MaddPowered wrote: »Tell them to grow up. If they don't like what's being said they can easily look away, or minimize chat.
andreasranasen wrote: »MaddPowered wrote: »Tell them to grow up. If they don't like what's being said they can easily look away, or minimize chat.
Not enough eye roll to a response like that.
MaddPowered wrote: »andreasranasen wrote: »MaddPowered wrote: »Tell them to grow up. If they don't like what's being said they can easily look away, or minimize chat.
Not enough eye roll to a response like that.
Tell me that i am wrong.
IcyDeadPeople wrote: »There is no reason to be rude in any guild chat. If you want to discuss some opinion, you can easily do it without behaving like a child, bickering etc.
redspecter23 wrote: »There is always a line that shouldn't be crossed and that varies from guild to guild. There are black and white topics and a wide grey area in between. Your guild choice should match up with whatever you feel is a comfortable chat level. If you like to talk about all sorts of hot button topics, you might be better off in a guild where those sort of topics are embraced. If you prefer not to be offended and possibly have officers that moderate the chat to keep it clean, then there are guilds for that as well.
Narvuntien wrote: »The poll isn't nauanced enough.
It depends on the type of guild.
If the guild is a group of like minded individuals particularly if it is a group of real life friends or people from similar backgrounds. That is an exclusive guild it has a purpose for those friends to hang out together. You can speak "freely" because everyone basically agrees, for good or ill.
But if you guild wants to be inclusive, that is attract as many different players as it can then it needs to be respectful of people of different backgrounds feelings or it risks losing members. In a simlar way most large companies are in favor of inclusivity. If I needs donations for its store, if It needs good traders, if it needs active players for dungeons and trails it cannot be pushing people away.
I'd much perfer people go to guild chats to be terrible people than zone chat. Since this game needs players so it needs to be as inclusive as possible and terrible zone chat people can push away players.
I think the most important thing is how you handle being called out for percieved terrible behavour is the most important thing. I mean sometimes you can be mistakenly inappropraite or misjudge a crowd, it is going to happen. The "Am I being inappropraite?, No! it is minorities that are wrong" type response is the wrong way to go about it. It is your chance to learn something about other people rather than being angry someone made you feel bad about your behaviour.
I think both sides of this arguement is actually the same thing, just from two different perspectives. One person wants a safe space to be what the other sees are inappropraite and the other wants a safe space from people that are innappropraite. When one side gets angry because they have been made to feel bad the other side gets angry that the other side made them feel bad. The only difference is your perspective.