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I like how ZOS is so casual about LGBT

  • ADarklore
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    I really applaud the TES series for their inclusion of the reality that not everyone is the same nor should they be expected to be- unlike some opinions here in the 'real world'. I've always hated it when people used the phrase 'sexual preference'... because to me it's never been a 'preference' because that term implies "choice"... as in, "do I choose to be attracted to A or B". In reality, for me, there was never a 'choice' other than the choice to either follow my natural attraction OR choose to let others dictate how they think I should be... those were the only choicesI had. So having characters in the game express their relationships so openly without hesitation or fear feels like how the real world should be like... if only.
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    In my opinion, ZOS does it exactly right.

    There are some LGBT pairings around, but they are matter of fact, and not especially overdrawn, they just are there in the landscape of the gameworld.

    And best of all, they are just backdrop to all the usual stuff, not like some other ones where there is one "token homosexual" character whose only purpose is to be homosexual, the characters in ESO are shopkeepers, questgivers, NPCs of all kinds - some of which just happen to be LGBT. And noone gives a fu... e-hem. Noone cares. Everyone in Tamriel just accepts it as matter of course. Personally I think it is a very nice depiction of the matter, from the flowers in greenshade to the nord in malabel tor, from the unlikely romance brewing in the hollow city to some of the patrons and employees in a certain ebonheart inn, from an sorceress and her bosmer girl to the couple in bangkorai...

    Of course, considering some of my characters, that should come as no surprise, just ask my dunmer bounty huntress:
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    I love that there is a place in game where people of all types can feel like they belong . Love is the strongest force in the universe and it unites and brings happiness . All of us need love to grow and to be healthy , that is a proven fact . Blessings to all who find it and take good care of your families and partners as life is short for some of us and the more love given the better .


    Well said
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    Honest question to the moderators, would a user here be allowed to create a thread expressing their displeasure of the LGBT inclusion in ESO itself? And would you remove comments of those who take issue with that which don't strictly follow ESO's inclusion of the topic at hand? I'm not saying I myself would create such a thread, but I would like to see fair standards applied to all.

    Considering that dsicussion is at its core discriminatory, thats a solid no. All facts and opinions behind such a discussion would come from hate groups, and religious zealot groups. We are people just like anyone else, creating a thread against inclusion is actively saying you are against us existing.
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    What is interesting is how the LGBT storylines in ESO is, what, less than 10 occurrences... in a game that has 100's of quest storylines... and some people are upset over that this extremely marginal number was even added? I'm more annoyed that there's not more inclusion. Since birth LGBT people have had heterosexuality 'thrown in our faces' day in, day out... and yet when we applaud a small showing of inclusion by a game, we have certain people upset that we even had any representation. Sadly, this just goes to show that LGBT rights and acceptance still have a long way to go.
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    The Elder Scrolls series has Daedric Princes with no fixed gender. They are what they want to be.

    Vivec.

    Argonians can reportedly swap gender.

    Plenty of same sex couples without it being a big deal.

    Every drop of inclusivity is completely inkeeping with lore and its a great thing.

    Elder Scrolls makes no big deal about it. It just is. Anyone getting in a twist about it is just making a big deal for no big deal.
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    JD2013 wrote: »
    The Elder Scrolls series has Daedric Princes with no fixed gender. They are what they want to be.

    Vivec.

    Argonians can reportedly swap gender.

    Plenty of same sex couples without it being a big deal.

    Every drop of inclusivity is completely inkeeping with lore and its a great thing.

    Elder Scrolls makes no big deal about it. It just is. Anyone getting in a twist about it is just making a big deal for no big deal.

    And I'd rather it be this way, as it has been for years, rather than we have a big multi-quest chain about sexuality, because quite frankly, it's done tastefully and well as is. It is the standard by which all should be judged.
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    yeesh the end of this thread has been so derailed.

    anybody mention the khajiit couple where his man was gambling away and almost got sold into slavery. that was a cute story :3
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    Ilithyania wrote: »
    and Daggerfalls Nicolene.

