If anyone has ever wondered why i flip out and send hate tells, its because of things like that. I find myself struggling, trying to be at least slightly good, trying to play the game and focus so hard it gives me a literal headache, keeping up with everything on the screen and just really not having fun.... and then all effort gets instantly thrown out the window by someone like this. So if there's anyone here reading this, anyone who got a hate tell from me, let me sincerely apologise, I can actually be a really nice person outside of PvP. It's almost like this game is changing me.
Read first part of what OP said and it does not seem to tie into the title. Even the first sentence seems to be one topic and the two paragraphs afterwards are a second which seems to become discombobulated rant going into a complaint on medium armor and a poor PvP build.
If I am wrong please tell me if it is worth reading further.
Read first part of what OP said and it does not seem to tie into the title. Even the first sentence seems to be one topic and the two paragraphs afterwards are a second which seems to become discombobulated rant going into a complaint on medium armor and a poor PvP build.
If I am wrong please tell me if it is worth reading further.
It's not supposed to be a rant. I'm trying to explain how I feel and what makes me question these things.
Gameplay and playstyle is one thing but to be unable to replicate numerical results on a theoretical standing still target seems strange to me.
I'm trying to ask questions because I'm way out of the picture it seems. But that's besides the point now. I'm getting a bit more insight into what I was missing now.
DeadlyRecluse wrote: »If anyone has ever wondered why i flip out and send hate tells, its because of things like that. I find myself struggling, trying to be at least slightly good, trying to play the game and focus so hard it gives me a literal headache, keeping up with everything on the screen and just really not having fun.... and then all effort gets instantly thrown out the window by someone like this. So if there's anyone here reading this, anyone who got a hate tell from me, let me sincerely apologise, I can actually be a really nice person outside of PvP. It's almost like this game is changing me.
No, you send hate tells because you let your emotions get the better of you when someone else's digital dress-up man kills your digital dress-up man. That's on you.
Read first part of what OP said and it does not seem to tie into the title. Even the first sentence seems to be one topic and the two paragraphs afterwards are a second which seems to become discombobulated rant going into a complaint on medium armor and a poor PvP build.
If I am wrong please tell me if it is worth reading further.
It's not supposed to be a rant. I'm trying to explain how I feel and what makes me question these things.
Gameplay and playstyle is one thing but to be unable to replicate numerical results on a theoretical standing still target seems strange to me.
I'm trying to ask questions because I'm way out of the picture it seems. But that's besides the point now. I'm getting a bit more insight into what I was missing now.
You state it is not a rant but what you go on to explain is one. However . . .
Have you thought that your "theoretical standing" is wrong? If you are coming off as weak sauce then either your build or your playstyle need work. Maybe both. Most that theorycraft their builds often choose stuff they think is cool or will work and are disappointed when it does not.
I would start with posting what your build is and ask for help. The playstyle is something you have to figure out yourself
DeadlyRecluse wrote: »If anyone has ever wondered why i flip out and send hate tells, its because of things like that. I find myself struggling, trying to be at least slightly good, trying to play the game and focus so hard it gives me a literal headache, keeping up with everything on the screen and just really not having fun.... and then all effort gets instantly thrown out the window by someone like this. So if there's anyone here reading this, anyone who got a hate tell from me, let me sincerely apologise, I can actually be a really nice person outside of PvP. It's almost like this game is changing me.
No, you send hate tells because you let your emotions get the better of you when someone else's digital dress-up man kills your digital dress-up man. That's on you.
No it's not. Period. And it'd be nice if people understood my situation than just respond like that. Those who play with me would be shocked I ever responded like that to anyone ever.
This game is a huge source of stress for me and there has never been any other game that has ever made me send a hate tell before. The sole fact that unexplained things happen that raise giant questionmarks, people's effort to harass and grief you, that's why I get mad and then let my emotions loose.
It's a) the game not really telling you anything and b) people acting like they're born geniuses.
DeadlyRecluse wrote: »DeadlyRecluse wrote: »If anyone has ever wondered why i flip out and send hate tells, its because of things like that. I find myself struggling, trying to be at least slightly good, trying to play the game and focus so hard it gives me a literal headache, keeping up with everything on the screen and just really not having fun.... and then all effort gets instantly thrown out the window by someone like this. So if there's anyone here reading this, anyone who got a hate tell from me, let me sincerely apologise, I can actually be a really nice person outside of PvP. It's almost like this game is changing me.
No, you send hate tells because you let your emotions get the better of you when someone else's digital dress-up man kills your digital dress-up man. That's on you.
No it's not. Period. And it'd be nice if people understood my situation than just respond like that. Those who play with me would be shocked I ever responded like that to anyone ever.
This game is a huge source of stress for me and there has never been any other game that has ever made me send a hate tell before. The sole fact that unexplained things happen that raise giant questionmarks, people's effort to harass and grief you, that's why I get mad and then let my emotions loose.
It's a) the game not really telling you anything and b) people acting like they're born geniuses.
So you get stressed lash out at a human being because of what happens in a game. That's literally letting your emotions get the better of you.
That's on you. Full stop.
HEBREWHAMMERRR wrote: »Some people spend hours and hours fine tuning and theorycrafting a perfect build and you just expect them to share with you because you want to copy their hard work? Go play PvE content where the meta is set in stone man, cyrodill isn’t for you.
HEBREWHAMMERRR wrote: »Some people spend hours and hours fine tuning and theorycrafting a perfect build and you just expect them to share with you because you want to copy their hard work? Go play PvE content where the meta is set in stone man, cyrodill isn’t for you.
