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[Serious] Improving this online community

  • Srugzal
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    Soloeus wrote: »
    1. Pathos is appealing to Emotion, which you do with your sob stories. Your problem is that using a sob story of "others have it worse than you" as a language coding technique to actually say shut up! cheapens the value of the sob story. I already feel less empathy for every situation you just described about the precious babies because I feel you tried to manipulate my emotions to silence me by making me feel bad if I "complain."

    2. Logos is appealing to Logic, in which you go on a huge tirade about how it just isn't the end of the world. Problem is, nobody said it is. Nobody is behaving out of the motives you address. Instead, it seems logically, like you are muddying the waters by accusing people of having motives or behaviors just to paint a picture of them that is easy to attack. You also come off like some rich snob telling poor people just work harder.

    3. Ethos is appealing to Ethics in which you attempt to portray people who "complain" as being unethical and immoral. Part of your argument is mere Semantics over the meaning of the word Rage. I also find it unethical that you are using manipulate techniques to rally the horde against "complainers."

    4. Your argument just seems to paint with a brush so broad I could cover the side of a barn in 2 strokes. You make Apples and Oranges comparisons about Rage in a game versus Rage in real life.

    Not to mention you also finalize by lecturing... again about adult behavior on the internet. As though you are seeking to claim some moral high ground by making easy to agree with points followed up with well, as you called it yourself... Hyperbole.

    5. While I am certain you had good motives, I am also certain there are a lot more problems with your entire post than what I just pointed out. You did a good job of weaving Ethics, Logic and Emotion to construct an argument. Even though you have a really bad argument which I fear only serves to muddy the waters, you have a well structured argument.

    In the end, I don't know if your post is directed to make a better community or complain about complainers.

    I respect your Skill Level in Writing, and Critical Thinking. I just wish you had thought out the ramifications of lecturing, generalizations, presupposition and labeling of others. They are bad tactics.

    You do make a really good point about the nature of hostility in the dissent of ESO Players toward Design Choices, but ignore the nature of hostility in those who attack the "complainers" as you label and generalize them. I don't agree with your post, because everything about your post turned me off. I do agree with the message in spite of that. I hope in the future you consider the tactics you use as to avoid turning off people who might otherwise agree with you.

    Good luck!

    Holy cow, you opened the window and let in some fresh air. A thousand thanks.

    I think, if we need a code of conduct for these forums, we should adopt this one, in the immortal words of E.T.:

    "Be kind."
  • Super_Sonico
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    Thanks for this post OP. It's awesome.

    One of my biggest complaints about ESO is the community. Far too many of the vocal ones act like a bunch of spoiled kids. And I've gotten my posts taken down before for saying people here are complaining too much with the wrong tone. I hope they leave yours up.
  • Srugzal
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    SirAndy wrote: »
    Brandalf wrote: »
    Please for the love of humanity don't try to justify hyperbole -_-
    Without hyperbole, the universe will implode!
    ;-)

    Hasn't the Big Crunch theory pretty much fallen out of favor?
  • UrQuan
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    Srugzal wrote: »
    Soloeus wrote: »
    1. Pathos is appealing to Emotion, which you do with your sob stories. Your problem is that using a sob story of "others have it worse than you" as a language coding technique to actually say shut up! cheapens the value of the sob story. I already feel less empathy for every situation you just described about the precious babies because I feel you tried to manipulate my emotions to silence me by making me feel bad if I "complain."

    2. Logos is appealing to Logic, in which you go on a huge tirade about how it just isn't the end of the world. Problem is, nobody said it is. Nobody is behaving out of the motives you address. Instead, it seems logically, like you are muddying the waters by accusing people of having motives or behaviors just to paint a picture of them that is easy to attack. You also come off like some rich snob telling poor people just work harder.

    3. Ethos is appealing to Ethics in which you attempt to portray people who "complain" as being unethical and immoral. Part of your argument is mere Semantics over the meaning of the word Rage. I also find it unethical that you are using manipulate techniques to rally the horde against "complainers."

    4. Your argument just seems to paint with a brush so broad I could cover the side of a barn in 2 strokes. You make Apples and Oranges comparisons about Rage in a game versus Rage in real life.

    Not to mention you also finalize by lecturing... again about adult behavior on the internet. As though you are seeking to claim some moral high ground by making easy to agree with points followed up with well, as you called it yourself... Hyperbole.

