Ectheliontnacil wrote: »
oh, thank you. Point still stands though, despite a simple typing error. [Snip].
Ectheliontnacil wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »
oh, thank you. Point still stands though, despite a simple typing error. [Snip].
@JJBoomer
Well your reply made it sufficiently clear that you didn't pay any attention to what I said in the OP, or that you simply didn't understand it. Either way, why would I bother arguing your "point" if it can be called that.
Just think about what you're saying. "You're basically just trying to prevent other players from doing something that's 100% harmless, just so YOU can have more fun."
Would not a toggle be perfectly harmless? Is it not you that seeks to impose his poor taste in fashion on others, so YOU can have more fun with your outfit?
veloSylraptor wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »
oh, thank you. Point still stands though, despite a simple typing error. [Snip].
@JJBoomer
Well your reply made it sufficiently clear that you didn't pay any attention to what I said in the OP, or that you simply didn't understand it. Either way, why would I bother arguing your "point" if it can be called that.
Just think about what you're saying. "You're basically just trying to prevent other players from doing something that's 100% harmless, just so YOU can have more fun."
Would not a toggle be perfectly harmless? Is it not you that seeks to impose his poor taste in fashion on others, so YOU can have more fun with your outfit?
Would I need to repeat my arguments on how disingenuous "perfectly harmless" is when it clearly removes people's agency to dress how they like with the money they spent? how it silences and makes invisible people whose fashion choice you don't approve? Is it not you whose trying to impose your poor taste on everyone else by making them wear what you want them to wear while bypassing their consent to be presented in such a way entirely?
You keep saying it has no effect on everyone else while failing the points that have been presented previously and acting as if they do not exist:
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183603/#Comment_5183603
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183798/#Comment_5183798
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183868/#Comment_5183868
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183923/#Comment_5183923
And of course the big questions:
- How many of the recurring spenders in this game are comfortable with being denied their expression and made invisible?
- How many of them would change their spending patterns when they know their being veiled?
- How comfortable is ZoS with risking and accepting the potential profit loss?
Cause I'm pretty sure a lot of people will not take kindly to being made invisible.
veloSylraptor wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »
oh, thank you. Point still stands though, despite a simple typing error. [Snip].
@JJBoomer
Well your reply made it sufficiently clear that you didn't pay any attention to what I said in the OP, or that you simply didn't understand it. Either way, why would I bother arguing your "point" if it can be called that.
Just think about what you're saying. "You're basically just trying to prevent other players from doing something that's 100% harmless, just so YOU can have more fun."
Would not a toggle be perfectly harmless? Is it not you that seeks to impose his poor taste in fashion on others, so YOU can have more fun with your outfit?
Would I need to repeat my arguments on how disingenuous "perfectly harmless" is when it clearly removes people's agency to dress how they like with the money they spent? how it silences and makes invisible people whose fashion choice you don't approve? Is it not you whose trying to impose your poor taste on everyone else by making them wear what you want them to wear while bypassing their consent to be presented in such a way entirely?
You keep saying it has no effect on everyone else while failing the points that have been presented previously and acting as if they do not exist:
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183603/#Comment_5183603
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183798/#Comment_5183798
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183868/#Comment_5183868
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183923/#Comment_5183923
And of course the big questions:
- How many of the recurring spenders in this game are comfortable with being denied their expression and made invisible?
- How many of them would change their spending patterns when they know their being veiled?
- How comfortable is ZoS with risking and accepting the potential profit loss?
Cause I'm pretty sure a lot of people will not take kindly to being made invisible.
Well, I would not be happy with not having any control over my appearance to others - that's for certain. But I would still buy costumes, because I want a pleasant look & feel for myself. IRL I dress up and wear day-makeup as well if I do not intend to go out at all - it's just for me, to feel good and my partner appreciates a little eye-candy as well. So I guess, my spending habits would not change, even I would be unhappy with having no control over my appearance to others, like I said.
@veloSylraptorveloSylraptor wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »
oh, thank you. Point still stands though, despite a simple typing error. [Snip].
@JJBoomer
Well your reply made it sufficiently clear that you didn't pay any attention to what I said in the OP, or that you simply didn't understand it. Either way, why would I bother arguing your "point" if it can be called that.
Just think about what you're saying. "You're basically just trying to prevent other players from doing something that's 100% harmless, just so YOU can have more fun."
Would not a toggle be perfectly harmless? Is it not you that seeks to impose his poor taste in fashion on others, so YOU can have more fun with your outfit?
Would I need to repeat my arguments on how disingenuous "perfectly harmless" is when it clearly removes people's agency to dress how they like with the money they spent? how it silences and makes invisible people whose fashion choice you don't approve? Is it not you whose trying to impose your poor taste on everyone else by making them wear what you want them to wear while bypassing their consent to be presented in such a way entirely?
You keep saying it has no effect on everyone else while failing to address the points that have been presented previously and acting as if they do not exist:
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183603/#Comment_5183603
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183798/#Comment_5183798
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183868/#Comment_5183868
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183923/#Comment_5183923
And of course the big questions:
- How many of the recurring spenders in this game are comfortable with being denied their expression and made invisible?
- How many of them would change their spending patterns when they know their being veiled?
- How comfortable is ZoS with risking and accepting the potential profit loss?
Cause I'm pretty sure a lot of people will not take kindly to being made invisible. One player in this thread already expressed that they will no longer be spending money on cosmetics if they are just going to be veiled.
And again, if a character is being misrepresented on your screen, then they have essentially had their identity, expression, and personhood erased; no more a person than a random minor NPC, their choices made for them by someone else.
ZOS will not do that - but eventually we can get them to offer more detailed normal looking stuff, than flashy but still low polygon stuff. I would appreciated better meshes -my guars could be so awesome,but they have a rather dull mesh and the texture on them is just meh - still I like guars.
Ectheliontnacil wrote: »@veloSylraptorveloSylraptor wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »
oh, thank you. Point still stands though, despite a simple typing error. [Snip].
