First, I tell people that the lock's jammed and that it needs special attention to open. This is my excuse for the mandatory lockpicking.
Will everyone have to unlock the door if there's an event at your place, or can one group member unlock for everybody else? And how much is the fine for that kind of crime?
It's always fun listening to sociopaths explain their utterly bizarre behavior as normal. Yeah, those are "lumps of laundry". ... omg.
It'd be kinda cool if they made a vacant village for each faction, all bright and shiny but no one there. Seeing as I doubt we'll see personal housing for at least another year (at best) that could be a way to help out the roleplayers without messing with everyone else.
I have thought up a method that shall let me use the building as a substitute as before with only minor inconveniences.
The fine for murders is around 1000 gold, but if I'm not entirely mistaken, if you kill both the NPCs before they can escape the house, you don't incur the bounty. At least not instantly.
Remember that you get bounty only if you're seen doing the act.