FLuFFyxMuFFiN wrote: »FLuFFyxMuFFiN wrote: »Seems a little hypocritical to me.
Ur missing the point.
You kick someone because they refuse to listen to you and the rest of the group and are ruining the duengeon for everyone.
You kick then for shoutting at you for always dying and wiping the rest of the group.
And again whenni kicked the other dps was with the permition of the rest of group. Not only my opinion
Hey some people just don't like being yelled at. Maybe if you calmly helped him out it would have ended differently. And it is kinda hard to understand the point of this post when its confusing to read with the mistakes in it.
@Alabyn yeah man i lost my cool. But i tried to explain the mechannics so many times and the guy just didnt care/replied and rest of us just wiped and wiped cuz he didnt want to coopFLuFFyxMuFFiN wrote: »FLuFFyxMuFFiN wrote: »Seems a little hypocritical to me.
Ur missing the point.
You kick someone because they refuse to listen to you and the rest of the group and are ruining the duengeon for everyone.
You kick then for shoutting at you for always dying and wiping the rest of the group.
And again whenni kicked the other dps was with the permition of the rest of group. Not only my opinion
Hey some people just don't like being yelled at. Maybe if you calmly helped him out it would have ended differently. And it is kinda hard to understand the point of this post when its confusing to read with the mistakes in it.
The OP said he eventually lost his cool, and my thought is that's not a time to be kicking someone. And even if there is a vote mechanism, the decent thing to do (in addition to explaining the fight if you know the mechanics, when either through word or deed another player clearly does not), before kicking someone is to politely asked them if they may be replaced. Hell, I've offered to be replaced when clearly I was having a hard time of it.
Anyway, yelling at the guy with the crown by his name is sometimes a bad idea.
@Alabyn yeah man i lost my cool. But i tried to explain the mechannics so many times and the guy just didnt care/replied and rest of us just wiped and wiped cuz he didnt want to coopFLuFFyxMuFFiN wrote: »FLuFFyxMuFFiN wrote: »Seems a little hypocritical to me.
Ur missing the point.
You kick someone because they refuse to listen to you and the rest of the group and are ruining the duengeon for everyone.
You kick then for shoutting at you for always dying and wiping the rest of the group.
And again whenni kicked the other dps was with the permition of the rest of group. Not only my opinion
Hey some people just don't like being yelled at. Maybe if you calmly helped him out it would have ended differently. And it is kinda hard to understand the point of this post when its confusing to read with the mistakes in it.
The OP said he eventually lost his cool, and my thought is that's not a time to be kicking someone. And even if there is a vote mechanism, the decent thing to do (in addition to explaining the fight if you know the mechanics, when either through word or deed another player clearly does not), before kicking someone is to politely asked them if they may be replaced. Hell, I've offered to be replaced when clearly I was having a hard time of it.
Anyway, yelling at the guy with the crown by his name is sometimes a bad idea.
Burning_Talons wrote: »Yes you kicked someone based on your opinion and someone kicked you based on theirs. Sounds fair... Working as intended.
I asked the rest of the group if i should kick him or not the other 2 said yes. Did i wrote something wrong or did u guys not read the "after consulting with rest of the group" part?
You dont kick someone who ran through the WHOLE dungeon with you thats a waste of time if you want a new group then you leaveBurning_Talons wrote: »Yes you kicked someone based on your opinion and someone kicked you based on theirs. Sounds fair... Working as intended.
I asked the rest of the group if i should kick him or not the other 2 said yes. Did i wrote something wrong or did u guys not read the "after consulting with rest of the group" part?
You dont kick someone who ran through the WHOLE dungeon with you thats a waste of time if you want a new group then you leave
Because we all like to carry people
Burning_Talons wrote: »Burning_Talons wrote: »Yes you kicked someone based on your opinion and someone kicked you based on theirs. Sounds fair... Working as intended.
