I agree when PUGing, and so for this particular run, the fault was my own. I'll make it my responsibility from here on out, though, to wait for my boyfriend and co. to wake up and come online before setting even one toe out of the safety of Stormhaven, as I can rely on their experience and common sense to not have tea and cookies in the fire. Dem monsters be scary.I guess one can argue if it's the healer's responsibility to be prepared for "suicidal" DDs like that in any circumstance.
It's unbelievably frustrating for me, though, to listen (or in this case read) to someone place blame on me for their death, when it could have been easily avoided by him being even the slightest bit aware of his surroundings.
Cherryblossom wrote: »IrishGirlGamer wrote: »Since the beginning of the game, I've pretty much played DW DPS. I don't know, it seemed to go well with the characters I had in my mind, the races I liked to play, and I love that steel tornado animation!!
Then, on Friday afternoon, I was playing with a new Breton templar DW but everything just felt ... stale. Someone on guild suggested I give her a stave and so I did. Desto staff was fun and when I got to level 15, I turned picked up a resto staff as my weapon swap.
Friday night I ran my first dungeon as a healer and had a blast. Two people I were with (from my guild) were fun and very helpful, and taught me the basics. It was unlike any build I'd ever run before. By the time the night was over, my Breton was now a pure healer (I completely abandoned the desto staff).
For about six hours Saturday, I worked my healer. She's a templar, two resto staffs, all magicka and I get health to 17k with health glyphs. I can buff health with food if I think I'm going have trouble in a dungeon but mostly I run magicka regen for food. I ran the entire day as a healer, healing dungeons, dolmens, boss fights, everything. I have biting jabs, the sun fire morph, and the javelin morph for a little damage if I need to run a quest or throw out some DPS.
Well, the fun came to an end Sunday afternoon. I queued in the group finder and dropped into a dungeon with a newbie and two experienced players (each had over 300 cps). I'd been doing this since Saturday and loving it. I find running with the new players great, and sharing some of their "Oh Wow" experience at running their first dungeon is a reminder of my own first experiences.
As soon as I hit the dungeon, I sent out a "Hey," to the group and the newbie responded. The other two just took off, running the dungeon. We hit the first set of mobs and they came after me. I roll dodged and started sending up heals but mobs were on me constantly. I had to spend my magicka to kill the mobs in my face. By the end of the second trash fight, I was concerned. By the end of the first boss fight, I send a group whisper: "Does ANYONE have a taunt?"
The newbie responded with a no; the other two didn't answer. They just kept running. Now, to be clear: my healer is squishy. To many mobs in my face and I'm probably gonna die. So I began to roll dodge like crazy and just heal. I even slotted stamina pots for the first time ever, so I could keep my roll dodge alive.
Final boss fight: I have two DPS with bows, another with a desto staff, and I'm trying to heal the group. The newbie dps at least had the common sense to hang back and stay out of the boss' face. One of the "experienced" players - the one with bow - couldn't stay out of the red, and felt the need to get in the boss' face. His health would drop to almost nothing in an instant.
But we got through it. I healed, I roll dodged like a madwoman, I dropped stamina and I healed some more. When we were done, I was kind of proud of myself. I got this group through the dungeon and without a single death. Just as I was feeling good, one of the "experienced" players sends me this gem:
"Next time DPS!!!"
Seriously? My Irish temper fired, and I was about to fire off a toxic response when I stopped.
That could have been me. Not with the snarky whisper, but being the DPS, running a dungeon, checking my DPS like the world revolved around me, and never realizing that the only reason I was able to spam DPS was because somewhere behind me there was a healer keeping me alive. I suddenly thought of all the dungeons I blew out of, proud of myself and my oh so holy DPS, without a word of thanks to the healer.
So thanks. Really. I get it now.
(And just a word to the DPS crowd: if you really think you can run a dungeon without a taunt and queue yourself up as a tank, then you freakin better to be able to drop enough burst DPS so that the mobs aren't in your healer's face and (s)he is gulping stamina pots to stay alive. Because if that's what's going on, you're doing it wrong. And the thing is: you'll make it through the dungeon, they will keep you alive, and you will never know.)
