Grayaxeb14_ESO wrote: »My wife and I have always liked running around with other players as a group. Perhaps it's nostalgia from playing FFXI where the only way to do anything in that game was as a group. Unfortunately there's just not a lot of reasons to play as a group is eso.
The content is pretty much soloable, my wife and I have duoed the whole time, we're about half way through coldharbour and just made VR1 we have yet to touch the main story or the Guild quest since they're solo only. Which is a whole another issue. Now we hear the vet zones are going to become eaiser.
I will say that most of the quest you do wouldn't even be that fun as a group. If there were more quest that were oriented around group play such as, defend this stronghold against the dedra, siege this fort, stealth inside this city and sabotage it from two different points at the same time, etc. We might see more people grouping. Which I think would be great, my wife and I really feel this game is lacking a string community...
DieAlteHexe wrote: »amm7sb14_ESO wrote: »Nox_Aeterna wrote: »
Yeah ... no.
I play solo because i like to play solo. I very rarely enter in closed groups and only because im forced to do part of the content , otherwise i would not even do that much.
Heh , try taking out all the solo players in this game and see what is left of the playerbase :P.
And this sort of mentality I'll never understand. Why would you play an online MMO game if you don't want to group with other players?
And don't take that the wrong way - I'm not saying it's wrong. I am like that a large chunk of the time too, I just want to go off on my own and do my thing with my character.
But when all that stuff can be done with offline gaming, I don't get why we're playing online games to play by ourselves.
All MMO means is that multiple people are simultaneously playing. That's it. It does not mean "must group", nor does it mean "must socialise", it simply means "here's a place where many, many people can log in and play however the game allows.".
I've tried, over the years, grouping, PUGs, guilds etc. and I just can't take the drama, lack of forethought and craziness. I play games to relax, not get irritated. Too, just because I'm not grouping doesn't mean I'm not socialising. I socialise all the time, just not running about the countryside in a group.
amm7sb14_ESO wrote: »DieAlteHexe wrote: »amm7sb14_ESO wrote: »Nox_Aeterna wrote: »
Yeah ... no.
I play solo because i like to play solo. I very rarely enter in closed groups and only because im forced to do part of the content , otherwise i would not even do that much.
Heh , try taking out all the solo players in this game and see what is left of the playerbase :P.
And this sort of mentality I'll never understand. Why would you play an online MMO game if you don't want to group with other players?
And don't take that the wrong way - I'm not saying it's wrong. I am like that a large chunk of the time too, I just want to go off on my own and do my thing with my character.
But when all that stuff can be done with offline gaming, I don't get why we're playing online games to play by ourselves.
All MMO means is that multiple people are simultaneously playing. That's it. It does not mean "must group", nor does it mean "must socialise", it simply means "here's a place where many, many people can log in and play however the game allows.".
I've tried, over the years, grouping, PUGs, guilds etc. and I just can't take the drama, lack of forethought and craziness. I play games to relax, not get irritated. Too, just because I'm not grouping doesn't mean I'm not socialising. I socialise all the time, just not running about the countryside in a group.
Again, I'm not saying it's wrong or bad. Ultimately, it's your gametime, you can play how you want
I just also feel like... what's the point of spending $15/month to play a game with hundreds and thousands of other people running around if you're just gonna play by yourself? Why not just play Skyrim?
It's mostly rhetorical, because like I said, I can be the same way at times. And it's not judgmental. It's just an observation. If you're just gonna play by yourself, you can get plenty of single player experiences that don't cost $15/month
DieAlteHexe wrote: »amm7sb14_ESO wrote: »DieAlteHexe wrote: »amm7sb14_ESO wrote: »Nox_Aeterna wrote: »
Yeah ... no.
I play solo because i like to play solo. I very rarely enter in closed groups and only because im forced to do part of the content , otherwise i would not even do that much.
Heh , try taking out all the solo players in this game and see what is left of the playerbase :P.
And this sort of mentality I'll never understand. Why would you play an online MMO game if you don't want to group with other players?
And don't take that the wrong way - I'm not saying it's wrong. I am like that a large chunk of the time too, I just want to go off on my own and do my thing with my character.
