who was sick getting better, or like someone who was being abused leaving a bad relationship and moving on. Nor does acknowledging progress by one group reinforce idea of dividing people and therefore set back equality. Ignoring the divisions that already exist and downplaying when the barriers promoting those divisions are weakened can, though, set equality back.
My post was not about ideology, or politics, or people trying to advance an agenda, or any of things people sometimes claim as the "real reason" for acknowledging such good things when they happen to a group of people rather than an individual. (As if promoting fairness or equality was something sinister.) I was very clear in the initial post and my follow-up comment that, whatever people make of the link, the reminder that more women are letting their geek-flag fly made me smile. It isn't complicated. It doesn't take a degree to understand or explain. It is about imagining that some of those girls who used to be embarrassed to want to be Darth Vader for Halloween when they were twelve may now in fact be adult women who are kicking my #$$ in PvP right here on ESO and thinking that this would be an awesome thing.
Honestly, people who have a problem with that, and want to talk instead about equality and fairness and being free to be yourself as "not a big deal" or some kind of needless provocation, are making this about their own issues and the baggage attached to those issues. That's fine. Everyone has their own views, and we all make assumptions. I'm not offended by people who don't understand what I'm saying. But again, it really isn't complicated, and I hope that for most people it isn't controversial. So, again:
1. I'm happy there are more women in gaming (nerding, geeking, etc) than there were when I first started gaming (nerding, geeking) myself. The linked article and other stories like it reminded me of this.
2. I think this is good for games like ESO.
I figure if I'm still not being clear, I will just have to be content with being misunderstood. But I've already spent 15 minutes writing this last comment that could have been spent bringing pain to my online enemies or playing fetch with the dogs, so it will have to do. Whatever your views are or what you think of mine, I wish you well and will see you in Tamriel
KoshkaMurka wrote: »What should we consider "female interests" if there are females who like "Candy Crush" and females who like "Dark Souls"?failkiwib16_ESO wrote: »then we would see more content catering to female interests.
Storytelling-wise tastes of female audience can also differ - there's "50 shades of Grey" fans, and horror/thriller fans as well, and some of us prefer historical dramas...
BabeestorGor wrote: »MornaBaine wrote: »Inb4Lock
Im also female and I think this fighting over gender equailty in this game in particular is a bit absurd.
Yeah there are more male rulers in this game than female....look at history and tell me that it was any different.
Of the big three in the game, one is female. Nothing wrong with that percentage.
Honestly I dont give a DMN. I love the game, it is well written and I feel as far as story is concerned, it is pretty inclusive.
Male, female, heterosexualism, homosexualism, cross species sexualism. Really what are we arguing about? lol
As far as the costumes are concerned, yea you have a point.
Oh ESO does a lot of things right. I love that they have put forth a world without homophobia or patriarchy. Every fantasy world in existence has at least had the latter, as if it is unthinkable that any existence could have gotten by without it. So that's super refreshing. Which is why when they do stuff like only have one of the Companions be female and put out skimpy female costumes but no corresponding ones for men it really annoys me. They've obviously tried really hard. But they still sometimes drop the ball.
Orcs are traditionally patriarchal for the most part. Makes sense given that they're based on historical Mongol society.
They weren't always depicted that way. From the MW in-game descriptionMost Imperial citizens regard Orc society as rough and cruel, but there is much to admire in their fierce tribal loyalties and generous equality of rank and respect among the sexes.
Reading comprehension does wonders. Either you are trolling or you didn't read what I wrote. If you are trolling I have no interest in being baited. If you did try to read it and still didn't understand, there is literally nothing else I can say to make it clear to you.tinythinker wrote: »Quoted content removed
Did you read what I wrote? The initial post and the follow-up comment? That answers your question. It does so very clearly, with examples.
If you did but don't get it, a long explanation about empathy, the nature of privilege, why perception matters, why proclaiming that we should ignore prejudice to make it go away doesn't work, etc, would be pointless. Because all of the academic jargon and thoroughness and detailed analysis can't replace a basic human to human understanding.
Here is the nutshell version: Things are not equal. People of color in many places still face discrimination. LGBT people do, too. And so do women. The list goes on. Sometimes it's small things, like how people are treated in video games. Sometimes it's big things, like not having the right to vote or being paid less for the same work. Because things are not equal and prejudice exists, some people cheer or smile when things move towards equality and fairness. Sometimes people are happy about the big things, sometimes they are happy about the really, really small things.
