I get it, in your case the guild leader sounds like he overreacted and was kinda a jerk about it...BUT
1. Any organized group you're in, if they're being serious, will want you to be with the group, that's the point of grouping
2. Leading is a tough job, and getting 24 ppl (or any number, honestly) to stay on crown is like herding a bunch of ADD cats
3. Sounds like you were new to the guild, or at least not a regular with them, so you're going to get less leeway
4. You took care of yourself and didn't die, and your group wasn't bombed and didn't need you while you weren't there bc you wandered off, but that isn't always the case, in fact, usually if someone wanders off and gets ganked alone by 2 players, they die and the group has to try to go get them.
Group play can be very fun and being actually good at it takes quite a bit of skill. Saying that being part of a larger team means you don't have to be any good is asinine; working as a team takes its own set of skills, which is why there are some extremely good groups, and some extremely bad ones. Every elite pvp guild in the game has run large groups, but then, so have most pug guilds. Idk what guild you were running with, but almost every good guild, if they know you and you prove to them that you know what you're doing, will basically let you do your own thing as long as it doesn't hurt the group.
Actually when it comes to competitive groupplay the purpose of numbers is to increase damage output, not reduce damage taken. Dead people don't damage.Sallington wrote: »All big groups I've grouped with have been "stay on crown or GTFO" groups. That's pretty much the only point of being in a group that larger, since their main purpose is to "exploit" the AOE cap mechanic.
I've been having much more fun just flying solo or in a very small group, hopping around to wherever the action is.
I can't stand playing in blob/ball groups. I learned that within 5 minutes of being in one the first time. So I stopped joining them. My decision has nothing to do with any judgement on the skill level of different playstyles.
I just didn't like having to stack on crown and not being able to freelance. People that do, they are cool in my book. Just not my cup of tea.
RadioheadSh0t wrote: »...
But anyone who perceives organized groups as "mindless zombies" clearly hasn't played in an elite group regularly. I've had sessions where Its been non-stop action for almost an hour, where you're constantly being asked to move and coordinate effectively, and it is far from "mindless." It takes intense concentration, great leadership, and impeccable coordination to run with the best of the best.
I can't stand playing in blob/ball groups. I learned that within 5 minutes of being in one the first time. So I stopped joining them. My decision has nothing to do with any judgement on the skill level of different playstyles.
I just didn't like having to stack on crown and not being able to freelance. People that do, they are cool in my book. Just not my cup of tea.
RadioheadSh0t wrote: »...
But anyone who perceives organized groups as "mindless zombies" clearly hasn't played in an elite group regularly. I've had sessions where Its been non-stop action for almost an hour, where you're constantly being asked to move and coordinate effectively, and it is far from "mindless." It takes intense concentration, great leadership, and impeccable coordination to run with the best of the best.
I'm definitely using metaphors here with the "zombie" labeling, but there *is* a huge gap between the amount of skill, concentration, situational awareness, response times, etc. - call them mental resources - required within a zerg and within a small group environment. The lethality, urgency, precision requirement and importance of actions in a small group environment is an order of magnitude higher.
Again, I have played both enough to personally feel the difference. I don't know what else to say to describe it, other than how my brain can typically wonder off while still being very effective at following all of crown's instructions. In all the zerg commotion, single target DPS is in the minority with most of the area dominated by spin to win, healing spams and various ults. Yes, army maneuvering is tough, but that's crown's job, which I readily admit takes skill and learning.
I suspect, perhaps, that it is you who hasn't done much of the small scale squad play, both winning and losing in it, to realize the difference. I am not saying that playing in a ball-group is literally 0 skill; it certainly has a learning curve and skill cap of its own. But it *is* brain-dead, metaphorically speaking, in comparison to what you get in small scale (3-5 people) teams.
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »LOL, couldn't agree more with OP.
