Hello, ESO team (community & devs) and fellow players

I'm here with a proposal. A big one. One that will need the acceptance of everyone - players and moderators alike - if it is to be true.
Ok, so... Where does this come from? It comes from months and months reading those forums and years of experience on N online games (where N is a big number). More practically, it comes from this feeling I have everytime I see a moderator reply or a dev comment... The feeling of caution.
So, ESO team interacts a lot with the community. Some may think "No, they don't" but if you played enough games you'll know there are places where Devs or Mods NEVER post anything within the community. And there are places where they're pretty much part of the community itself... And this is what I'm here to propose.
So, about that "feeling of caution".
What I see:
From the ESO team perspective, they're cautious because everything they say and comment is like a ripple on a lake and will echo around with whole new meanings, interpretations and such... So yes, they have to be careful with what they say.
From the community perspective, they take anything the ESO team says and turn it into a whole new lot of "official information" (as I mentioned above) but maybe,
maybe because they're always so cautious about what they say and do all the time. (not blaming them, it's necessary).
But it's also not the only approach. So, here's the example: the EVE Online community. Yes, it's a way older and different game, granted... But there's something there that's truly magical: Devs and moderators participate on most discussions as if they were really part of the community, just like us. They joke around, they comment on fun stuff, there's a whole new level of 'interaction' there that is really cool.
So, why do that?
Well, for the ESO team perspective, I'm pretty sure they sometimes wish they could reply to something, comment on a printscreen or just play around but "shouldn't". Well, they should. But they should do so without the pressure and the weight mentioned above (the "Cautious" thing) the community puts on them...
And that's our part; our commitment for this to work.
It's a matter of transparency - and
transparency is essential if you want to form a great community. We might have a good community, ok, but a great community would have us side by side.
So this is my proposal for a better community. More freedom and fun for the ESO team and a more respectful/less demanding/expecting approach from the players. Right now we're in a cycle of "awareness" and only through a mutual commitment to make things better, more enjoyable and reasonable it will, eventually, naturally evolve into a tight and great community.
Of course, this is the way I see things, at least. Not everyone need to agree or anything. But I'd love to see this community thrive socially as well. We shouldn't act as a school of slaughterfish