OP asked "why don't you PVP?" and that comment was an addendum to the post I made before. That's why I don't PVP.
You pulling up another person's reasons for doing something when asked why and telling them they're not allowed to say it is what's toxic here.
Implying that PvP players are angry and depressed is something that you don't know, and serves no purpose other than to antagonize. You're not fooling many people here. Also, the irony...it amuses me.
Also, say whatever you like, just be prepared to have it answered with criticism.
I know what I hear and as I said:People don't PVP in a vacuum, people generally PVP in groups and that's when you get exposed to all the group chat in TeamSpeak or whatever voicechat is being used and get to hear all that whining about skills and gear and bitching about others on and on loudly in your own damn lounge
Only time I want to hear people talking over my game sounds is when they're asking for help or giving instructions or commands to get something done.
The anger and bitching and whining is depressing, they're always going on about something , some skill or player or gear.
That does not sound like the chatter of happy people to me.
Not every PvP group sounds like that.
Yet every time I see a nerf thread it's exactly the same. Or a hate the game balance guy thread. Sounds exactly the same as what I've heard in TeamSpeak etc channels when PVPing.
OP asked "why don't you PVP?" and that comment was an addendum to the post I made before. That's why I don't PVP.
You pulling up another person's reasons for doing something when asked why and telling them they're not allowed to say it is what's toxic here.
Implying that PvP players are angry and depressed is something that you don't know, and serves no purpose other than to antagonize. You're not fooling many people here. Also, the irony...it amuses me.
Also, say whatever you like, just be prepared to have it answered with criticism.
I know what I hear and as I said:People don't PVP in a vacuum, people generally PVP in groups and that's when you get exposed to all the group chat in TeamSpeak or whatever voicechat is being used and get to hear all that whining about skills and gear and bitching about others on and on loudly in your own damn lounge
Only time I want to hear people talking over my game sounds is when they're asking for help or giving instructions or commands to get something done.
The anger and bitching and whining is depressing, they're always going on about something , some skill or player or gear.
That does not sound like the chatter of happy people to me.
Not every PvP group sounds like that. Making a blanket generalization based on one experience doesn't mean you know what all PvPers are like.
And to be fair, I've been in PvE groups where a dungeon doesn't even start because someone is yelling about other people's gear loudly. Calling them idiots <insert racial slurs> and noobs because they don't have exactly the same gear that their DPS of whichever race/class/role has. Or groups where a healer decided to just stop healing because he/she didn't feel the rest of the group was up to their level. (Not leaving the group mind you, but letting them die repeatedly, then insulting everyone, then leaving.)
You don't like PvP, cool, but don't try and insult an entire group of people to justify it. There are *** on both sides of the divide.
THEDKEXPERIENCE wrote: »- You gave one example where one person acted like a jerk, while you "fought back" in the least effective way possible. In my view, people of your kind are way more of the problem with PVP then one jerk ganker.
OP asked "why don't you PVP?" and that comment was an addendum to the post I made before. That's why I don't PVP.
You pulling up another person's reasons for doing something when asked why and telling them they're not allowed to say it is what's toxic here.
Implying that PvP players are angry and depressed is something that you don't know, and serves no purpose other than to antagonize. You're not fooling many people here. Also, the irony...it amuses me.
Also, say whatever you like, just be prepared to have it answered with criticism.
I know what I hear and as I said:People don't PVP in a vacuum, people generally PVP in groups and that's when you get exposed to all the group chat in TeamSpeak or whatever voicechat is being used and get to hear all that whining about skills and gear and bitching about others on and on loudly in your own damn lounge
Only time I want to hear people talking over my game sounds is when they're asking for help or giving instructions or commands to get something done.
The anger and bitching and whining is depressing, they're always going on about something , some skill or player or gear.
That does not sound like the chatter of happy people to me.
Not every PvP group sounds like that.
Yet every time I see a nerf thread it's exactly the same. Or a hate the game balance guy thread. Sounds exactly the same as what I've heard in TeamSpeak etc channels when PVPing.