    5. While I am certain you had good motives, I am also certain there are a lot more problems with your entire post than what I just pointed out. You did a good job of weaving Ethics, Logic and Emotion to construct an argument. Even though you have a really bad argument which I fear only serves to muddy the waters, you have a well structured argument.

    In the end, I don't know if your post is directed to make a better community or complain about complainers.

    I respect your Skill Level in Writing, and Critical Thinking. I just wish you had thought out the ramifications of lecturing, generalizations, presupposition and labeling of others. They are bad tactics.

    You do make a really good point about the nature of hostility in the dissent of ESO Players toward Design Choices, but ignore the nature of hostility in those who attack the "complainers" as you label and generalize them. I don't agree with your post, because everything about your post turned me off. I do agree with the message in spite of that. I hope in the future you consider the tactics you use as to avoid turning off people who might otherwise agree with you.

    Good luck!

    Holy cow, you opened the window and let in some fresh air. A thousand thanks.

    I think, if we need a code of conduct for these forums, we should adopt this one, in the immortal words of E.T.:

    "Be kind."
    Or, in the words of Will Wheaton: "Don't be a [snip] "

    [Moderator Note: Edited per our rules on Cursing & Profanity]
    Edited by ZOS_SilviaS on August 21, 2014 10:24PM
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  • Michael308
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    @Srugzal‌
    I think, if we need a code of conduct for these forums, we should adopt this one, in the immortal words of E.T.:

    "Be kind."

    Whew, glad you added the quote. For a moment I thought you meant "Phone home." ;P

    Your choice is definitely better!
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  • SirAndy
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    Srugzal wrote: »
    SirAndy wrote: »
    Brandalf wrote: »
    Please for the love of humanity don't try to justify hyperbole -_-
    Without hyperbole, the universe will implode!
    ;-)
    Hasn't the Big Crunch theory pretty much fallen out of favor?
    Only because hyperbole is everywhere and pushing the universe apart.

    Without hyperbole, the universe will implode!
    huh.gif
  • Super_Sonico
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    If people didn't *** each other off on a regular basis on forums, news sites, blog comments, etc. there would be little content on the Internet except for opinion articles masquerading as news stories, questionable reference materials like Wikipedia, bad memes, and cat videos.

    You totally left out ***. The internet is for ***!

  • Srugzal
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    SirAndy wrote: »
    Srugzal wrote: »
    SirAndy wrote: »
    Brandalf wrote: »
    Please for the love of humanity don't try to justify hyperbole -_-
    Without hyperbole, the universe will implode!
    ;-)
    Hasn't the Big Crunch theory pretty much fallen out of favor?
    Only because hyperbole is everywhere and pushing the universe apart.

    Without hyperbole, the universe will implode!
    huh.gif

    Zounds! The mystery of dark energy: solved!
  • seaef
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    UrQuan wrote: »
    Or, in the words of Will Wheaton: "Don't be a [snip]."

    Even mentioning Wheaton should be an automatic ban. Without the Star Trek nerds, that guy would have been relegated to the dustbin long ago.

    I would like him better if he looked in a mirror while using his catch-phrase. Admitting the problem is the first step toward healing.
    Edited by ZOS_SilviaS on August 21, 2014 10:25PM
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  • LtCrunch
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    UrQuan wrote: »
    Or, in the words of Will Wheaton: "Don't be a d*ck."

    Even mentioning Wheaton should be an automatic ban. Without the Star Trek nerds, that guy would have been relegated to the dustbin long ago.

    I would like him better if he looked in a mirror while using his catch-phrase. Admitting the problem is the first step toward healing.

    For shame.

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  • Azzuria
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    Brandalf wrote: »
    UrQuan wrote: »
    Or, in the words of Will Wheaton: "Don't be a d*ck."

    Even mentioning Wheaton should be an automatic ban. Without the Star Trek nerds, that guy would have been relegated to the dustbin long ago.

    I would like him better if he looked in a mirror while using his catch-phrase. Admitting the problem is the first step toward healing.

    For shame.

