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(bad behavior) would u report or not ?

  • Ohtimbar
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    It's your call. I almost always report, unless it's very mild. Ignoring bad behavior to appease the nerdbros only emboldens their idiocy. They get angry about so-called sjw's (a term coined by and primarily used by morons) because it threatens what they see as their right to misbehave with impunity.
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  • rafaelcsmaia
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    So people are being naughty and you want to not feel guilty as you spank em?

    Now seriously, it depends on what is "bad behaviour" trash talk I usually ignore or troll em back, but racism and other *** like that is usually not tolerable
  • Oakenaxe
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    At least U are lucky of not being Latin Amrican... I dont mind people being toxic or swearing at me on chat but it really gets to me when they simply tell me to go back to my "*** Hole Country"... Along with other stupid insults, such as "I dont speak takos"... I have never been to USA, (I did college in Australia and an Intership in France, but America Im yet to visit), still they simply assume by my brazilian name I'm an mexican ilegal imigrant or whatever... I have reported it twice, only to get the same automatic email... Now I just dont care anymore, I simply log off when it happens.

    Sad to see so much hatred and prejudice. We should keep reporting them, bro. I'm also a Brazilian and this kind of behavior really pisses me off. It seems like people are feeling more comfortable exposing their fascist side these days...



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  •  Czirne
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    What in the hell happened to society that mere words are insulting and offending everyone to the point they have to report it. Either grow a pair and take it, or just block the person who is offending you.
    iirc ESO is 18+, init? Are you telling me bunch of adult people cant handle few curse words? Its a part of a life for christ sake. When you are in bar and someone calls you "s*iteating w*nker", are you gonna to report it and demand that person is banned from a bar? no, because as and adutl you take it and you dont give a damn.
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  • Ohtimbar
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    Czirne wrote: »
    What in the hell happened to society that mere words are insulting and offending everyone to the point they have to report it. Either grow a pair and take it, or just block the person who is offending you.
    iirc ESO is 18+, init? Are you telling me bunch of adult people cant handle few curse words? Its a part of a life for christ sake. When you are in bar and someone calls you "s*iteating w*nker", are you gonna to report it and demand that person is banned from a bar? no, because as and adutl you take it and you dont give a damn.

    You sound awfully offended by other people taking offense. Toughen up buttercup.

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  • West1389
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    people have bad days his dog maybe died
    Czirne wrote: »
    What in the hell happened to society that mere words are insulting and offending everyone to the point they have to report it. Either grow a pair and take it, or just block the person who is offending you.
    iirc ESO is 18+, init? Are you telling me bunch of adult people cant handle few curse words? Its a part of a life for christ sake. When you are in bar and someone calls you "s*iteating w*nker", are you gonna to report it and demand that person is banned from a bar? no, because as and adutl you take it and you dont give a damn.

    It's a new age we are in the outrage and offenend time lol. I 100% agree with you.
  •  Czirne
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    people have bad days his dog maybe died
    Ohtimbar wrote: »
    Czirne wrote: »
    What in the hell happened to society that mere words are insulting and offending everyone to the point they have to report it. Either grow a pair and take it, or just block the person who is offending you.
    iirc ESO is 18+, init? Are you telling me bunch of adult people cant handle few curse words? Its a part of a life for christ sake. When you are in bar and someone calls you "s*iteating w*nker", are you gonna to report it and demand that person is banned from a bar? no, because as and adutl you take it and you dont give a damn.

    You sound awfully offended by other people taking offense. Toughen up buttercup.

    holy sh*tcrackers, you are right. I feel ashamed of myself now! :neutral: Gotta toughen up :D
    I believe in lagless Cyrodiil!
  • Bosco916
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    Czirne wrote: »
    What in the hell happened to society that mere words are insulting and offending everyone to the point they have to report it. Either grow a pair and take it, or just block the person who is offending you.
    iirc ESO is 18+, init? Are you telling me bunch of adult people cant handle few curse words? Its a part of a life for christ sake. When you are in bar and someone calls you "s*iteating w*nker", are you gonna to report it and demand that person is banned from a bar? no, because as and adutl you take it and you dont give a damn.

    This. A lot of hurt bottoms these days. I blame the parents.
    "How DARE you betray me, Tharn!
    Your suffering shall be LEGENDRY!"
    --The King of Worms
  • LordTareq
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    Just ignore, that's what the function is for. To report people they would have to actively grief me (kill me in PvE through hacks or something). In the past I used to report bots but I've given up on that (and hardly see them anymore anyway).
  • idk
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    The person who is acting like a idiot and attempting to insult their own team mates is really just a mediocre player trying to blame others for the group not doing well.

