What would you do in this situation?

oMrRust

Someone harasses you by constantly following you, asking those you hang around about you, asking where you are at. and when he follows you, he never leaves.
Have him on ignore, does not help. Support even tells you , you could put him on ignore list but he continues.
You even try changing your @ name cause of this but somehow he knows it is you.

What would you do in this situation..?

Skander

I doubt that he can actually do something if you put him on ignore.

Rohamad_Ali

Make them my official stalker .

oMrRust

Skander wrote: »

I doubt that he can actually do something if you put him on ignore.

He can't talk to you, mail you, whisper you at all. but you can still see him, he can still see you but he constantly tries to follow and never goes away unless you TP somewhere but he tries to find you again anyway

Lyserus

oMrRust wrote: »

Skander wrote: »

I doubt that he can actually do something if you put him on ignore.

He can't talk to you, mail you, whisper you at all. but you can still see him, he can still see you but he constantly tries to follow and never goes away unless you TP somewhere but he tries to find you again anyway

That's creepy, but same time impressive spy skills... how does he find you after you teleport??

oMrRust

Lyserus wrote: »

oMrRust wrote: »

Skander wrote: »

I doubt that he can actually do something if you put him on ignore.

He can't talk to you, mail you, whisper you at all. but you can still see him, he can still see you but he constantly tries to follow and never goes away unless you TP somewhere but he tries to find you again anyway

That's creepy, but same time impressive spy skills... how does he find you after you teleport??

I don't even know.
I changed my @ name. I even changed my characters name too and somehow he knew it was me

Royaji

Is Stuga back at it again?

asuitandtyb14_ESO

I'd personally ignore him. I don't care if I'm being followed, and that's how he/she can do really.

oMrRust

Royaji wrote: »

Is Stuga back at it again?

Stuga? that orsinium quest giver in starter zones? I have no issue at all with that NPC.

Lyserus

oMrRust wrote: »

Lyserus wrote: »

oMrRust wrote: »

Skander wrote: »

I doubt that he can actually do something if you put him on ignore.

He can't talk to you, mail you, whisper you at all. but you can still see him, he can still see you but he constantly tries to follow and never goes away unless you TP somewhere but he tries to find you again anyway

That's creepy, but same time impressive spy skills... how does he find you after you teleport??

I don't even know.
I changed my @ name. I even changed my characters name too and somehow he knew it was me

He must have you in same guild or friend list with another account then, at least that's the simplest way I can think of to do that tracking work.

But serious thing is, you said he is asking around about you. Does it only involves in-game stuff, or does it includes real life information? If it includes real life information then I suggest take action and try to do something through law.

If it's only about in game stuff... well maybe he is just a creepy roleplayer.
I believe you can avoid him by staying in your in game house and other instances （like dungeons and trials）, or even gather evidence and report him

oMrRust

Lyserus wrote: »

oMrRust wrote: »

Lyserus wrote: »

oMrRust wrote: »

Skander wrote: »

I doubt that he can actually do something if you put him on ignore.

He can't talk to you, mail you, whisper you at all. but you can still see him, he can still see you but he constantly tries to follow and never goes away unless you TP somewhere but he tries to find you again anyway

That's creepy, but same time impressive spy skills... how does he find you after you teleport??

I don't even know.
I changed my @ name. I even changed my characters name too and somehow he knew it was me

He must have you in same guild or friend list with another account then, at least that's the simplest way I can think of to do that tracking work.

But serious thing is, you said he is asking around about you. Does it only involves in-game stuff, or does it includes real life information? If it includes real life information then I suggest take action and try to do something through law.

If it's only about in game stuff... well maybe he is just a creepy roleplayer.
I believe you can avoid him by staying in your in game house and other instances （like dungeons and trials）, or even gather evidence and report him

I don't think it's someone on my fl on another account. A friend told me through mail that someone was in The Rift asking about me (I occasionally like to roleplay there) and he was asking people if they seen my @ around or know where I am cause I haven't been there for a while.

