That one person just barreling through, drawing aggro on a ton of mob groups inevitably leading to an unwanted wipe definitely gets on peoples nerves. You shouldve told them beforehand, not after.
First, no video proof of that. Second, that number looks unreliable. You tell us that only 8% was done by the other 3 players? Hard to believe.and because I was doing 92% of the group dps
I may have deserved it though.
I decided to do a random normal, I had a Grand XP scroll running and 25 minutes left on it, so I thought I should get that juicy XP and just rush the dungeon.
Naturally I contemplated setting my role to tank and just slot a taunt. I've done this before to no complaints, it's not difficult to hold taunt in a normal dungeon as a dps, but I decided best get a real tank this time.
The queue pops and Falkreath hold is the dungeon chosen. The tank is actually an argonian in light armor with a resto staff. I don't care as long as they taunt.
Tank does not taunt at all, and because I was doing 92% of the group dps, the enemies would naturally target me. This was fine, I was able to just stand still and let the enemies pile up in front of me, I have a couple actual tanks so I know what to do, just keep them still inside all our DoTs.
After completing the Mammoth boss, I decided to skip the trash inside the city and rush straight to the next boss, partly because my XP timer was running out and also I haven't actually bothered with that trash since the dungeon was released. This upset my team, they did not like me running ahead. I told them to just run past everything and die at the next boss. Rather than asking me to come back to them, they chose to kick me from the group.
Realistically, unless they got a replacement DPS that can carry while tanking, they definitely did not complete that dungeon without me.
My question to everyone:
Did I deserve to be kicked for wanting to skip the trash and rushing through the dungeon, or should I have carried them through the whole thing bit by bit?
I may have deserved it though.
I decided to do a random normal, I had a Grand XP scroll running and 25 minutes left on it, so I thought I should get that juicy XP and just rush the dungeon.
Naturally I contemplated setting my role to tank and just slot a taunt. I've done this before to no complaints, it's not difficult to hold taunt in a normal dungeon as a dps, but I decided best get a real tank this time.
The queue pops and Falkreath hold is the dungeon chosen. The tank is actually an argonian in light armor with a resto staff. I don't care as long as they taunt.
Tank does not taunt at all, and because I was doing 92% of the group dps, the enemies would naturally target me. This was fine, I was able to just stand still and let the enemies pile up in front of me, I have a couple actual tanks so I know what to do, just keep them still inside all our DoTs.
After completing the Mammoth boss, I decided to skip the trash inside the city and rush straight to the next boss, partly because my XP timer was running out and also I haven't actually bothered with that trash since the dungeon was released. This upset my team, they did not like me running ahead. I told them to just run past everything and die at the next boss. Rather than asking me to come back to them, they chose to kick me from the group.
Realistically, unless they got a replacement DPS that can carry while tanking, they definitely did not complete that dungeon without me.
My question to everyone:
Did I deserve to be kicked for wanting to skip the trash and rushing through the dungeon, or should I have carried them through the whole thing bit by bit?
You deserved to be kicked in my opinion if you kept trying to suicide yourself to the next boss. I hate it when people do that. Drives me nuts and I've left dungeons because of it before. But they should have gave you a chance to come back if they weren't willing to do it. So they were a little trigger happy.
That being said - sounded like your tank needed to be kicked too. Frankly, this just sounds like a horrid group period. I'm glad I wasn't in it.
Sylvermynx wrote: »If you wanted feedback, you should have been up front with the others first. "I'm on a scroll, timer is ticking, I need to do a fast run."
That probably would have got you whatever you needed to know before you got 3/4 of the way through - but at least honesty could have been a better policy.
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You deserved to be kicked in my opinion if you kept trying to suicide yourself to the next boss. I hate it when people do that. Drives me nuts and I've left dungeons because of it before. But they should have gave you a chance to come back if they weren't willing to do it. So they were a little trigger happy.
That being said - sounded like your tank needed to be kicked too. Frankly, this just sounds like a horrid group period. I'm glad I wasn't in it.
I agree with this answer 100%.
I am not as quick to kick. I would have waited to see how the next boss went, at least. I do sometimes find it annoying when people skip trash (especially because I am horrible at navigating and will not know the route to sneak or run through or whatever) but I get that it's common enough and would not leave a group that wanted to do it. But expecting people to run through trash in die.... not worth it and not "generally accepted" in dungeons.
I may have deserved it though.
I decided to do a random normal, I had a Grand XP scroll running and 25 minutes left on it, so I thought I should get that juicy XP and just rush the dungeon.
Naturally I contemplated setting my role to tank and just slot a taunt. I've done this before to no complaints, it's not difficult to hold taunt in a normal dungeon as a dps, but I decided best get a real tank this time.
The queue pops and Falkreath hold is the dungeon chosen. The tank is actually an argonian in light armor with a resto staff. I don't care as long as they taunt.
Tank does not taunt at all, and because I was doing 92% of the group dps, the enemies would naturally target me. This was fine, I was able to just stand still and let the enemies pile up in front of me, I have a couple actual tanks so I know what to do, just keep them still inside all our DoTs.
After completing the Mammoth boss, I decided to skip the trash inside the city and rush straight to the next boss, partly because my XP timer was running out and also I haven't actually bothered with that trash since the dungeon was released. This upset my team, they did not like me running ahead. I told them to just run past everything and die at the next boss. Rather than asking me to come back to them, they chose to kick me from the group.
Realistically, unless they got a replacement DPS that can carry while tanking, they definitely did not complete that dungeon without me.
My question to everyone:
Did I deserve to be kicked for wanting to skip the trash and rushing through the dungeon, or should I have carried them through the whole thing bit by bit?
Well basically you're saying your wanted to utilize your xp pot but leaving xp behind while skipping, somehow not very logical for me tbh. 🤔