Sounds to me like you just need to find a better group to PvP with.
However PvP players lack the understanding of PvE mechanics or builds. I've taken "only PvP" players to PvE before and they had no idea how to actually get a high and sustained DPS because they were so used to short burst combat or environmental defensive combat (line of sight).After a (irrational) outcry from the upcoming CP adjustments from much of the forum community, I keep seeing "most of us don't PvP... etc. etc."
Why?
Everyone that I've introduced into PvP that was very against it, turned out to not being against it at all. By introduced I mean I helped them to know what to expect and how to respond and what skills are needed to help emerge victorious.
Secondly, I have always been a adamant PvPer, but still enjoy "endgame" type pve. I spend 95% of my time PvPing, yet receive compliments in pve often, and I attribute that to the skills I've used and learned in PvP. Without PvP I don't believe I would be as good as I am in PvE.
It's no secrect that pvp'ers make the best pve'ers.
The situational awareness, on the fly thinking, and quickly reacting, etc. all directly translates to pve content.
you're taking the wrong pvpers in than....and you speak in absolutes....which is absurd imo......
vamp_emily wrote: »Really? It seems like the ESO Forums bring out the worst in people.
In Cyrodiil, I am surrounded by friends, guildies and allies having a good time, fighting "enemies" that don't really hate us. Cuz you know...it's a game. Conversely 90% of the pug dungeon groups I have ever been in turned into a dumpster fire. Maybe we aren't playing the same game?
I play PvP because I enjoy it. The problem with me I get all excited at times and over react and people take it the wrong way.
I can honestly say.. PvP is very toxic. I think it has made me a mean person sometimes. This is just a sample of what I have to deal with at times.
That message was not from my enemy, it was someone from my own alliance. The message made me think for a few minutes. Am I really that bad? What did I do to deserve that? I was sad for a few minutes, but I just put them on ignore and went back to smashing faces.
I've had snide messages like that in PVE zones more often than Cyrodiil. I just don't see a casual connection between crappy behavior and Cyrodiil. All the anecdotes in the world about mean PVPers won't make it statistically true. It's just my story vs. your story vs. that that other person's cool story. Bottom line for me is, the zone chat in Stonefalls is way worse than the one in Cyrodiil.
THEDKEXPERIENCE wrote: »ProfesseurFreder wrote: »I strongly believe that players should not be able to profit from beating up other players. It encourages bullies -- and I'm like Captain America: I hate bullies. There's no place for that kind of crap in a community-style game. And when I see how rude some players are in PvE, and how badly some of them act even when they can't really do anything to you other than steal a rune that you may have fought for, I can only imagine how badly behaved some of these PUNKS must be in a PvP situation.
I mostly enjoy bullying bullies. No seriously. It's about my favorite thing in the world and has been since I was about 10 years old. Under most circumstances I'm about the most fun to be around person imaginable, but I live for the times when I get to put know it all jerks in their place.
Also ... Captain America is a bit of a bully bullier as well if you think about it.
Vercingetorix wrote: »
OP asked "why don't you PVP?" and that comment was an addendum to the post I made before. That's why I don't PVP.
You pulling up another person's reasons for doing something when asked why and telling them they're not allowed to say it is what's toxic here.
Implying that PvP players are angry and depressed is something that you don't know, and serves no purpose other than to antagonize. You're not fooling many people here. Also, the irony...it amuses me.
Also, say whatever you like, just be prepared to have it answered with criticism.
I know what I hear and as I said:People don't PVP in a vacuum, people generally PVP in groups and that's when you get exposed to all the group chat in TeamSpeak or whatever voicechat is being used and get to hear all that whining about skills and gear and bitching about others on and on loudly in your own damn lounge
Only time I want to hear people talking over my game sounds is when they're asking for help or giving instructions or commands to get something done.
The anger and bitching and whining is depressing, they're always going on about something , some skill or player or gear.
That does not sound like the chatter of happy people to me.
Not every PvP group sounds like that. Making a blanket generalization based on one experience doesn't mean you know what all PvPers are like.
