GrimGryphon wrote: »I think it all boils down to if they can push a button they can disagree anonymously, if they have to actually post, they have to defend their position or at least explain it... and everyone knows who they are.
Disagree, dislike or even LOL is easy to abuse because no one knows who did it.
Good point.
Instead of adding a dislike button, let's remove LOL since it's getting abused anyway.
If they take away the lol button, let's use the awesome button instead to give that I disagree feed back. Then if that goes away let's use the insightful button. Do not allow your voice to be silenced, everyone's opinion has value and adds to the community.
I think it all boils down to if they can push a button they can disagree anonymously, if they have to actually post, they have to defend their position or at least explain it... and everyone knows who they are.
Disagree, dislike or even LOL is easy to abuse because no one knows who did it.
GrimGryphon wrote: »GrimGryphon wrote: »I think it all boils down to if they can push a button they can disagree anonymously, if they have to actually post, they have to defend their position or at least explain it... and everyone knows who they are.
Disagree, dislike or even LOL is easy to abuse because no one knows who did it.
Good point.
Instead of adding a dislike button, let's remove LOL since it's getting abused anyway.
If they take away the lol button, let's use the awesome button instead to give that I disagree feed back. Then if that goes away let's use the insightful button. Do not allow your voice to be silenced, everyone's opinion has value and adds to the community.
A "voice" that abuses the system isn't an opinion, it's a tactic.
Burnemdown wrote: »Why should anyone have to defend their opinion to you, Nev, sfb, nox, or anyone on this forum?
GrimGryphon wrote: »Burnemdown wrote: »Why should anyone have to defend their opinion to you, Nev, sfb, nox, or anyone on this forum?
Um...everyone?
So you're saying you want to speak your mind and don't want to defend the things you say that may make others happy, sad, angry, disappointed, etc.?
Viewpoints are to foster discussion. If you simply don't care about the other people in a thread enough by defending your opinion, then you would be better off talking to a mirror.
If you don't care, why should we? It makes your opinion useless and simply forum noise.
Gotta love anti-social behavior in a social setting.
GrimGryphon wrote: »GrimGryphon wrote: »I think it all boils down to if they can push a button they can disagree anonymously, if they have to actually post, they have to defend their position or at least explain it... and everyone knows who they are.
Disagree, dislike or even LOL is easy to abuse because no one knows who did it.
Good point.
Instead of adding a dislike button, let's remove LOL since it's getting abused anyway.
If they take away the lol button, let's use the awesome button instead to give that I disagree feed back. Then if that goes away let's use the insightful button. Do not allow your voice to be silenced, everyone's opinion has value and adds to the community.
A "voice" that abuses the system isn't an opinion, it's a tactic.
Dissenting opinions are valuable and should not be ignored. Obviously you don't have to agree with them, well I guess that is the problem right now you can only agree with them.
I think the problem at the root of this is that people don't like to be disagreed with. This is because we view it in the wrong way, we see it as an attack on our self. I know that is how I use to see it, and I would just get defensive and hunkerdown no matter how far off base I was.
What is happening when someone disagrees with you is that they are showing you they care. They either care enough about you to show you a better way, or they care enough about the issue to go to bat for it. To remove this passion and this concern from our community, I believe, is dangerous and I want better for everyone who is reading.
nerevarine1138 wrote: »GrimGryphon wrote: »GrimGryphon wrote: »I think it all boils down to if they can push a button they can disagree anonymously, if they have to actually post, they have to defend their position or at least explain it... and everyone knows who they are.
Disagree, dislike or even LOL is easy to abuse because no one knows who did it.
Good point.
Instead of adding a dislike button, let's remove LOL since it's getting abused anyway.
If they take away the lol button, let's use the awesome button instead to give that I disagree feed back. Then if that goes away let's use the insightful button. Do not allow your voice to be silenced, everyone's opinion has value and adds to the community.
A "voice" that abuses the system isn't an opinion, it's a tactic.
Dissenting opinions are valuable and should not be ignored. Obviously you don't have to agree with them, well I guess that is the problem right now you can only agree with them.
I think the problem at the root of this is that people don't like to be disagreed with. This is because we view it in the wrong way, we see it as an attack on our self. I know that is how I use to see it, and I would just get defensive and hunkerdown no matter how far off base I was.
