I saw the update 4 video this morning...and I dread having to tell my wife about it.
This is an interesting position to be in, as I am fortunate enough to be married to a woman that likes to play the occasional game - but this one has been a good bit different. It would be difficult to keep her attention in past MMOs, but she's loved this one. Loved the combat and questing...but had to stop playing because..well, Craglorn.
I saw a couple of months ago that the content in the game was lacking. I dealt with it as best I could because I wanted to love the game so hard. I sit eagerly to hear any bit of news that comes out about future updates - whether it is a road ahead post or seeing the contents of a new patch. But consistently over the last two months, I get excited about a small thing then they seem to crush it. The Justice System! YES! Improved VR content! YES! Then this morning I see a video for update 4 - I clicked on that link so fast that I would have made this guy proud. And then it was 2 minutes of a sinking, heart breaking disappointment. Again.
So, I'll tell me wife tonight at dinner that ESO is coming up with a content update...to add to Craglorn.
"Cool, and update!" She'll say.
"Are they bringing the justice or champion system?"
"No." I'll say.
"Okay, well what about the VR content improvement? Are they adding new delves to the areas to give us a bit more to poke around in?"
"No."
"...so it's just Craglorn. We can't even quest there because there's never a group."
"I know." - I'll say as I realize Im fortunate to even be HAVING this discussion with a woman. Just thank God she's not a PVPer. I couldn't deal with the defeat she'd have on her face.
"Okay..well, maybe in the next one they'll give us something cool to do."
And this is exactly the convo I will have. It sucks. I love that she wants to enjoy the game, but she feels just like I do in this. We keep on waiting for more to do...every month that goes by, just to find another disappointing group-pve content update.
I'm not knocking the work they have done, but I'm kinda exhausted with the constant promises given (even before launch - horse racing? Thieves Guild?) and getting no update on it. Quakecon rolls around, they throw out Justice System, VR improvement, Champion system and start talking about big changes in the updates coming soon! Then plaster UPDATE 4 - WATCH NOW! on the main page with absolutely no mention of any of that. I would have bet a paycheck one of those things would have been mentioned in that video - the Craglorn 2 announcement was about as expected as a having an alien carrying a birthday cake (6 months early) tap me on the shoulder right now.
I mean, I want to say thanks for the work you guys do put in...but....
Ugh.
Pendrillion wrote: »Uhm as I understood it. There will be new content in form of UPPER Craglorn. That means a whole new Map and the Dragonstar arena? And I partially feel your pain. But so far my GF is the more avid player than I am.We both have fun apart and together.
ers101284b14_ESO wrote: »Didn't they say that things like Justice system and Champion was coming in updates 5 and later. Being they add more every 6 weeks they aren't going to make every update as big as the Craglorn one. Most MMO's don't even add anything for 3-6 months so yeah every update is not going to be amazing. Also this update has Dragonstar and Upper Craglorn wich is the last of Craglorn before they work on Murkmire.
I saw the update 4 video this morning...and I dread having to tell my wife about it.
This is an interesting position to be in, as I am fortunate enough to be married to a woman that likes to play the occasional game - but this one has been a good bit different. It would be difficult to keep her attention in past MMOs, but she's loved this one. Loved the combat and questing...but had to stop playing because..well, Craglorn.
I saw a couple of months ago that the content in the game was lacking. I dealt with it as best I could because I wanted to love the game so hard. I sit eagerly to hear any bit of news that comes out about future updates - whether it is a road ahead post or seeing the contents of a new patch. But consistently over the last two months, I get excited about a small thing then they seem to crush it. The Justice System! YES! Improved VR content! YES! Then this morning I see a video for update 4 - I clicked on that link so fast that I would have made this guy proud. And then it was 2 minutes of a sinking, heart breaking disappointment. Again.
So, I'll tell me wife tonight at dinner that ESO is coming up with a content update...to add to Craglorn.
"Cool, and update!" She'll say.
"Are they bringing the justice or champion system?"
"No." I'll say.
"Okay, well what about the VR content improvement? Are they adding new delves to the areas to give us a bit more to poke around in?"
"No."
"...so it's just Craglorn. We can't even quest there because there's never a group."
"I know." - I'll say as I realize Im fortunate to even be HAVING this discussion with a my woman. Just thank God she's not a PVPer. I couldn't deal with the defeat she'd have on her face.
"Okay..well, maybe in the next one they'll give us something cool to do."
And this is exactly the convo I will have. It sucks. I love that she wants to enjoy the game, but she feels just like I do in this. We keep on waiting for more to do...every month that goes by, just to find another disappointing group-pve content update.