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »LOL, couldn't agree more with OP. Running in a zerg sticking to the crown is boring, annoying, feels like being a dog on a leash, and doesn't feel like PvP at all. It's only good for farming AP, just like AOE-ing zombies in grindspots is good for farming XP. But it's exactly as boring and brainless. I do it every now and then when my goal is purely to farm AP as quickly as possible, but beyond that, I solo. I usually encounter like-minded solo-ers while doing it, we end up inviting each other and having great fun skirmishing.
Moreover, I'm pretty bad at PvP but soloing/small grouping makes me get better and better each time. I can choose what risks I take, when and whom to attack, take my time to analyze a situation. I learn much more doing this than running hastily everywhere trying to stick to a crown.
Dear raid leaders... I understand that your job is hard, but I won't obey you nonetheless, unless I'm purposingly farming AP and not expecting any fun.
I will not stack on your crown because I have 8K stamina and I cannot run and stealth and do all you want from me without running out of stam and die instantly once in combat.
I will not follow your orders if I don't know your planned strategy and objectives (and agree with it).
I will not slot whatever skill you want me to slot because I have my rotation and I don't want to ruin it and die.
I will not blindly follow you into big zergs, it's much more fun to create smaller combat on plenty of locations on the map (and yes that implies dealing with NPCs first instead of really PvP-ing but that's the price to pay for the kind of fight we enjoy).
But you don't have to worry because I will not group up with you.
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »LOL, couldn't agree more with OP. Running in a zerg sticking to the crown is boring, annoying, feels like being a dog on a leash, and doesn't feel like PvP at all. It's only good for farming AP, just like AOE-ing zombies in grindspots is good for farming XP. But it's exactly as boring and brainless. I do it every now and then when my goal is purely to farm AP as quickly as possible, but beyond that, I solo. I usually encounter like-minded solo-ers while doing it, we end up inviting each other and having great fun skirmishing.
Moreover, I'm pretty bad at PvP but soloing/small grouping makes me get better and better each time. I can choose what risks I take, when and whom to attack, take my time to analyze a situation. I learn much more doing this than running hastily everywhere trying to stick to a crown.
Dear raid leaders... I understand that your job is hard, but I won't obey you nonetheless, unless I'm purposingly farming AP and not expecting any fun.
I will not stack on your crown because I'm have 8K stamina and I cannot run and stealth and do all you want from me without running out of stam and die instantly once in combat.
I will not follow your orders if I don't know your planned strategy and objectives (and agree with it).
I will not slot whatever skill you want me to slot because I have my rotation and I don't want to ruin it and die.
I will not blindly follow you into big zergs, it's much more fun to create smaller combat on plenty of locations on the map (and yes that implies dealing with NPCs first instead of really PvP-ing but that's the price to pay for the kind of fight we enjoy).
But you don't have to worry because I will not group up with you.
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »LOL, couldn't agree more with OP. Running in a zerg sticking to the crown is boring, annoying, feels like being a dog on a leash, and doesn't feel like PvP at all. It's only good for farming AP, just like AOE-ing zombies in grindspots is good for farming XP. But it's exactly as boring and brainless. I do it every now and then when my goal is purely to farm AP as quickly as possible, but beyond that, I solo. I usually encounter like-minded solo-ers while doing it, we end up inviting each other and having great fun skirmishing.
Moreover, I'm pretty bad at PvP but soloing/small grouping makes me get better and better each time. I can choose what risks I take, when and whom to attack, take my time to analyze a situation. I learn much more doing this than running hastily everywhere trying to stick to a crown.
Dear raid leaders... I understand that your job is hard, but I won't obey you nonetheless, unless I'm purposingly farming AP and not expecting any fun.
I will not stack on your crown because I have 8K stamina and I cannot run and stealth and do all you want from me without running out of stam and die instantly once in combat.
I will not follow your orders if I don't know your planned strategy and objectives (and agree with it).
I will not slot whatever skill you want me to slot because I have my rotation and I don't want to ruin it and die.
I will not blindly follow you into big zergs, it's much more fun to create smaller combat on plenty of locations on the map (and yes that implies dealing with NPCs first instead of really PvP-ing but that's the price to pay for the kind of fight we enjoy).
But you don't have to worry because I will not group up with you.
