You are right Bethesda is fine with all the lag and using servers that can not support a majority of the game mechanics. currently, I think a lot of the meta builds are about capitalizing on the lag. Bombers as an example, I cant tell you how many times I have seen people just die and after they are dead oh now I can see the bomber. Running skills or pots to try and counter them very rarely work because of the lag.

I came back to this game after 4 years as what I thought could be a fun way to stay in touch with both of my sons, we are quickly leaving as this game is so much more broken than it was 4 years ago.

This company has no incentive to change because people keep paying for it.