When I play in a group with my wife, I will get many recipes and patterns from cabinets, urns, etc. Looting the same items my wife never gets any of these when we are together. When we play separately she does get recipes and patterns when looting these items. At first we thought it was luck but this has gone on longer than luck can explain. I have tried to let her loot the item first, let her be the first to enter the room (I am usually in front) but these haven't helped.
I thought that looting was independent (except heavy sacks and some chest) so I don't know why she doesn't get the recipes and patterns when we are in a group. Has anyone else seen this or know what could be causing it?