I've had similar experiences to this so I have felt your pain.
DPS who think they are too good to need tanks can make for one very miserable dungeon run - especially for the healer.
If you aren't a tank - meaning a defensive character designed to redirect enemy attacks or attention toward yourself - then don't queue up as one. If you want the shorter queue times - then play as a tank.
Please don't take this the wrong way, as I get where the OP is coming from. But and there is a But, it does depend on the dungeon you are running, there are numerous of the earlier dungeons where a Tank is optional and I'm saying this as someone who does tank and heal.
At your level you unfortunately won't have access to some essential skills as healer and off dps such as Blazing Spear and Radiant Destruction, but one thing I would recommend while you manage your healing is just to put some DoTs on the targets. You would have some good options even at level 14/15 such as Reflective Light and Elemental Blockade...even Destructive Clench is nice single target. That way you can have some damage ticking away while you heal. Jabs are nice too if you can manage it, or perhaps purifying light if you've unlocked it.IrishGirlGamer wrote: »Me: Healer at level 14/15, IIR. My support DPS is probably around 3k, when I can fire it off.
That DPS feels low to me, but as a DPS I often run with people who want high DPS. What this level of DPS means is the mobs aren't going to die quickly, and without a taunt, any one player will have difficulty the aggro. Mobs spread, start attacking the healer - and healers are squishy.
biovitalb16_ESO wrote: »Dont abandon destro staff totally as your group will love you running ele drain on that bar.
They will? I've seen "great tanking", "awesome tank", "dps was amazing"...never have I seen "great healing" or "ty for ele drain",
I have seen "OMG FAIL FING HEALER HASN'T DROPPED A SHARD IN 5 SECONDS!! KICK HER" though.
Cherryblossom wrote: »IrishGirlGamer wrote: »Since the beginning of the game, I've pretty much played DW DPS. I don't know, it seemed to go well with the characters I had in my mind, the races I liked to play, and I love that steel tornado animation!!
Then, on Friday afternoon, I was playing with a new Breton templar DW but everything just felt ... stale. Someone on guild suggested I give her a stave and so I did. Desto staff was fun and when I got to level 15, I turned picked up a resto staff as my weapon swap.
Friday night I ran my first dungeon as a healer and had a blast. Two people I were with (from my guild) were fun and very helpful, and taught me the basics. It was unlike any build I'd ever run before. By the time the night was over, my Breton was now a pure healer (I completely abandoned the desto staff).
For about six hours Saturday, I worked my healer. She's a templar, two resto staffs, all magicka and I get health to 17k with health glyphs. I can buff health with food if I think I'm going have trouble in a dungeon but mostly I run magicka regen for food. I ran the entire day as a healer, healing dungeons, dolmens, boss fights, everything. I have biting jabs, the sun fire morph, and the javelin morph for a little damage if I need to run a quest or throw out some DPS.
Well, the fun came to an end Sunday afternoon. I queued in the group finder and dropped into a dungeon with a newbie and two experienced players (each had over 300 cps). I'd been doing this since Saturday and loving it. I find running with the new players great, and sharing some of their "Oh Wow" experience at running their first dungeon is a reminder of my own first experiences.
As soon as I hit the dungeon, I sent out a "Hey," to the group and the newbie responded. The other two just took off, running the dungeon. We hit the first set of mobs and they came after me. I roll dodged and started sending up heals but mobs were on me constantly. I had to spend my magicka to kill the mobs in my face. By the end of the second trash fight, I was concerned. By the end of the first boss fight, I send a group whisper: "Does ANYONE have a taunt?"
The newbie responded with a no; the other two didn't answer. They just kept running. Now, to be clear: my healer is squishy. To many mobs in my face and I'm probably gonna die. So I began to roll dodge like crazy and just heal. I even slotted stamina pots for the first time ever, so I could keep my roll dodge alive.