I haven't seen him in quite awhile up until recently been seeing him again and started doing it again.

ntheogenic

Lyserus wrote: »

oMrRust wrote: »

Lyserus wrote: »

oMrRust wrote: »

Skander wrote: »

I doubt that he can actually do something if you put him on ignore.

He can't talk to you, mail you, whisper you at all. but you can still see him, he can still see you but he constantly tries to follow and never goes away unless you TP somewhere but he tries to find you again anyway

That's creepy, but same time impressive spy skills... how does he find you after you teleport??

I don't even know.
I changed my @ name. I even changed my characters name too and somehow he knew it was me

He must have you in same guild or friend list with another account then, at least that's the simplest way I can think of to do that tracking work.

More likely it's his ignore list. Ignore lists get updated automatically when someone changes the @ account name. And unlike friend lists you can't remove yourself from someone's ignore list.

It is a good feature, but it can be abused to track people.

Medakon

How about you just put the player on ignore, and teleport to a wayshire so the person can't tag along?

oMrRust

Medakon wrote: »

How about you just put the player on ignore, and teleport to a wayshire so the person can't tag along?

I did that actually. Somehow he manages to find me.
I even do /Stuck so he could think I just logged off but he somehow still finds me.

I even logged off onto another character, then I alt back after a certain amount of time and he was just sitting there, waiting.

logarifmik

Have you ever asked him is he just roleplays the Adoring Fan from TES IV? Maybe this is the case.

Aurielle

That’s creepy AF. Just keep reporting him for harassment if he doesn’t leave you alone; hopefully he’ll receive a warning and back off.

I know it goes without saying, but don’t give out ANY personal information about yourself. Make sure your in-game friends are aware of what’s going on. If you’re solo when he’s following you, maybe try inviting some friends to group up with you and just be there. I was stalked IRL by an ex-friend who wouldn’t take “I’m not interested” for an answer, and he only stopped when he knew that OTHER people knew about his creepy behaviour. It’s a horrible feeling, and I hope you manage to get the issue resolved soon.

Lilyanne

I agree with everything Aurielle said. That's incredibly creepy and I'd also keep reporting them. It can't be fun to be in-game when you constantly fear that some creepy dude will start following you again.
I've been through the whole "rename myself, rename my characters, recreate characters with new names" too but thankfully I didn't run into the people I avoid like the plague again. I hope you'll get to enjoy the game soon again as well and that person will be taken care off.

Jameliel

Go to Cyrodiil.

Wrecking_Blow_Spam

Confront him

DarcyMardin

Continue to ignore him and if he keep following you, keep reporting him. What you're describing is harassment. Some of these creeps are extremely persistent, unfortunately. My daughter is still stalked by her crazy ex 12 years after she split with him.

Don't let him ruin your fun and enjoyment with the game. Report the guy, and be just as persistent reporting him as he seems to be in stalking you.

neverwalk

flip him the bird, it's now a emote in the game, can be bought for 40 crown gems-in the crown crate section, that's where i found it.

oMrRust

Jameliel wrote: »

Go to Cyrodiil.

He does it in cyrodiil too.
Hence when I did /stuck. he did it as well and started following me again

oMrRust

DarcyMardin wrote: »

Continue to ignore him and if he keep following you, keep reporting him. What you're describing is harassment. Some of these creeps are extremely persistent, unfortunately. My daughter is still stalked by her crazy ex 12 years after she split with him.

Don't let him ruin your fun and enjoyment with the game. Report the guy, and be just as persistent reporting him as he seems to be in stalking you.

I have and the response I got was to put him on ignore which I already had him on ignore.

vamp_emily

I have a similar problem, but not that bad. Every time this person sees me they walk over and t-bag me for a few minutes. If I move they follow me and do the same thing.

Ignore doesn't work, but when it happens I just go afk and then they are usually gone when I come back.

zaria

ntheogenic wrote: »

Lyserus wrote: »

oMrRust wrote: »

Lyserus wrote: »

oMrRust wrote: »

Skander wrote: »

I doubt that he can actually do something if you put him on ignore.