@JJBoomer
Well your reply made it sufficiently clear that you didn't pay any attention to what I said in the OP, or that you simply didn't understand it. Either way, why would I bother arguing your "point" if it can be called that.
Just think about what you're saying. "You're basically just trying to prevent other players from doing something that's 100% harmless, just so YOU can have more fun."
Would not a toggle be perfectly harmless? Is it not you that seeks to impose his poor taste in fashion on others, so YOU can have more fun with your outfit?
Would I need to repeat my arguments on how disingenuous "perfectly harmless" is when it clearly removes people's agency to dress how they like with the money they spent? how it silences and makes invisible people whose fashion choice you don't approve? Is it not you whose trying to impose your poor taste on everyone else by making them wear what you want them to wear while bypassing their consent to be presented in such a way entirely?
You keep saying it has no effect on everyone else while failing to address the points that have been presented previously and acting as if they do not exist:
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183603/#Comment_5183603
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183798/#Comment_5183798
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183868/#Comment_5183868
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183923/#Comment_5183923
And of course the big questions:
- How many of the recurring spenders in this game are comfortable with being denied their expression and made invisible?
- How many of them would change their spending patterns when they know their being veiled?
- How comfortable is ZoS with risking and accepting the potential profit loss?
Cause I'm pretty sure a lot of people will not take kindly to being made invisible. One player in this thread already expressed that they will no longer be spending money on cosmetics if they are just going to be veiled.
And again, if a character is being misrepresented on your screen, then they have essentially had their identity, expression, and personhood erased; no more a person than a random minor NPC, their choices made for them by someone else.
Ugh, you again.
Please think about this for a second.
Why does the need of a certain player to be seen by another, in the full splendor of his/her outfit, outweigh the desire of the other player, to not see this outfit.
The one whose outfit is being hidden is not invisible, he retains his custom character features and can interact with everybody. A lot of people will still see his/her outfit, IF they choose to. This player can also ask friends to turn off the toggle, if he feels the need to show off his attire.
Point is we have a conflict of interests here. One side wants to "show off" (no offense), the other doesn't necessarily want to see this display of "unimerssiveness". The latter wishes only to control their own perception of the game, while the former wants to control others' perception of it.
Imo you're taking a more invasive stance on this issue than I am and therefore I don't think your wishes should be prioritised.
veloSylraptor wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »@veloSylraptorveloSylraptor wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »
oh, thank you. Point still stands though, despite a simple typing error. If YOU'RE going to try and invalidate my point, please try harder.
@JJBoomer
Well your reply made it sufficiently clear that you didn't pay any attention to what I said in the OP, or that you simply didn't understand it. Either way, why would I bother arguing your "point" if it can be called that.
Just think about what you're saying. "You're basically just trying to prevent other players from doing something that's 100% harmless, just so YOU can have more fun."
Would not a toggle be perfectly harmless? Is it not you that seeks to impose his poor taste in fashion on others, so YOU can have more fun with your outfit?
Would I need to repeat my arguments on how disingenuous "perfectly harmless" is when it clearly removes people's agency to dress how they like with the money they spent? how it silences and makes invisible people whose fashion choice you don't approve? Is it not you whose trying to impose your poor taste on everyone else by making them wear what you want them to wear while bypassing their consent to be presented in such a way entirely?
You keep saying it has no effect on everyone else while failing to address the points that have been presented previously and acting as if they do not exist:
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183603/#Comment_5183603
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183798/#Comment_5183798
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183868/#Comment_5183868
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183923/#Comment_5183923
And of course the big questions:
- How many of the recurring spenders in this game are comfortable with being denied their expression and made invisible?
- How many of them would change their spending patterns when they know their being veiled?
- How comfortable is ZoS with risking and accepting the potential profit loss?
Cause I'm pretty sure a lot of people will not take kindly to being made invisible. One player in this thread already expressed that they will no longer be spending money on cosmetics if they are just going to be veiled.
And again, if a character is being misrepresented on your screen, then they have essentially had their identity, expression, and personhood erased; no more a person than a random minor NPC, their choices made for them by someone else.
Ugh, you again.
Please think about this for a second.
Why does the need of a certain player to be seen by another, in the full splendor of his/her outfit, outweigh the desire of the other player, to not see this outfit.
The one whose outfit is being hidden is not invisible, he retains his custom character features and can interact with everybody. A lot of people will still see his/her outfit, IF they choose to. This player can also ask friends to turn off the toggle, if he feels the need to show off his attire.
Point is we have a conflict of interests here. One side wants to "show off" (no offense), the other doesn't necessarily want to see this display of "unimerssiveness". The latter wishes only to control their own perception of the game, while the former wants to control others' perception of it.
Imo you're taking a more invasive stance on this issue than I am and therefore I don't think your wishes should be prioritised.
I would see it another way.
Why does a player who needs to control how another player is being presented out weigh the desires of other players who simply wish to exists as entities with agency within the game?
You are not wishing only to control your perception of the game, but how others identities and expressions are presented in it. Controlling your perception of the game in this way requires the removal of other players' agency in how they are represented. This seems to be the part you're not getting. To misrepresent people in that way is to remove them as a character, as a personality, and renders their personhood invalid. They might as well be a minor NPC given that even their own expressions are chosen for them by someone else. Also, it is at least equally immersion breaking to know that at any moment you are probably being misrepresented. That other people are seeing you not as you are, but as how they would like you to appear. To not have their own character's identity and expression being represented, but to have the identities and expressions of another stamped on them without their consent.
So again, its not "only" wishes to control "their own perception." Its also a wish to control how other people appear. You also seem to be confused about "showing off," I'm sure quite a lot of people totally don't care if other people like them, dislike them, ignore them, or completely not notice them (and their expressions through their character design). Because its not about what other people think or not think, its about being seen. Its not about showing anything, but rather about not being made invisible and non existent.
Is not forcing everyone to wear a uniform more invasive than simply being free to wear that you want to wear.
That you can be free to express yourself however you like within the system, just like everyone else. The people who wish to be free to express themselves are not trying to control how you appear after all.