Final boss fight: I have two DPS with bows, another with a desto staff, and I'm trying to heal the group. The newbie dps at least had the common sense to hang back and stay out of the boss' face. One of the "experienced" players - the one with bow - couldn't stay out of the red, and felt the need to get in the boss' face. His health would drop to almost nothing in an instant.
But we got through it. I healed, I roll dodged like a madwoman, I dropped stamina and I healed some more. When we were done, I was kind of proud of myself. I got this group through the dungeon and without a single death. Just as I was feeling good, one of the "experienced" players sends me this gem:
"Next time DPS!!!"
Seriously? My Irish temper fired, and I was about to fire off a toxic response when I stopped.
That could have been me. Not with the snarky whisper, but being the DPS, running a dungeon, checking my DPS like the world revolved around me, and never realizing that the only reason I was able to spam DPS was because somewhere behind me there was a healer keeping me alive. I suddenly thought of all the dungeons I blew out of, proud of myself and my oh so holy DPS, without a word of thanks to the healer.
So thanks. Really. I get it now.
(And just a word to the DPS crowd: if you really think you can run a dungeon without a taunt and queue yourself up as a tank, then you freakin better to be able to drop enough burst DPS so that the mobs aren't in your healer's face and (s)he is gulping stamina pots to stay alive. Because if that's what's going on, you're doing it wrong. And the thing is: you'll make it through the dungeon, they will keep you alive, and you will never know.)
I've had similar experiences to this so I have felt your pain.
DPS who think they are too good to need tanks can make for one very miserable dungeon run - especially for the healer.
If you aren't a tank - meaning a defensive character designed to redirect enemy attacks or attention toward yourself - then don't queue up as one. If you want the shorter queue times - then play as a tank.
Please don't take this the wrong way, as I get where the OP is coming from. But and there is a But, it does depend on the dungeon you are running, there are numerous of the earlier dungeons where a Tank is optional and I'm saying this as someone who does tank and heal.
Cherryblossom wrote: »IrishGirlGamer wrote: »Since the beginning of the game, I've pretty much played DW DPS. I don't know, it seemed to go well with the characters I had in my mind, the races I liked to play, and I love that steel tornado animation!!
Then, on Friday afternoon, I was playing with a new Breton templar DW but everything just felt ... stale. Someone on guild suggested I give her a stave and so I did. Desto staff was fun and when I got to level 15, I turned picked up a resto staff as my weapon swap.
Friday night I ran my first dungeon as a healer and had a blast. Two people I were with (from my guild) were fun and very helpful, and taught me the basics. It was unlike any build I'd ever run before. By the time the night was over, my Breton was now a pure healer (I completely abandoned the desto staff).
For about six hours Saturday, I worked my healer. She's a templar, two resto staffs, all magicka and I get health to 17k with health glyphs. I can buff health with food if I think I'm going have trouble in a dungeon but mostly I run magicka regen for food. I ran the entire day as a healer, healing dungeons, dolmens, boss fights, everything. I have biting jabs, the sun fire morph, and the javelin morph for a little damage if I need to run a quest or throw out some DPS.
Well, the fun came to an end Sunday afternoon. I queued in the group finder and dropped into a dungeon with a newbie and two experienced players (each had over 300 cps). I'd been doing this since Saturday and loving it. I find running with the new players great, and sharing some of their "Oh Wow" experience at running their first dungeon is a reminder of my own first experiences.
As soon as I hit the dungeon, I sent out a "Hey," to the group and the newbie responded. The other two just took off, running the dungeon. We hit the first set of mobs and they came after me. I roll dodged and started sending up heals but mobs were on me constantly. I had to spend my magicka to kill the mobs in my face. By the end of the second trash fight, I was concerned. By the end of the first boss fight, I send a group whisper: "Does ANYONE have a taunt?"
The newbie responded with a no; the other two didn't answer. They just kept running. Now, to be clear: my healer is squishy. To many mobs in my face and I'm probably gonna die. So I began to roll dodge like crazy and just heal. I even slotted stamina pots for the first time ever, so I could keep my roll dodge alive.
