I farmed four of the five leads for the Gaze of Sithis mythic going on 3 1/2 weeks ago. Had the four out of five within a few hours. I have one toon leveled in Dark Brotherhood to have the Shadowy Supplier. For 3 1/2 weeks now, once per day, as that is all that it allows with a 20 hour cooldown, I have gone to the Shadowy Supplier, in the Blackwood Outlaws Refuge, clicked "Have any Equipment today?" option, and can't get the lead to drop. I keep getting Sithis set items that have already dropped, that I have already collected. I even went and bought a bunch of Sithis items that I didn't already have collected, in the hopes that this would increase my chance for the drop. Didn't make any difference, it seems.
As a casual gamer who plays 3-4 days a week, 1-4 hours at a time, sometimes more often, sometimes less often, this is BEYOND frustrating. It is ridiculous. I don't have the time to level up another toon to increase my chances of the drop, as some suggest. While I do not expect everything just be given out and to work for things, then why not put the lead behind a monster that I need to kill, or in a dungeon that I have to farm? But behind a 20 hour cooldown, and going on nearly 4 weeks, I do not understand the point of it. It makes no sense. I know the Gaze of Sithis isn't that great, but it was going to be something I wanted on a specific build. But I guess the point of putting it behind a 20 hour cooldown firewall that drops the same gear over and over again that you have already collected, is that it just wouldn't be available and I need to go do something else. The developers of the game created it and put it in the game, but apparently don't want people to have it. That's how I feel.
Recently I farmed another lead that was behind the last boss in the Vaults of Madness. You had to kill that boss for lead to drop. I ran the dungeon 34 times before it dropped?!? What is the point behind having to run a dungeon that many times for a lead to drop? I didn't make that number up. I started counting runs on the 9th run.
I recently had to fish for two days on one of my toons. I put champion points into the fishing champion thingy to hopefully increase my chances for the drop. It took me about 4 hours over two days of just FISHING and doing nothing else, for the lead to drop. Again, what is the point behind making you spend that many hours doing a VERY BORING activity in the game to get a lead?
I like ESO, generally. Frankly, there isn't a game that I have found that has the positive aspects of this game and the combat system, otherwise, I would probably be playing something else. There are a lot of things I DO NOT LIKE about ESO, but those are outweighed by the positive things. Things that bother me the most are the things like it taking 180 days of daily activity to level your horse. What is the point of having a mount in the game, in such a big game, and having your horse run ssoooooooo sllooooowwww in the beginning? 60 days of daily interaction with the game to level mount speed, and then another 120 days to level the other two items? No wonder so many people start the game, only get to level 36, and then quit the game.
Crafting is even worse. It took me well over 6 months of daily interaction to level one of my toons to Master Crafter. And then after spending all that time doing it, I got nothing for it. If someone is going to spend that much time on an item in the game, there should be a HUGE reward, like giving me 100 of each gold quality materials to improve stuff. Something, anything.
As someone who has played this game for nearly 4 years, the people in charge of this game would do well to improve the "quality of life" of people playing this game by fixing things like this. I would rather see meaningful fixes to "quality of life" issues in the game than new content or new sets or new mythics or new dungeons. There is already enough stuff in the game for the casual player to literally spend years doing. I don't do trials, only because I feel like I don't play enough to farm that high end gear that you need for trials, and with my experiences as described, it doesn't look like something I would enjoy if I have to spend hours and hours doing dungeons just to get the right gear, so that I don't make 11 other people mad at me because I don't have the right gear and mess up their super duper trial run.