But saying that we shouldn't acknowledge when a group makes progress makes no sense. Sometimes people act as if doing so is putting one group over others, or making one group more important than another, or making a big deal about nothing. Men are not harmed if women feel more comfortable gaming, and being happy that more women are gaming isn't an act of prejudice or discrimination against men. Posting that you are happy to see progress doesn't pit men vs. women, nor does it lead to inequality. It is just acknowledging and being happy that something positive has happened, like someone who was unhappy having a good day, or someone who was sick getting better, or like someone who was being abused leaving a bad relationship and moving on. Nor does acknowledging progress by one group reinforce idea of dividing people and therefore set back equality. Ignoring the divisions that already exist and downplaying when the barriers promoting those divisions are weakened can, though, set equality back.
My post was not about ideology, or politics, or people trying to advance an agenda, or any of things people sometimes claim as the "real reason" for acknowledging such good things when they happen to a group of people rather than an individual. (As if promoting fairness or equality was something sinister.) I was very clear in the initial post and my follow-up comment that, whatever people make of the link, the reminder that more women are letting their geek-flag fly made me smile. It isn't complicated. It doesn't take a degree to understand or explain. It is about imagining that some of those girls who used to be embarrassed to want to be Darth Vader for Halloween when they were twelve may now in fact be adult women who are kicking my #$$ in PvP right here on ESO and thinking that this would be an awesome thing.
Honestly, people who have a problem with that, and want to talk instead about equality and fairness and being free to be yourself as "not a big deal" or some kind of needless provocation, are making this about their own issues and the baggage attached to those issues. That's fine. Everyone has their own views, and we all make assumptions. I'm not offended by people who don't understand what I'm saying. But again, it really isn't complicated, and I hope that for most people it isn't controversial. So, again:
1. I'm happy there are more women in gaming (nerding, geeking, etc) than there were when I first started gaming (nerding, geeking) myself. The linked article and other stories like it reminded me of this.
2. I think this is good for games like ESO.
I figure if I'm still not being clear, I will just have to be content with being misunderstood. But I've already spent 15 minutes writing this last comment that could have been spent bringing pain to my online enemies or playing fetch with the dogs, so it will have to do. Whatever your views are or what you think of mine, I wish you well and will see you in Tamriel
No one cares because you're fighting a war against no one. Likely no one here has any problem with women playing ESO. Almost every guild has women in it and they do just fine. You're beating the war drum for a war that ended ages ago.
I hate to break it to you, but you're several decades too late if you're looking to fight real discrimination. People have to make up stuff to be offended about now, because most of the real discrimination is long gone. You missed the boat. So find something else to do to save the world. Or just play the ESO and enjoy it, the way thousands of men and women do every day.
failkiwib16_ESO wrote: »@Lysette I am not so sure that women play those types of games because they don't have the time. I mean ..how come men have time to play games, when they also take care of children, study and/or work?
However I do agree with you, that many of these games are obviously catering to male interests. I think it arrives from the fact that many developers and writers in this industry are men, and if there were more women - then we would see more content catering to female interests.
-Which we kinda already have in a limited way. It's no longer as male dominated as it used to be, and games are much more complex than before, in both storytelling and graphics. It's a fast growing industry ...I have my hopes up
That's very sexiest why is your poor husband slaving away making you nachos lolQuoted content removed (it said something about women, kitchens, sandwiches rather than gaming - and way to take my reply our of context AND be a nanny state ZOSarino)
IDK maybe ask my HUSBAND who's in the kitchen making me a plate of nachos and bringing me a coke.
That's very sexiest why is your poor husband slaving away making you nachos lolQuoted content removed (it said something about women, kitchens, sandwiches rather than gaming - and way to take my reply our of context AND be a nanny state ZOSarino)
IDK maybe ask my HUSBAND who's in the kitchen making me a plate of nachos and bringing me a coke.
xD He appreciates the rewards ;-)
Have you seen the new datamined crown store items? Pirate costumes in particular.MornaBaine wrote: »Inb4Lock
Im also female and I think this fighting over gender equailty in this game in particular is a bit absurd.