veloSylraptor wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »@veloSylraptorveloSylraptor wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »
oh, thank you. Point still stands though, despite a simple typing error. If YOU'RE going to try and invalidate my point, please try harder.
@JJBoomer
Well your reply made it sufficiently clear that you didn't pay any attention to what I said in the OP, or that you simply didn't understand it. Either way, why would I bother arguing your "point" if it can be called that.
Just think about what you're saying. "You're basically just trying to prevent other players from doing something that's 100% harmless, just so YOU can have more fun."
Would not a toggle be perfectly harmless? Is it not you that seeks to impose his poor taste in fashion on others, so YOU can have more fun with your outfit?
Would I need to repeat my arguments on how disingenuous "perfectly harmless" is when it clearly removes people's agency to dress how they like with the money they spent? how it silences and makes invisible people whose fashion choice you don't approve? Is it not you whose trying to impose your poor taste on everyone else by making them wear what you want them to wear while bypassing their consent to be presented in such a way entirely?
You keep saying it has no effect on everyone else while failing to address the points that have been presented previously and acting as if they do not exist:
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183603/#Comment_5183603
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183798/#Comment_5183798
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183868/#Comment_5183868
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183923/#Comment_5183923
And of course the big questions:
- How many of the recurring spenders in this game are comfortable with being denied their expression and made invisible?
- How many of them would change their spending patterns when they know their being veiled?
- How comfortable is ZoS with risking and accepting the potential profit loss?
Cause I'm pretty sure a lot of people will not take kindly to being made invisible. One player in this thread already expressed that they will no longer be spending money on cosmetics if they are just going to be veiled.
And again, if a character is being misrepresented on your screen, then they have essentially had their identity, expression, and personhood erased; no more a person than a random minor NPC, their choices made for them by someone else.
Ugh, you again.
Please think about this for a second.
Why does the need of a certain player to be seen by another, in the full splendor of his/her outfit, outweigh the desire of the other player, to not see this outfit.
The one whose outfit is being hidden is not invisible, he retains his custom character features and can interact with everybody. A lot of people will still see his/her outfit, IF they choose to. This player can also ask friends to turn off the toggle, if he feels the need to show off his attire.
Point is we have a conflict of interests here. One side wants to "show off" (no offense), the other doesn't necessarily want to see this display of "unimerssiveness". The latter wishes only to control their own perception of the game, while the former wants to control others' perception of it.
Imo you're taking a more invasive stance on this issue than I am and therefore I don't think your wishes should be prioritised.
I would see it another way.
Why does a player who needs to control how another player is being presented out weigh the desires of other players who simply wish to exists as entities with agency within the game?
You are not wishing only to control your perception of the game, but how others identities and expressions are presented in it. Controlling your perception of the game in this way requires the removal of other players' agency in how they are represented. This seems to be the part you're not getting. To misrepresent people in that way is to remove them as a character, as a personality, and renders their personhood invalid. They might as well be a minor NPC given that even their own expressions are chosen for them by someone else. Also, it is at least equally immersion breaking to know that at any moment you are probably being misrepresented. That other people are seeing you not as you are, but as how they would like you to appear. To not have their own character's identity and expression being represented, but to have the identities and expressions of another stamped on them without their consent.
So again, its not "only" wishes to control "their own perception." Its also a wish to control how other people appear. You also seem to be confused about "showing off," I'm sure quite a lot of people totally don't care if other people like them, dislike them, ignore them, or completely not notice them (and their expressions through their character design). Because its not about what other people think or not think, its about being seen. Its not about showing anything, but rather about not being made invisible and non existent.
Is not forcing everyone to wear a uniform more invasive than simply being free to wear that you want to wear.
That you can be free to express yourself however you like within the system, just like everyone else. The people who wish to be free to express themselves are not trying to control how you appear after all.
Do try and be mindful, both of your guys' perspectives are valid. It is perfectly normal to not want your freedom of expression to be infringed upon, but it is also perfectly normal to not want to have things forced on you. Just like you might want to be able to practice your religion in peace, you also don't want to have someone else's religion forced upon you, right?
"How'd you like to hear about the book of the crown store? We'd like to introduce to you the nightmare ice ghost imperial wolf senche charger mount!"
*slowly shuts door on them*
veloSylraptor wrote: »veloSylraptor wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »@veloSylraptorveloSylraptor wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »
oh, thank you. Point still stands though, despite a simple typing error. [Snip].
@JJBoomer
Well your reply made it sufficiently clear that you didn't pay any attention to what I said in the OP, or that you simply didn't understand it. Either way, why would I bother arguing your "point" if it can be called that.
Just think about what you're saying. "You're basically just trying to prevent other players from doing something that's 100% harmless, just so YOU can have more fun."
Would not a toggle be perfectly harmless? Is it not you that seeks to impose his poor taste in fashion on others, so YOU can have more fun with your outfit?
Would I need to repeat my arguments on how disingenuous "perfectly harmless" is when it clearly removes people's agency to dress how they like with the money they spent? how it silences and makes invisible people whose fashion choice you don't approve? Is it not you whose trying to impose your poor taste on everyone else by making them wear what you want them to wear while bypassing their consent to be presented in such a way entirely?
You keep saying it has no effect on everyone else while failing to address the points that have been presented previously and acting as if they do not exist:
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183603/#Comment_5183603
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183798/#Comment_5183798
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183868/#Comment_5183868
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183923/#Comment_5183923
And of course the big questions:
- How many of the recurring spenders in this game are comfortable with being denied their expression and made invisible?
- How many of them would change their spending patterns when they know their being veiled?
- How comfortable is ZoS with risking and accepting the potential profit loss?
Cause I'm pretty sure a lot of people will not take kindly to being made invisible. One player in this thread already expressed that they will no longer be spending money on cosmetics if they are just going to be veiled.
And again, if a character is being misrepresented on your screen, then they have essentially had their identity, expression, and personhood erased; no more a person than a random minor NPC, their choices made for them by someone else.