And to be fair, I've been in PvE groups where a dungeon doesn't even start because someone is yelling about other people's gear loudly. Calling them idiots <insert racial slurs> and noobs because they don't have exactly the same gear that their DPS of whichever race/class/role has. Or groups where a healer decided to just stop healing because he/she didn't feel the rest of the group was up to their level. (Not leaving the group mind you, but letting them die repeatedly, then insulting everyone, then leaving.)
You don't like PvP, cool, but don't try and insult an entire group of people to justify it. There are *** on both sides of the divide.
Actually, blanket statements like that aren't entirely false, especially when you consider that the majority of PvP chat on ALL platforms has some form of complaining or insults.
Now the forums: When was the last time you saw a thread started by a player that an ability in PvE was too overpowered or a thread that complained about a teammate's DPS being "unfair" or "OP"?
Yeah, you don't see those threads because in PvE everyone got their reward - no one cares that a boss dies FASTER or the fight is EASIER. On the flip side, I can't count how many damn threads I've seen here complaining about X ability or Y build in PvP - it's nauseating. Then, to make matters worse, ZoS ruins perfectly good abilities in PvE to cater to the huge amount of PvP crying in the forums. A good example is that shield durations should have been edited onto Battle Spirit and left alone for PvE.
IcyDeadPeople wrote: »THEDKEXPERIENCE wrote: »- You gave one example where one person acted like a jerk, while you "fought back" in the least effective way possible. In my view, people of your kind are way more of the problem with PVP then one jerk ganker.
No, the problem with PVP is that the population has dwindled to almost nothing. We barely have enough players for one populated campaign when we used to have ten different campaigns and epic battles all over the map 24/7, even weeknights.
We need a hell of a lot more PVE'ers to try PVP and unfortunately part of the reason fewer of them are sticking around is this huge skill / power gap compared to launch when hardly anybody knew what they were doing. Try to put yourself in their shoes. It can discourage a lot of new players getting into Cyrodiil the first time.
Hopefully there will be some kind of tutorial mode for battlegrounds, or some easier way to help new people learn how to use some basic combos, stuns, etc. Or some guilds that take time to teach beginners.
bulbousb16_ESO wrote: »As I said, above, this is evident of a social anxiety disorder. Some people challenged this, without any actual insight, but it's actually plain as day. Why else would the person be so adamantly against trying a new experience? There is extreme prejudice involved - the whole attitude is reminiscent of a 5-year-old that won't eat spinach.Yes, I'm a free sack of alliance points. Yes, you can kill me. I might be in "in front of you" or "in your way" however it isn't because I'm trying to be. I DO NOT WANT TO FIGHT, PERIOD.
Vercingetorix wrote: »
OP asked "why don't you PVP?" and that comment was an addendum to the post I made before. That's why I don't PVP.
You pulling up another person's reasons for doing something when asked why and telling them they're not allowed to say it is what's toxic here.
Implying that PvP players are angry and depressed is something that you don't know, and serves no purpose other than to antagonize. You're not fooling many people here. Also, the irony...it amuses me.
Also, say whatever you like, just be prepared to have it answered with criticism.
I know what I hear and as I said:People don't PVP in a vacuum, people generally PVP in groups and that's when you get exposed to all the group chat in TeamSpeak or whatever voicechat is being used and get to hear all that whining about skills and gear and bitching about others on and on loudly in your own damn lounge
Only time I want to hear people talking over my game sounds is when they're asking for help or giving instructions or commands to get something done.
The anger and bitching and whining is depressing, they're always going on about something , some skill or player or gear.
That does not sound like the chatter of happy people to me.
Not every PvP group sounds like that. Making a blanket generalization based on one experience doesn't mean you know what all PvPers are like.
And to be fair, I've been in PvE groups where a dungeon doesn't even start because someone is yelling about other people's gear loudly. Calling them idiots <insert racial slurs> and noobs because they don't have exactly the same gear that their DPS of whichever race/class/role has. Or groups where a healer decided to just stop healing because he/she didn't feel the rest of the group was up to their level. (Not leaving the group mind you, but letting them die repeatedly, then insulting everyone, then leaving.)
