This might get some hate but the way i learned weaving was following a heart beat at 60 BPM. Think about the BUM BUM of a heart, first Bum is light attack, second Bum is ability. With the GCD most abilities are on 1 second so the better you get with the rhythm the faster the gap between LA and Ability will be and now it just feels natural to add the light attack before every skill.
I hope this helps. You can still do vet trials with lower dps with the right mix of people but hard modes and score pushing might be out of reach.
@KwoungI generally only play MMO's, mostly because I enjoy the genre, but also because I do not have the twitch skills to play FPS's and other types of games that require lightning millisecond reflex's or force you to complete 2-4 perfectly timed actions per second in order to be competitive and complete high end content. I have high/top end raided in most other MMO's I have played over the past 22 years, but ESO is the first in my experience to require twitch gaming skills, in order to be able to pull competitive DPS, which is basically ruining my game, since I have done everything but Vet DLC trials and would very much like to.
Also, I feel it isn't really fair that an entire group of players be gated from content for any number of reasons beyond their control. Some of us are older, some much older, some have disabilities, poor eyesight, maybe tunnel vision (inability to process your entire screen at once) and the list goes on. ESO seems to be highly prejudice against this part of their player base and doesn't really offer any sort of options to help with this issue. And no, upping the base DPS for people that simply spam light attacks is not a solution. I personally have practiced my rotations for over a year now and have come to the conclusion that I will never be able to do the sort of DPS needed to pull my own weight for one or more of the reasons stated above, I am just physically incapable of keeping up a rotation with LA weaving involved. A rotation yes no problem... 2-4 perfectly timed inputs per second, not so much.
So, any chance it will go away at some point?
Treat it like a rhythm game, not a twitch skill.
Changing my thinking really helped my learn it. Don't try to 'cancel' the light attack -- just start a light attack and then press a skill a moment later.
Mouse and keyboard: Left click, tiny pause, keyboard press. Left click, tiny pause, keyboard press. The left click leads, the keyboard responds.
You can also try tanking and healing. Those roles don't expect nearly so much damage. If a tank doesn't weave, it's unlikely anyone even notices since they do like 5% group damage on a good day.
Dungeons and trials have multiple difficulty levels specifically so everyone can experience them.
Btw if you have issues with weaving there are heavy attack builds out there with very easy rotations that rely on well heavy attacking a lot, which is just holding down left click.
I cleared vet Vateshran hollows and did spirit slayer on my 2nd try with a heavy attack magplar build and it was an absolute cakewalk, and it wasn't even fully optimized for dmg.