What is happening when someone disagrees with you is that they are showing you they care. They either care enough about you to show you a better way, or they care enough about the issue to go to bat for it. To remove this passion and this concern from our community, I believe, is dangerous and I want better for everyone who is reading.
Yes, dissenting opinions (which have to be backed up by an argument) shouldn't be quashed.
Simply stating, "I disagree," does not constitute an opinion. If you disagree, then you need to explain yourself. I don't know why this is so hard for people to understand, since it's been going on this entire thread. If someone disagrees with your post and doesn't have the intelligence or willpower to explain why, they don't deserve to be heard. This is a forum, not a ballot box.
williamburr2001b14_ESO wrote: »AlexDougherty wrote: »williamburr2001b14_ESO wrote: »The bottom line is, we're already in it, waist deep. All a button would do is put a name on something people are already doing. Argue until you're blue in the face, it won't change what other people do.
There is a difference between not being able to stop people being idiots and actively condoning it.
We can't stop people using LOL as an unofficial dislike, but we don't have to accept it either, I use LOL to mean the person has been funny. If everyone else misuses it, that's not my problem, all I have to do it use it properly.
The only difference in "condoning" it (which it isn't, it's just acknowledging it) is that the LOL button can go back to it's intended use, which is "Hey, that was funny" instead of "Hey, I hate your face!" If you need evidence, I mean look at Cogo's posts. That guy's not at all funny, he just says completely pointless things like he was purposefully trying to farm LOLs.
People are doing it already, so yeah, you should probably accept it, because you can't change it. It's no use being the lone boy scout, insisting that you're the one doing it properly, if all the people around you have a different set of normal behaviors. It makes you the weird one.
GrimGryphon wrote: »Punching a dislike button instead of explaining why you disagree is the coward's way out. If they have to explain themselves, they run the risk of coming out of the interaction as the person who looks like an idiot instead of the person they are responding to.
I have a feeling it has more to do with this than anything.
Hit and run commenting. For those without cajones.
It's not a matter of necessity. It's a matter of accountability. If someone is going to put my statements down, I want to know who they are and why. Like I said before, this is a preference, not some fact about what is correct or not.
That just may be true in some circumstances. But a disagree without feedback just leaves the mechanic open for griefing. If the history of the Internet has proven anything, it's just that. There's a reason the massive majority of forums don't incorporate a similar mechanism, because it's been repeatedly abused.It's not a matter of necessity. It's a matter of accountability. If someone is going to put my statements down, I want to know who they are and why. Like I said before, this is a preference, not some fact about what is correct or not.
Who says they are putting your statements down? If it's a disagree button, they're just disagreeing. It's no big deal.
DenverRalphy wrote: »That just may be true in some circumstances. But a disagree without feedback just leaves the mechanic open for griefing. If the history of the Internet has proven anything, it's just that. There's a reason the massive majority of forums don't incorporate a similar mechanism, because it's been repeatedly abused.
nerevarine1138 wrote: »If people are too lazy to formulate an argument, then I'll gladly think that they found something funny in my post. Let them be lazy, and their vote can stand as a testament to their inability to put forward any kind of coherent argument in favor of their position.
AlexDougherty wrote: »nicholaspingasb16_ESO wrote: »the LOL button has become, on most posts, an unofficial dislike button. Adding a dislike button would prevent confusion as to which posts people find legitimately funny, and which ones people think are downright ridiculous. It would also turn every post into a poll, letting you gauge the popularity of people's ideas that are posted here.
There was a dislike button in the beta forums, but it was removed because it was abused.
ZOS is not going to reinstate it no matter how many people ask for it, because it would get abused again. If you disagree with someone, quote them and say what you disagree with, and why. This is much clearer than a disagree button.
DenverRalphy wrote: »nerevarine1138 wrote: »It doesn't have to be "dislike." It could be "disagree." How is that different than many of the poll threads we see? I would at like to see a "Disagree" option to the choices.
No.
If you disagree with someone, explain yourself. If you don't care enough to explain yourself or if you don't have a decent argument, then clearly there's no need for anyone to know about your disagreement.
That makes no sense. The assumption on your part is that all folks would do is click disagree and move on without offering their opinion.
Actually, more often than not, that's exactly what happens.
AlexDougherty wrote: »too many people that can't take criticism so we all have to wear rose colored glasses and pretend every one is special.
