Now tell me this character is also as obtrusive ("flirty") as Naryu, hates books, talks more than using the brain, generally doesn't seem to have a clue but still lectures us - and voilá: it's the epitome of everything that makes me dislike a character! I'd applaud ZOS for pushing the wrong buttons that accurately, though.
The first two are absolutely true lol. Though, in the short amount of time I messed around with them on the PTS (read: tried doing as many different things as I could think of to try to get a reaction), they didn't so much remind me of Ember or divines forbid, Eveli. Maybe moreso a more chaotic Darien? I'd say at least their flirting style is closer to Darien's flirting style than Naryu's if that makes it any better (or worse).
nihonseanb14_ESO wrote: »Did they even look at reporting on who is playing Necromancers and how many of those players are Vampires?
WhiteCoatSyndrome wrote: »Yup. Heavy flirting with the player character in the first quest, lecture in the second quest, third questTanlorin’s ex-girlfriend gripes about the player in a way that heavily implies the PC replaced them as a love interest.Haven’t gotten to the fourth.
Someone also reported she does get a rapport loss from books, but I think it was Mage Guild lorebooks specifically, as I didn’t get dinged for reading notes during the quests.
WhiteCoatSyndrome wrote: »Yup. Heavy flirting with the player character in the first quest, lecture in the second quest, third questTanlorin’s ex-girlfriend gripes about the player in a way that heavily implies the PC replaced them as a love interest.Haven’t gotten to the fourth.
Someone also reported she does get a rapport loss from books, but I think it was Mage Guild lorebooks specifically, as I didn’t get dinged for reading notes during the quests.
Eww... And let me guess: ZOS still hasn't given us any option to say "no, thank you" to the flirting? I really don't get it. Do they really not comprehend that some people aren't interested in such dialogue or find it repulsive instead of "charming"? Should at least give us an option to say no or give npcs a slap when they get too obstrusive (Jakarn's face would probably have been completely bloodied at the end of High Isle).
JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »Yeah, the more I see of the altmer, the less I like them. I don't mind some flirting in video games, but I also wouldn't mind some way of going 'hey, that is enough, back off' and have the flirty dialogue replaced by regular dialogue.
JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »I will have to wait and see when the companions are available to me, but sounds like Tanlorin is pretty much every trope I dislike about characters.
JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »Yeah, the more I see of the altmer, the less I like them. I don't mind some flirting in video games, but I also wouldn't mind some way of going 'hey, that is enough, back off' and have the flirty dialogue replaced by regular dialogue.
There's a difference between witty banter that turns into flirting at some point, or plain and stupid "Herp derp hey handsome, did I tell you you're good looking!!!! herp derp you're so buff (while player character is a tiny skinny Bosmer)!!! We have just met but let me show you my bed!!!" Are people really into that?JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »I will have to wait and see when the companions are available to me, but sounds like Tanlorin is pretty much every trope I dislike about characters.
Yeah, I have exactly the same impression. It's a little fascinating.
mdjessup4906 wrote: »Yiu can't fill soul gems in front of this guy? So to level him u need to take out that soul skill line passive? That's dumb
Eww... And let me guess: ZOS still hasn't given us any option to say "no, thank you" to the flirting?
WhiteCoatSyndrome wrote: »
Ewww is right....
I don't know. Seriously, I know I'm old.... but this sort of thing wouldn't have appealed to me when I was 20 and sexually active! And now.... I've been married to this man for nearly 50 years, and.... um....
Sheesh. It's.... well, I don't even know WHAT to call it....
JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »I think it may be because a lot of people equate that with confidence or being self-assured.
JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »To me, I think what makes this worse, is that this seems to be happening right off the bat. It isn't something that happens gradually as you get to know the character, something that seems to develop naturally over time.
With these types of characters, it always is from the first moment they see you, they start flirting, and that always comes across as ...very shallow. Like, it doesn't matter who or what you are, this person is going to flirt. They know nothing about you or your personality, or even if you already have someone, they are flirting.
JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »I have never really liked the whole 'flirty' trope. I much prefer the 'shy, nerdy' type. I don't want someone to lecture me, or to flirt with me incessantly, or to be so arrogant that I can't go two seconds in their company.
JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »Oh well, hopefully the dialogue isn't as bad as I fear it is, and I can always just skip through most of it.
JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »I think it may be because a lot of people equate that with confidence or being self-assured.
Or some people enjoy being complimented, even if it's by some fictional entity? I don't know, I'm just wondering.JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »To me, I think what makes this worse, is that this seems to be happening right off the bat. It isn't something that happens gradually as you get to know the character, something that seems to develop naturally over time.
With these types of characters, it always is from the first moment they see you, they start flirting, and that always comes across as ...very shallow. Like, it doesn't matter who or what you are, this person is going to flirt. They know nothing about you or your personality, or even if you already have someone, they are flirting.
This. This is the thing that almost repulses me about it. From my perspective, it feels like very easily written fanservice or the old "sex sells" principle. From my character's perspective, it feels like inhonest flattery. Both is... not the thing I prefer, to put it in a friendly way.JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »I have never really liked the whole 'flirty' trope. I much prefer the 'shy, nerdy' type. I don't want someone to lecture me, or to flirt with me incessantly, or to be so arrogant that I can't go two seconds in their company.
When it comes to companions, I might have a preference, but generally I'm fine with most kinds of characters, as long as it doesn't feel obtrusive. I really enjoy Azandar, but I'm also fine with knightly Isobel and bantering Mirri; I'd be fine with a slightly haughty Altmer mage as well as with an old unhurried cordial Nord fighter.