Final boss fight: I have two DPS with bows, another with a desto staff, and I'm trying to heal the group. The newbie dps at least had the common sense to hang back and stay out of the boss' face. One of the "experienced" players - the one with bow - couldn't stay out of the red, and felt the need to get in the boss' face. His health would drop to almost nothing in an instant.
But we got through it. I healed, I roll dodged like a madwoman, I dropped stamina and I healed some more. When we were done, I was kind of proud of myself. I got this group through the dungeon and without a single death. Just as I was feeling good, one of the "experienced" players sends me this gem:
"Next time DPS!!!"
Seriously? My Irish temper fired, and I was about to fire off a toxic response when I stopped.
That could have been me. Not with the snarky whisper, but being the DPS, running a dungeon, checking my DPS like the world revolved around me, and never realizing that the only reason I was able to spam DPS was because somewhere behind me there was a healer keeping me alive. I suddenly thought of all the dungeons I blew out of, proud of myself and my oh so holy DPS, without a word of thanks to the healer.
So thanks. Really. I get it now.
(And just a word to the DPS crowd: if you really think you can run a dungeon without a taunt and queue yourself up as a tank, then you freakin better to be able to drop enough burst DPS so that the mobs aren't in your healer's face and (s)he is gulping stamina pots to stay alive. Because if that's what's going on, you're doing it wrong. And the thing is: you'll make it through the dungeon, they will keep you alive, and you will never know.)
I've had similar experiences to this so I have felt your pain.
DPS who think they are too good to need tanks can make for one very miserable dungeon run - especially for the healer.
If you aren't a tank - meaning a defensive character designed to redirect enemy attacks or attention toward yourself - then don't queue up as one. If you want the shorter queue times - then play as a tank.
Please don't take this the wrong way, as I get where the OP is coming from. But and there is a But, it does depend on the dungeon you are running, there are numerous of the earlier dungeons where a Tank is optional and I'm saying this as someone who does tank and heal.
IrishGirlGamer wrote: »Since the beginning of the game, I've pretty much played DW DPS. I don't know, it seemed to go well with the characters I had in my mind, the races I liked to play, and I love that steel tornado animation!!
Then, on Friday afternoon, I was playing with a new Breton templar DW but everything just felt ... stale. Someone on guild suggested I give her a stave and so I did. Desto staff was fun and when I got to level 15, I turned picked up a resto staff as my weapon swap.
Friday night I ran my first dungeon as a healer and had a blast. Two people I were with (from my guild) were fun and very helpful, and taught me the basics. It was unlike any build I'd ever run before. By the time the night was over, my Breton was now a pure healer (I completely abandoned the desto staff).
For about six hours Saturday, I worked my healer. She's a templar, two resto staffs, all magicka and I get health to 17k with health glyphs. I can buff health with food if I think I'm going have trouble in a dungeon but mostly I run magicka regen for food. I ran the entire day as a healer, healing dungeons, dolmens, boss fights, everything. I have biting jabs, the sun fire morph, and the javelin morph for a little damage if I need to run a quest or throw out some DPS.
Well, the fun came to an end Sunday afternoon. I queued in the group finder and dropped into a dungeon with a newbie and two experienced players (each had over 300 cps). I'd been doing this since Saturday and loving it. I find running with the new players great, and sharing some of their "Oh Wow" experience at running their first dungeon is a reminder of my own first experiences.
As soon as I hit the dungeon, I sent out a "Hey," to the group and the newbie responded. The other two just took off, running the dungeon. We hit the first set of mobs and they came after me. I roll dodged and started sending up heals but mobs were on me constantly. I had to spend my magicka to kill the mobs in my face. By the end of the second trash fight, I was concerned. By the end of the first boss fight, I send a group whisper: "Does ANYONE have a taunt?"
The newbie responded with a no; the other two didn't answer. They just kept running. Now, to be clear: my healer is squishy. To many mobs in my face and I'm probably gonna die. So I began to roll dodge like crazy and just heal. I even slotted stamina pots for the first time ever, so I could keep my roll dodge alive.