You don't like PvP, cool, but don't try and insult an entire group of people to justify it. There are *** on both sides of the divide.
Actually, blanket statements like that aren't entirely false, especially when you consider that the majority of PvP chat on ALL platforms has some form of complaining or insults.
Now the forums: When was the last time you saw a thread started by a player that an ability in PvE was too overpowered or a thread that complained about a teammate's DPS being "unfair" or "OP"?
Yeah, you don't see those threads because in PvE everyone got their reward - no one cares that a boss dies FASTER or the fight is EASIER. On the flip side, I can't count how many damn threads I've seen here complaining about X ability or Y build in PvP - it's nauseating. Then, to make matters worse, ZoS ruins perfectly good abilities in PvE to cater to the huge amount of PvP crying in the forums. A good example is that shield durations should have been edited onto Battle Spirit and left alone for PvE.
I actually feel that's true. I used to think PvPers should be the worse part of the community, especially after getting ganked repeatedly, but then after reading the forums for an extensive time...to my greatest and biggest surprise, it seems the reverse is true, on these forums at least ._. Now obviously there're jerks and a**holes on every side but I keep seeing amazing numbers of posts by PvPers who totally agree with separate PvE and PvP skills(and keep asking for them even) and just want to be left alone, have bugs fixed and some more incentives for goal-oriented PvP and stuff. And I keep seeing amazing number of posts from PvE-ers who say PvP has no place in this game, are so oblivious they claim it wasn't even part of this game from the start but came later as a dlc(?!), is just an imbalance, bother, source of rudeness and ultimate evil and needs to go. They complain that being able to see players duel ruins their immersion and having to set foot into Cyrodiil at all ruins their week because they refuse to kill people in PvP zone but for some reason other people(who came there to PvP) don't (always) do the same. I don't think I've ever seen a PvPer claim PvE has to disappear to make them happy, nor complain that you basically have to PvE to level up/get skillpoints etc. I'm not directing this at anyone here in particular, I know not everyone is like this, but it does seem the overall feeling, which is actually weird to me.PVPers are just too angry all the time, always complaining about some skills that wreck the game or some player they think is a ***. Ain't nobody got time for that.
I find it is actually the reverse. PVPers are just into the game, and fired up about their night last night, their guild, their faction, etc.
It seems like it is the Single-Player-Game-Online crowd that are actually hostile. For an example...read this thread. Or basically anything you've ever posted.
There're many reasons why one wouldn't want to PvP, many legit reasons among them too.
Therein lies the problem with these sorts of threads. It doesn't matter why someone chooses not to PvP, his/her reasons - whatever they may be - are all legit, just as the reasons why PvPers choose to PvP are all legit.
You don't need a post-graduate doctorate in gaming psychology to understand why some players like to PvP while other players like to PvE. We're all different, and we all like different things. It's as simple as that.
THEDKEXPERIENCE wrote: »ProfesseurFreder wrote: »I strongly believe that players should not be able to profit from beating up other players. It encourages bullies -- and I'm like Captain America: I hate bullies. There's no place for that kind of crap in a community-style game. And when I see how rude some players are in PvE, and how badly some of them act even when they can't really do anything to you other than steal a rune that you may have fought for, I can only imagine how badly behaved some of these PUNKS must be in a PvP situation.
I mostly enjoy bullying bullies. No seriously. It's about my favorite thing in the world and has been since I was about 10 years old. Under most circumstances I'm about the most fun to be around person imaginable, but I live for the times when I get to put know it all jerks in their place.
Also ... Captain America is a bit of a bully bullier as well if you think about it.
You aren't like Captain America in the slightest. If you want to bully these *perceived* bullies, go into Cyrodiil and do it. Stop stroking your own feathers here on the forums. Most PVP players are perfectly well adjusted human beings who aren't terrified of safe, consequence-free competition with their peers. But of course you can only *imagine* them to be all sorts of bad stuff, since you won't get in there and find out.