Ugh, you again.
Please think about this for a second.
Why does the need of a certain player to be seen by another, in the full splendor of his/her outfit, outweigh the desire of the other player, to not see this outfit.
The one whose outfit is being hidden is not invisible, he retains his custom character features and can interact with everybody. A lot of people will still see his/her outfit, IF they choose to. This player can also ask friends to turn off the toggle, if he feels the need to show off his attire.
Point is we have a conflict of interests here. One side wants to "show off" (no offense), the other doesn't necessarily want to see this display of "unimerssiveness". The latter wishes only to control their own perception of the game, while the former wants to control others' perception of it.
Imo you're taking a more invasive stance on this issue than I am and therefore I don't think your wishes should be prioritised.
I would see it another way.
Why does a player who needs to control how another player is being presented out weigh the desires of other players who simply wish to exists as entities with agency within the game?
You are not wishing only to control your perception of the game, but how others identities and expressions are presented in it. Controlling your perception of the game in this way requires the removal of other players' agency in how they are represented. This seems to be the part you're not getting. To misrepresent people in that way is to remove them as a character, as a personality, and renders their personhood invalid. They might as well be a minor NPC given that even their own expressions are chosen for them by someone else. Also, it is at least equally immersion breaking to know that at any moment you are probably being misrepresented. That other people are seeing you not as you are, but as how they would like you to appear. To not have their own character's identity and expression being represented, but to have the identities and expressions of another stamped on them without their consent.
So again, its not "only" wishes to control "their own perception." Its also a wish to control how other people appear. You also seem to be confused about "showing off," I'm sure quite a lot of people totally don't care if other people like them, dislike them, ignore them, or completely not notice them (and their expressions through their character design). Because its not about what other people think or not think, its about being seen. Its not about showing anything, but rather about not being made invisible and non existent.
Is not forcing everyone to wear a uniform more invasive than simply being free to wear that you want to wear.
That you can be free to express yourself however you like within the system, just like everyone else. The people who wish to be free to express themselves are not trying to control how you appear after all.
Do try and be mindful, both of your guys' perspectives are valid. It is perfectly normal to not want your freedom of expression to be infringed upon, but it is also perfectly normal to not want to have things forced on you. Just like you might want to be able to practice your religion in peace, you also don't want to have someone else's religion forced upon you, right?
"How'd you like to hear about the book of the crown store? We'd like to introduce to you the nightmare ice ghost imperial wolf senche charger mount!"
*slowly shuts door on them*
I am, I already acknowledged their perspective in my earlier posts. I presented them solutions based on that perspective. What I'm doing with the last post you quoted was simply showing what the argument would look like from the other side when we conveniently ignore the other's perspective. After trying to make that point for awhile, I thought I'd just simply demonstrate it.
veloSylraptor wrote: »veloSylraptor wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »@veloSylraptorveloSylraptor wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »
oh, thank you. Point still stands though, despite a simple typing error. If YOU'RE going to try and invalidate my point, please try harder.
@JJBoomer
Well your reply made it sufficiently clear that you didn't pay any attention to what I said in the OP, or that you simply didn't understand it. Either way, why would I bother arguing your "point" if it can be called that.
Just think about what you're saying. "You're basically just trying to prevent other players from doing something that's 100% harmless, just so YOU can have more fun."
Would not a toggle be perfectly harmless? Is it not you that seeks to impose his poor taste in fashion on others, so YOU can have more fun with your outfit?
Would I need to repeat my arguments on how disingenuous "perfectly harmless" is when it clearly removes people's agency to dress how they like with the money they spent? how it silences and makes invisible people whose fashion choice you don't approve? Is it not you whose trying to impose your poor taste on everyone else by making them wear what you want them to wear while bypassing their consent to be presented in such a way entirely?
You keep saying it has no effect on everyone else while failing to address the points that have been presented previously and acting as if they do not exist:
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183603/#Comment_5183603
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183798/#Comment_5183798
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183868/#Comment_5183868
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183923/#Comment_5183923
And of course the big questions:
- How many of the recurring spenders in this game are comfortable with being denied their expression and made invisible?
- How many of them would change their spending patterns when they know their being veiled?
- How comfortable is ZoS with risking and accepting the potential profit loss?
Cause I'm pretty sure a lot of people will not take kindly to being made invisible. One player in this thread already expressed that they will no longer be spending money on cosmetics if they are just going to be veiled.
And again, if a character is being misrepresented on your screen, then they have essentially had their identity, expression, and personhood erased; no more a person than a random minor NPC, their choices made for them by someone else.
Ugh, you again.
Please think about this for a second.
Why does the need of a certain player to be seen by another, in the full splendor of his/her outfit, outweigh the desire of the other player, to not see this outfit.
The one whose outfit is being hidden is not invisible, he retains his custom character features and can interact with everybody. A lot of people will still see his/her outfit, IF they choose to. This player can also ask friends to turn off the toggle, if he feels the need to show off his attire.
Point is we have a conflict of interests here. One side wants to "show off" (no offense), the other doesn't necessarily want to see this display of "unimerssiveness". The latter wishes only to control their own perception of the game, while the former wants to control others' perception of it.
Imo you're taking a more invasive stance on this issue than I am and therefore I don't think your wishes should be prioritised.
I would see it another way.
Why does a player who needs to control how another player is being presented out weigh the desires of other players who simply wish to exists as entities with agency within the game?
You are not wishing only to control your perception of the game, but how others identities and expressions are presented in it. Controlling your perception of the game in this way requires the removal of other players' agency in how they are represented. This seems to be the part you're not getting. To misrepresent people in that way is to remove them as a character, as a personality, and renders their personhood invalid. They might as well be a minor NPC given that even their own expressions are chosen for them by someone else. Also, it is at least equally immersion breaking to know that at any moment you are probably being misrepresented. That other people are seeing you not as you are, but as how they would like you to appear. To not have their own character's identity and expression being represented, but to have the identities and expressions of another stamped on them without their consent.
