[PS4 EU] AD EP n DC line the way to Brindle Church for an EP memorial for a fallen comrade.

redlink1979

The 22yo lad, an EP player, took is life last weekend.

Comrades and people who fought against him in Cyrodiil came to give their respects.

RIP James







https://youtu.be/TdHUjrJrVSw

AgaTheGreat

When I heard about his passing, I felt so sad. Suicide is such a tragic thing. I wish people talked more about their problems... No-one should ever feel this alone. Condolences to his family and friends

It's a beautiful thing that happened today in Cyrodiil PS4 EU. I'm so proud to be part of this community.

JerzeeDevil

And then, of course, the true colours of people showed. When Reds and Yellows started attacking everyone , tea bagging and dropping respawn camps.

Tsk tsk.

For shame. You know who you are. If you are not nice people in a video game, you are probably not good human beings in real life.

*REAL TALK*

Sad that this guy killed himself, if you or anyone else seeing this are feeling this way, OR thinking those (suicidal) thoughts PLEASE, please talk to someone and try to get the help you NEED.

SugaComa

JerzeeDevil wrote: »

And then, of course, the true colours of people showed. When Reds and Yellows started attacking everyone , tea bagging and dropping respawn camps.

Tsk tsk.

For shame. You know who you are. If you are not nice people in a video game, you are probably not good human beings in real life.

*REAL TALK*

Sad that this guy killed himself, if you or anyone else seeing this are feeling this way, OR thinking those (suicidal) thoughts PLEASE, please talk to someone and try to get the help you NEED.

Was there all day and saw none of that

One yellow camp went up right at the end and the person in chat was trying to get a shot of one camo of every faction side by side ...no one died and no one Tbagged

The camp was right outside the door of the church being set up for the procession exited it

JerzeeDevil

SugaComa wrote: »

JerzeeDevil wrote: »

And then, of course, the true colours of people showed. When Reds and Yellows started attacking everyone , tea bagging and dropping respawn camps.

Tsk tsk.

For shame. You know who you are. If you are not nice people in a video game, you are probably not good human beings in real life.

*REAL TALK*

Sad that this guy killed himself, if you or anyone else seeing this are feeling this way, OR thinking those (suicidal) thoughts PLEASE, please talk to someone and try to get the help you NEED.

Was there all day and saw none of that

One yellow camp went up right at the end and the person in chat was trying to get a shot of one camo of every faction side by side ...no one died and no one Tbagged

The camp was right outside the door of the church being set up for the procession exited it

It was right in front of the door to the Church. I saw plenty of it. Please.

Waynerx8

Not great that people feel this is the only way, it may or may not help but PLEASE talk to someone, very sad.

Wolfkeks

My condolences to all of his friends here and his family.
What you guys did is really touching.

And I agree. It's sad to see such a young soul go. No one should have to feel this way. It is important to talk about these things.

Hallothiel

This was an amazing show of respect, camaraderie & honouring the player.

(And would just like to say thanks to the trolls on other, now closed, thread about this. Hope you feel so proud of yourselves. Idiots)

jircris11

AgaTheGreat wrote: »

When I heard about his passing, I felt so sad. Suicide is such a tragic thing. I wish people talked more about their problems... No-one should ever feel this alone. Condolences to his family and friends

It's a beautiful thing that happened today in Cyrodiil PS4 EU. I'm so proud to be part of this community.

As someone who suffers from ptsd and depression due to work, it's not easy to talk about. Most the time ppl dont give a rat's ass, after so many tell you to suck it up you simply stop talking and let it build. I use my experience to help those in need, those who need to talk or need advice. But for every helpful person there are 2 egotistical morons who act like uts a you problem out there.

SantieClaws

Sometimes no matter how hard you may want to reach out you can't.

From experiences long ago this one can say that it is like being in one bubble and the rest of the world in another and the two bubbles don't overlap.

Your experiences are so far removed from those around you. There is little common ground on which to build a bridge.

No one makes this choice easily. It really is a last resort. It's not being selfish or unthinking or not caring. It's being in so much pain that you have to stop it any way you can.

So all you can really do is to try and stop those bubbles forming when you can. Do what small good you can with the time you have. Put your phone away sometimes and look around you perhaps.

This was a lovely tribute and for all that this traveller suffered this one hopes he found some moments of relief and maybe happiness when still walking among those who later gathered to mourn his loss.

Yours with paws
Santie Claws

Yellow_Monolith

It was a surreal experience. I've never felt anything like that in ESO before, as I did this morning. The sheer amount of respect for James was very touching. My condolences to his family and friends. Thanks to all the EP, AD and DC that showed up and thanks to the organisers of the memorial. R.I.P James.

Deathlord92

I watch the video it was amazing I’m just sorry I couldn’t make it I was out at the time everyone involved in this respect to you all your amazing people and my condolences rip James.

nikigwil

Watched the vid as I was working at the time. Amazing for so many to turn up . Shows what a good community we have on the EU server. R.I.P James .

sedi

Just watched the video of this. What a lovely thing. PvP gets a bad rep but just look at how many people from all 3 alliances turned out and were organised and respectful. Good on you all. 🙌

memofin

So proud of being part of this amazing community. It really was beautiful that so many joined us in there. Mad respects to all

gepe87

Speechless! Amazing community
R.I.P James

Nefas

The video showed a beautiful memorial and it was a great display of humanity by the community. My condolences to his family, friends and others who knew him. Losing those you cherish or even someone you enjoyed a part of life with can be tremendously difficult. It’s unfortunate that James (rest in peace) had to depart under such circumstances.