And to be fair, I've been in PvE groups where a dungeon doesn't even start because someone is yelling about other people's gear loudly. Calling them idiots <insert racial slurs> and noobs because they don't have exactly the same gear that their DPS of whichever race/class/role has. Or groups where a healer decided to just stop healing because he/she didn't feel the rest of the group was up to their level. (Not leaving the group mind you, but letting them die repeatedly, then insulting everyone, then leaving.)
You don't like PvP, cool, but don't try and insult an entire group of people to justify it. There are *** on both sides of the divide.
vamp_emily wrote: »And to be fair, I've been in PvE groups where a dungeon doesn't even start because someone is yelling about other people's gear loudly. Calling them idiots <insert racial slurs> and noobs because they don't have exactly the same gear that their DPS of whichever race/class/role has. Or groups where a healer decided to just stop healing because he/she didn't feel the rest of the group was up to their level. (Not leaving the group mind you, but letting them die repeatedly, then insulting everyone, then leaving.)
You don't like PvP, cool, but don't try and insult an entire group of people to justify it. There are *** on both sides of the divide.
I'm sure the bad people you speak of were PvP players trying to PvE and getting upset. Real PvE players don't make those types of comments.
IcyDeadPeople wrote: »THEDKEXPERIENCE wrote: »I'm not competitive. I have autodecline turned on for duels. I don't care if someone else can kill my character. About the only reason I go to Cyrodiil is to craft set gear for guildmates.
I honestly don't see the point in pvp. Congratulations. You have a build set up for pvp, you're geared up for pvp, and you killed my character that isn't set up for pvp, isn't min/maxed for anything, and wears crafted gear. Not to mention I don't bother to fight back. I don't care if you can kill me or not. I just want to be able to go make armor for someone. I'm interested in playing the game, not competing with other players, who, from the ones I've encountered on the occasions I've gone to Cyrodiil, are just a hair off from rabid psychopaths. I've had people try to tell me that the player who killed me over and over again in IC the last time I went there, just outside the crafting station door was looking for a good fight. Personally, I rather doubt that. The player waited until I survived a fight with the daedra before attacking, you know, when you're low on health/magic/stamina because you've been fighting? Second hint; I put my weapons away and didn't fight back. Even if the player missed the clues the first three times he killed me, he should have figured it out by the 4th time. I wasn't going to fight, period. I guess he finally got bored with blocking the crafting station because the 5th time he didn't bother to attack me. I made the gear, left the station and got killed so I could get out of there.
That might be fun for some types of players, but me? No. Not really. I wholeheartedly agree with Nestor. I would cheerfully support a pvp only server for the people who want to pvp all the time. Especially if that meant a pve only instance of Cyrodiil that I could go and pve/explore/actually have fun in without the pvpers to ruin the fun.
So much wow here.
- Duels and PVP in Cyrodiil are extraordinarily different. A good dueler is like a UFC fighter. A good Cyrodiil PVPer is more like a soldier. Put a UFC fighter in a cage with an unarmed soldier and the UFC guy would destroy the soldier. But put 100 armed soldiers against 100 armed UFC fighters on a battlefield and the soldiers might wipe them out 100 to nothing. It's apples and oranges.
- If someone is in front of me you're getting attacked. Level 23 or CP 600. I don't care. Your just in my way.
- Not fighting back is the worst thing you can do. You're a free sack of Alliance Points. It's not a PVPers fault for wanting to PVP in PVP.
- Camping a blacksmith is low. I agree there. Still ... put up a fight. At least try.
- I've found that people who describe PVPers as rabid psychopaths generally need to look in the mirror.
- You gave one example where one person acted like a jerk, while you "fought back" in the least effective way possible. In my view, people of your kind are way more of the problem with PVP then one jerk ganker.
I guess its a pvp mindset thing; what is so hard to understand about "I do not want to fight."?