So again, its not "only" wishes to control "their own perception." Its also a wish to control how other people appear. You also seem to be confused about "showing off," I'm sure quite a lot of people totally don't care if other people like them, dislike them, ignore them, or completely not notice them (and their expressions through their character design). Because its not about what other people think or not think, its about being seen. Its not about showing anything, but rather about not being made invisible and non existent.
Is not forcing everyone to wear a uniform more invasive than simply being free to wear that you want to wear.
That you can be free to express yourself however you like within the system, just like everyone else. The people who wish to be free to express themselves are not trying to control how you appear after all.
Do try and be mindful, both of your guys' perspectives are valid. It is perfectly normal to not want your freedom of expression to be infringed upon, but it is also perfectly normal to not want to have things forced on you. Just like you might want to be able to practice your religion in peace, you also don't want to have someone else's religion forced upon you, right?
"How'd you like to hear about the book of the crown store? We'd like to introduce to you the nightmare ice ghost imperial wolf senche charger mount!"
*slowly shuts door on them*
I am, I already acknowledged their perspective in my earlier posts. I presented them solutions based on that perspective. What I'm doing with the last post you quoted was simply showing what the argument would look like from the other side when we conveniently ignore the other's perspective. After trying to make that point for awhile, I thought I'd just simply demonstrate it.
When trying to bring the extremes to the middle, I find that going to extremes yourself doesn't typically accomplish your goal.
We should also take note that online communities are also a bit different in who they tend to prioritize, like how ignore lists and banning is a common thing online, whereas offline priority is given to freedom of expression. I'm not saying this means much, but it does at least say that the perspective counter to yours is fairly typical and acceptable for online communities. While it's good to present a counterpoint to their perspective to offer insight, it's probably not the best to say or imply that their perspective is bad, particularly when we are talking about an online community.
veloSylraptor wrote: »veloSylraptor wrote: »veloSylraptor wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »@veloSylraptorveloSylraptor wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »
oh, thank you. Point still stands though, despite a simple typing error. [Snip].
@JJBoomer
Well your reply made it sufficiently clear that you didn't pay any attention to what I said in the OP, or that you simply didn't understand it. Either way, why would I bother arguing your "point" if it can be called that.
Just think about what you're saying. "You're basically just trying to prevent other players from doing something that's 100% harmless, just so YOU can have more fun."
Would not a toggle be perfectly harmless? Is it not you that seeks to impose his poor taste in fashion on others, so YOU can have more fun with your outfit?
Would I need to repeat my arguments on how disingenuous "perfectly harmless" is when it clearly removes people's agency to dress how they like with the money they spent? how it silences and makes invisible people whose fashion choice you don't approve? Is it not you whose trying to impose your poor taste on everyone else by making them wear what you want them to wear while bypassing their consent to be presented in such a way entirely?
You keep saying it has no effect on everyone else while failing to address the points that have been presented previously and acting as if they do not exist:
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183603/#Comment_5183603
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183798/#Comment_5183798
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183868/#Comment_5183868
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183923/#Comment_5183923
And of course the big questions:
- How many of the recurring spenders in this game are comfortable with being denied their expression and made invisible?
- How many of them would change their spending patterns when they know their being veiled?
- How comfortable is ZoS with risking and accepting the potential profit loss?
Cause I'm pretty sure a lot of people will not take kindly to being made invisible. One player in this thread already expressed that they will no longer be spending money on cosmetics if they are just going to be veiled.
And again, if a character is being misrepresented on your screen, then they have essentially had their identity, expression, and personhood erased; no more a person than a random minor NPC, their choices made for them by someone else.
Ugh, you again.
Please think about this for a second.
Why does the need of a certain player to be seen by another, in the full splendor of his/her outfit, outweigh the desire of the other player, to not see this outfit.
The one whose outfit is being hidden is not invisible, he retains his custom character features and can interact with everybody. A lot of people will still see his/her outfit, IF they choose to. This player can also ask friends to turn off the toggle, if he feels the need to show off his attire.
Point is we have a conflict of interests here. One side wants to "show off" (no offense), the other doesn't necessarily want to see this display of "unimerssiveness". The latter wishes only to control their own perception of the game, while the former wants to control others' perception of it.
Imo you're taking a more invasive stance on this issue than I am and therefore I don't think your wishes should be prioritised.
I would see it another way.
Why does a player who needs to control how another player is being presented out weigh the desires of other players who simply wish to exists as entities with agency within the game?
You are not wishing only to control your perception of the game, but how others identities and expressions are presented in it. Controlling your perception of the game in this way requires the removal of other players' agency in how they are represented. This seems to be the part you're not getting. To misrepresent people in that way is to remove them as a character, as a personality, and renders their personhood invalid. They might as well be a minor NPC given that even their own expressions are chosen for them by someone else. Also, it is at least equally immersion breaking to know that at any moment you are probably being misrepresented. That other people are seeing you not as you are, but as how they would like you to appear. To not have their own character's identity and expression being represented, but to have the identities and expressions of another stamped on them without their consent.
So again, its not "only" wishes to control "their own perception." Its also a wish to control how other people appear. You also seem to be confused about "showing off," I'm sure quite a lot of people totally don't care if other people like them, dislike them, ignore them, or completely not notice them (and their expressions through their character design). Because its not about what other people think or not think, its about being seen. Its not about showing anything, but rather about not being made invisible and non existent.
Is not forcing everyone to wear a uniform more invasive than simply being free to wear that you want to wear.
That you can be free to express yourself however you like within the system, just like everyone else. The people who wish to be free to express themselves are not trying to control how you appear after all.
Do try and be mindful, both of your guys' perspectives are valid. It is perfectly normal to not want your freedom of expression to be infringed upon, but it is also perfectly normal to not want to have things forced on you. Just like you might want to be able to practice your religion in peace, you also don't want to have someone else's religion forced upon you, right?
"How'd you like to hear about the book of the crown store? We'd like to introduce to you the nightmare ice ghost imperial wolf senche charger mount!"