    There's a reason that everyone, from every race, in every universe in all the multi-verses and across all of time say 'Fire at Wil '.
    Brunhilda Icehammer - Nord Dragonknight, 'Smith & Enchantress 'What is 'ranged? I need to hit something!!'
    Laehl Direthorn - Bosmer Nightblade, Purveyor of fine Clothes, Bows and Staves
    Reeza gra-Zuni - Orc Templar 'War Shaman' and Apothecary
    Noemi Snowpaw - Kajiit Dragon Knight - I laugh... or I'd have to kill you.
    Kitera Dreamon - Breton of The Dominion: Because those Daggers don't appreciate a great Mage.
    Lysara Shadowcroft - Dunmer Bloodmage: This will only hurt a lot.
  • UrQuan
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    UrQuan wrote: »
    Or, in the words of Will Wheaton: "Don't be a d*ck."

    Even mentioning Wheaton should be an automatic ban. Without the Star Trek nerds, that guy would have been relegated to the dustbin long ago.

    I would like him better if he looked in a mirror while using his catch-phrase. Admitting the problem is the first step toward healing.
    I see someone isn't a fan of Tabletop...
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  • smeeprocketnub19_ESO
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    I don't understand this post. Is being angry about a game and being angry about unjust things in life mutually exclusive?

    If I get worked up over a game I put time into, is it proof that I am incapable of feeling empathy for people suffering or sadness about the fact that life just really sucks?

    This attempt to make feel feel like a horrible human being because I am capable of multi-tasking my rage, and changing the levels of it based on what I am raging about, seems in and of itself malicious.
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  • Super_Sonico
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    I don't understand this post. Is being angry about a game and being angry about unjust things in life mutually exclusive?

    If I get worked up over a game I put time into, is it proof that I am incapable of feeling empathy for people suffering or sadness about the fact that life just really sucks?

    This attempt to make feel feel like a horrible human being because I am capable of multi-tasking my rage, and changing the levels of it based on what I am raging about, seems in and of itself malicious.

    I think you're being a little intentionally obtuse. His gist is quite simple. There's real things in the world to get mad at. A video game isn't one of them. Stop coming on the forums acting like your life is ruined just because something in game isn't working like you want. Be respectful, courteous, and learn to communicate clearly so we can all actually help get things fixed that need to be. Then we can have fun.

    It's pretty simple really.
  • seaef
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    UrQuan wrote: »
    UrQuan wrote: »
    Or, in the words of Will Wheaton: "Don't be a d*ck."

    Even mentioning Wheaton should be an automatic ban. Without the Star Trek nerds, that guy would have been relegated to the dustbin long ago.

    I would like him better if he looked in a mirror while using his catch-phrase. Admitting the problem is the first step toward healing.
    I see someone isn't a fan of Tabletop...

    I am a fan of tabletop, just not Wheaton.

    He's not the poster boy for tabletop, just some schmuck who tries and capitalize off of it.
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  • smeeprocketnub19_ESO
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    I don't understand this post. Is being angry about a game and being angry about unjust things in life mutually exclusive?

    If I get worked up over a game I put time into, is it proof that I am incapable of feeling empathy for people suffering or sadness about the fact that life just really sucks?

    This attempt to make feel feel like a horrible human being because I am capable of multi-tasking my rage, and changing the levels of it based on what I am raging about, seems in and of itself malicious.

    I think you're being a little intentionally obtuse. His gist is quite simple. There's real things in the world to get mad at. A video game isn't one of them. Stop coming on the forums acting like your life is ruined just because something in game isn't working like you want. Be respectful, courteous, and learn to communicate clearly so we can all actually help get things fixed that need to be. Then we can have fun.

    It's pretty simple really.

    Right but I can be mad about said real things and still get riled up about this game. I have an endless amount of anger available for all facets of life. It's free and readily available, no reason not to use it.
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  • UrQuan
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    UrQuan wrote: »
    UrQuan wrote: »
    Or, in the words of Will Wheaton: "Don't be a d*ck."

    Even mentioning Wheaton should be an automatic ban. Without the Star Trek nerds, that guy would have been relegated to the dustbin long ago.

    I would like him better if he looked in a mirror while using his catch-phrase. Admitting the problem is the first step toward healing.
    I see someone isn't a fan of Tabletop...

    I am a fan of tabletop, just not Wheaton.

    He's not the poster boy for tabletop, just some schmuck who tries and capitalize off of it.
    Um, it's his show. He created it, he's the star of it, he chooses the games that they play, he chooses the guests (presumably with input from Felicia Day & other folk at Geek & Sundry), etc.
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  • seaef
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    UrQuan wrote: »
    UrQuan wrote: »
    UrQuan wrote: »
    Or, in the words of Will Wheaton: "Don't be a d*ck."

