I have a hard time choosing and thought why not ask fellow players for help with choosing, as well as see if you got some experience that allow for some "patching" of my choices.
The facts upon which choices are to be made:
Argonian
Class DK
Now 1st choice, I like sneaking/stealing and to use that it is best to use medium armor, as well as Stamina is used when sneaking.
How ever I want to use restoration staff, which make my healing bad. (choice of Stamina)
Now 2nd choice, healing with restoration staff is not going to be bad, and I can use a destruction staff as 2nd weapon (well likely restoration is going on the 2nd bar).
How ever will the drawback from not using medium armor and not putting points in stamina hurt me too much for sneaking/stealing.
For the choice of destruction staff I am a bit split as well, but since both the staff and DK comes with some skills for AoE/Cone attacks,
I lean towards frost staff due to it's unique ability to use magika for blocking ..and the fact I have always had a soft spot for freezing stuff in fantasy games.
How ever choosing fire/flame staff, allows me to apply burning status 100% chance (when staff upgrade is fully done), which benefits from my DK passive
of gaining Magika min. every 5 secs when applying this effect.