Yeah there are more male rulers in this game than female....look at history and tell me that it was any different.
Of the big three in the game, one is female. Nothing wrong with that percentage.
Honestly I dont give a DMN. I love the game, it is well written and I feel as far as story is concerned, it is pretty inclusive.
Male, female, heterosexualism, homosexualism, cross species sexualism. Really what are we arguing about? lol
As far as the costumes are concerned, yea you have a point.
Oh ESO does a lot of things right. I love that they have put forth a world without homophobia or patriarchy. Every fantasy world in existence has at least had the latter, as if it is unthinkable that any existence could have gotten by without it. So that's super refreshing. Which is why when they do stuff like only have one of the Companions be female and put out skimpy female costumes but no corresponding ones for men it really annoys me. They've obviously tried really hard. But they still sometimes drop the ball.
Have you seen the new datamined crown store items? Pirate costumes in particular.MornaBaine wrote: »Inb4Lock
Im also female and I think this fighting over gender equailty in this game in particular is a bit absurd.
Yeah there are more male rulers in this game than female....look at history and tell me that it was any different.
Of the big three in the game, one is female. Nothing wrong with that percentage.
Honestly I dont give a DMN. I love the game, it is well written and I feel as far as story is concerned, it is pretty inclusive.
Male, female, heterosexualism, homosexualism, cross species sexualism. Really what are we arguing about? lol
As far as the costumes are concerned, yea you have a point.
Oh ESO does a lot of things right. I love that they have put forth a world without homophobia or patriarchy. Every fantasy world in existence has at least had the latter, as if it is unthinkable that any existence could have gotten by without it. So that's super refreshing. Which is why when they do stuff like only have one of the Companions be female and put out skimpy female costumes but no corresponding ones for men it really annoys me. They've obviously tried really hard. But they still sometimes drop the ball.
Have you seen the new datamined crown store items? Pirate costumes in particular.MornaBaine wrote: »Inb4Lock
Im also female and I think this fighting over gender equailty in this game in particular is a bit absurd.
Yeah there are more male rulers in this game than female....look at history and tell me that it was any different.
Of the big three in the game, one is female. Nothing wrong with that percentage.
Honestly I dont give a DMN. I love the game, it is well written and I feel as far as story is concerned, it is pretty inclusive.
Male, female, heterosexualism, homosexualism, cross species sexualism. Really what are we arguing about? lol
As far as the costumes are concerned, yea you have a point.
Oh ESO does a lot of things right. I love that they have put forth a world without homophobia or patriarchy. Every fantasy world in existence has at least had the latter, as if it is unthinkable that any existence could have gotten by without it. So that's super refreshing. Which is why when they do stuff like only have one of the Companions be female and put out skimpy female costumes but no corresponding ones for men it really annoys me. They've obviously tried really hard. But they still sometimes drop the ball.
Kingof green wrote: »Females hardly make up the highest demographics of video gamers., maybe in mobile games like crandy cruss or Temple run to pass the time (mobile gaming isn't real gaming)
Yeah there is a lot of female gamers but certainly not as many as men.
Kingof green wrote: »Females hardly make up the highest demographics of video gamers., maybe in mobile games like crandy cruss or Temple run to pass the time (mobile gaming isn't real gaming)
Yeah there is a lot of female gamers but certainly not as many as men.
For sure. Everyone plays smartphone & tablet games. Even my 90 year old grandparents plays simpler games on their iPads. They aren't what I would call "gamers"
But when it comes to traditional gaming, nerding and MMO's, especially on PC where you need a proper gaming rig, there's still a male majority. I dont care what some article claims.
I would guess the females population is somewhere between 15-30% in commercial MMO's. My own experience from playing a lot of MMORPG's mainly and informal data/surveys/polls that's been made.
Rift, WoW, GW2, ESO or SWTOR seemed somewhere in the middle of that. While Final Fantasy XIV had a much higher amount of female players. EvE Online is a total sausage fest obv, no ladies to be found.
Anyway, I think gaming developers should stay far away from focusing on items/content they think a certain gender wants. It will suck period. The difference between player types(hardcore PvE, rp, casual, PvP, solo'er and so on) is much greater than the difference between males&females in online games.