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »LOL, couldn't agree more with OP. Running in a zerg sticking to the crown is boring, annoying, feels like being a dog on a leash, and doesn't feel like PvP at all. It's only good for farming AP, just like AOE-ing zombies in grindspots is good for farming XP. But it's exactly as boring and brainless. I do it every now and then when my goal is purely to farm AP as quickly as possible, but beyond that, I solo. I usually encounter like-minded solo-ers while doing it, we end up inviting each other and having great fun skirmishing.
Moreover, I'm pretty bad at PvP but soloing/small grouping makes me get better and better each time. I can choose what risks I take, when and whom to attack, take my time to analyze a situation. I learn much more doing this than running hastily everywhere trying to stick to a crown.
Dear raid leaders... I understand that your job is hard, but I won't obey you nonetheless, unless I'm purposingly farming AP and not expecting any fun.
I will not stack on your crown because I have 8K stamina and I cannot run and stealth and do all you want from me without running out of stam and die instantly once in combat.
I will not follow your orders if I don't know your planned strategy and objectives (and agree with it).
I will not slot whatever skill you want me to slot because I have my rotation and I don't want to ruin it and die.
I will not blindly follow you into big zergs, it's much more fun to create smaller combat on plenty of locations on the map (and yes that implies dealing with NPCs first instead of really PvP-ing but that's the price to pay for the kind of fight we enjoy).
But you don't have to worry because I will not group up with you.
And here we have the kind of response I cant respect.
1. Someone with your attitude would never get invited anyway, no worries there.
2. Full of yourself arent you? If you approve of the strat of the raid lead? Please, I assure you I know more about strat and game mechanics and what the other groups in this game are prone to do and even what their raid leads may be thinking, than you ever will, and have the experience to back it.
3. The typical stamp foot "i aint changin nuffinz" play just makes me giggle, because its that mentality that gets people killed, learn to adapt
4. 8k stam in cyro? Seriously? And you solo/smallscale with that? I bet youre an easy kill then.
5. A raid group (organized group) isnt a blob of mindless zombies. it is a well oiled machine in which everyone knows their role, takes cues and directional instructions, simple commands, and executes their role. Think military here. Soldiers arent mindless drones, they follow instructions and training, and play the role they trained for. Infantry, artillery, combat medic, recon, armor, etc etc etc.
Pretty much all i got to say to this one.
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »LOL, couldn't agree more with OP. Running in a zerg sticking to the crown is boring, annoying, feels like being a dog on a leash, and doesn't feel like PvP at all. It's only good for farming AP, just like AOE-ing zombies in grindspots is good for farming XP. But it's exactly as boring and brainless. I do it every now and then when my goal is purely to farm AP as quickly as possible, but beyond that, I solo. I usually encounter like-minded solo-ers while doing it, we end up inviting each other and having great fun skirmishing.
Moreover, I'm pretty bad at PvP but soloing/small grouping makes me get better and better each time. I can choose what risks I take, when and whom to attack, take my time to analyze a situation. I learn much more doing this than running hastily everywhere trying to stick to a crown.
Dear raid leaders... I understand that your job is hard, but I won't obey you nonetheless, unless I'm purposingly farming AP and not expecting any fun.
I will not stack on your crown because I have 8K stamina and I cannot run and stealth and do all you want from me without running out of stam and die instantly once in combat.
I will not follow your orders if I don't know your planned strategy and objectives (and agree with it).
I will not slot whatever skill you want me to slot because I have my rotation and I don't want to ruin it and die.
I will not blindly follow you into big zergs, it's much more fun to create smaller combat on plenty of locations on the map (and yes that implies dealing with NPCs first instead of really PvP-ing but that's the price to pay for the kind of fight we enjoy).
But you don't have to worry because I will not group up with you.
I can't stand playing in blob/ball groups. I learned that within 5 minutes of being in one the first time. So I stopped joining them. My decision has nothing to do with any judgement on the skill level of different playstyles.
I just didn't like having to stack on crown and not being able to freelance. People that do, they are cool in my book. Just not my cup of tea.