I'm not knocking the work they have done, but I'm kinda exhausted with the constant promises given (even before launch - horse racing? Thieves Guild?) and getting no update on it. Quakecon rolls around, they throw out Justice System, VR improvement, Champion system and start talking about big changes in the updates coming soon! Then plaster UPDATE 4 - WATCH NOW! on the main page with absolutely no mention of any of that. I would have bet a paycheck one of those things would have been mentioned in that video - the Craglorn 2 announcement was about as expected as a having an alien carrying a birthday cake (6 months early) tap me on the shoulder right now.
I mean, I want to say thanks for the work you guys do put in...but....
Ugh.
I saw the update 4 video this morning...and I dread having to tell my wife about it.
...
I mean, I want to say thanks for the work you guys do put in...but....
Ugh.
ers101284b14_ESO wrote: »Didn't they say that things like Justice system and Champion was coming in updates 5 and later. Being they add more every 6 weeks they aren't going to make every update as big as the Craglorn one. Most MMO's don't even add anything for 3-6 months so yeah every update is not going to be amazing. Also this update has Dragonstar and Upper Craglorn wich is the last of Craglorn before they work on Murkmire.
Totally agree on the consistency of updates. Thats why Im not entirely just bashing them. They do well with that. It's just...at VR12, there's nothing to do. Gathering a group on the same quest you are on in Craglorn is about as common as a naked leprechaun riding a unicorn made of gold.
Or..at least, a little more common than that. But close.
I saw the update 4 video this morning...and I dread having to tell my wife about it.
This is an interesting position to be in, as I am fortunate enough to be married to a woman that likes to play the occasional game - but this one has been a good bit different. It would be difficult to keep her attention in past MMOs, but she's loved this one. Loved the combat and questing...but had to stop playing because..well, Craglorn.
I saw a couple of months ago that the content in the game was lacking. I dealt with it as best I could because I wanted to love the game so hard. I sit eagerly to hear any bit of news that comes out about future updates - whether it is a road ahead post or seeing the contents of a new patch. But consistently over the last two months, I get excited about a small thing then they seem to crush it. The Justice System! YES! Improved VR content! YES! Then this morning I see a video for update 4 - I clicked on that link so fast that I would have made this guy proud. And then it was 2 minutes of a sinking, heart breaking disappointment. Again.
So, I'll tell me wife tonight at dinner that ESO is coming up with a content update...to add to Craglorn.
"Cool, and update!" She'll say.
"Are they bringing the justice or champion system?"
"No." I'll say.
"Okay, well what about the VR content improvement? Are they adding new delves to the areas to give us a bit more to poke around in?"
"No."
"...so it's just Craglorn. We can't even quest there because there's never a group."
"I know." - I'll say as I realize Im fortunate to even be HAVING this discussion with a my woman. Just thank God she's not a PVPer. I couldn't deal with the defeat she'd have on her face.
"Okay..well, maybe in the next one they'll give us something cool to do."
And this is exactly the convo I will have. It sucks. I love that she wants to enjoy the game, but she feels just like I do in this. We keep on waiting for more to do...every month that goes by, just to find another disappointing group-pve content update.
I'm not knocking the work they have done, but I'm kinda exhausted with the constant promises given (even before launch - horse racing? Thieves Guild?) and getting no update on it. Quakecon rolls around, they throw out Justice System, VR improvement, Champion system and start talking about big changes in the updates coming soon! Then plaster UPDATE 4 - WATCH NOW! on the main page with absolutely no mention of any of that. I would have bet a paycheck one of those things would have been mentioned in that video - the Craglorn 2 announcement was about as expected as a having an alien carrying a birthday cake (6 months early) tap me on the shoulder right now.
I mean, I want to say thanks for the work you guys do put in...but....
Ugh.
I, as an example, love Dragon Age...but I'm not going to complain that I have to wait till October for DA3; instead I find something to do with my time that I enjoy. Me. I choose to play ESO. I will likely but ESO down for a bit for that game, and I will likely return for the additional content after.
Looking for new stuff to do? How about rolling another character and starting fresh in another alliance? Have you mastered all of the crafting? Have you tried joining new guilds and meeting new people to explore content with? Your post brought a smile to my face because you do have a dilemma that many of us would probably envy: a life-long partner that loves ESO as much as you do. The trick I think is to use your imagination to find new ways of enjoying the game. Maybe take up fishing, and have a contest with your wife to see who can come up with the best catches?
