What I see a lot of here, whenever someone complains about something, has an odd playstyle, or questions design choices in ESO is people saying it doesn't matter, these people will quit after the first free month and the game will be better for it.
Yes, some people have a poor attitude, especially when suggestions are made regarding the game; I like to think we all know that the game will evolve over time and that we can be mature in discussing this.
I haven't myself seen anyone suggesting people quite if they don't like the game; honestly I'd like to see more of my own friends play who are not necessarily into the MMO scene and being dismissive certainly wouldn't help there are the community in general.
Also, F2P is hardly a death knell; WoW, the Industry leader offers F2P as do other popular games such as LOTRO.