He can't talk to you, mail you, whisper you at all. but you can still see him, he can still see you but he constantly tries to follow and never goes away unless you TP somewhere but he tries to find you again anyway

That's creepy, but same time impressive spy skills... how does he find you after you teleport??

I don't even know.
I changed my @ name. I even changed my characters name too and somehow he knew it was me

He must have you in same guild or friend list with another account then, at least that's the simplest way I can think of to do that tracking work.

More likely it's his ignore list. Ignore lists get updated automatically when someone changes the @ account name. And unlike friend lists you can't remove yourself from someone's ignore list.

It is a good feature, but it can be abused to track people.

He can also be in an trade guild with you, would check that first.

Wrubius_Coronaria

Reporting him for harrassment is the best thing to do honestly.

oMrRust wrote: »

Medakon wrote: »

How about you just put the player on ignore, and teleport to a wayshire so the person can't tag along?

I did that actually. Somehow he manages to find me.
I even do /Stuck so he could think I just logged off but he somehow still finds me.

I even logged off onto another character, then I alt back after a certain amount of time and he was just sitting there, waiting.

Do you have friends in common? Or guilds? Or maybe he have some others peoples stalking you and giving him any new informations about you? Or maybe your character appearance is still the same, despite your account and character name change? Or he knows very well your personality and with who you are talking / socializing in game, thus he finds you with that. Or maybe this person has severals accounts and stalk you with a second account.
(I'm not trying to make you more paranoid, just I'm just trying to figure out how he can find you every time). But this is really creepy to act like this.

oMrRust

Caitsith wrote: »

Reporting him for harrassment is the best thing to do honestly.

oMrRust wrote: »

Medakon wrote: »

How about you just put the player on ignore, and teleport to a wayshire so the person can't tag along?

I did that actually. Somehow he manages to find me.
I even do /Stuck so he could think I just logged off but he somehow still finds me.

I even logged off onto another character, then I alt back after a certain amount of time and he was just sitting there, waiting.

Do you have friends in common? Or guilds? Or maybe he have some others peoples stalking you and giving him any new informations about you? Or maybe your character appearance is still the same, despite your account and character name change? Or he knows very well your personality and with who you are talking / socializing in game, thus he finds you with that. Or maybe this person has severals accounts and stalk you with a second account.
(I'm not trying to make you more paranoid, just I'm just trying to figure out how he can find you every time). But this is really creepy to act like this.

Got no guilds in common, and I don't see any of my friends giving him information, or knowing him really. If so, I wouldn't know who exactly.

Cave_Canem

You're feeding your troll just by posting here.

Stop feeding your troll.

Aurielle

oMrRust wrote: »

DarcyMardin wrote: »

Continue to ignore him and if he keep following you, keep reporting him. What you're describing is harassment. Some of these creeps are extremely persistent, unfortunately. My daughter is still stalked by her crazy ex 12 years after she split with him.

Don't let him ruin your fun and enjoyment with the game. Report the guy, and be just as persistent reporting him as he seems to be in stalking you.

I have and the response I got was to put him on ignore which I already had him on ignore.

That’s probably an automated response. It has been a long time since I had to report anyone in game for harassment, but I do seem to recall receiving an email encouraging me to place the player on ignore. It might be worth your while to contact customer support directly and explain the situation.

DarcyMardin

oMrRust wrote: »

DarcyMardin wrote: »

Continue to ignore him and if he keep following you, keep reporting him. What you're describing is harassment. Some of these creeps are extremely persistent, unfortunately. My daughter is still stalked by her crazy ex 12 years after she split with him.

Don't let him ruin your fun and enjoyment with the game. Report the guy, and be just as persistent reporting him as he seems to be in stalking you.

I have and the response I got was to put him on ignore which I already had him on ignore.

I understand, and that sucks. But I would keep reporting him anyway. Explain that it is an ongoing problem and that putting him on ignore hasn't stopped his harassment. There is no reason why any of us should have to put up with another player persistently stalking us--it sounds like disturbed, obsessive behavior and harassment is against TOS.

Savos_Saren

Is it Santa Claus? He sees you when you're sleeping. He knows when you're awake.