    Even mentioning Wheaton should be an automatic ban. Without the Star Trek nerds, that guy would have been relegated to the dustbin long ago.

    I would like him better if he looked in a mirror while using his catch-phrase. Admitting the problem is the first step toward healing.
    I see someone isn't a fan of Tabletop...

    I am a fan of tabletop, just not Wheaton.

    He's not the poster boy for tabletop, just some schmuck who tries and capitalize off of it.
    Um, it's his show. He created it, he's the star of it, he chooses the games that they play, he chooses the guests (presumably with input from Felicia Day & other folk at Geek & Sundry), etc.

    My bad, I thought you were taking about tabletop gaming.

    I could care less about Tabletop as a show. I usually don't watch trash.
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  • Road2insanity777
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    Soloeus wrote: »
    1. Pathos is appealing to Emotion, which you do with your sob stories. Your problem is that using a sob story of "others have it worse than you" as a language coding technique to actually say shut up! cheapens the value of the sob story. I already feel less empathy for every situation you just described about the precious babies because I feel you tried to manipulate my emotions to silence me by making me feel bad if I "complain."

    2. Logos is appealing to Logic, in which you go on a huge tirade about how it just isn't the end of the world. Problem is, nobody said it is. Nobody is behaving out of the motives you address. Instead, it seems logically, like you are muddying the waters by accusing people of having motives or behaviors just to paint a picture of them that is easy to attack. You also come off like some rich snob telling poor people just work harder.

    3. Ethos is appealing to Ethics in which you attempt to portray people who "complain" as being unethical and immoral. Part of your argument is mere Semantics over the meaning of the word Rage. I also find it unethical that you are using manipulate techniques to rally the horde against "complainers."

    4. Your argument just seems to paint with a brush so broad I could cover the side of a barn in 2 strokes. You make Apples and Oranges comparisons about Rage in a game versus Rage in real life.

    Not to mention you also finalize by lecturing... again about adult behavior on the internet. As though you are seeking to claim some moral high ground by making easy to agree with points followed up with well, as you called it yourself... Hyperbole.

    5. While I am certain you had good motives, I am also certain there are a lot more problems with your entire post than what I just pointed out. You did a good job of weaving Ethics, Logic and Emotion to construct an argument. Even though you have a really bad argument which I fear only serves to muddy the waters, you have a well structured argument.

    In the end, I don't know if your post is directed to make a better community or complain about complainers.

    I respect your Skill Level in Writing, and Critical Thinking. I just wish you had thought out the ramifications of lecturing, generalizations, presupposition and labeling of others. They are bad tactics.

    You do make a really good point about the nature of hostility in the dissent of ESO Players toward Design Choices, but ignore the nature of hostility in those who attack the "complainers" as you label and generalize them. I don't agree with your post, because everything about your post turned me off. I do agree with the message in spite of that. I hope in the future you consider the tactics you use as to avoid turning off people who might otherwise agree with you.

    Good luck!

    Everything this guy just said! Most of the "Rage" on the forums is directed at Customer Support for adopting the policy of stonewalling. When the appropriate method of communication fails people are forced to find other methods. In my experience there is nothing that will throw a person into a violent rage more than a trying to explain a complicated situation to a machine that only registers limited input, automated email responses and automated phone systems in this case.
  • LtCrunch
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    UrQuan wrote: »
    UrQuan wrote: »
    UrQuan wrote: »
    Or, in the words of Will Wheaton: "Don't be a d*ck."

    Even mentioning Wheaton should be an automatic ban. Without the Star Trek nerds, that guy would have been relegated to the dustbin long ago.

    I would like him better if he looked in a mirror while using his catch-phrase. Admitting the problem is the first step toward healing.
    I see someone isn't a fan of Tabletop...

    I am a fan of tabletop, just not Wheaton.

    He's not the poster boy for tabletop, just some schmuck who tries and capitalize off of it.
    Um, it's his show. He created it, he's the star of it, he chooses the games that they play, he chooses the guests (presumably with input from Felicia Day & other folk at Geek & Sundry), etc.

    My bad, I thought you were taking about tabletop gaming.