But when all that stuff can be done with offline gaming, I don't get why we're playing online games to play by ourselves.
All MMO means is that multiple people are simultaneously playing. That's it. It does not mean "must group", nor does it mean "must socialise", it simply means "here's a place where many, many people can log in and play however the game allows.".
I've tried, over the years, grouping, PUGs, guilds etc. and I just can't take the drama, lack of forethought and craziness. I play games to relax, not get irritated. Too, just because I'm not grouping doesn't mean I'm not socialising. I socialise all the time, just not running about the countryside in a group.
Again, I'm not saying it's wrong or bad. Ultimately, it's your gametime, you can play how you want
I just also feel like... what's the point of spending $15/month to play a game with hundreds and thousands of other people running around if you're just gonna play by yourself? Why not just play Skyrim?
It's mostly rhetorical, because like I said, I can be the same way at times. And it's not judgmental. It's just an observation. If you're just gonna play by yourself, you can get plenty of single player experiences that don't cost $15/month
Easy answer (and the only one that matters). It's fun to play. I socialise, guild, etc. But that doesn't require grouping. I can chat with folk, help someone out here and there (duo-ing usually), still...no grouping (unless you count 2 people as "grouping", I don't).
The cost per month is negligible for the enjoyment I garner from it...not grouping. :P I don't understand why those who favour grouping (which is fine so long as it's not a forced activity) can't seem to understand that you can socialise BETTER when not running around clobbering stuff. In my experience (from UO days onward and just about all the MMOs) grouping equates to what I call "cape-stepping", which more often than not is a bunch of people standing around arguing about what we're going to do, who does what, how fast, do we stop for resources, blah blah blah. In the time spent for all that, I can merrily carry on, progressing, chatting with guildies or friends and not want to rip someone's liver out their nose because they are fussing about who does what, when and where.
Plus, in offline games, you don't have the crazy, silly, amusing antics that other players get up to. Can't duplicate that.
I think I'm just disappointed in this game because there's no incentive to group. Everything is so solo player oriented but there's no reason to do grouping, other than group specific content such as dungeons or dolmens, but then all that group oriented content doesn't offer much in terms of XP to build your character with.
But after I've done it once, if someone is asking for a group to do Banished Cells, where is the character development?
But after I've done it once, if someone is asking for a group to do Banished Cells, where is the character development?
Remember, this is a game, not a job, and that means we can set productivity aside at times and just enjoy the sheer thrill of killing bad guys!
I would argue, in terms of character development, that doing dungeons more than once gives you the opportunity to try out new skills, or different combinations of skills, without the pressure of needing to get the achievement. I've been thinking of doing that myself with my templar character so I can practice my healing skills (which need a lot of work).
DieAlteHexe wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »A major component of this is the growing use of voice chat clients. Some players, for whatever reason, are just appalled at the idea of even just listening without having to talk at all.
Also, I am finding that ESO has more anti-social players than most other MMO's I've played. Other players just break their immersion.
This is a major one. If you don't have or won't use Team or whatever, you're not wanted. Being that I can't hear very well, I don't even have the set-up plus, as was mentioned above, the idiocy that gets spewed.
We managed to group without stuff like that for years so...meh.
My "excuse" is my playstyle, I have to afk a lot and no way I think it fair to do that to a group. So, mainly solo or duo with my spouse. Not anti-grouping, per se, just don't like the drama, confusion, attitudes etc. that I've encountered over the years.
timidobserver wrote: »DieAlteHexe wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »A major component of this is the growing use of voice chat clients. Some players, for whatever reason, are just appalled at the idea of even just listening without having to talk at all.
Also, I am finding that ESO has more anti-social players than most other MMO's I've played. Other players just break their immersion.
This is a major one. If you don't have or won't use Team or whatever, you're not wanted. Being that I can't hear very well, I don't even have the set-up plus, as was mentioned above, the idiocy that gets spewed.
We managed to group without stuff like that for years so...meh.
My "excuse" is my playstyle, I have to afk a lot and no way I think it fair to do that to a group. So, mainly solo or duo with my spouse. Not anti-grouping, per se, just don't like the drama, confusion, attitudes etc. that I've encountered over the years.