Yes, I'm a free sack of alliance points. Yes, you can kill me. I might be in "in front of you" or "in your way" however it isn't because I'm trying to be. I DO NOT WANT TO FIGHT, PERIOD. If the devs put duplicates of the 3 IC crafting stations out in "the world" I would never bother to step foot in Cyrodiil. I'm not complaining about getting killed. I know I'm going to get killed multiple times probably every single time I go to the IC to craft gear for someone.
If you are a npc enemy, then yes, I do take a lot of pleasure in slaughtering you the most efficient way possible. I admit to snickering when I use my werewolf to shred npc enemies to little bits of hamburger. Since this is all on the pve side of things, very few other players are affected in any way by this. Not sure that qualifies as "borderline rabid psychopath" though, since I'm not disrupting other player's games or causing them any issues at all.
See the above caps; I DO NOT WANT TO FIGHT, PERIOD. Sorry if that spoils your "gotta kill them all" feeling. I didn't fight back the least effective way, I didn't fight back at all. If I spoiled the ganker's day by not fighting back maybe its even; he spoiled my "don't fight run in craft gear run out" attempt.
"My kind" of player who has no interest in pvp and doesn't want to pvp and *won't* pvp for whatever reasons we might have is why I would be happy to advocate for a separate open world pvp server for all the pvpers who think pve players who want to do pve/craft/explore in the pvp area cause problems and spoil thier game. I think it was Nestor who said make a pve only instance for doing some pve exploring, set it before the war, or in a "Meridia's Special Snowflake Zone" that you can do after Cadwell's Gold so no dastardly espionage/spying/evil plots can cause any issues in the pvp war.
Know what though? Every time that "separate instance" thing is brought up, pvpers rage. No matter how many times its pointed out that "my kind" of player who doesn't want to pvp, and won't pvp, but does want the books, pve quests, and skyshards are contributing to the player cap and blocking out pvpers who do want to fight the war. Of course, it could be the pvpers who really don't want a "fair fight" and just want to gank pve players who complain so much. :shrug:
At one time a lot of people didn't attack low level players and people questing etc., but this changed a lot after they introduced the Golden Vendor who sells monster helms. Now people seem much more eager to earn alliance points compared to the past when there was nothing to spend them on.
However, if you call out in zone that you are crafting or doing quests and looking for an escort / help with someone who is ganking you, etc, I'm sure there will be some people in your faction eager to help. For us it's fun to gank the ganker.
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bulbousb16_ESO wrote: »As I said, above, this is evident of a social anxiety disorder. Some people challenged this, without any actual insight, but it's actually plain as day. Why else would the person be so adamantly against trying a new experience? There is extreme prejudice involved - the whole attitude is reminiscent of a 5-year-old that won't eat spinach.Yes, I'm a free sack of alliance points. Yes, you can kill me. I might be in "in front of you" or "in your way" however it isn't because I'm trying to be. I DO NOT WANT TO FIGHT, PERIOD.
Except it's not that. This is not saying "I don't enjoy it, so I don't do it". This is saying "I have never tried it but I hate it and I will never do it - not even to try it out".Bouldercleave wrote: »Maybe it is just a simple I don't enjoy it so I don't partake. I don't like stapling my nutsack, so even though it would be a WHOLE new experience - I don't think I'll partake. I must have a ball pain anxiety disorder...
dial down the dramaVercingetorix wrote: »Do you have such low self-worth that the only way you can justify yourself to the world is to beat on others?
bulbousb16_ESO wrote: »Except it's not that. This is not saying "I don't enjoy it, so I don't do it". This is saying "I have never tried it but I hate it and I will never do it - not even to try it out".Bouldercleave wrote: »Maybe it is just a simple I don't enjoy it so I don't partake. I don't like stapling my nutsack, so even though it would be a WHOLE new experience - I don't think I'll partake. I must have a ball pain anxiety disorder...
Comparing grevious self-injury to a game - which is an entertainment vehicle, even if certain parts of it aren't fun for some - just goes to show the depth of the issues of these people.