    I could care less about Tabletop as a show. I usually don't watch trash.

    I think that post has filled your required condescending comments for the week. GG.
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  • Vizier
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    +1 Awesome

    A little long winded. Still I read it in it's entirety and agree 100%. Perspective is a valuable tool while navigating this thing called life.
  • jamie.goddenrwb17_ESO
    I don't understand this post. Is being angry about a game and being angry about unjust things in life mutually exclusive?

    If I get worked up over a game I put time into, is it proof that I am incapable of feeling empathy for people suffering or sadness about the fact that life just really sucks?

    This attempt to make feel feel like a horrible human being because I am capable of multi-tasking my rage, and changing the levels of it based on what I am raging about, seems in and of itself malicious.

    I think you're being a little intentionally obtuse. His gist is quite simple. There's real things in the world to get mad at. A video game isn't one of them. Stop coming on the forums acting like your life is ruined just because something in game isn't working like you want. Be respectful, courteous, and learn to communicate clearly so we can all actually help get things fixed that need to be. Then we can have fun.

    It's pretty simple really.

    Right but I can be mad about said real things and still get riled up about this game. I have an endless amount of anger available for all facets of life. It's free and readily available, no reason not to use it.

    Yessssss....use your hate...give in to your anger and your journey to the dark side will be complete mwahahaha!!!

    Sorry couldn't help myself, carry on.
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  • Attorneyatlawl
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    Michael308 wrote: »
    I’d like to offer a thought.

    It isn’t earth-shattering, you don’t need to be Stephen Hawking or Albert Einstein to see the logic. In fact for most people it is probably rather obvious and to those of you who fall into that category, I apologize. But for the vocal minority who thinks terms like “rage” have a place in a discussion about video games, let me offer a bit of perspective.
    (snip)
    That doesn’t mean we shouldn’t point out shortcomings, complain about bad service or anything of the sort, that is all part of free and open discussion and vital for any company to hear unvarnished. But when a post opens with “somebody sucks” “this game is doomed” or “I’m gonna quit” my immediate mental response is “OK, goodbye. Better luck at your next game.” Let’s lead by example.

    That’s it. Thanks for reading.

    I'd insert a meme gif of how much I agree with this post and how spot-on it is but that would be an insult to the thoughtfulness within. :)
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  • Iago
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    Very well said
    That which we obtain to cheap we esteem to lightly, it is dearness only that gives everything its value.

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  • Zabalah
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    I don't understand this post. Is being angry about a game and being angry about unjust things in life mutually exclusive?

    If I get worked up over a game I put time into, is it proof that I am incapable of feeling empathy for people suffering or sadness about the fact that life just really sucks?

    This attempt to make feel feel like a horrible human being because I am capable of multi-tasking my rage, and changing the levels of it based on what I am raging about, seems in and of itself malicious.

    I think you're being a little intentionally obtuse. His gist is quite simple. There's real things in the world to get mad at. A video game isn't one of them. Stop coming on the forums acting like your life is ruined just because something in game isn't working like you want. Be respectful, courteous, and learn to communicate clearly so we can all actually help get things fixed that need to be. Then we can have fun.

    It's pretty simple really.

    Right but I can be mad about said real things and still get riled up about this game. I have an endless amount of anger available for all facets of life. It's free and readily available, no reason not to use it.

    Anger Management is a sign of maturity and the ability to co-exist in a moral society.

    Breathing is free and fresh air readily available... until one abuses it. Then it is fatal to everyone.
  • epoling
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    I have to agree with the original post. People should use perspective when getting worked up about things. A game is a game. It is meant to be fun and entertaining. Unless you are somebody that just enjoys being upset you should not be playing a game that makes you rage.

    When I was young we were taught something called "The Golden Rule". Treat others the way you want to be treated. Somehow that gets lost in the internet. A good rule of thumb we should all follow when posting ANYTHING on the internet is "How would I feel if somebody talked to me that way." A lot of people on these forums would probably be a lot happier people if they started doing that.
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    @michael308 Thank you for making a decent post about this. Unfortunately the only really sad thing my partner and I have found about ESO has been some of the appalling behaviour on the forums. At the end of the day they people who feel the need to degrade or insult other people or groups of people online are just cowards hiding behind keyboards. They are not worth the energy it takes to be angry or disgusted.