I can definitely respect not getting into teamspeak if you have hearing problems or avoiding groups due to having to AFK frequently.
That said, people are mostly focused on getting things done. It is a lot more complicated to get things done in higher level content and pvp if you have to type every thing out.
DieAlteHexe wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »DieAlteHexe wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »A major component of this is the growing use of voice chat clients. Some players, for whatever reason, are just appalled at the idea of even just listening without having to talk at all.
Also, I am finding that ESO has more anti-social players than most other MMO's I've played. Other players just break their immersion.
This is a major one. If you don't have or won't use Team or whatever, you're not wanted. Being that I can't hear very well, I don't even have the set-up plus, as was mentioned above, the idiocy that gets spewed.
We managed to group without stuff like that for years so...meh.
My "excuse" is my playstyle, I have to afk a lot and no way I think it fair to do that to a group. So, mainly solo or duo with my spouse. Not anti-grouping, per se, just don't like the drama, confusion, attitudes etc. that I've encountered over the years.
I can definitely respect not getting into teamspeak if you have hearing problems or avoiding groups due to having to AFK frequently.
That said, people are mostly focused on getting things done. It is a lot more complicated to get things done in higher level content and pvp if you have to type every thing out.
Totally understand that. Yet, we somehow managed to do raids in EQ. Of course, it's much easier with instantaneous voice. For (as someone nicely put it above) "real teams" I think it would be very beneficial. But for regular groups etc. I'd rather have my toenails yanked out than listen to the blather that goes on in TS. In fact, I used to find it horribly distracting, 4-6 people all yelling or talking simultaneously.
timidobserver wrote: »DieAlteHexe wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »DieAlteHexe wrote: »timidobserver wrote: »A major component of this is the growing use of voice chat clients. Some players, for whatever reason, are just appalled at the idea of even just listening without having to talk at all.
Also, I am finding that ESO has more anti-social players than most other MMO's I've played. Other players just break their immersion.
This is a major one. If you don't have or won't use Team or whatever, you're not wanted. Being that I can't hear very well, I don't even have the set-up plus, as was mentioned above, the idiocy that gets spewed.
We managed to group without stuff like that for years so...meh.
My "excuse" is my playstyle, I have to afk a lot and no way I think it fair to do that to a group. So, mainly solo or duo with my spouse. Not anti-grouping, per se, just don't like the drama, confusion, attitudes etc. that I've encountered over the years.
I can definitely respect not getting into teamspeak if you have hearing problems or avoiding groups due to having to AFK frequently.
That said, people are mostly focused on getting things done. It is a lot more complicated to get things done in higher level content and pvp if you have to type every thing out.
Totally understand that. Yet, we somehow managed to do raids in EQ. Of course, it's much easier with instantaneous voice. For (as someone nicely put it above) "real teams" I think it would be very beneficial. But for regular groups etc. I'd rather have my toenails yanked out than listen to the blather that goes on in TS. In fact, I used to find it horribly distracting, 4-6 people all yelling or talking simultaneously.
It is not about managing to eventually succeed. In those days progression stopped completion. The ESO raid progession mechanic is speed. That is how you get on the leader boards. Voice clients help aid efficiency. We are no longer in the EQ days of spending 2-5 hours to "manage" to complete raids.
Though I completely agree that certain attitudes and personalities are intolerable. I just avoid or ignore those people. IMO, it is like never going outside due to the off chance that you might run into the odd unpleasant person.
dylanjaygrobbelaarb16_ESO wrote: »This question is insane. Everyone wants to group and most organize themselves into guilds and friend networks. Most want to play with at least 75% friends / guildies. Everyone wants to group. Now if you ask does everyone want to do random pickup groups all the time? that a different question.
grimjim398 wrote: »I'm interested in grouping but I'm not interested in being yelled at by players who don't think I'm using the right build, skills, etc. So when the time comes that I can't solo or do casual groups with people on the fly then I'll probably join a guild and make friends who don't take the grouping so seriously they ruin any possible fun.