Practice.
I’ve played PvP everyday for years. Even the first year and a half I played all the time and thought I was in top tier. I almost got emperor multiple times and killed 90% of the players I saw. But I was not good at all. When dueling came out my friend wanted to duel me for practice. The knowledge level he had over me (even though we played together) was incredible. I never landed any combos decent damage or was able to sustain.
I spent 500k that day trying everything to win. I won maybe 1:100. We dueled everyday. All day. Multiple characters builds everything. I would wear the cheesiest stuff to win ad still lose over and over. Then one day it clicked. I saw the openings. The mistakes. I still can’t really beat that one friend but it just happened.
I could fight someone for 10 secs and know their build to the letter. I saw their rotations being off or messed up. When to take advantage. It takes time and lots of it. I used 1000 potions the fist day. And I thought I was good.
Now it the same for almost everyone I fight. They either are on the level or their not. Even some of my friends who are 5 stars ad really good in open world don’t stand a chance. It just takes time. Eventually it will click. You’ll see the game like Neo in the Matrix.
I will suggest getting a good friend and both wearing 2 sustain sets and dueling for at least 2 hours a day. This will teach you a lot. After 2-3 weeks of that ask a few more friends to join.
HEBREWHAMMERRR wrote: »Some people spend hours and hours fine tuning and theorycrafting a perfect build and you just expect them to share with you because you want to copy their hard work? Go play PvE content where the meta is set in stone man, cyrodill isn’t for you.
Never said I want to copy them. That's your assumption.
I'm rather trying to learn and adapt. Understand. Improve, know what to do better.
HEBREWHAMMERRR wrote: »HEBREWHAMMERRR wrote: »Some people spend hours and hours fine tuning and theorycrafting a perfect build and you just expect them to share with you because you want to copy their hard work? Go play PvE content where the meta is set in stone man, cyrodill isn’t for you.
Never said I want to copy them. That's your assumption.
I'm rather trying to learn and adapt. Understand. Improve, know what to do better.
There’s no “I win” build. The game is very much a Rock Paper Scissors with you being able to set yourself for a more favorable rock and paper but you’ll always find a counter. As people stated, find what class you’re specifically struggling against and practice dueling, learn counters, where you can adapt, etc. I’m a day one magblade and I get waxed by people in cyrodill all the time for different reasons but I can identify those reasons. I run vampire so I know I’m squishy to the Danny’s and leaps of the world and a magDK is a death sentence. However, I started running a heavy armor open world 2H build, keep most of my burst but give up a ton but gain forward momentum and added resistances. That being said, I know not to start a fight with a magsorc in an open field with this build. It’s all situational and you just really have to get a full grasp on a build you like, identify the weaknesses and adjust your play style accordingly. Hope this helps.
I know for me recently I got killed in 1 second, one nightblade was able to use 3 skills and 2 ultimates in the one second I heard the attack go off. I wasn't lagging, my attacks were hitting him.
Read first part of what OP said and it does not seem to tie into the title. Even the first sentence seems to be one topic and the two paragraphs afterwards are a second which seems to become discombobulated rant going into a complaint on medium armor and a poor PvP build.
If I am wrong please tell me if it is worth reading further.
It's not supposed to be a rant. I'm trying to explain how I feel and what makes me question these things.
Gameplay and playstyle is one thing but to be unable to replicate numerical results on a theoretical standing still target seems strange to me.
I'm trying to ask questions because I'm way out of the picture it seems. But that's besides the point now. I'm getting a bit more insight into what I was missing now.
You state it is not a rant but what you go on to explain is one. However . . .
Have you thought that your "theoretical standing" is wrong? If you are coming off as weak sauce then either your build or your playstyle need work. Maybe both. Most that theorycraft their builds often choose stuff they think is cool or will work and are disappointed when it does not.
I would start with posting what your build is and ask for help. The playstyle is something you have to figure out yourself
Okay let me explain it a little better.
My opponent wears the identical set and is of same class. Stands still.
I hit him - 2k
He hits me - 6k
That's why I'm asking these questions. It makes 0 sense.
My opponent wears the identical set and is of same class. Stands still.
I hit him - 2k
He hits me - 6k
That's why I'm asking these questions. It makes 0 sense.
Read first part of what OP said and it does not seem to tie into the title. Even the first sentence seems to be one topic and the two paragraphs afterwards are a second which seems to become discombobulated rant going into a complaint on medium armor and a poor PvP build.
If I am wrong please tell me if it is worth reading further.
It's not supposed to be a rant. I'm trying to explain how I feel and what makes me question these things.
Gameplay and playstyle is one thing but to be unable to replicate numerical results on a theoretical standing still target seems strange to me.
I'm trying to ask questions because I'm way out of the picture it seems. But that's besides the point now. I'm getting a bit more insight into what I was missing now.
You state it is not a rant but what you go on to explain is one. However . . .
Have you thought that your "theoretical standing" is wrong? If you are coming off as weak sauce then either your build or your playstyle need work. Maybe both. Most that theorycraft their builds often choose stuff they think is cool or will work and are disappointed when it does not.
I would start with posting what your build is and ask for help. The playstyle is something you have to figure out yourself
Okay let me explain it a little better.
My opponent wears the identical set and is of same class. Stands still.
I hit him - 2k
He hits me - 6k
That's why I'm asking these questions. It makes 0 sense.