While I did not know him or don’t personally know most of you who may read this, I encourage you to seek anyone to talk to, it can help a lot just by talking though I understand it may be incredibly difficult to do so. Please feel free to reach out to me even, I don’t care who you are or where you’re from, my door is always open.

SidraWillowsky

SantieClaws wrote: »

Sometimes no matter how hard you may want to reach out you can't.

From experiences long ago this one can say that it is like being in one bubble and the rest of the world in another and the two bubbles don't overlap.

Your experiences are so far removed from those around you. There is little common ground on which to build a bridge.

No one makes this choice easily. It really is a last resort. It's not being selfish or unthinking or not caring. It's being in so much pain that you have to stop it any way you can.

So all you can really do is to try and stop those bubbles forming when you can. Do what small good you can with the time you have. Put your phone away sometimes and look around you perhaps.

This was a lovely tribute and for all that this traveller suffered this one hopes he found some moments of relief and maybe happiness when still walking among those who later gathered to mourn his loss.

Yours with paws
Santie Claws

This is a beautiful description, Santie.

Rest in peace James, and it's heartwarming to see this tribute.

ArchMikem

It's really sad to admit you'd most likely never see this level of respect from the majority of us NA players. The entire time watching that video I was expecting a bomb group to just come out of nowhere like I'm used to seeing.

Shepoffire

ArchMikem wrote: »

It's really sad to admit you'd most likely never see this level of respect from the majority of us NA players. The entire time watching that video I was expecting a bomb group to just come out of nowhere like I'm used to seeing.

We did something like this last year for fate weaver. At the end we did have a bug brawl. But that was in memory of fate. Ps4 na that is

Sylvermynx

This is so sad because of the reason this man is gone. No one should ever be so alone that s/he chooses death. It's a pox on our societal "norm" that James could find only one way to relieve his pain.

I applaud those of you in all the factions who chose to give James a really loving farewell. It's amazing, what you all did.

Kudos to every one of you, no matter faction lines.

And James.... I wish you a better life where you are now.

Shepoffire

I nust watched the video. I am in tears. My condolences brothers and sisters

SmukkeHeks

My condolences to the family and friends. What a beautiful moment for James. May his soul find the peace life could not give him.


If it’s you that walks around with a heavy heart, please reach out. Hugs to all in need ❤️

XxMissAlycexX

Hit me right in the feels BIG time. Did cry. Rip to another amazing soul. Never forgotten.

iaminc

Exceptional effort from the PvP community , as a suffer of mental health issues too I really feel for James family and friends.

D0PAMINE

This is very sad. Sorry to those who lost their friend.

Keshya

I was devastated reading the news about his passing. He was one of the best EP PVP group leaders you could find. I loved being a member of his guild, and part of his groups. Cyro will never be the same without him. He was always kind, patient, and ready to help, a wonderful soul who departed life much too early. We miss you, James. Thank you for touching our hearts, you’ll never be forgotten.

newtinmpls

SantieClaws wrote: »

Sometimes no matter how hard you may want to reach out you can't.

From experiences long ago this one can say that it is like being in one bubble and the rest of the world in another and the two bubbles don't overlap.

Thank you for your compassionate understanding Santie.

In America, there is a national suicide hotline: 1-800-273-8255

If you are employed in America, your company probably has an "Employee Assistance Program" - it will be a free number that you can call to get support. They may ask where you work - this is ONLY for accounting purposes (so many people from X company and "proving that so many people asked for help on X months" type things) and your call is absolutly confidential.

That bubble sounds like a scary place to be.

Please, anyone who is in pain like that, send out some words. Even one word. We I want to be helpful. If I can.

TheRealCherokeee3

With all the toxicity that often pervades PvP, this is an absolute refreshing and moving scene. My condolences to the family.

TheFM

JerzeeDevil wrote: »

SugaComa wrote: »

JerzeeDevil wrote: »

And then, of course, the true colours of people showed. When Reds and Yellows started attacking everyone , tea bagging and dropping respawn camps.

Tsk tsk.

For shame. You know who you are. If you are not nice people in a video game, you are probably not good human beings in real life.

*REAL TALK*

Sad that this guy killed himself, if you or anyone else seeing this are feeling this way, OR thinking those (suicidal) thoughts PLEASE, please talk to someone and try to get the help you NEED.

Was there all day and saw none of that

One yellow camp went up right at the end and the person in chat was trying to get a shot of one camo of every faction side by side ...no one died and no one Tbagged

The camp was right outside the door of the church being set up for the procession exited it

It was right in front of the door to the Church. I saw plenty of it. Please.

Your agenda is showing. Put that away.

JerzeeDevil

TheFM wrote: »

JerzeeDevil wrote: »

SugaComa wrote: »

JerzeeDevil wrote: »

And then, of course, the true colours of people showed. When Reds and Yellows started attacking everyone , tea bagging and dropping respawn camps.

Tsk tsk.

For shame. You know who you are. If you are not nice people in a video game, you are probably not good human beings in real life.

*REAL TALK*

Sad that this guy killed himself, if you or anyone else seeing this are feeling this way, OR thinking those (suicidal) thoughts PLEASE, please talk to someone and try to get the help you NEED.

Was there all day and saw none of that

One yellow camp went up right at the end and the person in chat was trying to get a shot of one camo of every faction side by side ...no one died and no one Tbagged

The camp was right outside the door of the church being set up for the procession exited it

It was right in front of the door to the Church. I saw plenty of it. Please.

Your agenda is showing. Put that away.

Aaaaand what agenda exactly would that be,...stranger on The Internet with some apparent amazing insight into my mind?