But thanks for reinforcing what a lot of us already feel: we’re not really welcome unless we meet someone else’s idea of “worthy.” That’s the issue and it goes far beyond just me.
twisttop138 wrote: »Look it's obvious we're not going to agree, as you seem to only see what you want. No where does anything I said prove your point tho. I'm saying there's groups that won't exclude you. You just need to do the work and find them. Just because you're a player does not mean you have to be accepted into any group. This is true of life as well. No one owes you anything. If you're serious about it though, then make a group. That way you make the rules. I think I'm starting to see though, why you may be having a hard time finding people to play with.
You're right, we probably won’t agree. But just because you say what you wrote doesn’t prove my point doesn’t make it true. Telling someone they’re being excluded because of their attitude while ignoring the broader issue of accessibility does prove the point, it's a shift of blame away from the system and onto the individual.
You say “just find a group” like it’s easy. For many players with limitations, that’s not realistic. And no, no one is owed a spot in any group, but when exclusion becomes systemic based on "Oakensoul" alone, that’s a community problem, not just a personal one.
Telling someone to “just make your own group” also assumes they have the time, energy, or social connections to do so, again, not something everyone can easily manage. That’s why empathy matters.
But thanks for reinforcing what a lot of us already feel: we’re not really welcome unless we meet someone else’s idea of “worthy.” That’s the issue and it goes far beyond just me.
Well, you can just bring out oakensoul bigger, meaner brother : rakkhat's voidmanle.
Trickier to use, but parsing 120k is not that hard.
120k is plenty enough, and no one is gonna dismiss you for it, unless it's the HA build that's not welcome, and that's nothing more than an ideology, at this point.
Why settle for a 120k parse when you can use an Arcanist and hit 130k+?? And the Arcanist is even easier to play than any build with Rakkhat’s.
Oakensoul was designed for a very specific group of players. Sure, others use it just for fun, but its main purpose is to support players who struggle with weaving, lag, complex rotations and etc... Rakkhat’s is not better than Oakensoul. If you think it is, you really need to try one-bar Arcanist, it's 100% better in every way.
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Like I said, Oakensoul was created for many reasons, mainly to support a very specific group of players. And if you think it’s fair that in a multiplayer game some players can parse 180k+ while others, who already face real-life challenges, struggle to break 100k… that just highlights how flawed many design decisions are within the company.
These players don’t want special treatment, they just want to play the game and be part of high-end content like HM trials and trifectas, just like everyone else. As long as they know the mechanics and what to do, they should be allowed to participate.
But no, they get excluded in real life, and now we’re showing them they’re not even “good enough” to play a damn game!
Oakensoul users don't have many alternatives. And if you believe Rakkhat’s is meant to replace Oakensoul... I genuinely feel sorry for you.
twisttop138 wrote: »You're right, making your own group is t easy, but it's the number 1 way to make sure things go how you want them to go no matter what. Finding your own group is much easier but not super easy sure. If you won't put in the smallest effort though in finding the group that fits you then what are you doing? It can take some work but it's worth it. I can only play from like 7 to 10 on weekdays not weekends. I had to find groups that raid in that time. It took trial and error. I joined quite a few guilds that I had to then leave because our needs didn't line up. Eventually though, be side I wanted it, I found two amazing guilds and they play in my time frame and I've learned awesome stuff. This is all I'm trying to tell you man. That if you put in the work you will find what you're looking for. You seem to be looking to be the victim. The entitled attitude won't get you anywhere. Besides. If those groups that deny you due to oakensoul build, are they your type of people? Would you have enjoyed playing with them?
Alright, just let me know when you’re all going to run vRG HM, vDSR HM, vAS+2 HM, or any other hard mode, I’ll be glad to join using Oakensoul.
If I’m not able to join for any reason, I’d really appreciate it if you could let me know why.
Well, you can just bring out oakensoul bigger, meaner brother : rakkhat's voidmanle.
Trickier to use, but parsing 120k is not that hard.
120k is plenty enough, and no one is gonna dismiss you for it, unless it's the HA build that's not welcome, and that's nothing more than an ideology, at this point.
Why settle for a 120k parse when you can use an Arcanist and hit 130k+?? And the Arcanist is even easier to play than any build with Rakkhat’s.
Oakensoul was designed for a very specific group of players. Sure, others use it just for fun, but its main purpose is to support players who struggle with weaving, lag, complex rotations and etc... Rakkhat’s is not better than Oakensoul. If you think it is, you really need to try one-bar Arcanist, it's 100% better in every way.
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Like I said, Oakensoul was created for many reasons, mainly to support a very specific group of players. And if you think it’s fair that in a multiplayer game some players can parse 180k+ while others, who already face real-life challenges, struggle to break 100k… that just highlights how flawed many design decisions are within the company.
These players don’t want special treatment, they just want to play the game and be part of high-end content like HM trials and trifectas, just like everyone else. As long as they know the mechanics and what to do, they should be allowed to participate.
But no, they get excluded in real life, and now we’re showing them they’re not even “good enough” to play a damn game!
Oakensoul users don't have many alternatives. And if you believe Rakkhat’s is meant to replace Oakensoul... I genuinely feel sorry for you.
twisttop138 wrote: »You're right, making your own group is t easy, but it's the number 1 way to make sure things go how you want them to go no matter what. Finding your own group is much easier but not super easy sure. If you won't put in the smallest effort though in finding the group that fits you then what are you doing? It can take some work but it's worth it. I can only play from like 7 to 10 on weekdays not weekends. I had to find groups that raid in that time. It took trial and error. I joined quite a few guilds that I had to then leave because our needs didn't line up. Eventually though, be side I wanted it, I found two amazing guilds and they play in my time frame and I've learned awesome stuff. This is all I'm trying to tell you man. That if you put in the work you will find what you're looking for. You seem to be looking to be the victim. The entitled attitude won't get you anywhere. Besides. If those groups that deny you due to oakensoul build, are they your type of people? Would you have enjoyed playing with them?