I asked the rest of the group if i should kick him or not the other 2 said yes. Did i wrote something wrong or did u guys not read the "after consulting with rest of the group" part?
You dont kick someone who ran through the WHOLE dungeon with you thats a waste of time if you want a new group then you leaveBurning_Talons wrote: »Yes you kicked someone based on your opinion and someone kicked you based on theirs. Sounds fair... Working as intended.
I asked the rest of the group if i should kick him or not the other 2 said yes. Did i wrote something wrong or did u guys not read the "after consulting with rest of the group" part?
You dont kick someone who ran through the WHOLE dungeon with you thats a waste of time if you want a new group then you leave
Because we all like to carry people
Should have kicked him before instead of at the end
Leave after first wipe at the first boss? I doubt that's a good thing to do.
KoshkaMurka wrote: »Leave after first wipe at the first boss? I doubt that's a good thing to do.
Depends on what caused the wipe. If you see that the "tank" is a guy with 16k hp, no shields and no taunt, dds cant do more than 2-3k dps (its noticeable even without group dps meter), or healer that only heals himself, and this dungeon contains harder bosses than the first one, leaving is a wise decision.
Or, for example, real story - there was a pug for vDarkshade, dds didnt have any aoes and one of them was just spamming bow light attacks. Surprisingly, he had the highest level in group. I was healing. After the first miniboss, which took forever to kill, I realized that we're not going to kill the next bosses and the dds wouldnt listen. Dont think that staying in group would be a nice decision in that situation... Listening to all "heal me more!", "wtf is with that healer, she couldnt outheal cave collapse on bloodspawn" (also real story from 1.5 when I wasnt playing heal/dd yet), "I play as I want, so I will be using Puncture as my main dps ability... What the hell, why did I die? HEALER!"
I play this game for more than a year, I join pugs quite often and I from my experience "extremely bad player that is extremely friendly" is a mere myth. Well, I dont know, maybe they're friendly to their friends, but the most rude people I ever met in this game were those low dps dds that expect others to carry them. They might seem "elitist" to some people since they can copy builds from the internet, but they always have 2 specific traits: they dont wanna pay attention to their group and surroundings, even on the most basic level (use abilities to dps, dont stand in red etc) and they dont treat the group like equals, like real people. Which means they dont care how the group finishes the dungeon, they want the gold key so the group must get said gold key for them, without them participating. No matter what.
Friendly players, on the other hand, are usually willing to cooperate, not having a top notch build is not an issue in most cases when a player, well, plays smart and cares about teamwork.
Veske_Valrune wrote: »@OP you're totally right. Sorry you had to go through that, I've had similar experiences and sympathize with you. There also seem to be a lot of people in here that don't have great reading comprehension, saying things like "LOL KARMA" and to them I say, please read the post before responding.
Hey guys! This is sugestion/rant.
First of all, i love the new random duengeon finder, i havent encounter any problems with it... only one..
And that is only one person that has the lead of the group. And this wouldnt be such a bad thing if people were a bunch of *** that rather kick people instead of learning...
This is what happened today :
So the gold plegde was The Banished cells.. so since im a tank i can find a group pretty fast via queue.
We got into the duengeon the wiped on every single boss until the last one.. in each i lost my patient and kicked the guy (after consulting with the rest of the group). We found a replacement pretty fast and everything was doing fine but we were strugglin with the last boss... So for the 4th time today i explained the tatics to defeat him..
The new dps that just joined got the lead somehow, but the he kept on dying by standing in the fire.. again i lost my patient and told him to get out of the god damn fire and kill the adds instead of dps the boss.
The guy kicked me. I was in that duengeon for 1.30h , teaching people how to do it and trying to be helpfull and i got kicked because some dumb guy got the lead!
In the end i didnt finish my pledge and i have to go work so im not gonna finish it today.
My suggestion :
Add a vote to kick instead of 1 person having all the power. If the group thinks someone should leave they will vote yes, if no they'll vote no .