For me, the most annoying thing about the flirtyness is that it crosses personal boundaries (from a roleplaying perspective), and that it takes away the agency I have for my character, if that makes any sense? Because I cannot react on the flirting and the game seems to assume that my character finds it wonderful and just continues like that for whatever it takes until the questline is over. It's especially unenjoyable if it doesn't fit the idea I have of my character at all (and it's getting even weirder if not even the sexual orientation fits the one my character has) - as a roleplayer I know very well what one of my character likes, dislikes and what views they have. I don't want the game to imply through dialogues that my character is attracted to some random npc that I know they would dislike.
Ah yes, and that I also have a preference for "scholarly, calm, introverted" (shy might also be cute if they ever introduce companion romance) certainly also doesn't help when it comes to "cheerful and flirty" characters screeching at me from the screen.JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »Oh well, hopefully the dialogue isn't as bad as I fear it is, and I can always just skip through most of it.
I'll wait and see. And if it's indeed unpleasant, I'm not sure yet whether I'll rush through dialogues (for the first time in 8 years - normally I really take my time for them) and leveling just to get the house guest (sometimes houseguests are a good background prop, no matter who they are...), or if I skip it altogether.
JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »Someone who isn't always sure that what he is doing is the right thing to do, or who is slightly unsure about mixing Columbine with Nirnroot (just looked it up, probably is a bad idea as it should waste the ingredients if I read the chart correctly. Assuming failed combining uses ingredients.)
JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »I find their little interjections to be fun or easily ignorable, except Bastiens 'you are going to eat that aren't you?' when your lightning staff decides to rain doom and destruction down upon that poor hapless rodent that is somewhere outside your field of vision.
JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »For me, the companion, especially if it were a romance option (and going back to the male altmer :P) doesn't even have to be 'shy' but just a bit not as self-assured as they make most companions. Someone who isn't always sure that what he is doing is the right thing to do, or who is slightly unsure about mixing Columbine with Nirnroot
JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »(just looked it up, probably is a bad idea as it should waste the ingredients if I read the chart correctly. Assuming failed combining uses ingredients.)
TheBardAtTheInn wrote: »I applaud ZOS for making one of the most interesting takes on a necromancer that I've seen in a while. Someone who uses the manipulation of souls to redeem them is so interesting, not to mention his deep ties to the super fascinating Khajiit lore and mythology. Plus, him being a morally good necromancer make sense when considering khajiit culture and their less strict view of necromancy as evil compared to other races.
WhiteCoatSyndrome wrote: »Someone also reported she does get a rapport loss from books, but I think it was Mage Guild lorebooks specifically, as I didn’t get dinged for reading notes during the quests.
Bang on.TheBardAtTheInn wrote: »I applaud ZOS for making one of the most interesting takes on a necromancer that I've seen in a while. Someone who uses the manipulation of souls to redeem them is so interesting, not to mention his deep ties to the super fascinating Khajiit lore and mythology. Plus, him being a morally good necromancer make sense when considering khajiit culture and their less strict view of necromancy as evil compared to other races.
Darkstorne wrote: »Run a quick search on the definition of Necromancy. it is: the practice of magic involving communication with the dead by summoning their spirits as apparitions or visions for the purpose of divination. It is not: edge-lord evil doers doing evil in edgy ways.
JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »I find their little interjections to be fun or easily ignorable, except Bastiens 'you are going to eat that aren't you?' when your lightning staff decides to rain doom and destruction down upon that poor hapless rodent that is somewhere outside your field of vision.
Maybe he's hungry and wants to know whether he can eat the rat if you don't want it?JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »For me, the companion, especially if it were a romance option (and going back to the male altmer :P) doesn't even have to be 'shy' but just a bit not as self-assured as they make most companions. Someone who isn't always sure that what he is doing is the right thing to do, or who is slightly unsure about mixing Columbine with Nirnroot
Sounds pleasant. Unless they exaggerate it to complete incompetency or helplessness.JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »(just looked it up, probably is a bad idea as it should waste the ingredients if I read the chart correctly. Assuming failed combining uses ingredients.)
Try cornflower instead and you'll have a nice poison, if I don't remember wrong (at least I can remember I found it terribly funny that cornflower is poisonous in ESO - in real life, it's edible, one can make tea out of it, etc; tastes of nothing, btw).
Both Ember and Sharp fit well here.I have the impression they don't want to rely on the biggest stereotypes when creating companions (otherwise Azandar would have become an Altmer), but there's a large span between the absolutely stereotypical comic book villain (evil laughter, eating children, kicking puppies) and the "typical good hero". Something inbetween, at least morally grey, might have been a better decision. But then again, I don't want to judge yet - maybe his whole story is very well-written and explains everything. I've only read parts of it yet, as I'm not logging into PTS this time.
JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »That may be, but then he can actually use his words and TELL me he wants that rat. I can't read his mind! and I am usually in the middle of battle!
JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »Yeah, that would be the true issue, not having it exaggerated to the point that the companion comes across as useless or helpless.
JemadarofCaerSalis wrote: »That reminded me of everyone telling me to try chamomille tea to relax. I tried some and thought 'I just drank a hay bale!' Looked up what chamomille was, and I am pretty sure we have them growing in our fields, or did, and I likely DID eat some while picking up square bales for our horses...