Just another rant about a bad pug...
Yesterday's pledge, Vet-Fungal 2, me playing as a healer.
My group: 2 dds, cp around 250, doing the dungeon for the first time, and a tank with 580cp and 48k Hp.
At the second boss, Gamyne Bandu (the one that chains you down), I notice that she boss doesn't get the armour debuff. One DD was stam-based, and my ele drain was just debuffing her spell resistance.
After that I asked the tank, if he could please use pierce armour to debuff the boss.
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EDIT: The phrase I was using (don't have this part screenshotted so I can't quote it 1 to 1) was something like:
"can you pls use the other taunt to debuff the boss?" Imo when you say "can you please", it's not dictating, it's just asking, and I have no idea how some people seem to think that I offended the tank here, by asking him to use a certain skill to support the group better.
The following dialogue, transcribed from the screenshot I took:
- Tank: "whick skill should i need to debuff xD?"- Me: "the one hand shield taunt?"- Tank: "mag tank"
- Tank: "its not my job to debuf"- Me: "it is your job"- Tank: "i also can deal damage"
- Tank: "but thats not my job"- Me: "it is" (was refering to debuffing)
- Me: "all tanks in this game use it"
- Me: "i give you stam back with shards"- Tank: "ok then have fun to find a real tank
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Then he left the group.
This guy had 580cp, which means he must have played this game for quite a while. But still, he obviously thought that he was right, when he said it's not the tanks job to debuff.
Usually, Hp numbers like 48k already make me cringe. But this guy topped it. gg.
Just to make it clear: He was just holding aggro with the magicka taunt and didn't debuff the boss, nor did he do any dps that would be worth mentioning. Yes, we could habe probably still completed the dungeon, and we didn't kick him, it was him who left, probably thinking what a fool that healer (me) must have been.
We then got a new tank pretty quick (also around 250cp and new to the dungeon), and completed the dungeon together. It wasn't the fastest run, since the others weren't that experienced, but it was still fun, because I saw that they were trying to follow the hints I gave them. If one of you reads this, thanks again.
Some edits here after all the hate I got:
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Read at least this single post before blaming me for something I have never done. I hate to repeat myself over and over.
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The tank wasn't carrying the group. There is no way to carry a group as a tank if you just keep the boss taunted. You just fulfill your most basic job.
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Neither the tank nor me had a problem with the DDs being inexperienced. The tank left because I dared to ask him for some group support.
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We didn't kick the tank, nor tell him to leave. We could have still done this dungeon together. But it was him who decided to leave us standing there.
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The two DDs didn't say anything bad against the tank. But still, he left without them having done any harm to him.
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There are many answers to my demand that I would have accepted. For example:
"I have problems managing my stamina ressources."
"I'm using a dd/tank-hybrid setup and I prefer to do some additional damage instead of using this debuff."
"I didn't know that skill would be better for group support."
etc.
- Answers I can't accept that easily: "It's not my job."
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It was a group from zone chat, not from dungeon finder. Since PUG means "pick up group" I thought it would include this type of group as well. I don't use dungeon finder, if I'm not sure that I can solo the dungeon. When using the dungeon finder, I agree, you need to be prepared for the worst of the worst.
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There were many situations when people were thankful for my advice. For example, I once had a typical bow-light-attack user in my group. I simply told him, that using steel tornado on groups and flurry on single target would do better damage. He followed my advice, although he was curious at first, but then later thanked me for the help.
Thanks to all the people who disagree with me, but still don't blame me for things I've never done, and criticise me without any insulting.
To the people who say what a terrible person I am and how they hate me, feel free to send me a PM with your @Name, so I can put you on my ignore-list and we will never have to play together.But why did I even create this thread in the first place?I wanted to show, in what a bad state big parts of the community are. You can't blame DDs to not do 30k dps, when you as a tank or healer don't do sh** to support them.
It's frustrating to see how many upvotes some people here got, who think that sharpened weapons are enough to reduce the bosses resistance, that major fracture does reduce the resistance by absurd numbers, and claiming that as a support role, which the tank simply is, it's not your job to support your group by using debuffs. Seriously, mates, wtf. You don't even know about the simpliest buffs and debuffs but think you are better people than me, just because I asked someone in my group for something?
There has been
a similar thread, where someone was complaining about healers not supporting the group. The reactions there are similar frustating to read. I commented there, that
I would never decline using certain skills to support my group. No matter if I play tank or healer.
After all, both these threads just show how many people in this game fail to even understand the basics of your role.
Yes, that's said, but on the other hand there are so many players who are fun to play with, even if they have no optimal setup. People who will thank you for your advice, and get better because of it, instead of blocking it out completely. Thanks to all of you. You da real MVPs.
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Removed this part.
If you don't have the time to read this *** post you better don't comment on it.