Final boss fight: I have two DPS with bows, another with a desto staff, and I'm trying to heal the group. The newbie dps at least had the common sense to hang back and stay out of the boss' face. One of the "experienced" players - the one with bow - couldn't stay out of the red, and felt the need to get in the boss' face. His health would drop to almost nothing in an instant.
But we got through it. I healed, I roll dodged like a madwoman, I dropped stamina and I healed some more. When we were done, I was kind of proud of myself. I got this group through the dungeon and without a single death. Just as I was feeling good, one of the "experienced" players sends me this gem:
"Next time DPS!!!"
Seriously? My Irish temper fired, and I was about to fire off a toxic response when I stopped.
That could have been me. Not with the snarky whisper, but being the DPS, running a dungeon, checking my DPS like the world revolved around me, and never realizing that the only reason I was able to spam DPS was because somewhere behind me there was a healer keeping me alive. I suddenly thought of all the dungeons I blew out of, proud of myself and my oh so holy DPS, without a word of thanks to the healer.
So thanks. Really. I get it now.
(And just a word to the DPS crowd: if you really think you can run a dungeon without a taunt and queue yourself up as a tank, then you freakin better to be able to drop enough burst DPS so that the mobs aren't in your healer's face and (s)he is gulping stamina pots to stay alive. Because if that's what's going on, you're doing it wrong. And the thing is: you'll make it through the dungeon, they will keep you alive, and you will never know.)
IrishGirlGamer wrote: »Since the beginning of the game, I've pretty much played DW DPS. I don't know, it seemed to go well with the characters I had in my mind, the races I liked to play, and I love that steel tornado animation!!
Then, on Friday afternoon, I was playing with a new Breton templar DW but everything just felt ... stale. Someone on guild suggested I give her a stave and so I did. Desto staff was fun and when I got to level 15, I turned picked up a resto staff as my weapon swap.
Friday night I ran my first dungeon as a healer and had a blast. Two people I were with (from my guild) were fun and very helpful, and taught me the basics. It was unlike any build I'd ever run before. By the time the night was over, my Breton was now a pure healer (I completely abandoned the desto staff).
For about six hours Saturday, I worked my healer. She's a templar, two resto staffs, all magicka and I get health to 17k with health glyphs. I can buff health with food if I think I'm going have trouble in a dungeon but mostly I run magicka regen for food. I ran the entire day as a healer, healing dungeons, dolmens, boss fights, everything. I have biting jabs, the sun fire morph, and the javelin morph for a little damage if I need to run a quest or throw out some DPS.
Well, the fun came to an end Sunday afternoon. I queued in the group finder and dropped into a dungeon with a newbie and two experienced players (each had over 300 cps). I'd been doing this since Saturday and loving it. I find running with the new players great, and sharing some of their "Oh Wow" experience at running their first dungeon is a reminder of my own first experiences.
As soon as I hit the dungeon, I sent out a "Hey," to the group and the newbie responded. The other two just took off, running the dungeon. We hit the first set of mobs and they came after me. I roll dodged and started sending up heals but mobs were on me constantly. I had to spend my magicka to kill the mobs in my face. By the end of the second trash fight, I was concerned. By the end of the first boss fight, I send a group whisper: "Does ANYONE have a taunt?"
The newbie responded with a no; the other two didn't answer. They just kept running. Now, to be clear: my healer is squishy. To many mobs in my face and I'm probably gonna die. So I began to roll dodge like crazy and just heal. I even slotted stamina pots for the first time ever, so I could keep my roll dodge alive.
Final boss fight: I have two DPS with bows, another with a desto staff, and I'm trying to heal the group. The newbie dps at least had the common sense to hang back and stay out of the boss' face. One of the "experienced" players - the one with bow - couldn't stay out of the red, and felt the need to get in the boss' face. His health would drop to almost nothing in an instant.