I lost 1.30h of the small time i have in my hands to play because of something stupid like this.
Thank you all for the attention (sorry for any spelling mistakes)
Lotheimas
Hortator Indoril Nerevar wrote: »Hey guys! This is sugestion/rant.
First of all, i love the new random duengeon finder, i havent encounter any problems with it... only one..
And that is only one person that has the lead of the group. And this wouldnt be such a bad thing if people were a bunch of *** that rather kick people instead of learning...
This is what happened today :
So the gold plegde was The Banished cells.. so since im a tank i can find a group pretty fast via queue.
We got into the duengeon the wiped on every single boss until the last one.. in each i lost my patient and kicked the guy (after consulting with the rest of the group). We found a replacement pretty fast and everything was doing fine but we were strugglin with the last boss... So for the 4th time today i explained the tatics to defeat him..
The new dps that just joined got the lead somehow, but the he kept on dying by standing in the fire.. again i lost my patient and told him to get out of the god damn fire and kill the adds instead of dps the boss.
The guy kicked me. I was in that duengeon for 1.30h , teaching people how to do it and trying to be helpfull and i got kicked because some dumb guy got the lead!
In the end i didnt finish my pledge and i have to go work so im not gonna finish it today.
My suggestion :
Add a vote to kick instead of 1 person having all the power. If the group thinks someone should leave they will vote yes, if no they'll vote no .
I lost 1.30h of the small time i have in my hands to play because of something stupid like this.
Thank you all for the attention (sorry for any spelling mistakes)
Lotheimas
Pugs are bad news, play with a set amount of people. Add good players to your friend list and put notes beside them which tell you what class, role and how good they are with also other information and in no time when you go to do content you can open your list and see a long list of people who are actually able to play the game. Dont pug in other words, or at least only pug until you have a full list of people who are not potato at the game.
Also good luck with all the people on the forums who think its "elitest" to not want to waste real life time doing content. Most dungeons are 10 mins or less runs with decent players...
Hortator Indoril Nerevar wrote: »Hey guys! This is sugestion/rant.
First of all, i love the new random duengeon finder, i havent encounter any problems with it... only one..
And that is only one person that has the lead of the group. And this wouldnt be such a bad thing if people were a bunch of *** that rather kick people instead of learning...
This is what happened today :
So the gold plegde was The Banished cells.. so since im a tank i can find a group pretty fast via queue.
We got into the duengeon the wiped on every single boss until the last one.. in each i lost my patient and kicked the guy (after consulting with the rest of the group). We found a replacement pretty fast and everything was doing fine but we were strugglin with the last boss... So for the 4th time today i explained the tatics to defeat him..
The new dps that just joined got the lead somehow, but the he kept on dying by standing in the fire.. again i lost my patient and told him to get out of the god damn fire and kill the adds instead of dps the boss.
The guy kicked me. I was in that duengeon for 1.30h , teaching people how to do it and trying to be helpfull and i got kicked because some dumb guy got the lead!
In the end i didnt finish my pledge and i have to go work so im not gonna finish it today.
My suggestion :
Add a vote to kick instead of 1 person having all the power. If the group thinks someone should leave they will vote yes, if no they'll vote no .
I lost 1.30h of the small time i have in my hands to play because of something stupid like this.
Thank you all for the attention (sorry for any spelling mistakes)
Lotheimas
Pugs are bad news, play with a set amount of people. Add good players to your friend list and put notes beside them which tell you what class, role and how good they are with also other information and in no time when you go to do content you can open your list and see a long list of people who are actually able to play the game. Dont pug in other words, or at least only pug until you have a full list of people who are not potato at the game.
Also good luck with all the people on the forums who think its "elitest" to not want to waste real life time doing content. Most dungeons are 10 mins or less runs with decent players...
Yeah most people think i was a douch
Hortator Indoril Nerevar wrote: »Hey guys! This is sugestion/rant.