*slowly shuts door on them*
I am, I already acknowledged their perspective in my earlier posts. I presented them solutions based on that perspective. What I'm doing with the last post you quoted was simply showing what the argument would look like from the other side when we conveniently ignore the other's perspective. After trying to make that point for awhile, I thought I'd just simply demonstrate it.
When trying to bring the extremes to the middle, I find that going to extremes yourself doesn't typically accomplish your goal.
We should also take note that online communities are also a bit different in who they tend to prioritize, like how ignore lists and banning is a common thing online, whereas offline priority is given to freedom of expression. I'm not saying this means much, but it does at least say that the perspective counter to yours is fairly typical and acceptable for online communities. While it's good to present a counterpoint to their perspective to offer insight, it's probably not the best to say or imply that their perspective is bad, particularly when we are talking about an online community.
Bringing extremes to the middle is nice and all, but it tends to be a fruitless endeavor. The main point of my arguments are simply to show the opposing perspectives, lay the potential risks and damages, and make it clear that for whoever this pleases, there are others who will be antagonized. I continued clarifying my arguments simply because attempts to dismiss it without addressing them. The purpose for which remains the same, to show the potential dislikes from players and by extension potential loss for ZoS. In the end, its ZoS' (and their parent company, shareholders, etc) perspectives that matter.
Lastly, I don't see how ignore lists and banning relate to this at all. They are given for either infringing on company policy, or as a stopgap measure to stop someone from continually causing you harm if you need to wait or otherwise cannot get them banned.
Cosmetics and fashion items, on the other hand, are one of the primary monetization items for the game. It is indeed the choice for many MMOs (and unfortunately single player games) to monetize these items. Considering the popularity and profitability of this monetization model would suggest that indeed this is what a lot of players like. I can't speak for anyone else, but I'm sure there are people who would like to have their purchases respected and would be antagonized by giving other players ability to make them invisible because of how they spend money.
In the end, this is the way the business works. The only question that remains is how much of that recurring spender population they are willing to antagonize, and how much? How much risk and potentially lost profit are they willing to accept?
veloSylraptor wrote: »veloSylraptor wrote: »veloSylraptor wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »@veloSylraptorveloSylraptor wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »
oh, thank you. Point still stands though, despite a simple typing error. If YOU'RE going to try and invalidate my point, please try harder.
@JJBoomer
Well your reply made it sufficiently clear that you didn't pay any attention to what I said in the OP, or that you simply didn't understand it. Either way, why would I bother arguing your "point" if it can be called that.
Just think about what you're saying. "You're basically just trying to prevent other players from doing something that's 100% harmless, just so YOU can have more fun."
Would not a toggle be perfectly harmless? Is it not you that seeks to impose his poor taste in fashion on others, so YOU can have more fun with your outfit?
Would I need to repeat my arguments on how disingenuous "perfectly harmless" is when it clearly removes people's agency to dress how they like with the money they spent? how it silences and makes invisible people whose fashion choice you don't approve? Is it not you whose trying to impose your poor taste on everyone else by making them wear what you want them to wear while bypassing their consent to be presented in such a way entirely?
You keep saying it has no effect on everyone else while failing to address the points that have been presented previously and acting as if they do not exist:
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183603/#Comment_5183603
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183798/#Comment_5183798
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183868/#Comment_5183868
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183923/#Comment_5183923
And of course the big questions:
- How many of the recurring spenders in this game are comfortable with being denied their expression and made invisible?
- How many of them would change their spending patterns when they know their being veiled?
- How comfortable is ZoS with risking and accepting the potential profit loss?
Cause I'm pretty sure a lot of people will not take kindly to being made invisible. One player in this thread already expressed that they will no longer be spending money on cosmetics if they are just going to be veiled.
And again, if a character is being misrepresented on your screen, then they have essentially had their identity, expression, and personhood erased; no more a person than a random minor NPC, their choices made for them by someone else.
Ugh, you again.
Please think about this for a second.
Why does the need of a certain player to be seen by another, in the full splendor of his/her outfit, outweigh the desire of the other player, to not see this outfit.
The one whose outfit is being hidden is not invisible, he retains his custom character features and can interact with everybody. A lot of people will still see his/her outfit, IF they choose to. This player can also ask friends to turn off the toggle, if he feels the need to show off his attire.
Point is we have a conflict of interests here. One side wants to "show off" (no offense), the other doesn't necessarily want to see this display of "unimerssiveness". The latter wishes only to control their own perception of the game, while the former wants to control others' perception of it.
Imo you're taking a more invasive stance on this issue than I am and therefore I don't think your wishes should be prioritised.
I would see it another way.
Why does a player who needs to control how another player is being presented out weigh the desires of other players who simply wish to exists as entities with agency within the game?
You are not wishing only to control your perception of the game, but how others identities and expressions are presented in it. Controlling your perception of the game in this way requires the removal of other players' agency in how they are represented. This seems to be the part you're not getting. To misrepresent people in that way is to remove them as a character, as a personality, and renders their personhood invalid. They might as well be a minor NPC given that even their own expressions are chosen for them by someone else. Also, it is at least equally immersion breaking to know that at any moment you are probably being misrepresented. That other people are seeing you not as you are, but as how they would like you to appear. To not have their own character's identity and expression being represented, but to have the identities and expressions of another stamped on them without their consent.
So again, its not "only" wishes to control "their own perception." Its also a wish to control how other people appear. You also seem to be confused about "showing off," I'm sure quite a lot of people totally don't care if other people like them, dislike them, ignore them, or completely not notice them (and their expressions through their character design). Because its not about what other people think or not think, its about being seen. Its not about showing anything, but rather about not being made invisible and non existent.
Is not forcing everyone to wear a uniform more invasive than simply being free to wear that you want to wear.
That you can be free to express yourself however you like within the system, just like everyone else. The people who wish to be free to express themselves are not trying to control how you appear after all.
Do try and be mindful, both of your guys' perspectives are valid. It is perfectly normal to not want your freedom of expression to be infringed upon, but it is also perfectly normal to not want to have things forced on you. Just like you might want to be able to practice your religion in peace, you also don't want to have someone else's religion forced upon you, right?