    Wait wut? When did she out herself? Never seen any dialogue
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    One of the things I like about the way ZOS has handled the inclusion of LGBT folk is that they have not put them on a pedestal and presented them all as saintly, better-than-average, glowing happy halo people. That Khajiit kid's gambling boyfriend has NO common sense, what a doofus. And Little Leaf and Regent Cassipia are villains--Cassipia is a psycho, led to doing awful things thinking she is the good guy, and Little Leaf just totally supports her even though she knows they're awful. Jakarn is a lying, promiscuous thief who goes out of his way to ditch people he has deliberately gotten emotionally entangled with him. They're just as apt as straight folk to be quirky or flawed, they don't just exist to be tokens. I think that's well done.
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    I love The Thies guild story line to with the elf and with the khajiit :) they are so cute together :)
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    Sorry, if this has already been mentioned, but there's a whole pile of jewellery that my male chars would love to wear, but computer says 'no' - only for girl!

    they also wear the belly-dancer mask when they are crafting, to avoid inhaling stuff. Otherwise the bone-chain nasal doodad is bling-of-choice.
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    That's because it is casual and they see and treat everyone as equal, without making a huge deal out of it, as should everyone.
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    I try not to look at games, especially fantasy games with very very rich lores (which I sometimes regret x'ing through instead of watching), through real world eyes.
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  • Tomg999
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    What I dig most about it is a world where it is no big deal either way.
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    It's a game :) All is good in the world, relax. <3

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    Meh... They don't do the T part well enough.

    My guys deserve to wear pink begonias in their hair, too!
    My gals deserve to wear Golden Saint armor without midriffs, too!
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    Duck wrote: »
    Meh... They don't do the T part well enough.

    My guys deserve to wear pink begonias in their hair, too!
    My gals deserve to wear Golden Saint armor without midriffs, too!
    Whilst not every option has been unlocked they've at least not gone the route of saying only male/female characters can wear specific clothes in a lot of cases.

    Have they had a trans character appear in the story yet, not sure if this is something which the TES lore handles or how ZOS would introduce them but I know a lot of recent big titles have been struggling to get it right (often credited to not hiring/speaking with people who can explain it).
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    Turelus wrote: »
    Duck wrote: »
    Meh... They don't do the T part well enough.

    My guys deserve to wear pink begonias in their hair, too!
    My gals deserve to wear Golden Saint armor without midriffs, too!
    Whilst not every option has been unlocked they've at least not gone the route of saying only male/female characters can wear specific clothes in a lot of cases.

    Have they had a trans character appear in the story yet, not sure if this is something which the TES lore handles or how ZOS would introduce them but I know a lot of recent big titles have been struggling to get it right (often credited to not hiring/speaking with people who can explain it).

    Im thinking in TES universe, being transgender probably wouldn't be too much of a problem, considering they have flesh sculptors who use magic to alter your appearance and gender, not to mention almost anyone that was incredibly adept in alchemy and magic in general could do the same. And mages / alchemists seem to be abundant in Tamriel =). Oh if it were so easy IRL =P.
    to play the devil's advocate
    Since this discussion is going in circles, I'll repeat myself too.

    [*] People and societies are ALSO different on Tamriel than they are on Earth. Your pragmatic reasons should be checked to ensure that they apply to both planets.

    Tamriel is often at War. War kills many people. In order to keep up with high death rates, you need high birth rates. Unless gay couples agree to be bi for reproduction reasons, they would not be contributing to the high birthrate, making them rather detrimental.
    [*] Orcs have pretty clear sex roles, but those put a lot of women into warrior positions. ("Shield wives")

    Orc clan leaders can make a choice to make all the clan women their wives. They would not stand women's relationships with other men, OR women. You can find a quest where an orc woman is trying to save her lover, because she refused to be part of her clan leader's harem. She finds her lover already dead.
    It seems the Khajiit and Argonians do as well.

    Both sometimes can be found living in Matriarchies.