    Unfortunately it is to common that people hide behind the anonymity of the internet and berate people like this but it is usually the case they are not very good players themselves or they would be grouped with others more often plus they likely are very sad with their real lives and take out their frustrations on others.

    While that is an opinion, it is pretty much accurate and we see it in other areas of the game as well. Look at most of the posts complaining about others they find in dungeons via GF. If they were a decent player they could carry others through most dungeons. More importantly they would have no real reason to complain as they could easily form their own group or get into one via their guilds.

    So in the end, I feel sorry for the halfwits OP has described and consider myself blessed I have people to run with in all aspects of this game.
  • xenowarrior92eb17_ESO
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    if someone is bad on zonechat I troll them back and also the voting pools are meh.
  • idk
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    Think about it for a moment, If they are complaining during the match, especially if they are typing it, they are not focused on what needs to be done while typing.

    What is funny is in another game that is better at filling empty spots when they are vacated I have seen a number of times someone constantly typing complaints about the group. Most of the time when this happens and they drop we end up coming from behind and winning with the replacements.

    It just goes to show what I said in the previous post and those who are berating others are not very good themselves. They just think they are.
  • Itzmichi
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    do ur community a favor and dont show mercy report
    Well, ignoring stuff is basically the same as tolerating, so I prefer to always make myself unpopular with reporting, telling them my opinion or dropping some truth bombs.

    "The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.” - Edmund Burke
    Edited by Itzmichi on February 22, 2019 8:53PM
    Here, have a chill pill 💊!
  • bzz86
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    do ur community a favor and dont show mercy report
    report and: https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/460157/zos-report-a-player#latest
  • Jhalin
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    do ur community a favor and dont show mercy report
    West1389 wrote: »
    Czirne wrote: »
    What in the hell happened to society that mere words are insulting and offending everyone to the point they have to report it. Either grow a pair and take it, or just block the person who is offending you.
    iirc ESO is 18+, init? Are you telling me bunch of adult people cant handle few curse words? Its a part of a life for christ sake. When you are in bar and someone calls you "s*iteating w*nker", are you gonna to report it and demand that person is banned from a bar? no, because as and adutl you take it and you dont give a damn.

    It's a new age we are in the outrage and offenend time lol. I 100% agree with you.

    imagine being offended by people wanting a game community that isn’t full of toxicity
    Edited by Jhalin on February 22, 2019 8:57PM
  • luizpaulom17
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    Ohtimbar wrote: »
    Czirne wrote: »
    What in the hell happened to society that mere words are insulting and offending everyone to the point they have to report it. Either grow a pair and take it, or just block the person who is offending you.
    iirc ESO is 18+, init? Are you telling me bunch of adult people cant handle few curse words? Its a part of a life for christ sake. When you are in bar and someone calls you "s*iteating w*nker", are you gonna to report it and demand that person is banned from a bar? no, because as and adutl you take it and you dont give a damn.

    You sound awfully offended by other people taking offense. Toughen up buttercup.

    So from this day foward, we shall tolarate racism and harassement against women, which have been reported here , because you, clever and superior man said that it is a part of life... no mate, I wont tolarate that... hope you start thinking more of what you are saying here...
  • Shantu
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    It depends on their behavior. Unless someone indulges in some kind of stalking, or particularly abusive nonsense, I just block them, port away, and do something enjoyable. Reporting is seldom worth my time.
  • kargen27
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    At least U are lucky of not being Latin Amrican... I dont mind people being toxic or swearing at me on chat but it really gets to me when they simply tell me to go back to my "*** Hole Country"... Along with other stupid insults, such as "I dont speak takos"... I have never been to USA, (I did college in Australia and an Intership in France, but America Im yet to visit), still they simply assume by my brazilian name I'm an mexican ilegal imigrant or whatever... I have reported it twice, only to get the same automatic email... Now I just dont care anymore, I simply log off when it happens.

    If it bothers you report it. You getting an automated response doesn't mean they are ignoring the issue. ZoS is very clear they will not respond to let you know if they took action. The way I look at it is if I am the first to report probably nothing will happen. If several people have reported similar incidents then some action may take place.
    and then the parrot said, "must be the water mines green too."
  • jainiadral
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    do ur community a favor and dont show mercy report
    As the quality of basic manners seems to be on the decline, maybe it's time for people who care to raise our personal standards. Think of these fools as virtual guests in your home-- which they are. Would you put up with someone treating you like that in your own home?

