Varkal2112 wrote: »
How am I being toxic mate? This behavior is really entitled, do you think people owe it to you to carry you? No one owes you anything, why should 11 people fail a vet trial and waste their time because you're bad or undergeared?
11 people dont fail cuz of one (unless he is a tank or healer)
LadyNalcarya wrote: »Well, yeah, trial groups are a free market. No one is stopping you from creating and leading a non-"elitist" group... I wonder why people don't do that instead of complaining on forums, after all, unlike bugs and balance issues this problem could easily be solved. It's pretty apparent that you dislike those "elitists", so why do you want to play with them and not with like-minded people? I'm sure there's a lot of non-elitist people like you, you should create a guild and conquer hardmodes at your own pace.
there is an easier solution.
Kick toxic players from the group. if they are not happy with their RANDOM group they get, don't allow them to cherrypick and waste peoples time.
It is their issue with the group, so if anyone should leave it is them.
Just think of a dd sitting 15 minutes + in the queue, then he gets into the dungeon, gets immediately kicked for being low cp and has to wait another 15 minutes befiore he can queue, to sit another 15 min+ in the queue to get a new group.
You effectively wasted 45 minutes of someones time.
If you can't carry a low cp group through a dungeon or you don't want to, don't queue for a random.
You should go to form a group, look for people in chat and invest your own time, rather than wasting other peoples time.
LucyferLightbringer wrote: »If you want to blame someone for dps requirements and "elitism" blame ZOS. It is them who put in dps checks and enrage timers as part of the mechanics.
runkorkoeb17_ESO wrote: »Dps counters are here to stay. ZoS must even add something like prooving grounds. .Want to do vet? Finish proving ground first, its like mini solo dungeon. For each rolle. If you menage to finish it as a healer you can que as such for vet. Same with other roles.
Last night i spam Wayrest Sewers.
Did less than 3k dps as tank, and stil 20% of dmg on boss was mine. This on vet.
Imagine if you get such grp in DLC dungeons
MrBumblefoot wrote: »DD is easy to find and I prefer someone with 30k instead of 10k so why wouldn't I kick you? Don't queue for vet if you can't do your job. A dps having low dps is no different than a tank dying easily.
remove dps counters from game, it just promotes elitism and toxicity, also give us the option to completly opt out of the esolog thingie and not just get shown as anonymous, unless its 11 completly randoms who all seem to play the same class + setup you always have a way to see which anonymous is who.
alainjbrennanb16_ESO wrote: »no point Zos want this behaviour in the game, they would have not added it to the base game or allow add ons, or have dps test dummies, just release that Zos is Happy with Toxic behaviour/elitism and come to terms with it
TriangularChicken wrote: »LadyNalcarya wrote: »Well, yeah, trial groups are a free market. No one is stopping you from creating and leading a non-"elitist" group... I wonder why people don't do that instead of complaining on forums, after all, unlike bugs and balance issues this problem could easily be solved. It's pretty apparent that you dislike those "elitists", so why do you want to play with them and not with like-minded people? I'm sure there's a lot of non-elitist people like you, you should create a guild and conquer hardmodes at your own pace.
I have to quote this too, exactly my thoughts.
What OP basically says is that he wants to play with good people, but good people don't want to play with him cause he is bad. My advice: either work hard train hard so you can play with them or create your own guild with people on the same level as you.
Why should bad lazy players get carried through content for free? Not only that but bad players have that entitlement which makes it even worse
Good players put in the effort and time to master vet trials, expecting a carry doesnt go well with end game pvers unless you're paying them, and plenty of players pay for carries
So either get your dps up and find an progression group, or pay or quiet down
You are not entitled to anything
LadyNalcarya wrote: »alainjbrennanb16_ESO wrote: »no point Zos want this behaviour in the game, they would have not added it to the base game or allow add ons, or have dps test dummies, just release that Zos is Happy with Toxic behaviour/elitism and come to terms with it
What's so toxic about expecting your team members to carry their weight and share the common goals/mindset? It's so strange that "anti-elitist" people tend to overlook the social aspect.
Group activities are supposed to be fun for everyone, and it's quite difficult to have fun in a company of people you secretly (or not so secretly) despise. Everyone has a different approach to the game, and it's perfectly normal, but trying to join people who have drastically different goals and mindset is a recipe for disaster. It can be an issue even for gaming couples (even though they have more in common that your average guildies), and you cannot expect a group of strangers to adopt your way of playing and conform to your goals.
Raid guilds are typically interested in people who share the same mindset and are team players. OP is obviously not interested in progression, and he/she also dislikes those guilds and their ways. Fair enough, but then why not to join a more relaxed guild and play with them? There's plenty of guilds that wouldn't even ask you for parses and you can always make a new one.
I've seen enough people who wanted to join the best raiding group they can find just to get a fancy title/skin and leave. Even if they have decent dps, this attitude is kinda bad, or, dare I say it, toxic. We might enjoy different things in game, but basic human decency is still a must. Seeing other people as free carries and stepping stones for your goals is not okay, it's no better than kicking a cp10 player from a normal dungeon or vandalizing rp events.
Live and let live. If you don't like how other people play their game, then don't play with them. There's enough space for all of us.