...But here's the thing: why is it always Oakensoul players who are told to go "make their own group"? Why is our build the one that makes us instantly less welcome, even when we know the mechanics and show up ready to contribute? (low DPS!?)
There are plenty of skilled Oakensoul players who parse higher than some 2bar players, but they still get excluded from PuGs just for using Oakensoul, and then excluded again from endgame content for “low DPS,” even when their numbers prove otherwise. Sure, 180k (2bars) vs 100k (1bar) might look like a big difference on paper, but for someone who physically can’t do more, because real life doesn’t allow it, that gap shouldn’t be a wall keeping them out.
No one's saying we should be auto-accepted into every raid, that's not the point. The point is that the bar for acceptance is moved higher for us just because of our build. Meanwhile, people running underperforming meta builds, even if they parse less than an Oakensoul players still get more benefit of the doubt, simply because their bars look right.
You’re absolutely right that if a group doesn't respect your playstyle, maybe it’s not the group for you. But imagine if you were shut down at the door before anyone even saw how you play, that’s what a lot of us deal with. That’s why this conversation keeps coming up.
It’s not about being a victim. It’s about wanting a space in the community where being different or needing something simpler, doesn’t automatically mean you’re lesser.
RealLoveBVB wrote: »Alright, just let me know when you’re all going to run vRG HM, vDSR HM, vAS+2 HM, or any other hard mode, I’ll be glad to join using Oakensoul.
If I’m not able to join for any reason, I’d really appreciate it if you could let me know why.
Which buffs for your group do you have to offer? Which debuffs for bosses/adds do you have to offer?
Oakensoul is not just about keeping up with damage.
Oakensoul is anti-teamplay, as both questions are answered with "none".
2 bar players can offer buffs and debuffs, while still doing high damage. Oakensoul can't do that.
twisttop138 wrote: »You're right, making your own group is t easy, but it's the number 1 way to make sure things go how you want them to go no matter what. Finding your own group is much easier but not super easy sure. If you won't put in the smallest effort though in finding the group that fits you then what are you doing? It can take some work but it's worth it. I can only play from like 7 to 10 on weekdays not weekends. I had to find groups that raid in that time. It took trial and error. I joined quite a few guilds that I had to then leave because our needs didn't line up. Eventually though, be side I wanted it, I found two amazing guilds and they play in my time frame and I've learned awesome stuff. This is all I'm trying to tell you man. That if you put in the work you will find what you're looking for. You seem to be looking to be the victim. The entitled attitude won't get you anywhere. Besides. If those groups that deny you due to oakensoul build, are they your type of people? Would you have enjoyed playing with them?
...But here's the thing: why is it always Oakensoul players who are told to go "make their own group"? Why is our build the one that makes us instantly less welcome, even when we know the mechanics and show up ready to contribute? (low DPS!?)
No one's saying we should be auto-accepted into every raid, that's not the point. The point is that the bar for acceptance is moved higher for us just because of our build. Meanwhile, people running underperforming meta builds, even if they parse less than an Oakensoul players still get more benefit of the doubt, simply because their bars look right.
You’re absolutely right that if a group doesn't respect your playstyle, maybe it’s not the group for you. But imagine if you were shut down at the door before anyone even saw how you play, that’s what a lot of us deal with. That’s why this conversation keeps coming up.
It’s not about being a victim. It’s about wanting a space in the community where being different or needing something simpler, doesn’t automatically mean you’re lesser.
RealLoveBVB wrote: »Alright, just let me know when you’re all going to run vRG HM, vDSR HM, vAS+2 HM, or any other hard mode, I’ll be glad to join using Oakensoul.
If I’m not able to join for any reason, I’d really appreciate it if you could let me know why.
Which buffs for your group do you have to offer? Which debuffs for bosses/adds do you have to offer?
Oakensoul is not just about keeping up with damage.
Oakensoul is anti-teamplay, as both questions are answered with "none".
2 bar players can offer buffs and debuffs, while still doing high damage. Oakensoul can't do that.
I wonder what buffs we even have in this PuG group. But sure, let’s just blame the Oakensorc player... oh wait!
DenverRalphy wrote: »Because you're proposing giving away "valuable enhancements" (your own words) absolutely free, just for being level 50. And as if that isn't enough, you further propose that it should stack with other mythics!
If one bar arcanists can hit 130k why don't the people who 'need' Oakensoul just use Arcanist instead? If you have a physical disability, it is unfortunate that some gameplay styles will not be viable for you and you will have to pick the one that works which in this case is Arcanist. I'm pretty sure even before u46, the highest damage setup with Oakensoul was just arcanist. If it causes you mental anguish not to have the Oakensoul ring equipped, put it on your arcanist.
You mean everyone just choose the same playstyle instead of one bar with at least some choices.
This right here.A major reason leads don't allow oaken builds is because they've been burned too many times by players who aren't good enough and/or can't adapt to the content. Not everyone is going to take a risk on people and there's enough oakensoul players with an attitude problem (want to play with meta players but hate meta, get intense when they're told what to do, etc.) that it is a bigger risk to take an oaken build.
I love my ring. I play pvp. Couldn't care less about what a dummy output gives. IMO, the whole 'dps' obsession some players have here is ridiculous. I understand for those die/tryhard trial players, but other than that, it's some posh stuff.