But we got through it. I healed, I roll dodged like a madwoman, I dropped stamina and I healed some more. When we were done, I was kind of proud of myself. I got this group through the dungeon and without a single death. Just as I was feeling good, one of the "experienced" players sends me this gem:
"Next time DPS!!!"
Seriously? My Irish temper fired, and I was about to fire off a toxic response when I stopped.
That could have been me. Not with the snarky whisper, but being the DPS, running a dungeon, checking my DPS like the world revolved around me, and never realizing that the only reason I was able to spam DPS was because somewhere behind me there was a healer keeping me alive. I suddenly thought of all the dungeons I blew out of, proud of myself and my oh so holy DPS, without a word of thanks to the healer.
So thanks. Really. I get it now.
(And just a word to the DPS crowd: if you really think you can run a dungeon without a taunt and queue yourself up as a tank, then you freakin better to be able to drop enough burst DPS so that the mobs aren't in your healer's face and (s)he is gulping stamina pots to stay alive. Because if that's what's going on, you're doing it wrong. And the thing is: you'll make it through the dungeon, they will keep you alive, and you will never know.)
IrishGirlGamer wrote: »Since the beginning of the game, I've pretty much played DW DPS. I don't know, it seemed to go well with the characters I had in my mind, the races I liked to play, and I love that steel tornado animation!!
Then, on Friday afternoon, I was playing with a new Breton templar DW but everything just felt ... stale. Someone on guild suggested I give her a stave and so I did. Desto staff was fun and when I got to level 15, I turned picked up a resto staff as my weapon swap.
Friday night I ran my first dungeon as a healer and had a blast. Two people I were with (from my guild) were fun and very helpful, and taught me the basics. It was unlike any build I'd ever run before. By the time the night was over, my Breton was now a pure healer (I completely abandoned the desto staff).
For about six hours Saturday, I worked my healer. She's a templar, two resto staffs, all magicka and I get health to 17k with health glyphs. I can buff health with food if I think I'm going have trouble in a dungeon but mostly I run magicka regen for food. I ran the entire day as a healer, healing dungeons, dolmens, boss fights, everything. I have biting jabs, the sun fire morph, and the javelin morph for a little damage if I need to run a quest or throw out some DPS.
Well, the fun came to an end Sunday afternoon. I queued in the group finder and dropped into a dungeon with a newbie and two experienced players (each had over 300 cps). I'd been doing this since Saturday and loving it. I find running with the new players great, and sharing some of their "Oh Wow" experience at running their first dungeon is a reminder of my own first experiences.
As soon as I hit the dungeon, I sent out a "Hey," to the group and the newbie responded. The other two just took off, running the dungeon. We hit the first set of mobs and they came after me. I roll dodged and started sending up heals but mobs were on me constantly. I had to spend my magicka to kill the mobs in my face. By the end of the second trash fight, I was concerned. By the end of the first boss fight, I send a group whisper: "Does ANYONE have a taunt?"
The newbie responded with a no; the other two didn't answer. They just kept running. Now, to be clear: my healer is squishy. To many mobs in my face and I'm probably gonna die. So I began to roll dodge like crazy and just heal. I even slotted stamina pots for the first time ever, so I could keep my roll dodge alive.
Final boss fight: I have two DPS with bows, another with a desto staff, and I'm trying to heal the group. The newbie dps at least had the common sense to hang back and stay out of the boss' face. One of the "experienced" players - the one with bow - couldn't stay out of the red, and felt the need to get in the boss' face. His health would drop to almost nothing in an instant.
But we got through it. I healed, I roll dodged like a madwoman, I dropped stamina and I healed some more. When we were done, I was kind of proud of myself. I got this group through the dungeon and without a single death. Just as I was feeling good, one of the "experienced" players sends me this gem:
"Next time DPS!!!"
Seriously? My Irish temper fired, and I was about to fire off a toxic response when I stopped.
That could have been me. Not with the snarky whisper, but being the DPS, running a dungeon, checking my DPS like the world revolved around me, and never realizing that the only reason I was able to spam DPS was because somewhere behind me there was a healer keeping me alive. I suddenly thought of all the dungeons I blew out of, proud of myself and my oh so holy DPS, without a word of thanks to the healer.
