I think this is very important and often forgotten. Does the person even want to improve their PvE skills? Perhaps they just need Undaunted Mettle, a shoulder piece, or a transmute crystal. Perhaps they are a PvPer, and they only do it for Mettle. Perhaps they are farming a set. Perhaps they just want to have some fun. Perhaps they are tired after a long day, and that day is not the day they want to hear about their lacking DPS, when it's actually OK for the normal or non-DLC dungeon that they're doing.My first question would be what the persons goals are. You dont need the same amount of DPS for Normals, Vets or trials.