    Read above comment. A lot of Tamrielic societies have people that carry children too as a job pretty much.
    Edited by Jade1986 on October 25, 2017 2:40PM
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    Turelus wrote: »
    Have they had a trans character appear in the story yet, not sure if this is something which the TES lore handles or how ZOS would introduce them...
    ...there is a cerain nord among the performers in Malabel Tor... although that may well be somewhat borderline considering the other clichee it more likely pays hommage to.

    And there -are- all those tales about Vivec... I would mention them, but I do not want to get too close to the limits of the forum rules...
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    Im thinking in TES universe, being transgender probably wouldn't be too much of a problem, considering they have flesh sculptors who use magic to alter your appearance and gender, not to mention almost anyone that was incredibly adept in alchemy and magic in general could do the same. And mages / alchemists seem to be abundant in Tamriel =). Oh if it were so easy IRL =P.
    ...and a certain daedric prince of wishes and bargains who would just be too happy to listen to any heartfelt desire to adjust ones physical form... though there may be unintended side effects, there usually are when bargaining with daedra. ;)
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    laced wrote: »
    Turelus wrote: »
    Duck wrote: »
    Meh... They don't do the T part well enough.

    My guys deserve to wear pink begonias in their hair, too!
    My gals deserve to wear Golden Saint armor without midriffs, too!
    Whilst not every option has been unlocked they've at least not gone the route of saying only male/female characters can wear specific clothes in a lot of cases.

    Have they had a trans character appear in the story yet, not sure if this is something which the TES lore handles or how ZOS would introduce them but I know a lot of recent big titles have been struggling to get it right (often credited to not hiring/speaking with people who can explain it).

    Im thinking in TES universe, being transgender probably wouldn't be too much of a problem, considering they have flesh sculptors who use magic to alter your appearance and gender, not to mention almost anyone that was incredibly adept in alchemy and magic in general could do the same. And mages / alchemists seem to be abundant in Tamriel =). Oh if it were so easy IRL =P.
    Quite true and I guess unless the NPC is going to jump out and shout about it (which feels forced) then we wouldn't even know.

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    Ilithyania wrote: »
    and Daggerfalls Nicolene.

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    Quoted post has been removed.

    [snip]

    Back on topic. Y'wanna know what I love about the elder scrolls? That entire questline with the werewolves up in bangkorai, several people took it as politicall aligory. But I never did. To me, the werewolf bit was so aligorical in and of itself it just took itself as litteral. And I liked that. It was a cool story, and it never once felt out of place, and it never once felt like the writers were preaching to me.

    That, is why I love how it's done in the elder scrolls. It is done well. Memoribly. Tastefully. And not once, has that level of quality dipped. It's just been a world I love, expanding in quality, time and again, and again.

    [Edit to remove bait.
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    Back on topic. Y'wanna know what I love about the elder scrolls? That entire questline with the werewolves up in bangkorai, several people took it as politicall aligory. But I never did. To me, the werewolf bit was so aligorical in and of itself it just took itself as litteral. And I liked that. It was a cool story, and it never once felt out of place, and it never once felt like the writers were preaching to me.

    That, is why I love how it's done in the elder scrolls. It is done well. Memoribly. Tastefully. And not once, has that level of quality dipped.

    Also on topic: I totally agree. The quests in the game really are of a higher quality than any other MMO. You've got ones that have political undertones, ones with veiled social commentary, and some quests are just plain fun. I think whats great is that ZOS didn't focus on LGBT - they covered a whole wide range of issues, and managed to keep it within the realm of possibility in an Elder Scrolls Universe. I've been playing CWC lately and the main zone quest is really awesome.
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    Phage wrote: »
    Back on topic. Y'wanna know what I love about the elder scrolls? That entire questline with the werewolves up in bangkorai, several people took it as politicall aligory. But I never did. To me, the werewolf bit was so aligorical in and of itself it just took itself as litteral. And I liked that. It was a cool story, and it never once felt out of place, and it never once felt like the writers were preaching to me.

    That, is why I love how it's done in the elder scrolls. It is done well. Memoribly. Tastefully. And not once, has that level of quality dipped.