    Except this time you have an advantage: they can't really smash your stuff. And ZOS can kick them out instead if you. So stop letting them poop on your carpet.
  • Noctus
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    do ur community a favor and dont show mercy report
    thanks for all replies i was rly curious how other people feel and react to it ............. however..................

    by the honor of the most honorable warrior malacath

    i should be given the option to fight him 1 vs 1 in an arena to spill his blood over and over again to please malacath. lock him up with me >:) .

    there are many creative ways to deal with such people to re-educate them. lock em up in a labyrinth as a punishment for example. but for me malacath demands to spill blood.

  • eklhaftb16_ESO
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    people have bad days his dog maybe died
    Report that? I'd probably just respond with "thanks", if I could be bothered to respond at all. ;)

    Stuff like this doesn't matter. You won't ever meet those people. None of them is in any position to actually hurt you. They are of no consequence to you. They're just background noise... a part of animated backdrop that only exists to fill this pretend-world with some semblance of life.

    If you actually go out of your way to report puny stuff like this, then you're wasting more time than they're worth (and worse, you're wasting time of some GM out there who has to deal with your report). Stuff like this can be easily ignored. Eventually, your brain will learn not to register it. "In one ear and out the other," as the old saying goes. Reporting should be reserved for threats of violence and similar criminal acts, not for an in-game equivalent of "Waaaa, he's making ugly faces at meeeee!"
  • Alinhbo_Tyaka
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    Oakenaxe wrote: »
    At least U are lucky of not being Latin Amrican... I dont mind people being toxic or swearing at me on chat but it really gets to me when they simply tell me to go back to my "*** Hole Country"... Along with other stupid insults, such as "I dont speak takos"... I have never been to USA, (I did college in Australia and an Intership in France, but America Im yet to visit), still they simply assume by my brazilian name I'm an mexican ilegal imigrant or whatever... I have reported it twice, only to get the same automatic email... Now I just dont care anymore, I simply log off when it happens.

    Sad to see so much hatred and prejudice. We should keep reporting them, bro. I'm also a Brazilian and this kind of behavior really pisses me off. It seems like people are feeling more comfortable exposing their fascist side these days...



    @luizpaulom17 @Oakenaxe I've been in dungeon groups with Spanish speakers (I know Brazil is Portuguese) and have seen derogatory comments towards me that I'm sure were made with the assumption I couldn't understand it. I only wish I could see their faces when I responded in Spanish that they shouldn't make assumptions about we Anglos. I'm not trying to justify the behavior towards either of you just pointing out you aren't alone.
  • West1389
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    Report that? I'd probably just respond with "thanks", if I could be bothered to respond at all. ;)

    Stuff like this doesn't matter. You won't ever meet those people. None of them is in any position to actually hurt you. They are of no consequence to you. They're just background noise... a part of animated backdrop that only exists to fill this pretend-world with some semblance of life.

    If you actually go out of your way to report puny stuff like this, then you're wasting more time than they're worth (and worse, you're wasting time of some GM out there who has to deal with your report). Stuff like this can be easily ignored. Eventually, your brain will learn not to register it. "In one ear and out the other," as the old saying goes. Reporting should be reserved for threats of violence and similar criminal acts, not for an in-game equivalent of "Waaaa, he's making ugly faces at meeeee!"

    This will be seen as hate, you cant talk to these people who prob the head of HOA, and make life miserable for neighbors lol. Dont take their power they have to report mean words.

    The best part I get a laugh at is do they tell family member that someone is picking on them in a virtual world lol. Gets me everytime.
  • West1389
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    people have bad days his dog maybe died
    Ohtimbar wrote: »
    Czirne wrote: »
    What in the hell happened to society that mere words are insulting and offending everyone to the point they have to report it. Either grow a pair and take it, or just block the person who is offending you.
    iirc ESO is 18+, init? Are you telling me bunch of adult people cant handle few curse words? Its a part of a life for christ sake. When you are in bar and someone calls you "s*iteating w*nker", are you gonna to report it and demand that person is banned from a bar? no, because as and adutl you take it and you dont give a damn.

    You sound awfully offended by other people taking offense. Toughen up buttercup.

    So from this day foward, we shall tolarate racism and harassement against women, which have been reported here , because you, clever and superior man said that it is a part of life... no mate, I wont tolarate that... hope you start thinking more of what you are saying here...