"How'd you like to hear about the book of the crown store? We'd like to introduce to you the nightmare ice ghost imperial wolf senche charger mount!"
*slowly shuts door on them*
I am, I already acknowledged their perspective in my earlier posts. I presented them solutions based on that perspective. What I'm doing with the last post you quoted was simply showing what the argument would look like from the other side when we conveniently ignore the other's perspective. After trying to make that point for awhile, I thought I'd just simply demonstrate it.
When trying to bring the extremes to the middle, I find that going to extremes yourself doesn't typically accomplish your goal.
We should also take note that online communities are also a bit different in who they tend to prioritize, like how ignore lists and banning is a common thing online, whereas offline priority is given to freedom of expression. I'm not saying this means much, but it does at least say that the perspective counter to yours is fairly typical and acceptable for online communities. While it's good to present a counterpoint to their perspective to offer insight, it's probably not the best to say or imply that their perspective is bad, particularly when we are talking about an online community.
Bringing extremes to the middle is nice and all, but it tends to be a fruitless endeavor. The main point of my arguments are simply to show the opposing perspectives, lay the potential risks and damages, and make it clear that for whoever this pleases, there are others who will be antagonized. I continued clarifying my arguments simply because attempts to dismiss it without addressing them. The purpose for which remains the same, to show the potential dislikes from players and by extension potential loss for ZoS. In the end, its ZoS' (and their parent company, shareholders, etc) perspectives that matter.
Lastly, I don't see how ignore lists and banning relate to this at all. They are given for either infringing on company policy, or as a stopgap measure to stop someone from continually causing you harm if you need to wait or otherwise cannot get them banned.
Cosmetics and fashion items, on the other hand, are one of the primary monetization items for the game. It is indeed the choice for many MMOs (and unfortunately single player games) to monetize these items. Considering the popularity and profitability of this monetization model would suggest that indeed this is what a lot of players like. I can't speak for anyone else, but I'm sure there are people who would like to have their purchases respected and would be antagonized by giving other players ability to make them invisible because of how they spend money.
In the end, this is the way the business works. The only question that remains is how much of that recurring spender population they are willing to antagonize, and how much? How much risk and potentially lost profit are they willing to accept?
Banning and ignore lists are tools for members of communities to use against other members of the community, as in banning players from guilds or blocking people on twitter. You are afforded in this way the ability to take away the freedom of others to be visible to you. Isn't that exactly what we're talking about here?
I'm not disagreeing really with anything else you say, but I mean, isn't it still better to be constructive rather than just critical?
veloSylraptor wrote: »veloSylraptor wrote: »veloSylraptor wrote: »veloSylraptor wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »@veloSylraptorveloSylraptor wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »
oh, thank you. Point still stands though, despite a simple typing error. [Snip].
@JJBoomer
Well your reply made it sufficiently clear that you didn't pay any attention to what I said in the OP, or that you simply didn't understand it. Either way, why would I bother arguing your "point" if it can be called that.
Just think about what you're saying. "You're basically just trying to prevent other players from doing something that's 100% harmless, just so YOU can have more fun."
Would not a toggle be perfectly harmless? Is it not you that seeks to impose his poor taste in fashion on others, so YOU can have more fun with your outfit?
Would I need to repeat my arguments on how disingenuous "perfectly harmless" is when it clearly removes people's agency to dress how they like with the money they spent? how it silences and makes invisible people whose fashion choice you don't approve? Is it not you whose trying to impose your poor taste on everyone else by making them wear what you want them to wear while bypassing their consent to be presented in such a way entirely?
You keep saying it has no effect on everyone else while failing to address the points that have been presented previously and acting as if they do not exist:
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183603/#Comment_5183603
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183798/#Comment_5183798
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183868/#Comment_5183868
- https://forums.elderscrollsonline.com/en/discussion/comment/5183923/#Comment_5183923
And of course the big questions:
- How many of the recurring spenders in this game are comfortable with being denied their expression and made invisible?
- How many of them would change their spending patterns when they know their being veiled?
- How comfortable is ZoS with risking and accepting the potential profit loss?
Cause I'm pretty sure a lot of people will not take kindly to being made invisible. One player in this thread already expressed that they will no longer be spending money on cosmetics if they are just going to be veiled.
And again, if a character is being misrepresented on your screen, then they have essentially had their identity, expression, and personhood erased; no more a person than a random minor NPC, their choices made for them by someone else.
Ugh, you again.
Please think about this for a second.
Why does the need of a certain player to be seen by another, in the full splendor of his/her outfit, outweigh the desire of the other player, to not see this outfit.
The one whose outfit is being hidden is not invisible, he retains his custom character features and can interact with everybody. A lot of people will still see his/her outfit, IF they choose to. This player can also ask friends to turn off the toggle, if he feels the need to show off his attire.
Point is we have a conflict of interests here. One side wants to "show off" (no offense), the other doesn't necessarily want to see this display of "unimerssiveness". The latter wishes only to control their own perception of the game, while the former wants to control others' perception of it.
Imo you're taking a more invasive stance on this issue than I am and therefore I don't think your wishes should be prioritised.
I would see it another way.
Why does a player who needs to control how another player is being presented out weigh the desires of other players who simply wish to exists as entities with agency within the game?
You are not wishing only to control your perception of the game, but how others identities and expressions are presented in it. Controlling your perception of the game in this way requires the removal of other players' agency in how they are represented. This seems to be the part you're not getting. To misrepresent people in that way is to remove them as a character, as a personality, and renders their personhood invalid. They might as well be a minor NPC given that even their own expressions are chosen for them by someone else. Also, it is at least equally immersion breaking to know that at any moment you are probably being misrepresented. That other people are seeing you not as you are, but as how they would like you to appear. To not have their own character's identity and expression being represented, but to have the identities and expressions of another stamped on them without their consent.