First of all, i love the new random duengeon finder, i havent encounter any problems with it... only one..
And that is only one person that has the lead of the group. And this wouldnt be such a bad thing if people were a bunch of *** that rather kick people instead of learning...
This is what happened today :
So the gold plegde was The Banished cells.. so since im a tank i can find a group pretty fast via queue.
We got into the duengeon the wiped on every single boss until the last one.. in each i lost my patient and kicked the guy (after consulting with the rest of the group). We found a replacement pretty fast and everything was doing fine but we were strugglin with the last boss... So for the 4th time today i explained the tatics to defeat him..
The new dps that just joined got the lead somehow, but the he kept on dying by standing in the fire.. again i lost my patient and told him to get out of the god damn fire and kill the adds instead of dps the boss.
The guy kicked me. I was in that duengeon for 1.30h , teaching people how to do it and trying to be helpfull and i got kicked because some dumb guy got the lead!
In the end i didnt finish my pledge and i have to go work so im not gonna finish it today.
My suggestion :
Add a vote to kick instead of 1 person having all the power. If the group thinks someone should leave they will vote yes, if no they'll vote no .
I lost 1.30h of the small time i have in my hands to play because of something stupid like this.
Thank you all for the attention (sorry for any spelling mistakes)
Lotheimas
Pugs are bad news, play with a set amount of people. Add good players to your friend list and put notes beside them which tell you what class, role and how good they are with also other information and in no time when you go to do content you can open your list and see a long list of people who are actually able to play the game. Dont pug in other words, or at least only pug until you have a full list of people who are not potato at the game.
Also good luck with all the people on the forums who think its "elitest" to not want to waste real life time doing content. Most dungeons are 10 mins or less runs with decent players...
Yeah most people think i was a douch
Hortator Indoril Nerevar wrote: »Hey guys! This is sugestion/rant.
First of all, i love the new random duengeon finder, i havent encounter any problems with it... only one..
And that is only one person that has the lead of the group. And this wouldnt be such a bad thing if people were a bunch of *** that rather kick people instead of learning...
This is what happened today :
So the gold plegde was The Banished cells.. so since im a tank i can find a group pretty fast via queue.
We got into the duengeon the wiped on every single boss until the last one.. in each i lost my patient and kicked the guy (after consulting with the rest of the group). We found a replacement pretty fast and everything was doing fine but we were strugglin with the last boss... So for the 4th time today i explained the tatics to defeat him..
The new dps that just joined got the lead somehow, but the he kept on dying by standing in the fire.. again i lost my patient and told him to get out of the god damn fire and kill the adds instead of dps the boss.
The guy kicked me. I was in that duengeon for 1.30h , teaching people how to do it and trying to be helpfull and i got kicked because some dumb guy got the lead!
In the end i didnt finish my pledge and i have to go work so im not gonna finish it today.
My suggestion :
Add a vote to kick instead of 1 person having all the power. If the group thinks someone should leave they will vote yes, if no they'll vote no .
I lost 1.30h of the small time i have in my hands to play because of something stupid like this.
Thank you all for the attention (sorry for any spelling mistakes)
Lotheimas
Pugs are bad news, play with a set amount of people. Add good players to your friend list and put notes beside them which tell you what class, role and how good they are with also other information and in no time when you go to do content you can open your list and see a long list of people who are actually able to play the game. Dont pug in other words, or at least only pug until you have a full list of people who are not potato at the game.
Also good luck with all the people on the forums who think its "elitest" to not want to waste real life time doing content. Most dungeons are 10 mins or less runs with decent players...
Yeah most people think i was a douch
This forum is filled with super egoistic entitled bad players who DEMAND that you carry them. It's aparently expected that you waste your time with them, and god forbid you tell them to improve or at least try to be good because they don't need to be good, because "dmg is not needed".
I hate those DDs.
And on topic:
The LFG group system really needs some work, one thing beeing votekick, another beeing a ready check before the group is formed.