And this is an honest answer as a leader of a ball group I can respect. The playstyle isnt for everyone. Indeed you are probably not even built or geared in such a way that our playstyle even suits you anyway.
Theres a big difference between running solo, 5 man, or running a 12-20 man tight. Things need sacrificed for the benefit of the group, autonomy is traded for group utility.
Its sort of like self reliance vs socialism. Depending on the application, one is better suited to any given individual.
God I just realized my playstyle is socialism, i gotta revoke my party card now x.x
I can't stand playing in blob/ball groups. I learned that within 5 minutes of being in one the first time. So I stopped joining them. My decision has nothing to do with any judgement on the skill level of different playstyles.
I just didn't like having to stack on crown and not being able to freelance. People that do, they are cool in my book. Just not my cup of tea.
I definitely mirror your sentiment but wish more people realized the beauty of small scale combat so we have more options for grouping when it comes to pvp. It too often becomes a zerg fest in cyrodiil right now.
thelordoffelines wrote: »You need to work on your build if it has zero flexibility.... And 8k stam.
And here we have the kind of response I cant respect.
2. Full of yourself arent you? If you approve of the strat of the raid lead? Please, I assure you I know more about strat and game mechanics and what the other groups in this game are prone to do and even what their raid leads may be thinking, than you ever will, and have the experience to back it.
5. A raid group (organized group) isnt a blob of mindless zombies. it is a well oiled machine in which everyone knows their role, takes cues and directional instructions, simple commands, and executes their role. Think military here. Soldiers arent mindless drones, they follow instructions and training, and play the role they trained for. Infantry, artillery, combat medic, recon, armor, etc etc etc.
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »LOL, couldn't agree more with OP. Running in a zerg sticking to the crown is boring, annoying, feels like being a dog on a leash, and doesn't feel like PvP at all. It's only good for farming AP, just like AOE-ing zombies in grindspots is good for farming XP. But it's exactly as boring and brainless. I do it every now and then when my goal is purely to farm AP as quickly as possible, but beyond that, I solo. I usually encounter like-minded solo-ers while doing it, we end up inviting each other and having great fun skirmishing.
Moreover, I'm pretty bad at PvP but soloing/small grouping makes me get better and better each time. I can choose what risks I take, when and whom to attack, take my time to analyze a situation. I learn much more doing this than running hastily everywhere trying to stick to a crown.
Dear raid leaders... I understand that your job is hard, but I won't obey you nonetheless, unless I'm purposingly farming AP and not expecting any fun.
I will not stack on your crown because I'm have 8K stamina and I cannot run and stealth and do all you want from me without running out of stam and die instantly once in combat.
I will not follow your orders if I don't know your planned strategy and objectives (and agree with it).
I will not slot whatever skill you want me to slot because I have my rotation and I don't want to ruin it and die.
I will not blindly follow you into big zergs, it's much more fun to create smaller combat on plenty of locations on the map (and yes that implies dealing with NPCs first instead of really PvP-ing but that's the price to pay for the kind of fight we enjoy).
But you don't have to worry because I will not group up with you.
You have 8k stamina?
anitajoneb17_ESO wrote: »I don't understand why you criticize the way I enjoy to play in Cyrodiil : it suits me, it doesn't disturb you at all and it doesn't interfere with what you're doing.
RadioheadSh0t wrote: »
I'm just sick of hearing about how easy running in large raids is from people who clearly have no clue what they're talking about. They want so hard to believe their style of play is more difficult to validate their special snowflake status.
"I don't want to change my rotation because I don't want to die." If you can't adapt your skills and build based on situation and not fail, that's on you. Any player worth a damn can succeed in more than one role.
Wow...did someone really have the bigoted ignorance to say that about the kind of people that have died so that they could post sniveling drivel about how no one respects his special snowflake status?
Empty headed spoiled brats like that need to come off of their parent's teats and go learn about real life before they call soldiers mindless, and undeserving of anything.
Rylana is right. You really don't deserve any respect.
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