    Did you just assume this person's gender how dare you going to report this!!!!!
  •  Czirne
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    people have bad days his dog maybe died
    Ohtimbar wrote: »
    Czirne wrote: »
    What in the hell happened to society that mere words are insulting and offending everyone to the point they have to report it. Either grow a pair and take it, or just block the person who is offending you.
    iirc ESO is 18+, init? Are you telling me bunch of adult people cant handle few curse words? Its a part of a life for christ sake. When you are in bar and someone calls you "s*iteating w*nker", are you gonna to report it and demand that person is banned from a bar? no, because as and adutl you take it and you dont give a damn.

    You sound awfully offended by other people taking offense. Toughen up buttercup.

    So from this day foward, we shall tolarate racism and harassement against women, which have been reported here , because you, clever and superior man said that it is a part of life... no mate, I wont tolarate that... hope you start thinking more of what you are saying here...

    Let me clarify for you. I was explicitly talking about mere words offending people. There is a difference between words and racist or sexist behaviour, for example when someone kick you from trial group or dungeon group because you are latino or irish - that is report worthy racist behaviour. When someone kick you from a guild because you are a women - that is unacceptable sexist behaviour. On the other note, when someone takes you into trial group just because you are a women is acceptable sexist behaviour.
    There is a difference between actions and words. I would not report someone who is calling me "filthy slav". Whatever, big deal. But if i was to be treated differently because im filthy slav, that would be racist action. You see my point?
    Edited by Czirne on February 22, 2019 9:44PM
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  • DocFrost72
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    Would I report someone calling me an "aggit"? No. It's either coming from someone trying to get a rise out of me, someone who legitimately feels that I am homosexual and that somehow it is wrong, or a friend.

    For number one, they lose if I ignore them. As a semi-professional troll, I can assure you the best way to troll proof yourself is act like they don't exist. They live for the high of getting on nerves, and if it isn't you they'll move on.

    For number two, I'm likely to actually be amused. There'd be nothing wrong with it if I was actually that way, and I care not for what someone thinks of me, and tbh I couldn't care less that they think that way. Ironically, this is the most likely way to get me to respond. If you want an honest debate, anyway.

    For number three, I'mma immediately call them worse and they'll smile.

    So no. I wouldn't report this. But you do you.
    Edited by DocFrost72 on February 23, 2019 1:08AM
  • West1389
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    DocFrost72 wrote: »
    Would I report someone calling me an "aggit"? No. It's either coming from someone trying to get a rise out of me, someone who legitimately feels that I am homosexual and that somehow it is wrong, or a friend.

    For number one, they lose if is ignore them. As a semi-professional troll, I can assure you the best way to troll proof yourself is act like they don't exist. They live for the high of getting on nerves, and if it isn't you they'll move on.

    For number two, I'm likely to actually be amused. There'd be nothing wrong with it if I was actually that way, and I care not for what someone thinks of me, and tbh is couldn't care less that they think that way. Ironically, this is the most likely way to get me to respond. If you want an honest debate, anyway.

    For number three, I'mma immediately call them worse and they'll smile.

    So no. I wouldn't report this. But you do you.

    Wish I could shake your hand. This is what I tried to say but you said it 100x better than I could of. They should read this and learn.

    People feed off people getting upset this is why I mess with certain family members. The ones that get mad more I troll harder.
  •  Czirne
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    people have bad days his dog maybe died
    DocFrost72 wrote: »
    Would I report someone calling me an "aggit"? No. It's either coming from someone trying to get a rise out of me, someone who legitimately feels that I am homosexual and that somehow it is wrong, or a friend.

    For number one, they lose if is ignore them. As a semi-professional troll, I can assure you the best way to troll proof yourself is act like they don't exist. They live for the high of getting on nerves, and if it isn't you they'll move on.

    For number two, I'm likely to actually be amused. There'd be nothing wrong with it if I was actually that way, and I care not for what someone thinks of me, and tbh is couldn't care less that they think that way. Ironically, this is the most likely way to get me to respond. If you want an honest debate, anyway.

    For number three, I'mma immediately call them worse and they'll smile.

    So no. I wouldn't report this. But you do you.

    absolutely agree
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  • Undefwun
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    How do you take someone serious if they are too "ussy" to say the actual word...

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  •  Czirne
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    people have bad days his dog maybe died
    Undefwun wrote: »
    How do you take someone serious if they are too "ussy" to say the actual word...

    maybe because the moment you write word like "***" or "***" your forum post most likely gets deleted and you will get some friendly reminder from mods.

    Edit: Now i see curse words are censored by default. where can i disable profanity filter?
    Edited by Czirne on February 22, 2019 10:56PM
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