    Also on topic: I totally agree. The quests in the game really are of a higher quality than any other MMO. You've got ones that have political undertones, ones with veiled social commentary, and some quests are just plain fun. I think whats great is that ZOS didn't focus on LGBT - they covered a whole wide range of issues, and managed to keep it within the realm of possibility in an Elder Scrolls Universe. I've been playing CWC lately and the main zone quest is really awesome.

    I have never been a bigger opponant of ZOS. I have railed them, I have hated them, I have campaigned and waved the banner.

    But one area I will never question, is the visual design, the quests, the acting. The loremaster, and the writers, need to be showered in praise, and they are not nearly enough.
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    Phage wrote: »
    Back on topic. Y'wanna know what I love about the elder scrolls? That entire questline with the werewolves up in bangkorai, several people took it as politicall aligory. But I never did. To me, the werewolf bit was so aligorical in and of itself it just took itself as litteral. And I liked that. It was a cool story, and it never once felt out of place, and it never once felt like the writers were preaching to me.

    That, is why I love how it's done in the elder scrolls. It is done well. Memoribly. Tastefully. And not once, has that level of quality dipped.

    Also on topic: I totally agree. The quests in the game really are of a higher quality than any other MMO. You've got ones that have political undertones, ones with veiled social commentary, and some quests are just plain fun. I think whats great is that ZOS didn't focus on LGBT - they covered a whole wide range of issues, and managed to keep it within the realm of possibility in an Elder Scrolls Universe. I've been playing CWC lately and the main zone quest is really awesome.

    I love the juxtaposition of the more serious quests coupled with the screwy romp-through-the-woods type things, and how most of the characters just feel... like they have real motivations. I think only the Dark Brotherhood questline has made me think "why do I care about you again?" but even then there's good characters, like Green-Venom-Tongue and Elam Drals.

    But above all I like how much love and care was put into a lot of the quests, and how characters that would normally be a caricature or single-issue (like non-straight people!) end up being three-dimensional.

    And then there's stuff like a naked Nord quest both in Deshaan and in Vvardenfell, as a nice nod to TES3. :D
    Edited by rhapsodious on October 25, 2017 6:32PM
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    Phage wrote: »
    Back on topic. Y'wanna know what I love about the elder scrolls? That entire questline with the werewolves up in bangkorai, several people took it as politicall aligory. But I never did. To me, the werewolf bit was so aligorical in and of itself it just took itself as litteral. And I liked that. It was a cool story, and it never once felt out of place, and it never once felt like the writers were preaching to me.

    That, is why I love how it's done in the elder scrolls. It is done well. Memoribly. Tastefully. And not once, has that level of quality dipped.

    Also on topic: I totally agree. The quests in the game really are of a higher quality than any other MMO. You've got ones that have political undertones, ones with veiled social commentary, and some quests are just plain fun. I think whats great is that ZOS didn't focus on LGBT - they covered a whole wide range of issues, and managed to keep it within the realm of possibility in an Elder Scrolls Universe. I've been playing CWC lately and the main zone quest is really awesome.

    I love the juxtaposition of the more serious quests coupled with the screwy romp-through-the-woods type things, and how most of the characters just feel... like they have real motivations. I think only the Dark Brotherhood questline has made me think "why do I care about you again?" but even then there's good characters, like Green-Venom-Tongue and Elam Drals.

    But above all I like how much love and care was put into a lot of the quests, and how characters that would normally be a caricature or single-issue (like non-straight people!) end up being three-dimensional.

    And then there's stuff like a naked Nord quest both in Deshaan and in Vvardenfell, as a nice nod to TES3. :D

    Or the Drunk Breton. Marrage troubles. Tamriel over, they exist.
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    Hey there,
    We have had to remove several posts that consist of nothing but "please close this thread" not only are these types of posts off topic they also are derailing the thread.
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  • Wrubius_Coronaria
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    [Snip]
    Back on topic;

    In Clockwork City quetsts, did you find something involving lgbt npc? I'm simply curious.
    I have barely started the dlc, so I have no idea.

    [Edit to remove bait]
    Edited by ZOS_MattL on October 25, 2017 6:36PM
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