No, this is wrong.
Most of us can take critism, try it criticise me.
But what we can't take it people ticking a disagree button and not saying why they disagree. If you disagree say why. A disagree button does not facilitate this.
Burnemdown wrote: »I think it all boils down to if they can push a button they can disagree anonymously, if they have to actually post, they have to defend their position or at least explain it... and everyone knows who they are.
Disagree, dislike or even LOL is easy to abuse because no one knows who did it.
Why should anyone have to defend their opinion to you, Nev, sfb, nox, or anyone on this forum?
Giving posters a way to see who down votes their post would promote more griefing and exclusion in game. As witnessed on these forums when your guildies come here to defend your post,would happen in game also.
As for defending my down vote, Zen has provided a one click way to do that too.
Just scroll down to a opinion that fits the way I feel and click, agree, awesome,insightful. With that one click I can state my opinion, without having to get into an endless debate with a troll.
I like the idea of removing forum points. Leave the up-down vote system. Disagree button? Don't care. I can use the LOL for that.
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nerevarine1138 wrote: »GrimGryphon wrote: »GrimGryphon wrote: »I think it all boils down to if they can push a button they can disagree anonymously, if they have to actually post, they have to defend their position or at least explain it... and everyone knows who they are.
Disagree, dislike or even LOL is easy to abuse because no one knows who did it.
Good point.
Instead of adding a dislike button, let's remove LOL since it's getting abused anyway.
If they take away the lol button, let's use the awesome button instead to give that I disagree feed back. Then if that goes away let's use the insightful button. Do not allow your voice to be silenced, everyone's opinion has value and adds to the community.
A "voice" that abuses the system isn't an opinion, it's a tactic.
Dissenting opinions are valuable and should not be ignored. Obviously you don't have to agree with them, well I guess that is the problem right now you can only agree with them.
I think the problem at the root of this is that people don't like to be disagreed with. This is because we view it in the wrong way, we see it as an attack on our self. I know that is how I use to see it, and I would just get defensive and hunkerdown no matter how far off base I was.
What is happening when someone disagrees with you is that they are showing you they care. They either care enough about you to show you a better way, or they care enough about the issue to go to bat for it. To remove this passion and this concern from our community, I believe, is dangerous and I want better for everyone who is reading.
Yes, dissenting opinions (which have to be backed up by an argument) shouldn't be quashed.
Simply stating, "I disagree," does not constitute an opinion. If you disagree, then you need to explain yourself. I don't know why this is so hard for people to understand, since it's been going on this entire thread. If someone disagrees with your post and doesn't have the intelligence or willpower to explain why, they don't deserve to be heard. This is a forum, not a ballot box.
eventide03b14a_ESO wrote: »nerevarine1138 wrote: »If people are too lazy to formulate an argument, then I'll gladly think that they found something funny in my post. Let them be lazy, and their vote can stand as a testament to their inability to put forward any kind of coherent argument in favor of their position.
I'm pretty sure your LOL's fall into the disagree category.
eventide03b14a_ESO wrote: »nerevarine1138 wrote: »GrimGryphon wrote: »GrimGryphon wrote: »I think it all boils down to if they can push a button they can disagree anonymously, if they have to actually post, they have to defend their position or at least explain it... and everyone knows who they are.
Disagree, dislike or even LOL is easy to abuse because no one knows who did it.
Good point.
Instead of adding a dislike button, let's remove LOL since it's getting abused anyway.
If they take away the lol button, let's use the awesome button instead to give that I disagree feed back. Then if that goes away let's use the insightful button. Do not allow your voice to be silenced, everyone's opinion has value and adds to the community.
A "voice" that abuses the system isn't an opinion, it's a tactic.
Dissenting opinions are valuable and should not be ignored. Obviously you don't have to agree with them, well I guess that is the problem right now you can only agree with them.
I think the problem at the root of this is that people don't like to be disagreed with. This is because we view it in the wrong way, we see it as an attack on our self. I know that is how I use to see it, and I would just get defensive and hunkerdown no matter how far off base I was.
What is happening when someone disagrees with you is that they are showing you they care. They either care enough about you to show you a better way, or they care enough about the issue to go to bat for it. To remove this passion and this concern from our community, I believe, is dangerous and I want better for everyone who is reading.
