nerevarine1138 wrote: »First, I'm assuming you're talking about a Nord.
Second, you can choose any alliance with any race (or at least you can if you're currently able to play), but if you want to match the alliance the Nords are generally with, you want the Ebonheart Pact (red).
Finally, in terms of playstyle: any race/class can use any weapon/playstyle. Your racial buffs may make you better suited for a specific weapon type, but what you do with your character is up to you. Play the way you want to. There's no right answer to that question.