I'm always puzzled by the players who race through content (no criticism; just a personal opinion) and then feel like they've exhausted the game. I've been playing since early release and have got 5 characters none of which have reached level 40 yet. I still feel a sense of joy when I'm playing the game. All of the things you long for will be coming, but I believe that these additions and changes take time, and that's a good thing because you hope they're putting in the care and attention that these things need to be really good.
Thanks for the post. It made my heart feel a little lighter to read it!
I, as an example, love Dragon Age...but I'm not going to complain that I have to wait till October for DA3; instead I find something to do with my time that I enjoy. Me. I choose to play ESO. I will likely but ESO down for a bit for that game, and I will likely return for the additional content after.
That make sense?
That's my plan. I am not as excited about Witcher but I did play and enjoy 1/2, so I will definitely give 3 a look. It is way off though, like 2nd quarter of next year I think.Starting to salivate for Witcher 3, but I see these games as breaks from ESO, not as replacements.
I'm sorry to have to tell you this, Andre...this is the worst part of the job.andre.roques.3b14_ESO wrote: »I, as an example, love Dragon Age...but I'm not going to complain that I have to wait till October for DA3
So are you and your wife opposed to all group content, or just big group content (Craglorn trials)?I saw the update 4 video this morning...and I dread having to tell my wife about it.
This is an interesting position to be in, as I am fortunate enough to be married to a woman that likes to play the occasional game - but this one has been a good bit different. It would be difficult to keep her attention in past MMOs, but she's loved this one. Loved the combat and questing...but had to stop playing because..well, Craglorn.
I saw a couple of months ago that the content in the game was lacking. I dealt with it as best I could because I wanted to love the game so hard. I sit eagerly to hear any bit of news that comes out about future updates - whether it is a road ahead post or seeing the contents of a new patch. But consistently over the last two months, I get excited about a small thing then they seem to crush it. The Justice System! YES! Improved VR content! YES! Then this morning I see a video for update 4 - I clicked on that link so fast that I would have made this guy proud. And then it was 2 minutes of a sinking, heart breaking disappointment. Again.
So, I'll tell me wife tonight at dinner that ESO is coming up with a content update...to add to Craglorn.
"Cool, and update!" She'll say.
"Are they bringing the justice or champion system?"
"No." I'll say.
"Okay, well what about the VR content improvement? Are they adding new delves to the areas to give us a bit more to poke around in?"
"No."
"...so it's just Craglorn. We can't even quest there because there's never a group."
"I know." - I'll say as I realize Im fortunate to even be HAVING this discussion with a my woman. Just thank God she's not a PVPer. I couldn't deal with the defeat she'd have on her face.
"Okay..well, maybe in the next one they'll give us something cool to do."
And this is exactly the convo I will have. It sucks. I love that she wants to enjoy the game, but she feels just like I do in this. We keep on waiting for more to do...every month that goes by, just to find another disappointing group-pve content update.
I'm not knocking the work they have done, but I'm kinda exhausted with the constant promises given (even before launch - horse racing? Thieves Guild?) and getting no update on it. Quakecon rolls around, they throw out Justice System, VR improvement, Champion system and start talking about big changes in the updates coming soon! Then plaster UPDATE 4 - WATCH NOW! on the main page with absolutely no mention of any of that. I would have bet a paycheck one of those things would have been mentioned in that video - the Craglorn 2 announcement was about as expected as a having an alien carrying a birthday cake (6 months early) tap me on the shoulder right now.
I mean, I want to say thanks for the work you guys do put in...but....
Ugh.
I am crawling through content, and I have way WAY too many unplayed games in my Steam GoG and Origin libraries.Maverick827 wrote: »I'm sorry to have to tell you this, Andre...this is the worst part of the job.andre.roques.3b14_ESO wrote: »I, as an example, love Dragon Age...but I'm not going to complain that I have to wait till October for DA3
DA3 was pushed back to November.
I have tissues if you need some.
Sounds better than the conversations I have with my wife about ESO:
Wife: "How's your game?"
Me: "In laymen's terms? Or do you want me to explain exactly why the game is bad?"
Wife: "Neither. Why don't you just get a new one?"
Me: "Well it's like watching a really bad movie on purpose just to heckle it."
Wife: "That's stupid..."
Me: "Humans are notorious for stupidity, and I happen to be one."
My life summed up in the words of one of my favorite authors:"He was a dreamer, a thinker, a speculative philosopher...
or, as his wife would have it, an idiot."
-Douglas Adams
I stopped reading at the bold. Are you trying to be offensive or just ignorant of the fact that almost half the gaming audience is female?
I should have written -my- woman. I havent been fortunate to date/be in a relationship with a female that likes to game. No offense meant.