Yes, dissenting opinions (which have to be backed up by an argument) shouldn't be quashed.
Simply stating, "I disagree," does not constitute an opinion. If you disagree, then you need to explain yourself. I don't know why this is so hard for people to understand, since it's been going on this entire thread. If someone disagrees with your post and doesn't have the intelligence or willpower to explain why, they don't deserve to be heard. This is a forum, not a ballot box.
I don't need to explain why murder is bad. It's universally understood. So are many things. Sometimes there is no need to explain a dissenting opinion. You have this misguided idea that we need to give up our valuable time to you so we can explain why you are wrong about an issue. Would you like me to keep doing this or will my comment become censored? This is what you wanted don't forget.
eventide03b14a_ESO wrote: »AlexDougherty wrote: »nicholaspingasb16_ESO wrote: »the LOL button has become, on most posts, an unofficial dislike button. Adding a dislike button would prevent confusion as to which posts people find legitimately funny, and which ones people think are downright ridiculous. It would also turn every post into a poll, letting you gauge the popularity of people's ideas that are posted here.
There was a dislike button in the beta forums, but it was removed because it was abused.
ZOS is not going to reinstate it no matter how many people ask for it, because it would get abused again. If you disagree with someone, quote them and say what you disagree with, and why. This is much clearer than a disagree button.
Too much censorship. If you even have the slightest hint of an insult you get censored. Having a dislike button sends a clear message from the community that what you have to say is rubbish. Additionally it could bury unpopular posts.
Just out of curiosity, how do you know the mods have been "light handed" with punishment?smeeprocketnub19_ESO wrote: »The mods have been very proactive at halting toxic content or negative arguments, etc but have been very light handed with punishments.
They are not accountable to you. If they breach the forum rules they are accountable to ZOS and I'm content with letting them moderate. Not you.
It's not a matter of necessity. It's a matter of accountability. If someone is going to put my statements down, I want to know who they are and why. Like I said before, this is a preference, not some fact about what is correct or not.
That's all anyone needs to do. As stated before they don't owe you a damn thing. If they disagree, they disagree. Get used to it. That's life.Okay, so why do you disagree, other than ... you just do? Folks who've stated agreement need no further explanation, because the explanation was already sufficiently provided by the person with whom they agreed.
You however have offered no explanation for your disagreement ... other than to state you disagree.
That would be similar to someone simply stating, "I oppose peace."
eventide03b14a_ESO wrote: »AlexDougherty wrote: »nicholaspingasb16_ESO wrote: »the LOL button has become, on most posts, an unofficial dislike button. Adding a dislike button would prevent confusion as to which posts people find legitimately funny, and which ones people think are downright ridiculous. It would also turn every post into a poll, letting you gauge the popularity of people's ideas that are posted here.
There was a dislike button in the beta forums, but it was removed because it was abused.
ZOS is not going to reinstate it no matter how many people ask for it, because it would get abused again. If you disagree with someone, quote them and say what you disagree with, and why. This is much clearer than a disagree button.
Too much censorship. If you even have the slightest hint of an insult you get censored. Having a dislike button sends a clear message from the community that what you have to say is rubbish. Additionally it could bury unpopular posts.
smeeprocketnub19_ESO wrote: »williamburr2001b14_ESO wrote: »williamburr2001b14_ESO wrote: »nerevarine1138 wrote: »nerevarine1138 wrote: »You want a disagree...
I want all the buttons to show who clicked them and also a limit on how many ratings a person can spam in a day.
If there was some accountability for the ratings it wouldn't be a problem. I just hate when a small percentage of trolls spam buttons all day.
Well you can only "spam" a single button per post. So you can't really have that much of an effect on people, especially since LOL points don't count for anything.
You missed the point.
What was the point, then?
You can't spam someone with ratings that would negatively impact them in any way. So why do you care who's rating your posts?
You can not spam a single post, but you can click on every post you see. Get just a few of these people (there are always more than enough) and the 'disagree' trolling begins. Remember this thread is in favor of a dislike button, so we are not talking about what people can currently do. We're talking about what happens when votes have no accountability or limits. Like I said, you can have your dislike button, if you remove the anonymity and add a limit to how many a person can give in a day.
You have yet to make a coherent case why your proposed system does anything at all, other than arbitrarily limit other peoples' actions.