So thanks. Really. I get it now.
(And just a word to the DPS crowd: if you really think you can run a dungeon without a taunt and queue yourself up as a tank, then you freakin better to be able to drop enough burst DPS so that the mobs aren't in your healer's face and (s)he is gulping stamina pots to stay alive. Because if that's what's going on, you're doing it wrong. And the thing is: you'll make it through the dungeon, they will keep you alive, and you will never know.)
VinyParsley2016 wrote: »IrishGirlGamer wrote: »Since the beginning of the game, I've pretty much played DW DPS. I don't know, it seemed to go well with the characters I had in my mind, the races I liked to play, and I love that steel tornado animation!!
Then, on Friday afternoon, I was playing with a new Breton templar DW but everything just felt ... stale. Someone on guild suggested I give her a stave and so I did. Desto staff was fun and when I got to level 15, I turned picked up a resto staff as my weapon swap.
Friday night I ran my first dungeon as a healer and had a blast. Two people I were with (from my guild) were fun and very helpful, and taught me the basics. It was unlike any build I'd ever run before. By the time the night was over, my Breton was now a pure healer (I completely abandoned the desto staff).
For about six hours Saturday, I worked my healer. She's a templar, two resto staffs, all magicka and I get health to 17k with health glyphs. I can buff health with food if I think I'm going have trouble in a dungeon but mostly I run magicka regen for food. I ran the entire day as a healer, healing dungeons, dolmens, boss fights, everything. I have biting jabs, the sun fire morph, and the javelin morph for a little damage if I need to run a quest or throw out some DPS.
Well, the fun came to an end Sunday afternoon. I queued in the group finder and dropped into a dungeon with a newbie and two experienced players (each had over 300 cps). I'd been doing this since Saturday and loving it. I find running with the new players great, and sharing some of their "Oh Wow" experience at running their first dungeon is a reminder of my own first experiences.
As soon as I hit the dungeon, I sent out a "Hey," to the group and the newbie responded. The other two just took off, running the dungeon. We hit the first set of mobs and they came after me. I roll dodged and started sending up heals but mobs were on me constantly. I had to spend my magicka to kill the mobs in my face. By the end of the second trash fight, I was concerned. By the end of the first boss fight, I send a group whisper: "Does ANYONE have a taunt?"
The newbie responded with a no; the other two didn't answer. They just kept running. Now, to be clear: my healer is squishy. To many mobs in my face and I'm probably gonna die. So I began to roll dodge like crazy and just heal. I even slotted stamina pots for the first time ever, so I could keep my roll dodge alive.
Final boss fight: I have two DPS with bows, another with a desto staff, and I'm trying to heal the group. The newbie dps at least had the common sense to hang back and stay out of the boss' face. One of the "experienced" players - the one with bow - couldn't stay out of the red, and felt the need to get in the boss' face. His health would drop to almost nothing in an instant.
But we got through it. I healed, I roll dodged like a madwoman, I dropped stamina and I healed some more. When we were done, I was kind of proud of myself. I got this group through the dungeon and without a single death. Just as I was feeling good, one of the "experienced" players sends me this gem:
"Next time DPS!!!"
Seriously? My Irish temper fired, and I was about to fire off a toxic response when I stopped.
That could have been me. Not with the snarky whisper, but being the DPS, running a dungeon, checking my DPS like the world revolved around me, and never realizing that the only reason I was able to spam DPS was because somewhere behind me there was a healer keeping me alive. I suddenly thought of all the dungeons I blew out of, proud of myself and my oh so holy DPS, without a word of thanks to the healer.
So thanks. Really. I get it now.
(And just a word to the DPS crowd: if you really think you can run a dungeon without a taunt and queue yourself up as a tank, then you freakin better to be able to drop enough burst DPS so that the mobs aren't in your healer's face and (s)he is gulping stamina pots to stay alive. Because if that's what's going on, you're doing it wrong. And the thing is: you'll make it through the dungeon, they will keep you alive, and you will never know.)IrishGirlGamer wrote: »Since the beginning of the game, I've pretty much played DW DPS. I don't know, it seemed to go well with the characters I had in my mind, the races I liked to play, and I love that steel tornado animation!!