So again, its not "only" wishes to control "their own perception." Its also a wish to control how other people appear. You also seem to be confused about "showing off," I'm sure quite a lot of people totally don't care if other people like them, dislike them, ignore them, or completely not notice them (and their expressions through their character design). Because its not about what other people think or not think, its about being seen. Its not about showing anything, but rather about not being made invisible and non existent.
Is not forcing everyone to wear a uniform more invasive than simply being free to wear that you want to wear.
That you can be free to express yourself however you like within the system, just like everyone else. The people who wish to be free to express themselves are not trying to control how you appear after all.
Do try and be mindful, both of your guys' perspectives are valid. It is perfectly normal to not want your freedom of expression to be infringed upon, but it is also perfectly normal to not want to have things forced on you. Just like you might want to be able to practice your religion in peace, you also don't want to have someone else's religion forced upon you, right?
"How'd you like to hear about the book of the crown store? We'd like to introduce to you the nightmare ice ghost imperial wolf senche charger mount!"
*slowly shuts door on them*
I am, I already acknowledged their perspective in my earlier posts. I presented them solutions based on that perspective. What I'm doing with the last post you quoted was simply showing what the argument would look like from the other side when we conveniently ignore the other's perspective. After trying to make that point for awhile, I thought I'd just simply demonstrate it.
When trying to bring the extremes to the middle, I find that going to extremes yourself doesn't typically accomplish your goal.
We should also take note that online communities are also a bit different in who they tend to prioritize, like how ignore lists and banning is a common thing online, whereas offline priority is given to freedom of expression. I'm not saying this means much, but it does at least say that the perspective counter to yours is fairly typical and acceptable for online communities. While it's good to present a counterpoint to their perspective to offer insight, it's probably not the best to say or imply that their perspective is bad, particularly when we are talking about an online community.
Bringing extremes to the middle is nice and all, but it tends to be a fruitless endeavor. The main point of my arguments are simply to show the opposing perspectives, lay the potential risks and damages, and make it clear that for whoever this pleases, there are others who will be antagonized. I continued clarifying my arguments simply because attempts to dismiss it without addressing them. The purpose for which remains the same, to show the potential dislikes from players and by extension potential loss for ZoS. In the end, its ZoS' (and their parent company, shareholders, etc) perspectives that matter.
Lastly, I don't see how ignore lists and banning relate to this at all. They are given for either infringing on company policy, or as a stopgap measure to stop someone from continually causing you harm if you need to wait or otherwise cannot get them banned.
Cosmetics and fashion items, on the other hand, are one of the primary monetization items for the game. It is indeed the choice for many MMOs (and unfortunately single player games) to monetize these items. Considering the popularity and profitability of this monetization model would suggest that indeed this is what a lot of players like. I can't speak for anyone else, but I'm sure there are people who would like to have their purchases respected and would be antagonized by giving other players ability to make them invisible because of how they spend money.
In the end, this is the way the business works. The only question that remains is how much of that recurring spender population they are willing to antagonize, and how much? How much risk and potentially lost profit are they willing to accept?
Banning and ignore lists are tools for members of communities to use against other members of the community, as in banning players from guilds or blocking people on twitter. You are afforded in this way the ability to take away the freedom of others to be visible to you. Isn't that exactly what we're talking about here?
I'm not disagreeing really with anything else you say, but I mean, isn't it still better to be constructive rather than just critical?
The main difference would be that you are not silencing people simply because they exist, or because they spent money on the crown store. How many people has ever been banned or ignored because of how they appear? Is this the purpose of ban and ignore lists? to remove people who don't have a look you approve? This is what you are suggesting after all, a toggle that would remove people for looking in an unapproved way, and potentially getting that look by spending money in one of the most popular monetization models of MMOs.
Also, constructive to what here? I simply would not want to be made invisible for simply using the cosmetic options in the game or bought in the crown store.
Lets also not forget that I have attempted that, you could see that in the previous posts if you would indulge. However, the opposing arguments I was given continuously ignored, dismissed, and trivialized any concerns being brought up without ever addressing them. So I have to ask, why the one sided criticism about being constructive?
AhPook_Is_Here wrote: »I can't really buy this premise that there is such a thing as "non-immersive" cosmetics, as ZOS has said on many occasions that what they sell in the crown store is always created with a strong sensitivity to lore. I understand that due to the subjective nature of perception and values some people might not consider every costume, social pet or cosmetic consistent with their concept of what lore is, but it is consistent with what ZOS thinks is lore appropriate and therefore objectively consistent with lore in the game.
Furthermore, lore is a moving target, stories are added, myths are busted and mores change. Maybe in a few hundred years when skyrim hits tamriel will be going through a prudish phase again, but right now that's not where culture is at.
cyclonus11 wrote: »People will complain about anything. I like the individuality the game provides.
Ectheliontnacil wrote: »veloSylraptor wrote: »Ectheliontnacil wrote: »What do you guys think of a toggle option that disables flashy things - aka replace all special mounts with horses, make pets disappear and maybe even the floating balls of certain sets. The more customizable the options, the better.
Ye that sounds good. And people who like vanity pets and glittering costumes are completely unaffected by this.
Except they are effected, their ability to express themselves has been greatly reduced.
@veloSylraptor
Where is this mad scramble for identity and self expression coming from? I suppose it's human nature, but I still find it disturbing. Are you really defined by the clothes we wear? Is flashy armour and cheapish crown store jewellery who you are?
And that's not even the worst part! Somehow you people feel entitled to subject everyone to your appearance. You have the right to look how you like, but I don't have the right to look away?
If someone isn't into clowns swaggering across the Grahtwood city centre, what good does it do anyone to force him to see those clowns. That person's fun and immersion will be ruined and the clown clown's outfit will not be appreciated, which is what would have made the clown happy.
With TES games always opting for rather conservative and toned down graphics and TESO starting out the same way, I think it's a very reasonable demand that ZOS cater to an audience that would prefer less over the top character customisation as well as to an audience that loves this feature.
I just don't get people who think they should always be allowed to have their fun, even if it comes at the expense of other people's fun.