If the worst-case scenario happens, and there is "disagree trolling," the consequences are as follows:
There are no consequences, because this is all just people talking.
I don't understand this weird nannying of air, of thoughts and opinions. "Accountability" and "limits" are only necessary to prevent harm. There is no harm here, there's just you wanting to police what people are allowed to say, and how they are able to express their opinions, for its own sake, for no tangible explicable reason whatsoever.
I know from experience. I've been to forums with a down vote option and it's always used for some petty popularity contest.
I prefer they do not have a down vote button. No one is stopping you from posting. This is my opinion so I don't have to prove anything. Some decisions are not made on fact, they are made on preference, and I prefer a forum without the insulting down votes. If you disagree, then write it.
And if it is used for a petty popularity contest, who cares? This is all talk, it's wind and air. We are already engrossed in a petty popularity contest through the use of Insightful, Awesome, and Agrees. Facebook is the same with Likes and Shares. Just about every forum and comment section has an uptick and a downtick. If you're seeing something petty only in the use of negative and not seeing it in the positive, that is your personal baggage, and nobody else's.
The bottom line is, we're already in it, waist deep. All a button would do is put a name on something people are already doing. Argue until you're blue in the face, it won't change what other people do.
because that kind of negativeness leads to added toxicity in the forums which is bad for everyone.
Yes it's all just talk and we should get thicker skins and so forth and so on, but facilitating that kind of behavior just leads to unhappiness overall.
IDGAF about suppressing or not suppressing someone's cherished opinion.
williamburr2001b14_ESO wrote: »nerevarine1138 wrote: »nerevarine1138 wrote: »You want a disagree...
I want all the buttons to show who clicked them and also a limit on how many ratings a person can spam in a day.
If there was some accountability for the ratings it wouldn't be a problem. I just hate when a small percentage of trolls spam buttons all day.
Well you can only "spam" a single button per post. So you can't really have that much of an effect on people, especially since LOL points don't count for anything.
You missed the point.
What was the point, then?
You can't spam someone with ratings that would negatively impact them in any way. So why do you care who's rating your posts?
You can not spam a single post, but you can click on every post you see. Get just a few of these people (there are always more than enough) and the 'disagree' trolling begins. Remember this thread is in favor of a dislike button, so we are not talking about what people can currently do. We're talking about what happens when votes have no accountability or limits. Like I said, you can have your dislike button, if you remove the anonymity and add a limit to how many a person can give in a day.
You have yet to make a coherent case why your proposed system does anything at all, other than arbitrarily limit other peoples' actions.
If the worst-case scenario happens, and there is "disagree trolling," the consequences are as follows:
There are no consequences, because this is all just people talking.
I don't understand this weird nannying of air, of thoughts and opinions. "Accountability" and "limits" are only necessary to prevent harm. There is no harm here, there's just you wanting to police what people are allowed to say, and how they are able to express their opinions, for its own sake, for no tangible explicable reason whatsoever.
I know from experience. I've been to forums with a down vote option and it's always used for some petty popularity contest.
I prefer they do not have a down vote button. No one is stopping you from posting. This is my opinion so I don't have to prove anything. Some decisions are not made on fact, they are made on preference, and I prefer a forum without the insulting down votes. If you disagree, then write it.
I do disagree, and sense I don't have a button I fill forum with one line posts saying I disagree. That is why buttons exist, to reduce the post count.
Okay, so why do you disagree, other than ... you just do? Folks who've stated agreement need no further explanation, because the explanation was already sufficiently provided by the person with whom they agreed.
You however have offered no explanation for your disagreement ... other than to state you disagree.
That would be similar to someone simply stating, "I oppose peace."
I don't see how this is like saying I oppose peace. Could you eleborate?
Sure. If you say you oppose peace, but you provide no explanation whatsoever, you come off simply as a moron ... or perhaps deranged.
Similarly, in debate if someone poses a point with explanation, you you simply state, "I disagree," with no explanation whatsoever, you come off simply as a moron ... or perhaps just ignorant of the most basic function of debate.
williamburr2001b14_ESO wrote: »
Also, that's a total cop out. Most other avenues of forum communication are able to adultly deal with the concept of a down-tick. Disqus and Facebook, two of the most widely used forum architectures, both have down-ticks, and somehow people manage to use them without devolving into the dystopian wasteland of unhappiness that you predict.