Then, on Friday afternoon, I was playing with a new Breton templar DW but everything just felt ... stale. Someone on guild suggested I give her a stave and so I did. Desto staff was fun and when I got to level 15, I turned picked up a resto staff as my weapon swap.
Friday night I ran my first dungeon as a healer and had a blast. Two people I were with (from my guild) were fun and very helpful, and taught me the basics. It was unlike any build I'd ever run before. By the time the night was over, my Breton was now a pure healer (I completely abandoned the desto staff).
For about six hours Saturday, I worked my healer. She's a templar, two resto staffs, all magicka and I get health to 17k with health glyphs. I can buff health with food if I think I'm going have trouble in a dungeon but mostly I run magicka regen for food. I ran the entire day as a healer, healing dungeons, dolmens, boss fights, everything. I have biting jabs, the sun fire morph, and the javelin morph for a little damage if I need to run a quest or throw out some DPS.
Well, the fun came to an end Sunday afternoon. I queued in the group finder and dropped into a dungeon with a newbie and two experienced players (each had over 300 cps). I'd been doing this since Saturday and loving it. I find running with the new players great, and sharing some of their "Oh Wow" experience at running their first dungeon is a reminder of my own first experiences.
As soon as I hit the dungeon, I sent out a "Hey," to the group and the newbie responded. The other two just took off, running the dungeon. We hit the first set of mobs and they came after me. I roll dodged and started sending up heals but mobs were on me constantly. I had to spend my magicka to kill the mobs in my face. By the end of the second trash fight, I was concerned. By the end of the first boss fight, I send a group whisper: "Does ANYONE have a taunt?"
The newbie responded with a no; the other two didn't answer. They just kept running. Now, to be clear: my healer is squishy. To many mobs in my face and I'm probably gonna die. So I began to roll dodge like crazy and just heal. I even slotted stamina pots for the first time ever, so I could keep my roll dodge alive.
Final boss fight: I have two DPS with bows, another with a desto staff, and I'm trying to heal the group. The newbie dps at least had the common sense to hang back and stay out of the boss' face. One of the "experienced" players - the one with bow - couldn't stay out of the red, and felt the need to get in the boss' face. His health would drop to almost nothing in an instant.
But we got through it. I healed, I roll dodged like a madwoman, I dropped stamina and I healed some more. When we were done, I was kind of proud of myself. I got this group through the dungeon and without a single death. Just as I was feeling good, one of the "experienced" players sends me this gem:
"Next time DPS!!!"
Seriously? My Irish temper fired, and I was about to fire off a toxic response when I stopped.
That could have been me. Not with the snarky whisper, but being the DPS, running a dungeon, checking my DPS like the world revolved around me, and never realizing that the only reason I was able to spam DPS was because somewhere behind me there was a healer keeping me alive. I suddenly thought of all the dungeons I blew out of, proud of myself and my oh so holy DPS, without a word of thanks to the healer.
So thanks. Really. I get it now.
(And just a word to the DPS crowd: if you really think you can run a dungeon without a taunt and queue yourself up as a tank, then you freakin better to be able to drop enough burst DPS so that the mobs aren't in your healer's face and (s)he is gulping stamina pots to stay alive. Because if that's what's going on, you're doing it wrong. And the thing is: you'll make it through the dungeon, they will keep you alive, and you will never know.)
You are a fool. "No taunt, no heal", you don't even know this basic rule.
Let me tell you some basic rules as a healer.
1, Kick the fake tank ASAP.
2, Kick the bow DPS.
3, Always stand behind the team.
4, No taunt, no heal. If adds go after you, run away and heal yourself only.
5, If you die, yell"WTF? Tank sucks!"
6, if team wipe, yell "WTF? DPS sucks!"