    These forums do seem to be the domain of the vocal minority and I hope that many more decent people start posting to drown out their nonsense. Guess like most communities, it's a case of lead by example. It's an unfortunate truth that there will always be detractors and people who thrive on conflict and negativity as can be seen by those who chose to LOL your initial post.
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    I agree that such entitled and unproductive “rage posts” as we have seen taken to the extreme time and time again have no place on a public forum, which should be reserved for CONSTRUCTIVE criticism or respectfully considered complaints and suggestions. Still, more than anything I feel great sympathy for these individuals, as these sorts of imbalanced and out-of-proportion outbursts to me represent a troubling indictment of our so-called “modern” society.

    First and foremost, one must consider the demographic we are dealing with here. The vast majority of these individuals are likely children, frequently neglected at home (by parents with little choice), lacking any real role-models, and so asking them to put themselves in the shoes of those that suffer more is meaningless, as they simply have no well of relevant experience to draw from.

    In response to all the “rage” posts…

    In fact, I believe that many of these “rage” posts are a sort of cry for help, which reaches such a crescendo when the youth of this age feel that no one really listens to them, that they don’t really have a voice, which leads them to overemphasize otherwise minor issues as a great symbol of all that is wrong with their lives, and there is plenty wrong, with all of it.

    So, all things considered, our complaints about the complainers might also needs be put in perspective.

    In this world, a little understanding goes a long way.
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    Soloeus wrote: »
    1. Pathos is appealing to Emotion, which you do with your sob stories. Your problem is that using a sob story of "others have it worse than you" as a language coding technique to actually say shut up! cheapens the value of the sob story. I already feel less empathy for every situation you just described about the precious babies because I feel you tried to manipulate my emotions to silence me by making me feel bad if I "complain."

    2. Logos is appealing to Logic, in which you go on a huge tirade about how it just isn't the end of the world. Problem is, nobody said it is. Nobody is behaving out of the motives you address. Instead, it seems logically, like you are muddying the waters by accusing people of having motives or behaviors just to paint a picture of them that is easy to attack. You also come off like some rich snob telling poor people just work harder.

    3. Ethos is appealing to Ethics in which you attempt to portray people who "complain" as being unethical and immoral. Part of your argument is mere Semantics over the meaning of the word Rage. I also find it unethical that you are using manipulate techniques to rally the horde against "complainers."

    4. Your argument just seems to paint with a brush so broad I could cover the side of a barn in 2 strokes. You make Apples and Oranges comparisons about Rage in a game versus Rage in real life.

    Not to mention you also finalize by lecturing... again about adult behavior on the internet. As though you are seeking to claim some moral high ground by making easy to agree with points followed up with well, as you called it yourself... Hyperbole.

    5. While I am certain you had good motives, I am also certain there are a lot more problems with your entire post than what I just pointed out. You did a good job of weaving Ethics, Logic and Emotion to construct an argument. Even though you have a really bad argument which I fear only serves to muddy the waters, you have a well structured argument.

    In the end, I don't know if your post is directed to make a better community or complain about complainers.

    I respect your Skill Level in Writing, and Critical Thinking. I just wish you had thought out the ramifications of lecturing, generalizations, presupposition and labeling of others. They are bad tactics.

    You do make a really good point about the nature of hostility in the dissent of ESO Players toward Design Choices, but ignore the nature of hostility in those who attack the "complainers" as you label and generalize them. I don't agree with your post, because everything about your post turned me off. I do agree with the message in spite of that. I hope in the future you consider the tactics you use as to avoid turning off people who might otherwise agree with you.

    Good luck!

    Explaining to us what pathos, logos, and ethos are is rather insulting as you're insinuating the OP doesn't know what those are, and anyone who payed any attention in high school knows what those are.

    Also just because an argument appeals to your emotions or ethics doesn't make it any less of a good argument. Take the argument for what it is, don't turn away from it just so you can sit on your high horse and feel good about yourself for not letting your emotions be appealed to.
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  • Michael308
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    So, all things considered, our complaints about the complainers might also needs be put in perspective.

    In this world, a little understanding goes a long way.

    A very good point, and well made. That is why I tried state my position with a level tone instead of responding to rage with rage. I am very serious about the "lead by example" thing and if anything tried to show that a sound (if admittedly long-winded) statement can accomplish more than a scream followed by KTHXBI. Time will tell...
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